Question of the Week

The Question of the Week for January 6, 2008:

How shy are you about having girls present when you are in diapers? What types of shyness do you feel?
(Check only one.)

Intended participants for this question: All boys who wear diapers and adult males who regularly wore diapers beyond babyhood/toddlerhood in the presence of similarly aged girls.

How shy you feel/felt

Very shy

Moderately shy

Somewhat shy

Not shy at all

Types of shyness

Bashfulness

Embarrassment

Shame

Annoyance

What makes you feel shy about having girls present when you are in diapers?
(Check all that apply.)

They like to see me in my diapers

They think I look cute in my diapers

They like to touch my diapers

They like to change my diapers

They like to see my privates

They like to touch my privates

They like to talk about about my diapers

They like to talk about my odors

They like to talk about my privates

They like to watch me pee in my diapers

They like to watch me poop in my diapers

They like to see my erections

They like to watch me masturbate in my diapers

They like to treat me like their baby

Getting such attention

What do girls like to see or sense that makes you shy?
(Check all that apply.)

Having diapers on without pants

Wearing extra thick/multiple diapers

Having my diapers show above my pants

having lots of pins in or tapes on my diapers

My bare legs

My diapered butt

My diapered crotch

My diapered front

My pee-soaked diapers

The bulge of my poopy diapers

The smell of my pee

The smell of my poop

The sound of my farts

My erections through my diapers

My genitals during a diaper change

My butt during a diaper change

Does having a girl see you in your diapers make you feel like she is seeing you in your underwear? Does having a girl watch you pee or poop in your diapers make you feel like you'd feel if she saw you using the toilet? Does having a girl change your diapers or watch you get changed make you feel like she's watching you take a bath/shower or getting undressed?
(Check only one.)

Being seen in diapers compared to being seen in underwear

Yes, not that there is anything wrong with this

Yes, and it makes me somewhat uncomfortable

Yes, and it makes me very uncomfortable

Not really

Being seen using diapers compared to being seen using toilet

Yes, not that there is anything wrong with this

Yes, and it makes me somewhat uncomfortable

Yes, and it makes me very uncomfortable

Not really

Being seen naked for diaper change compared to being seen taking a bath, undressing

Yes, not that there is anything wrong with this

Yes, and it makes me somewhat uncomfortable

Yes, and it makes me very uncomfortable

Not really

Do you feel any more comfortable when you are in diapers in the presence of other boys than in the presence of girls? If so, for which reasons?
(Check all that apply.)

It's OK for boys to seen in underwear/diapers by other boys

It's okay for boys to seen naked by other boys

It's okay for boys to be seen peeing/pooping by other boys

Only other boys should change a boy's diapers

Girls' bodies are different than boys' bodies

Girls go to the bathroom differently than boys do

Girls don't understand boys' feelings as well

I feel better if the other boys are also in diapers

I feel better if the other boys are also pantsless

Kids don't know enough about sex to understand such matters

Girls treat diapered boys differently because they're boys

Only a boy should smell another boy's poop

Only a boy should see another boy's erection (until older)

When girls are in decent clothes it makes me feel unequal

How old were you when you first felt shy about girls seeing you in diapers?
(Check only one.)

Under 4
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
16
17
Over 17

How old were you when you overcame such feelings of shyness towards being seen in diapers by girls?
(Check only one.)

Under 8
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
16
17
18 to 20
21 to 25
26 to 30
Over 30
Never

What makes you or would make you feel shy or uncomfortable about girls who are younger than you seeing you in diapers?
(Check all that apply.)

They're toilet trained in spite of being younger

They're decently dressed unlike me

They may be confused by seeing an older boy in diapers

They aren't mature enough to deal with the matter properly

They want to change my diapers

They want to see my genitals

They want to see my naked butt

They feel superior to me in spite of being younger

They'll think that all older boys wear diapers

Their perception of boys will be altered

How much greater are your feelings of shyness when you are pantsless versus wearing pants while in diapers? How much greater are your feelings of shyness when you are completely naked versus wearing diapers in the presence of girls?
(Check only one.)

Diapered with pants on versus diapered and pantless

Much greater

Moderately greater

Mildly greater

Makes no difference

Diapered and pantless versus being completely naked

Much greater

Moderately greater

Mildly greater

Makes no difference

Which of these states would you rather a girl see you in if you had to choose?

In diapers

In underwear

Naked- genitals

Naked- butt

What factors affect your level of embarrassment/shyness from being in diapers in the presence of girls?
(Check all that apply.)

Relationship of girl to me (e.g. sister, cousin)

Age of girl to me

Level of acquaintence with girl

Frequency of time spent around girl

The girl's frequency of/experience with seeing me in diapers

Number of girls present

Whether or not the girl already knew I wore diapers

The girl's experience with seeing other boys in diapers

The girl's experience with seeing other boys naked

The setting (e.g. at home versus their house)

Rate how embarrassed you would feel or had felt about the following situations where girls seeing you in diapers is concerned (skip the ones that do not apply to you):
(Select one choice for each area)

Girls knowing I have diapers on but cannot see them because I am wearing pants
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have diapers on and can see them showing above my pants
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in a diaper without having any pants on
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in multiple diapers and/or very thick diapers without having any pants on
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers but cannot see it or smell it because I am wearing pants
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers but can only smell it as I have pants on
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers and can see and perhaps smell it it as I have no pants on
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers but cannot see or smell it as my diapers are so thick (I'm pantsless)
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers but cannot see it or smell it because I am wearing pants
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers but can only smell it as I have pants on
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers and can see and perhaps smell it it as I have no pants on
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers but cannot see or smell it as my diapers are so thick (I'm pantsless)
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in clean underwear
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in wet (pee) underwear
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in skidmarked underwear
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in poopy (full-fledged accident) underwear
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in multiple underpants being used as diapers
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me in diapers for their first time
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me naked (genitals) while undressing, bathing, showering, etc.
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me naked (butt) while undressing, bathing, showering, etc.
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me naked (genitals) during diaper change
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me naked (butt, clean) during diaper change
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me naked (butt, poopy) during diaper change
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me having had a pee accident (wet pants)
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls seeing me having had a poop accident in my pants
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls smelling me having had a poop accident in my pants, but not necessarily seeing it
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I had a pee accident but did not see or smell it
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls knowing I had a poop accident but did not see or smell it
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls catching me masturbating naked
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:
Girls catching me masturbating in my diapers
--- Very embarrassed Moderately embarrassed Somewhat embarrassed Not embarrassed at all
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

Describe the things that girls do that make you feel shy about wearing diapers in their presence:

What makes you feel shy about wearing diapers in the presence of girls that doesn't make you feel this way in the presence of other boys?

Are your feelings of shyness when wearing diapers in the presence a bashful feeling (you feel good but you're afraid to admit it), embarrassed (you feel highly self-conscious), annoyed (you want to be left alone), ashamed (humiliated that you are in diapers) or a combination of these feelings? Describe them in more detail.

What was one of the first things you remember about feeling shy wearing diapers in the presence of girls? How did the reaction from the girls first establish these feelings?

Describe how your feelings of shyness vary between wearing pants while in diapers and being pantsless and in diapers in the presence of girls? How does being in diapers compare to being naked in the presence of girls? Does it make a difference whether you are naked because of a diaper change or because of undressing, taking a bath, etc.

Explain your reasons on why you feel less shy or embarrassed in the presence of other boys while in diapers versus being in the presence of girls. How do you feel about commonly perceived taboos towards having young boys and girls together in situations involving nudity, excrement of bodily wastes and weaing/changing diapers, which combines these two?

Explain how being seen in diapers by a girl is akin to being seen in your underwear by a girl and why this mattered to you so much as a boy.

Explain how being seen using your diapers by a girl is akin to being seen using the toilet by a girl and why this mattered to you so much as a boy.

Explain how the relative age of a girl to you, your relationship to the girl and other factors affect how shy or embarrassed you feel about her seeing you in diapers. How do you feel about younger girls seeing you in diapers?

How has having girls see you in diapers and perhaps also seeing you naked affected your feelings about modesty, nudity, decency, and sexual development?

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