Ask Deeker A Question (Responses)- June 2009

Question #1:  Me and my girlfriend have been together for many years now. Last year I finally told her about me liking to wear diapers. She giggled but promised not to tell anyone, and suprisingly, kept her word. Recently there's been some turbu not to tell anyone, and suprisingly, kept her word. Recently there's been some turbulance and I'm afraid if we break up she might use this against me. *What can I do if she tells someone?*

Has she confided in you to know something secret about her? If she blabs to everybody that you like to wear diapers, respond in kind. If things get really ugly you don't even have to be truthful. Just embarrass the hell out of her if she uses smear tactics. How wide is her social circle? Is she an avid Myspacer? You do have a reason to be concerned. If anything weird comes back to you, you know who to blame.

Question #2:  Why did I want to tell her in the first place?

Any number of possible reasons: You were so ecstatic about the feelings you and her exchanged with one another and felt highly confident and secure in your relationship that you decided to tell all. In other words, she earned your trust. You anticipated this relationship to be long-term, and in doing so you realized you knew that you could not keep this part about you a secret from her, so you told her to relieve yourself of the anxiety that continuing to keep it a secret from her might cause. Perhaps you had a few drinks when you had told her (no offense if you're a non-drinker as I am, since I hate it when people assume I drink, and since you're only 16 I don't imagine you would be drinking). Whatever the reason was for telling her, the best you can do is hope it all works out, and if it doesn't, she either forgets about it or dismisses it as a trivial oddity about you.

Question #3:  How can I find out if the diapers are part of the reason were having issues?

The only way to know if your diapers are an issue in the relationship is to ask her. If she's honest she'll tell you. As Dr. Philian and platitudinal as it sounds, communication really is one of the keys to a healthy relationship.

Question #4:  Have you ever told anyone about your diapers with no reason to?

I've never told anyone about my diapers for no reason. Since we're talking about girlfriends here I will say that I have never told any girlfriends. On the other hand, I've only had four steady or semi-steady girlfriends, so my dating opportunities were few and far between.

Question #1:  The only sites I�ve found when Googling �diaper discipline� or �diaper punishment� that aren�t related to AB/DLs and associated fetish or story sites are two articles about child abuse and the invitation-only group site which says to teens should wear and use diapers to prevent them from acting out rather than punishing them for anything, but is not about AB/DL or fetish related topics. Why do you think this is?

In this day and age of hypersensitive and overly vigilant soccer-mom busybodies where merely touching a child (even when it's you own kid) for punitive reasons is grounds for a call to CPS and irreversible loss of parental rights, it's hardly a surprise that diaper discipline would be considered to be abuse, just as some people will use the same broad brush to paint any form of spanking the same color of abuse. Any punitive measure taken to unreasonable extremes could, of course, be deemed as abuse, but defining what constitutes abuse is drawn with a blurry line and is often left to courts, judges and juries to decide on a case-by-case bais when such matters come to the level of litigation. There are several advantages to diaper discipline from a punitive standpoint and I wish this topic got more coverage in parenting magazines and message boards. While spanking will often be topic of the feature article in Parents magazine, nary a mention is given to diaper discipline.

Question #2:  Do you really believe that diaper discipline is an effective punishment for accidents, or any problems really? Putting a boy in diapers for bladder and/or bowel problems as punishment seems more likely to reinforce the problem, rather than solve it.

Since diaper discipline is not widely known or used I don't imagine that any studies have been done on its effectiveness as a punitive measure. When I update the Diaper Discipline survey I will include more questions pertaining to its effectiveness (or lack thereof). I understand your concerns that diaper discipline when used as a response to boys having potty problems may only serve to reinforce the problems. It would seem that most often this ends up being the case, in spite of the parents' wishes to curtail the behavior that warrants the use of diapers. The results from the revised survey should ultimately show the effectiveness of diaper discipline.

Question #3:  I know why you prefer cloth diapers and multiple underpants, but I noticed in the stories of yours I have read involving disposables (B.R.A.T.T. and part of  Heather the Babysitter) parents reinforce diapers with packing tape to prevent the children from removing diapers. Where did you get this idea from and why do you like it (if you do)?

I mention disposable diapers in some stories because, I have to admit, that's what most people these days use, and because I know that some readers would prefer to see disposables. Still, as a fan of cloth diapers, I am more apt to use them in a story. The packing tape idea came from a fictitious mother, "Helen" (hence the name of the mother in B.R.A.T.T.) who had contacted me through DPF via telephone and told me about her equally non-existent son "Jordan", whom she described as a 13-year-old boy with a variety of behavioral problems. While some of the acts she described were quite disturbing, I admit that I enjoyed the idea of using excessive tape to keep a boy from removing his diapers, so I went ahead and put this in the aforementioned stories. At the time I thought Helen was for real, but a couple years later I read on a message board that "Helen" (a man who had the ability to speak in a woman's voice and a young boy's voice) had been contacting other people and sharing the story about his miscreant son Jordan, who through some cosmic miracle, managed to remain 13 years old, thereby revealing the entire scenario to be a fraud, a fa�ade, a fantastically fabricated fib-- call it what you will.

Question #4:  I know you dislike boys wearing boxer shorts, but how do you feel about boys wearing boxer briefs?

Since boxer-briefs do not have the shape of a diaper as briefs do I'm not a fan of them, either. They are not suited to be adapted to serve as a diaper in multiples, even if they are plain white. Multiple boxer briefs would create too much unnecessary bulk around the upper legs where this material could be better served in the crotch or over the butt.

Question #1:  Do you know any other picture websites that have diaper preteens?

I know of one such site, but because so many people advised me to take the link down (as the site tends to attract pedophiles who anonymously post disturbing comments), I do not wish to post the link here again.

Question #1:  If I want to get diapers, what is the best way to do it if I'm 14 and I have super overprotective parents whom I know wouldn't understand?

Since you know what you are up against you need to find ways to get past your parents. If you know that your parents would not approve then there is no point in trying to convince them otherwise. You have to look for opportunities when you think you can break away from your parents' watchful eye, or perhaps turn to a trusted friend if you really think he could get diapers for you.

Question #2:  What would you do about high school locker rooms and diapers?

Not sure what you mean by "do about high school locker rooms and diapers?" I will interpret your question to mean, "How would you accommodate diaper wearers in a high school locker room?" I know that such boys would want privacy, so I would assign them their own row if there were enough boys to warrant it. Aside from that, they may have to use toilet stalls. I have read that in some locker rooms the stalls either have no doors, or there are no walls at all (the rationale apparently being that since everybody's naked anyway, why bother with the walls?) In any case I would try to keep the diaper wearers isolated from the rest of the boys to prevent the inevitable problems that would arise.

Question #1:  I LOVE to masturbate. Is that bad?

The only thing that is bad is a boy who, for no valid reason (and I can't think of one), is conditioned to feel that masturbation is bad. Religion is most often responsible for creating such needless guilt in boys. The simple fact is, it's natural (and probably a medical necessity) for boys to masturbate.

Question #1:  Firstly, Deeker, I would like to thank you for all the hard work you put into this site and acknowledge that you do this for others at your personal expense. THANK YOU. Not really a question, but I feel compelled to say thank you because Deeker is fabulous.

Once again, I humbly accept your gratitude.

Question #2:  I get an erection when I see kids younger than me (mainly under 13) wet themselves. Does that make me a peodophile or a horrible twisted guy in anyway?

I don't think this makes you a pedophile (you're only 15 yourself, after all). If anything, it's quite natural for those of us who enjoy diapers and have enjoyed diapers since early boyhood to be aroused by stimuli that reminds us of situations to which we are conditioned to become sexually responsive. Even if you were older, I don't think this would make you a pedophile (though some people might get the wrong idea, so you are wise in being cautious). You can relate to the feelings these other younger boys get when they wet themselves, as do those of us older than you who feel the same way about diapered boys and are fond of our memories of diapered boyhood. A pedophile generally does not relate to the situations his subjects are in and does not desire to emulate their environment or situation. Instead, a pedophile desires to use his size and age to his advantage as he preys on children. He is apt to take things further and try to lure the children he seeks into his activities and take advantage of their trust and their limited abilities to understand the situation and consent to it, and most of all, their lesser abilities to defend themselves once they become aware of what's going on.

Question #3:  Do you know a UK site where you can mail-order diapers without a credit card (where you can pay the vendor-guy with cash)

I don't know of any such sites right off the top of my head. I'm confident there has to be something out there if you Google for it. (hint: use the word "nappies" instead of diapers if you are searching for UK-based diaper vendors).

Question #1:  Hello. I've been a part of this site for about five years now and I have to say thank you for it. Because of this site I've gained more courage about being diapered and taking extra risk. While this isn't a question and I do feel bad for wasting a slot just to say something you probably hear about five million times, I wanted to be the five million and one time to say thank you.

Not to worry, if you use up the question slots you can always send a second form. I'd be interested in your story about how the web site has helped you.

Question #2:  Now it's time to go to my question. I've actually written a Deeker story (Death's whisper,) but there's one thing I was confused about. I believe in an earlier answering of question you stated that you do not want any boy in girl baby clothing or anything with boy being in girl clothes. Why is this? The reason why I ask is becuase I often use cross dressing as a means of determining in the gay relationships I write who's uke and who's seme, (seme means top and the male of the relationship, while uke is the bottom and the more feminine one of the relationship.)

The reason I so vehemently abhor the portrayal of boys (especially diapered boys) wearing girls' clothes is because of how doing so would in such epic proportions disrupt my Deekerian worldview. It is quite the colossal buzzkill for me, in a manner of speaking. The very foundation of Deekerianism recognizes that boys and only boys wear diapers while girls can wear decent clothes, use toilets and keep their bodies clean. Ascribing girlish traits to a diapered boy violates every tenet of Deekerianism and in doing so it throws the entire Deekerverse into an irreconcilable chaotic disarray. I am personally disgusted beyond explanation by such a portrayal of boys. To explain this strong aversion to this theme would be like trying to explain why the smell of shit is unpleasant. It just is. As for your story, you'll have to find another way to structure your story so that it does not include content that does not fit within the story submission guidelines.

Question #3:  Why did the dinosaurs die off? I'm sorry, that was a joke question. Here's my real question: When you originally opened this site, how many people did you think this would appeal to? Was it this many?

Cavemen hunted the dinosaurs to extinction (joke answer  I'm on board with the meteor-slamming-into-the-earth theory myself.). Quite honestly, I didn't really consider how large of a readership my web site would attract. I just wanted to have my own piece of cyberspace and use it to express my feelings towards diapers and my deeply held convictions towards diapers being for boys. I knew that there were enough people out there who would appreciate the themes I write about in my stories, which was the web site's original purpose, providing a permanent place to showcase my writing. I really didn't expect the web site to keep going for so long or become so widely recognized in the AB/DL world. Still, for how far the site has come since its inception, I still feel that the web site resembles the corner drugstore that hasn't changed much in the last 75 years, while other web sites resemble Rite-Aid and Walgreen's. The site still has that "home grown" look to it, and while I often think about updating it, sometimes I think of the old adage, "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." I do acknoledge that I have some unconventional notions that are not necessarily embraced by the AB/DL community at large, and because of this, my site may not be seen as "mainstream". I focus on alternative themes that other AB/DL sites do not cover (e.g. pantslessness, perceptions from sisters, emphasis on plain white diapers) and I like to bring some of these subtleties and nuances of diaper fetishism to the forefront to remind people that they are not the only ones who consider such aspects of their diaper-wearing. Likewise I tend to eschew (but not forbid. mind you) common AB/DL themes such as baby paraphernalia, sleepers, nursery-print clothing, breastfeeding, etc. Because of this, and the fact that my site blatantly shuts out any and all matters pertaining to girls and women wearing diapers, the target audience is a niche market. My site is not intended to cater to the broad scope of diaper lovers and adult babies as a whole, and I know some people hate me and my web site because of what I believe, but that's the chance I am willing to take. I'm sure that those who following that I have established, but more are always welcome. have a problem with the web site can, with some effort and trial and error and perhaps with some assistance, manage to locate their browser's "back" button at least within a few haphazard clicks and figure out how to get off of the web site. I am satisfied with the following that I have established, but more are always welcome.

Question #4:  Do you read any of the diaper stories other people submit? If so then what categories do you look for when you look for a story?

By "read", I presume you mean, do I read the stories for the sake of leisurely reading. If a story presses my hot buttons I will read it for the sake of enjoyment. All too often, though, one of the downsides of running my web site is that when I receive a story I have to ensure that its content is suited for the site and that spelling, grammar and other writing qualities are in order (which is why I hate having to spend so much time editing a poorly written story). Having to tend to such matters makes it more difficult to enjoy a story. The first thing I always look for in a story is to see if it has sisters or other girls involved in seeing the boy(s) in diapers with the possible additional duty of changing his diapers. For me this really, really makes a very signficant difference in how the story will appeal to me. This doesn't mean that having sisters and/or other girls (who DO NOT wear diapers, of course; otherwise the entire story is forfeited) in a diaper story is a prerequisite for enjoyment, but it does go a long ways, and I'd reeeeeeally like to see more stories of this type get submitted. The other themes I am big on are: plain white cloth diapers worn in multiples and thus are very thick, poopy diapers, extended time spent in diapers without pants. If a story especially appeals to me I give it special recognition, which I call theGolden Diaper Pin Award.. Stories deemed worthy of this honor are denoted with a Golden Diaper Pin icon, which appears as this:. I recently added a new metric to determine a story's "Deekerian" appeal. The best way to explain how this works is to point you to the page that lists which story categories are used in evaluating a story's "Deekerian score" and how much weight each of these elements has in the score.

Question #1:  Hey Deeker. I love this website, and keep up the hard work; you do an amazing job.

Thank you, good to know I have loyal, young fans whose diaper experiences are enriched by the web site.

Question #2:  I have a question. I was reading a diaper sighting and read something about something called a Chasity Belt and was wondering what is it and is it used with a diaper?

A chastity belt is a device that prevents the wearer from having sexual intercourse. More information about chastity belts can be found onWikipedia(WARNING: the article contains photos that may be objectionable or inappopriate to some viewers). As for using one with a diaper, I don't see why it would be even necessary. A thick set of diapers prety much does the same thing (whether this is intended or not) with the added benefit of collecting the wearer's pee and poop.

Question #3:  How many of the sighting and true stories do you think are true and are fake?

Conservatively speaking, I'd say about half are completely or mostly true. Ten percent of them are probably complete fabrications, and everything else in between has some degree of truth with some embellishment thrown in. To lower the signal-to-noise ratio I do reject a fair number of submissions I regard to be bogus.

Question #4:  I want to suck on my mommy to breast feed me at least once. What can I tell her to see if she would?

If you have a close enough relationship to your mother that you feel comfortable asking her, I don't see why not. She might think it's an odd request, but if she senses that you want something she may ask you about it, and at that point if she does the best thing to do is to be truthful.

Question #1:  Hi Deeker! Love your website. This placed helped me to find I'm not alone as well as finding a few memorable diaper stories. Anyway, keep up the good work!

Thank you for the fine words! Feel free to drop me a line any time.

Question #2:  I have peed in my diapers, but never pooped in them. Is it fun?

I'd give it a try. You're going to feel a lump (provided the poop is solid, otherwise, it will spread all over your buttocks). Obviously there will be a smell. If you're like me, it's much more fun when you poop in diapers pantsless, as this recreates the experiences I had as a boy. Include a favorite fantasy or relive a fond memory to add to the fun. I imagine myself being eight years old being forced to poop in my diapers while my vindictive sisters look on with delight and amusement, reminding me of my state of being as a boy, pointing out everything they see. Your fantasies may vary. Seeing that you have a sister, perhaps you think of her in the same way.

Question #3:  I've always wanted to try pooping in one, but I've always feared the smell would give me away quickly. Any tips?

There's no escaping it; poop stinks. How much it stinks depends on a variety of factors, including your body's digestion and the foods you eat. Some foods (meats and anything high in protein, as I understand it), make for stinkier poop than eating vegetables. There are some products on the market that are supposed to reduce the odor, but I cannot comment on their efficacy with any personal experience.

Question #4:  I live with my parents and one younger sister. My stepmother works mornings, my sister is home all day, and my dad gets home at 11:00 and stays up till 1:00. Is renting a motel room by myself the only hope for this experience(not easy on my salary)

I must admit that going to a motel for a night of fecal fun is going a bit far, even if it's a cheap motel or a "by the hour" facility, which no doubt would attract some interesting citizens. If this is what you need to do, I don't see any reason not to as long as you can justify the expense.

Question #1:  Hi, I need some help on how to get diapers form my parents. I have 2 older brothers (15 and 17). They probably wouldn't care, so that's not a problem. My mom would probably be understanding but my dad I don't know about! Please Help.

If you don't think your brothers would care, do you think they would go so far as to get diapers for you? Does your 17-year-old brother have a driver's license? If you are fairly confident that your mother would be understanding then you have this working in your favor. It seems that only your father would be the only obstacle. Could you wear diapers without him knowing? If you get this far and have everyone else on board with you wearing diapers, I would talk about how to handle the situation should your father find out, and of course let your mother take the lead on this one since she would likely know best how he would react and therefore, what approach to take.

Question #1:  Ever since my sister found out about my diaper fetish, she keeps calling me a freak, a pervert, and a pedophile. I know *BDLs arent any of those, but how do I make sure my sister knows?

Why not show her this site? Perhaps you already have. Show her this response. Let's take a look at the various terms you listed as being used by your sister and analyze each one of them: Freak-This is a general subjective pejorative and often dismissive term applied to anyone whose behavior is "not normal". Being a "freak" isn't necessarily a bad thing. Some people simply use this word in place of "fanatic" or "aficionado" when they want to use a negative tone. A geeky person might say about his jock classmate, "I'm a science fiction fan, but that guy's a sports freak." The "jock" may in turn, call the geek a "sci-fi freak" because the jock would rather play football than watch Battlestar Galactica. If a person does refer to himself as a "freak", it is often for self-deprecation, admitting or acknowledging that he is aware that it is an unusual or unconventional predilection. "Hey, I'm a diaper freak, but what can I do? I can't help it, I just love wearing them!" Whatever obsessions your sister might have, she could possibly be called a "freak" of that particular interest. If she idolizes a particulr celebrity you could say she's a "[insert celebrity name] freak". Pervert-This term, like "freak", is also often used as a pejorative to refer to someone with an unusual sexual bent, in your case (and mine, of course), diapers. A lot of people will use this term dismissively, that is, they are unwilling to take the time to give any thought to why you are this way and are satisfied with their initial impressions. Your sister needs to consider why you have a diaper fetish. Maybe you had difficulties with toilet training, or perhaps you were (or still are) a bedwetter. People tend to fear what they do not know, and dismissing unusual activities as being freaky or perverted is one such defense mechanism that people may use to isolate or insulate themselves from said activity. Whatever the case may be, she should understand that as long as you keep your diaper activities and thoughts to yourself there is no harm done. Of course there's nothing wrong with her seeing you in your diapers, but she may not be comfortable seeing you masturbate in your diapers, for example. Your sister may have a few kinks of her own (you indicated you have one older sister, so she is likely to be more sexually mature, given that you are 12). I don't recommend that you try to find out what stokes her fires, but I'm sure she has a few bizarre sexual fantasies (not necessarily fetishes) of her own that she would not disclose to anyone within the family. The important thing to understand is that a true "pervert" is one whose sexual behavior is so deviant as to be antisocial, so as long as you're not walking around the neighborhood in a trenchcoat and "flashing" your diapers to every girl you see, you're not a pervert. Pedophile-Your sister needs to wake up and smell the coffee on this one. She's probably just using this term interchangeably with the others as a means of dismissing your behavior as being odd. Unless you have desires to involve younger children in your sexual activities (and at age 12 this limits the range for you considerably), you're in the clear and in no danger of validly being labeled a pedophile. If you are comfortable with it and your sister is willing to listen, try to encourage her to ask questions and gain a better understanding of why you like to wear diapers. If she has any questions for me she is welcome to ask them here. In the meantime, maybe you can submit a True Account since I am curious how she found out and what she knows about your diaper fetish.

Question #2:  Your site is cool! I go there every week! :)

Awesome, and welcome! Glad to have you aboard.

Question #1:  Do you prefer stories written in first person or third person?

If I had to choose one or the other I would say that I prefer third-person stories since such stories are more versatile and flexible. The action is not limited to one person's perspective. Of course with a story written in first person this gives the reader the impression of events, dialog, thoughts and other situations as they are told through the eyes and the mind of the character, which makes it more personal. On the other hand, what's nice about a story written in third person is that the action can shift from one character's perspective to another. The writing can also include information that the main character is either not aware of or is not familiar with enough to describe it. A third-person story is closer to how most of us watch movies and would describe the action. About the only time a movie becomes first-person is if the lead is narrating from his or her point of view (e.g. The Wonder Years), or is "breaking the fourth wall" and addressing the audience directly (e.g. Ferris Bueller).

Question #2:  What do you think of my story idea: A boy's younger brother has a bedwetting problem and wears diapers, while he does not. The older brother becomes curious about the diapers and begins sneaking them when no one's in the room. He is eventually caught by the younger brother, and I'm not really sure what'll happen next. Do you think it's a good idea so far?

Your idea sounds really cool. I'd say go for it. As for what should happen next, either the young brother could be cool with it and then the two boys enjoy their diapers together until a third party (a vindictive sister) tattles to the parents, or spies on them and takes video of the two boys enjoying their diapers and shares it out on Youtube, Myspace, etc.; or the younger brother himself does these things to expose his older brother's purloining of the diapers. If you can, try to use a creative and fun plot development.

Question #3:  How do you choose names for characters in your stories?

I choose names that are common and familiar to most readers. A lot of the time I will have a real-life person in mind from my childhood and think of that person as the character. I knew of some real-life blonde-haired boys named Chris in school whom I always thought would look good in diapers, so this is how I developed the Chris Barrett character in Diaper Desires and Forever in Diapers. Some characters are named just based on how I would envision such a person with the name I assign to that person, or vice versa, and again, these impressions may be influenced by real people I have known by such names. As I tend to think of girls named Megan as having red hair, this was how Chris' sometimes-girlfriend is presented in the aforementioned stories. Enemies and other bad guys in stories are easy to name. I just simply think of the names of people I hated in school (largest pool for possible names, such as Travis, since I hated every Travis I ever knew in school), names of disagreeable coworkers, or assholes who have given me shit about my web site. One such example is Phil Brown, the insufferable coach in Forever in Diapers who treats Chris and his other diaper-wearing friends poorly due to their lack of athletic prowess and because they all wear diapers. This name was purposely chosen since back in 1998 some cockless douchebag by this name chose to harass me about my web site several years ago and threatened to have it shut down.

Question #1:  I just got through with reading Forever in Diapers. I can't wait until you finish it. Can you make another exciting story?

I'm glad you like this story. It'll be finished one of these days and I'll move on to some other stories that have been waiting to be written.

Question #1:  How do I tell my parents that I like diapers?

Rather than attempt to answer this oft-asked question with such very limited information provided to me, I am going to announce my proposal to add a survey to the site where others can provide their feedback based on their experiences with parental objections towards wearing diapers. Once this survey is in place and responses are posted this should help those of you who are seeking advice to follow the advice that is given by those who have "been there".

Question #1:  Where could I find a girl who likes to put diapers on boys and change them and stuff?

The girls in your school would probably be your best bet. I know you can't just go around the school and ask the girls you know and trust to diaper you. Do you have contact with any former babysitters whom you liked?

Question #1:  Hey Deeker, I need some advice. I am almost 16 years old, and I am a diaper lover. I live in a really small town in Missouri, where everyone knows each other. You cannot hardly go to town and not see one of your friends. So I cannot just go to town and by diapers. Also, I live about 2 miles away from town anyway. And I do not own a bike. The closest Wal-Mart is 30 mile away, and my parents said they will not let me drive there by myself right away once I get my license. Also, my parents are also overprotective, so people cannot mail me diapers, either. What can I do?

First off, please give me a moment to express my sincere thanks for giving me the details of your situation. This helps me to understand what you are up against and is much more helpful than just the typical "How can I get diapers past my parents?" types of questions (take notes, those of you who are inclined to ask such questions). It does seem that you have several factors working against you. It sounds like your best hope, once you have your driver's license, is to get a hold of some diapers locally (that is, in your home town and not at the distant Wal-Mart) on. Do you regularly go to your local stores? If you do, perhaps treat these visits as "trial runs", and when you are in the store, determine if you would have been caught by anyone you know if you were buying diapers at the time. Are there other stores outside of town that are closer than the Wal-Mart that is 30 miles away? How likely is it that word would get back to your parents that you were in the store buying diapers?

Question #1:  I'm 17 and I want someone to diaper me but I don't know whom to ask. Should i ask friends or parents?

I'd go to my friends first if I were you. You would likely enjoy it more that way, and you'd probably be more comfortable with having your friends see you naked (and possibly if not likely with an erection), plus, your friends might be willing (with your consent, of course) to do things that would not be appropriate when your parents handle your diaper changes.

Question #2:  Should I tell my friends that I'm a diaper lover?

How well do you trust your friends? For how long have you known them? Have they ever trusted you with any of their secrets? If they are truly friends then they would not think any less of you for wearing diapers, but only you can assess the level of trust. Consider what you hope to gain by letting them know and weigh this against what you might lose.

Question #3:  Should I tell my parents that I have had accidents in my diapers even though I'm not supposed to use them for their intended purpose?

It sounds like your parents let you wear diapers but don't want you to actually pee or poop in them. If that's the case then you're better off than most other boys. If you have not had accidents up to this point in your life (you indicate you are 17 years old), chances are they would not believe you if you suddenly started having accidents for no apparent reason.

Question #1:  Have you ever thought of changing the site and making it new?

I think about it all the time. I know the site is overdue for revamping and updating to post-Y2K standards. The problem is having time to overhaul the site. If I did this I'd have to put off updates for a few weeks.

Question #2:  Do you go in the diaper when you have diarrhea?

I've done this plenty of times. I frequently deal with loose bowels after I eat a full meal and I suspect it could be a sign of irritable bowel syndrome (IBS). Wearing diapers has saved me on a number of occasions such as this.

Question #3:  Imgsrc, what are your thoughts on the website?

While I have yet to come across pictures on that site that would be unquestionably deemed as child porn, there are some pictures posted there that push the envelope. The most disturbing thing I see are the anonymous comments that the pervs like to post.

Question #4:  What brand of diapers do you use?

I order most of my diapers from Babykins.

Question #1:  As a response to my other question (I have a perfect plan to hide and use diapers. Problem is, I'm afraid to get them because the only way is store-bought. I don't want to risk mail order, and i can only go to stores with a parent. What should I do? ) My plan only has the parts with hiding and usage, but not obtainment. All I know that I can do is to hide them behind a load of junk in my closet, use them when I'm the only one home (this happens frequently) and then throw them away under a garbage back in my dumpster, and then proceed to take a shower so no one would notice. Unfortunately, I have absolutly ZERO time of obtaining diapers, I have no time to break away from my parents at the store. So I have no idea of what to do.

The only other thing I can think of is possibly playing hooky and sneaking off to the store to buy diapers when your parents think you are in school, but of course, I would very highly NOT recommend ditching school, especially for someone your age. Doing so would mostly likely land you in a great deal more trouble than just dealing with your parents' objections to you wearing diapers. Do you ever have time when you are with your friends and their families (e.g. sleepovers) instead of your own? If you just cannot break away from your family then you may just have to break down and tell them that you want diapers (and be honest about it if you do). Once you have made your intentions and wishes known there's no going back.

Question #1:  Is it normal that after I am done masturbating I don't feel like wearing a diaper or does that happen to you?

When I was younger I would feel pangs of guilt following masturbation that would suddenly put me out of the mood for wearing diapers. If this has happened to me and you have indicated that this happens to you then I imagine it is fairly common. By the time I reached adulthood I stopped having these post-masturbatory guilty feelings. Perhaps yours will go away, too.

Question #1:  Hey Deeker, love the website. keep up the good work. What I was wondering is, I recently found a website that offers bedwetting, diaper wearing, and baby regression hypnosis files, and I was wondering do those really work?

Monday. That's when the new stories and other updates are posted.

Question #1:  What day of the week do you get the most traffic to this site?

Monday. That's when the new stories and other updates are posted.

Question #1:  When you put your diapers on do you like magically lose control then take off your diapers and get your control back?

Only in fantasy. This would make a good story (of course have the diapers induce permanent incontinence over time).

Question #2:  Do you feel that you have lost a little control from wearing diapers?

Perhaps. I have always had problems with bowel movements, and perhaps I have irritable bowel syndrome, which may be coincidental and not related to me wearing diapers.

Question #3:  Would you really lose some control over time from wearing diapers?

Enough people have stated that this has happened to them that I am certain you can lose control over time.

Question #4:  Of all the stories you put on this site what is the best one you like?

I don't want to point out just one story, but (other than my own, which would not be fair), any of the stories that are labeled with the Golden Diaper Pin Award would count as being my favorites.

Question #1:  First, I would just like to say thank you so much for the wonderful site. When I first came across my fetish for diapers I thought I was alone and weird or that something was wrong, but thanks to your site I know that's not true. I would just like to say I am a lover of Deeker and plan to be for a long time.

Thank you, thank you so much! (takes a bow). This is one of the reasons for this web site so I am pleased to know that you have benefited from it, as I am sure many others have.

Question #1:  I was wondering why KEEPVID and Video Downlosder don't work anymore to save vids from Youtube?

Keepvid worked last I used it (and I tested it again today; still works). Can you email me the Youtube links you seem to be having trouble with?