Question of the Week

The Question of the Week for October 14, 2007:

Have you ever made any friends primarily on the basis that they wear diapers, too?
(Check only one.)

Intended participants for this question: All boys who wear diapers and adult males who wore diapers as a boy (beyond babyhood/toddlerhood)

Yes, because he also wears/wore diapers

Yes, but his wearing diapers was secondary

No

How many such friends have you made or did you have in your boyhood?
(Check only one.)

None

One

Two

Three

Four

Five

6 to 10

More than 10

In which grades have you had such friends?
(Check all that apply.)

Before kindergarten

Kindergarten

First

Second

Third

Fourth

Fifth

Sixth

Seventh

Eighth

Ninth (Freshman)

Tenth (Sophomore)

Eleventh (Junior)

Twelfth (Senior)

Home-schooled (N/A)

How old were you when you first made such a friend?
(Check only one.)

Under 4
4
5
6
7
8
9
10
11
12
13
14
15
16
17
Over 17

Where have you met such friends?
(Check all that apply.)

Daycare

Around the neighborhood

In the classroom

On the playground

In the restroom

In the locker room

During gym class

On the bus

During summer camp

During other youth group activities

Church

While camping with family

In public place

In public restroom

While traveling

Other

Part A: How often have you initiated contact with your prospective friends who also wear/wore diapers? Part B: How long does it take you to overcome inhibitions and be open with him about your diapers?
(Check only one.)

Part A

Always

Usually

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

Part B

Immediately

Within a few days

Within a week

Within a few weeks

Within a month

Over a month

Part A: How often are you approached by other diaper-wearing boys who seek you as a prospective friend? Part B: How long does it usually take others to overcome inhibitions and be open with you about their diapers?
(Check only one.)

Part A

Always

Usually

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

Part B

Immediately

Within a few days

Within a week

Within a few weeks

Within a month

Over a month

Within the first week of friendship which things have you and your diaper-wearing friends done together?
(Check all that apply.)

Let him see me in my diapers

Let him see me naked

Let him see me getting changed

Let him change my diapers

Let him see me masturbating

Let him masturbate me

Let him engage in other sexual activities

Let me see him in his diapers

Let me see him naked

Let me see him getting changed

Let me change his diapers

Let me see him masturbating

Let me masturbate him

Let me engage in other sexual activities

Have him at my house for a sleepover

Go to his house for a sleepover

Within the first month of friendship which things have you and your diaper-wearing friends done together?
(Check all that apply.)

Let him see me in my diapers

Let him see me naked

Let him see me getting changed

Let him change my diapers

Let him see me masturbating

Let him masturbate me

Let him engage in other sexual activities

Let me see him in his diapers

Let me see him naked

Let me see him getting changed

Let me change his diapers

Let me see him masturbating

Let me masturbate him

Let me engage in other sexual activities

Have him at my house for a sleepover

Go to his house for a sleepover

Describe the first diaper-wearing boy you befriended. Where, when and how did you meet him? How old were you and him at the time? Include any other notable Deekerian details (diaper usage and reasons, diaper types, white diapers, multiple diapers, pantslessness, presence of sisters, etc.)

Describe the other diaper-wearing boys you befriended in your boyhood. Provide the same details asked in the preceding question.

How confident do/did you feel about approaching other boys who wear diapers in the interests of seeking their friendship? How do you initiate contact? Which awkward situations have you had to deal with? What steps do you take to build to gaining more trust and becoming more intimate with one another? How do you deal with shyness on your part or on the part of others?

How do/did you feel about other boys who approach you who seek your friendship? How do they initiate talking about diapers with you? How did you or him overcome shyness or inhibitions? What steps do they take to build to gaining more trust and becoming more intimate with you? How do they deal with shyness on your part or on theirs?

What things do/did you and your diaper-wearing friends do together as far as your diapers were concerned? How much time did it take for you and him to become comfortable enough in each other's presence to talk about diapers, be seen in diapers, have sleepovers without pajamas on, changing each other's diapers, engaging in sexual activities, etc.?

What kinds of diapers have your other friends worn? Did they wear multiple diapers? Were their diapers white or other colors? How often did they go around pantsless? Who else saw them in their diapers? How did sisters and other girls treat you and your friends when they saw you in diapers, changed you, etc.?

How did your friends' brothers and sisters treat them for wearing diapers? How did they treat you? How did you feel the first time they saw you in diapers or at least talked to you about your diapers? How did their parents treat them and treat you?

Have you ever been turned down or shunned by a prospective diaper-wearing friend? What happened to cause this? Likewise, have you ever turned down or shunned someone who was seeking your friendship? What were your reasons for not accepting his friendship?

What situations do/did you run into while in school with seeking friendship from other diaper-wearing boys? Where and when have you formed successful friendships in school? What obstacles have you had to deal with in pursuing such interests?

Describe the times when you have squandered a potential friendship with a diaper-wearing boy. What stood in your way of seeking or gaining his friendship?

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