Statement of Purpose
My original purpose for creating this web site was for me to have a place
where I could share my own feelings that I have had about diapers ever since I
was a little boy. More information on how this very strong interest I
have had in diapers all my life had developed, can be found in an article
entitled About Me. It details the history of my
difficult toilet training, how I continued to have several pooping accidents in
the years following the dubious declaration of my being toilet trained, how
these accidents were dealt with, how my two older sisters responded to my
recurring situation, and how their reactions formed my extreme fondness towards
situations described where boys are conspicuously diapered in the presence of
their sisters. I have explored many fantasies involving "what could have been"
through several stories that I have written, all of them about boys who are not
only kept in diapers and diapered very heavily while their sisters look on with
delight and pride in themselves and all of girlhood, but who also enforce their
brother's use of diapers and are put in charge of diaper changes.
I started out with a handful of original stories, which then led to the
writing of other original stories. As my web site gained an increasing presence
on the then-more flourishing Internet and was recognized by more people whose
interests in diapers were similar to mine, my site evolved to include stories
written by others. While many of the stories have themes which are similar to my
stories in that they include dominant sisters, many of the other stories have
themes of their own which don't involve sisters or girls at all. The main
qualifier for these contributed stories has always been that the stories are
about boys who wear diapers. A more detailed account of the history of this site is also posted.
While my original purpose for this site still remains, the purpose has
expanded to create a web site for boys and adult males who have similar feelings
about diapers. I have received countless emails from people over the years who
have told me that they appreciate my having this site. They have told me how it
has helped them to come to terms with their need and/or desire for wearing
diapers. It as helped them to feel at ease in knowing that they are not the only
person among billions on this planet who likes to wear diapers. It has given
them a place to share feelings they once had to keep a secret from everyone
around them. It has given them a gateway to forming friendships with others who
are just like them. I myself, have made many fun and fascinating friends through
this site.
If You Don't Feel You Belong Here
It is assumed that you are here either because you were already aware of this
site, you performed a search for web sites such as this one, or you linked into
this site for the first time from another web site. If you stumbled upon this
site unintentionally or were expecting to see something different, please at
least take the time to read this page in order to gain an understanding for this
site's purpose. For those of you who feel you may have been misdirected to this
site by your search criteria but were searching for other information on
diapers, toilet training, bedwetting, raising boys in general, etc., I have
prepared another page on this site with the interests
of parents in mind, as I feel that parents are the most likely group of
"outsiders" to reach this web site.
Important Notes About This Site
Several important notes should be made about this site:
- First and foremost, this is not-- repeat, NOT-- a web site
that is designed to exploit children. It is NOT a child porn site! Many
outsiders who hear about those of us who enjoy wearing diapers and acting out
childhood fantasies while wearing diapers are quick to judge us as pedophiles.
This is, at best, a false and undeserved accusation. The vast majority of us do
not in any way involve actual children in what we do with wearing diapers. Many
of us experienced wearing diapers to at least some degree beyond our
baby/toddler years and wore diapers during our pre-teens and/or teens. The
result of these experiences in our formative years as children is a lifelong
desire to wear diapers. Many of us did not choose these desires nor the
circumstances in which these desires manifest themselves, much in that most
homosexuals did not choose their sexual orientation.
- While this web site does not exploit children nor condone the involvement of
children in carrying out diaper fantasies, much of the content here does pertain
to sexual feelings often experienced in childhood from wearing diapers and
acting upon these feelings. There are explicit descriptions of solo and mutual
masturbation as well as scenes where boys are attracted to one another because
they wear diapers. There are many instances mentioned where boys are sexually
aroused by diapers themselves. For boys who experience wearing diapers or at
least have desires to wear diapers, such feelings are normal. Because most of
these boys are aware of and understand their sexual feelings around the time
puberty sets in, I feel there should be no reason to recommend a minimum age for
viewing the content of this site. If a boy knows that diapers elicit such
feelings and urges, he is likely old enough to understand what he seeks to read
on this site.
- This is a web site designed for boys and men males who are diaper lovers,
teen/adult babies, and any male who has a fetish for diapers or at least a
medical or an emotional need for wearing diapers. This site primarily contains
true and fictional stories about boys in their post-toddler, pre-teen and early
teen years who wear diapers for a variety of reasons, including medical and
disciplinary, or just have a desire to wear diapers.
- This site also contains surveys for boys who wear diapers and for adult
males who wore diapers throughout their childhood years. There are also separate
surveys for girls and boys who have brothers who wear diapers, but don't
necessarily wear diapers themselves. These surveys are intended to measure their
feelings about having a brother who wears diapers and how this affects their own
self-perceptions, and in the case of girls, their perceptions about members of
their own gender compared to boys as it relates to boys wearing diapers.
- Other features, such as a listing of public sightings and other reports of
unexpectedly seeing older boys wearing diapers, and a section devoted to
drawings of diapered boys, are found on this site. Several articles and other
items of interest to boys who wear diapers are also found throughout the site.
There are, however, very few photographs of diapered boys on the site, and such
photos only occur incidentally. Due to the controversial nature of such photos
being falsely construed as a form of child pornography, there is no section on
this site which features such photos.
- As many of the stories and other materials within this site obviously
pertain to wearing and using diapers-- oftentimes but not necessarily always
accompanied by sexual arousal-- there are numerous explicit descriptions of the
(male) anatomy most often associated with diapers as well as the elimination of
bodily wastes. As each of these concepts carries with it a vast array of vulgar
terms to describe them, they will be found throughout this site.
- Not all stories or other materials on this site have a sexual theme in them
nor are intended to produce sexual arousal. Some visitors to this site are here
for support because they either have to wear diapers for medical reasons or
experienced difficulties in their childhood with issues such as potty training,
bedwetting, being diaper-disciplined, etc. This support extends to those who had
previously felt that there was nobody else who also enjoys wearing diapers.
- While females are welcome to visit this site, its content is geared only for
boys and men who wear diapers and thus caters to its established target
audience. The stories, surveys and other submittable materials only pertain to
boys, so there is likely to be nothing of interest to anyone looking for stories
exclusively involving girls who wear diapers. Girls who play a dominant role,
such as those who have brothers who wear diapers but do not wear diapers
themselves, or female babysitters who look after older boys who wear diapers,
are especially welcome as some of the stories and surveys are targeted towards
them.
- It is very important to note that while this site reflects my
personal preferences in that it clearly excludes materials where girls wearing
diapers are described, this is not to say that I feel that girls should
not wear diapers. I do not intend to offend anyone who objects to the lack of
stories and other materials where girls are described as being on the receiving
end of diapers. I am aware that I risk offending people outside of the target
audience of this site and I accept the fact that some people resent the
limitations on what is accepted here. However, as I have identified and
established a sufficient target audience for this web site based on its
exclusivity to diaper-wearing boys, the site will continue to be maintained with
this theme in place. In fairness, I do recognize that there are girls who wear
diapers either out of need and/or for enjoyment. I do acknowledge that there are
girls who have had experiences with diapers that are similar to what is
described about boys on this site. There are plenty of other websites which
cater to those who are seeking such stories and other materials.
- As this site only accepts stories and other submissions about boys, it
likewise excludes any and all materials where boys are described as being
treated in a girl-like fashion. This primarily includes the use of dresses, pink
clothing or anything that is patently feminine, but worn by boys and accompanied
by the use of diapers. Just as I recognize that there are natural-born girls who
wear diapers for the same reasons as boys do, I also recognize that there are
natural-born boys whose experiences and/or feelings about diapers cross over the
boundaries of what is appropriate to their own gender. While such materials not
only fail to interest me, I am personally disturbed that there are boys who have
had such experiences and are treated in such a manner because they exhibit an
inability to contain their bodily wastes. This flagrantly violates many of my
deeply-rooted philosophies about diapers as they relate to gender differences.
Moreover, the notion that boys who have difficulties with retaining their wastes
are to be treated in an effeminate manner, is factually inaccurate, as it is
boys who are in the majority of such difficulties such as bedwetting, late
toilet training and especially encopresis.
Closing Comments
By now you should have a very clear idea of what this site is about and what
it isn't about. I have enjoyed maintaining it since its humble inception on May
4, 1996. I am proud of what has become of it since that particular date. I am
impressed with its evolution in the growing library of stories and the addition
of surveys and diaper sighting reports. I invite you to explore this site. If
you have any experiences from your childhood that you wish to share or if you
have a fantasy that you would like others to also enjoy, or if you just like
diapers and feel that boys are the most appropriate subject for wearing them, I
welcome to you sit back, relax and stay awhile as you navigate the various
sections and offerings of the site. It really makes me feel like I have made a
worthy contribution to the world by making this web site. As I am not one to
gloat, however, I cannot take the credit alone. This web site evolved largely
through the contributions of others. It is they who deserve credit as well. I
doubt this site would be where it is without the efforts of those of you who
have helped to build it. Thank you all.
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