Ask Deeker A Question (Responses)- August 2009

Question #1:  How do you fill out a mister poll I am having a hard time understanding?

It's pretty straightforward. Just follow the instructions on the screen. I checked to see if this information was in the FAQ but I did not see it. Send me the link when you have it ready and I will look at it.

Question #1:  First of all, Deeker, thanks for your website, that gives hope to boys who think they're alone.

Excellent, as always. As part of a proposed survey on the site itself, I plan to solicit feedback from others who have benefited from the web site in the same way.

Question #2:  I finally tried pooping in my diaper....And it was AWESOME!!

Fantastic! You must tell me more about it. I'd like to hear from you.

Question #1:  Have you ever made a home made diaper?

Just by putting on a bunch of underwear, but yeah.

Question #2:  How do you get diapers with out your parents knowing?

You devise a plan based on when you expect to have enough time to sneak away from the house without them knowing. Obviously you must be able to get to the store and have money to buy them. Just don't break any curfew laws.

Question #3:  If you can't wear diapers, what is an alternative?

My alternative, of course, is to put on a bunch of plain white boys' briefs, but this is more for the look of diapers and at least having the ability to poop in them. This method doesn't work so well for pee unless you can get a hold of some plastic pants. If you want a more functional diaper facsimile, you might consider following the suggestions in this article,How to Create A Makeshift Diaper. A more elaborate and detailed method is listed here: How to Make a Makeshift Diaper Without Your Parents Finding Out.

Question #4:  What kind of Underwear is closest to diapers?

Any full-rise pair of tighty whities x 12 or more will do. Multiple double-seated briefs from TigerUnderwearStore would be really great, but these tend to be more costly, and unfortunately you can't get them at your neighborhood Wally World. Colored briefs and cartoon underwear may work, but the look of diapers isn't there, and forget boxers. They hardly even count as "underwear" in my opinion.

Question #1:  My mom already took me to the psychologist and she said that I am feeding the diaper want by buying them myself. What should I do? P.S. Mom already is starting to intercept my money for diapers.

I'd find out what your mom's objections are to you wearing diapers in the first place. Is she willing to talk about the matter? You're not doing drugs, after all, and there are much worse things kids your age could be doing (many of them illegal). Perhaps this is a question that you can ask your counselor/therapist (psychologist). What is his (her?) take on you wanting to wear diapers? Is your therapist working to serve your interests or your mother's (or both)? Try to keep the tone respectful, but do be firm and defend your desires to wear diapers and let your mom know that taking away your diapers will not take away the desire (if anything, it may intensify the urge). If you wear tighty whities, how do you think she would respond to seeing you wearing a whole bunch of them together to simulate the look, feel, and function (albeit limited) of diapers? If she gets too focused on her concerns about diapers, remind her that as a mother of a boy who is about to enter his teen years, she already has enough to worry about and that you wanting to wear diapers should be the least of her concerns. Again, I don't want to suggest that you back-talk your mother, and do show her that you respect her, but at the same time, get her to talk about what harm she sees in letting you wear diapers. Ask her what's the worst thing that she thinks can happen to you?

Question #2:  Oh, thanks for your info on how to change my diapers; I'm already starting to learn.

Great! Glad to be of help.

Question #1:  Where is there a diaper school in NJ?

I don't believe such a school exists in New Jersey (or perhaps anywhere). A Google search returned no meaningful results. "Special school", of course, returns a lot of hits, but such schools make no specific mention of diapers. I also tried more "clinical" terms such as "incontinent children" but this didn't get me very far, either. With the right combination of search terms you might find what you are looking for.

Question #1:  At what age did you start having fantasies about wearing diapers?

I've had fantasies about getting put back into diapers (real diapers that would have to be pinned onto me) from when I was about five years old. I had only recently been dubiously declared toilet trained and I missed my thick cotton training pants, but I did still get to wear lots of white underwear from time to time. Once my accidents tapered off and subsided I was going into puberty, at which time I began to understand my sexual feelings towards diapers, so this kept my fantasies going.

Question #2:  Have you ever got a diaper change from a girl?

My sisters may have changed my diapers when I was very young, but I don't ever remember them doing this. My sisters never handled putting on all my underpants (they just watched and observed).

Question #1:  You had diaper ratings in with the surveys; what happened to it?

The results are still posted, but a new version has yet to be developed. You may view the results here.

Question #1:  Please cut me some slack. I know you don't want to talk politics but I wouldn't consider this a true politics question

I am not familiar with this story. I didn't see anything on CNN about it, either, so you will need to enlighten me. I'm personally not too comfortable around guns and I certainly don't own any guns. Without being familiar with the story I would be more likely to side with the people who are "gun shy".

Question #2:  Love the site.

Thank you, thank you, and thanks again.

Question #1:  I told mom that I love diapers but she wants to take me to a psychologist. How do I deal with that?

Just answer his questions honestly and truthfully. If his intent is to get you to stop wearing diapers, be firm but polite and ask him how you can get your mother to accept you wanting to wear diapers. Don't give in to any suggestion that you try to stop wearing diapers (unless you want to yourself). Don't be afraid to tell him (or her, perhaps) anything. Remember, he is a highly trained professional and has undoubtedly heard all kinds of stories of people's various situations. Anything you tell him will remain confidential. Please keep me posted, and best of luck to you.

Question #2:  My brother is 16 and calls me lazy. I'm 12 and he won't stop calling me names.

That's an older brother for you. Sibling rivalry is an inevitable part of family life and just about anyone who has a brother or sister has to endure this sort of thing, so the best thing to do is try to ignore it, or call him out on a weaknesses of his (certainly there is something that he is sensitive about). Don't let it escalate into an all-out war, but you do need to show him that you aren't bothered by it (even if you are). If you show offense he will just feed off of your annoyance. He's 16, and maybe in a couple of years he'll go off to college or join the military, or at least be working full time. Maybe he'll at least start working part time and start going out on dates and be out of the house more. Can you get your parents to intervene? While most parents should expect a cerain amount of sibling rivalry, a loving parent won't let it get out of hand.

Question #3:  I need help changing my diaper and the FAQ solution isn't helping and my mom won't change me.

If you aren't used to changing your own diapers you just need to practice and keep at it. I'm sure you will get it after awhile.

Question #1:  Okay... I'm a big fan... so... tell the viewers of this what's some of your most awesome moments in diapers?

Since my diaper-wearing is mostly solitary there really isn't much I can say about it that would qualify as a "most awesome moment". Perhaps the most excitement I ever experienced was when at age 13 I saw another boy in junior high (whom I presume was 12) who also wore his underwear in multiples as a diaper and pooped in it. He came to school like this, whereas I didn't, and he wore a lot more underwear than I did, plus, he was obviously very open about it. For various reasons, however (and much to my regret), I never approached him or established a friendship with him, so the nest best thing I could do was to write a story about it.

Question #1:  What was this site like back in 1996?

I wish I had thought to save copies of the original pages (and waybackmachine.com doesn't even have them, nor does archive.org). Back then it was much simpler. About all I had were the three stories I had written at the time(Diaper Desires, The Blue Package,andBrian the Bedwetter.) There was also a section about my diaper experiences.

Question #2:  Except for the most recent updates you did this year, was it like this back then?

I only updated the site as needed, usually whenever I had completed another story. The regular updates (which at one time were on Wednesday night) did not begin until about 1998 or so. As for the layout of the page, it really has not changed a lot as far as the color scheme is concerned. Some of the graphics have been updated.

Question #3:  Was this site as big back then as it is today?

Not nearly as big as it is today. The site did not even have its own domain name, but instead was hosted on the meager five megabytes of server space that was provided to me by my ISP at the time. All of the other features, starting with the Contribued Stories, came along one by one as time moved on.

Question #4:  I think I started looking at this site back in 1998, not sure.

If that's the case, then you were looking at this web site from the time you were born (2009-1998=11, the age you state you are now). Are you sure about that date?

Question #1:  Why do you hate anime/manga stories? As long as it meets the requirements of your story guidelines, why would you reject it?

I wouldn't go so far as to say I hate anime/manga stories or even actively dislike them, but because of the number of depictions I have unintentionally come across of the female anime/manga characters wearing diapers I am naturally turned out off by them, and so I tend to make this inseperable assocation with the genre. I have also seen (again, unintentionally), a good amount of "baby fur" art which tends to be drawn in the anime/manga tyle, which is also a very big turnoff for me (the babyfur genre, that is).

Question #1:  Please never shut down Deeker =D I have been visiting since 2006

No need to worry. I have no plans to close the web site at any time in the foreseeable future.