How often do you see your brother with an erection before, during and after a diaper change?

Number of responses received: 16

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Always	5	31.3%
Usually	4	25.0%
Sometimes	6	37.5%
Rarely	0	0.0%
Never	0	0.0%
Total:	16

At what age do you first remember being curious about why his penis gets erections?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Under 3	1	7.1%
3	0	0.0%
4	0	0.0%
5	1	7.1%
6	0	0.0%
7	2	14.3%
8	0	0.0%
9	3	21.4%
10	3	21.4%
11	3	21.4%
12	1	7.1%
13	0	0.0%
14	0	0.0%
Over 14	0	0.0%
Total:	14

At what age did you understand the reasons boys get erections and the causes?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Under 3	0	0.0%
3	0	0.0%
4	1	6.7%
5	1	6.7%
6	0	0.0%
7	0	0.0%
8	0	0.0%
9	2	13.3%
10	4	26.7%
11	4	26.7%
12	1	6.7%
13	1	6.7%
14	0	0.0%
Over 14	1	6.7%
Total:	15

At what age did you understand the purpose for boys to get erections?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Under 6	0	0.0%
6	0	0.0%
7	0	0.0%
8	1	7.7%
9	1	7.7%
10	4	30.8%
11	1	7.7%
12	4	30.8%
13	1	7.7%
14	0	0.0%
Over 14	1	7.7%
Total:	13

From whom and/or what did you learn about the reasons boys get erections?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Mother	9	56.3%
Father	1	6.3%
My diaper-wearing brother(s)	5	31.3%
Another brother	0	0.0%
Another sister	2	12.5%
Friends- girls	8	50.0%
Friends- boys	1	6.3%
Other girls	1	6.3%
Other boys	1	6.3%
Doctor	0	0.0%
Other adult	0	0.0%
Sex education class	5	31.3%
Library/books	3	18.8%
TV/other media	0	0.0%

Before puberty, did the thickness of your brother's diapers make it so you could not tell if he had an erection (with his diapers on, no pants?)

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	9	69.2%
No	4	30.8%
Total:	13

After puberty, did the thickness of your brother's diapers make it so you could not tell if he had an erection (with his diapers on, no pants?)

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	4	30.8%
No	8	61.5%
N/A (he has not reached puberty yet)	1	7.7%
Total:	13

Until you learned that diapers were not necessarily always the cause, did you tend to think that your brother's diapers were the cause of his erections?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes, very much so	5	38.5%
Yes, in some ways	4	30.8%
Not really	4	30.8%
Not at all	0	0.0%
Total:	13

What would you rather see on your brother?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Diapers that allow you to see when he has an erection	4	33.3%
Diapers that are too thick to see when he has an erection	5	41.7%
Either is fine for their own reasons	2	16.7%
Doesn't matter to me	1	8.3%
Total:	12

What things give your brother an erection from his diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Just wearing his diapers	9	56.3%
Seeing himself in diapers	7	43.8%
Seeing other boys in diapers	8	50.0%
Peeing in his diapers	8	50.0%
Pooping in his diapers	4	25.0%
Touching his diapers while wearing them	11	68.8%
Masturbating in his diapers	11	68.8%
Reading diaper stories	8	50.0%
Looking at photos of diapered boys	10	62.5%
Looking at drawings of diapered boys (drawings on this site)	3	18.8%
Talking about his diapers	4	25.0%
Listening to you talk about his diapers	3	18.8%
Listening to other girls talk about his diapers	7	43.8%
Listening to other boys talk about his diapers	8	50.0%
Just thinking about diapers	6	37.5%

How old were you when you first saw your brother's penis? How old were you when you recognized that it was erect and looked different from when it was not erect? What were your impressions of this at the time?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	I think I was like 6 or 7 when i saw his penis first. Mom was always kinda private about changing him. I was about 9 or 10 when i noticed it was hard. I wanted to know why. I also felt funny inside. I remember touching myself when I saw it hard.
susi	16	alex	14	my bro had erections during change as long as i can remember.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	I, was about age 5 yr. when I first saw my brother's pee-pee, and then saw it also erect, and alway erect there after, I thought it was funny, and cute, stiff and throbbing, down there, and as we touched it or his Diapers touched it he kooood, and giggled, he would rub it and the front of his Diapers. I, just knew it was his, most favorite special thing. I, as I, grew-up, changing his diapers, grew to know, (though I, don't think he has ever really known,) that he is Its, total and complete absolute slave.
Amy	18+	David	14	David's penis would stick straight out when the cold air hits it and sometimes he would pee. I could see it changing sizes when I had his diaper off and was rubbing cream on his area.
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	I was about 8 when I first saw his penis. I was about 12 when I first saw it erect. I kind of wondered why it was so big, but really was more curious about how it looked.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	I saw my brother's penis when I was 4 and he was 6. We took baths together. His penis wasn't erect then. I really didn't pay too much attention to it back then. I remember it just hung down from his tummy. Later when I watched mom diapering him his penis got erect and it was much larger than when we took baths together. I remember asking mom why this happened to my brother and she said that it makes boys feel good when you touch their penises. I thought like why would anybody really want to touch his penis. I started touching his penis in the bathtub and he got erect. I thought it was weird but I still liked to do it.
Traci	16	Joey	14	5 from what I remember when 1st seeing it and around when I was 8 when I noticed a difference on it being hard or not

How old were you when you wanted to know more about boys and their erections? Whom did you ask or find out from? How did the others who provided information present it to you? What were your impressions from that point?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	I was about 9 or 10 when I really wanted to know. I got a book in the library and read it in the corner sometimes. I asked a friend and we taked about it. She has a brother who was a year older and she told me about him. he diapers himself for bed, and she helped once. It made me feel great all over to talk about it with her. She said she gets wet in her vagina when she sees him change.
susi	16	alex	14	i started to change my bro by myself when i was about 9. before i have often watched my mom changing him. when i started to change him i also started to touch his erected penis to feel how it was. some day my mom told me that it is normal for boys to have frequent hard penis
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	I, was about age 8 yr. and it was when I, saw Thomas, age 12 yr. masturbated, by his Sister, on Diaper Change, I, then started to seeking every thing I, could about boys, erections, and Diapers, from, my Mother, and Aunt Josey, as well as other older girls, and also I, with their help from deeker.com All of the adults of the family, especially the women, all helped me to become the Advocate, that I, we, are; that All boys are "Inferior to All girls, and are 'Our, Diapered, and Diaper-using=Slaves'
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	I asked a friend of mine and she said that a boys penis gets big so he can have sex. I still didn't know what she ment.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	I was 7 when I became curious. I asked mom and she explained it to me. I saw my brother getting changed too and he always had an erection during the change. Mom would run baby oil or powder on him and she would run his penis too. Also me and my best friend talked about boys gettin erections. Her older brother was diapered too and her mom played with his penis too. Sometimes she diapered him and her mom told her to rub his penis too cause boys want you to do that when you diaper them.
Traci	16	Joey	14	8 or 9 and parents talked about it. Also from school and books. I like them they fascinate me

What do you think causes your brother to already have an erection before his diapers are even off?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	I think he likes diapers since he's allowed to use them whenever he wants. I think it makes him hard because of peeongin them.
susi	16	alex	14	he likes to be changed and cleaned
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	It is His, their Diapers, and both the feel and naturalness, of Diapers-being a boy thing, their genitals, ball-sack, and pee-pee, unlike a girls, are made for wearing Diapers, as their pee-pee, is open and constantly being rubbed and stimulated by their Diapers. Also, a boy has a lower class and made brain, as he is used and enjoys the feel of his pee and poop, along with the thick diaper holding it in and around his exposed pee-pee, inside his diapers. After a very short while, his Diapers are going to naturally keep him in near, no constant erection, as it is sexual to him...
Amy	18+	David	14	He masturbates alot - and in the morning when I come in to change him he's "going to town" in his crib. He masturbates when he first is layed down in his crib at night too.
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	He gets turned on by many things related to his diaper wearing. He has a woody alot. One time he always has an erection is when one of his freinds (boys) changes him.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	My brother likes to pee and poop in his diaper and when his diaper is loaded he always has an erection. He likes to play and rub his penis in his loaded diaper and that makes him get an erection. He usually is erect when I unpin his diaper to change him. I like to see his erect penis too.
Traci	16	Joey	14	Known he'z going to have it touched when cleaning

How did seeing your brother with erections aid your understanding of sex? Do you think you learned more and at an earlier age than other girls because of having a brother who wears diapers? Did the fact that he wears diapers cause you to think that his diapers were necessary for a boy to have an erection?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	I figured the sex thing out recently. now I understand what it gets hard for!
susi	16	alex	14	i had the luck to see my brothers genital developing and to regularry change him, to see how his penis is developing during puberty and to touch his erection during change. sometimes i play a little with him and he likes it when i do it.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Maybe, not necessary, but sure do cause a more constant erection, and sexual arousal, if he is diapered.
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	Eventually I learned what the penis was for and what sex was. I know I saw his erect penis for years before I knew about sex, so I guess I thought it was because of his wet diapers.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	I know that seeing my brother's penis changing him when I was 8 taught me earlier than most my friends about boys and sex. I felt that his diapers were the reason for him to be hard most of the time. My best friends feels the same way about her brother too and we always talk about seeing them both hard when we change them.
Traci	16	Joey	14	I learnd from him knowin what comes out of it and what it supposed to do.

Does your brother remain erect for the entire diaper change? What does he do after he is rediapered in regards to his erections?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	It's usually hard forthe change. Iasked him. He told me it stays hard for a while after, and he plays with it to get it to go down.
susi	16	alex	14	yes, he gets hard during whole change. sometimes he have ejaculation during cleaning then he gets soft. when he has erection in his diaper after changing he often masturbates
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Yes, he's erect before, during, and after, often the boys will Diaper-hump, one another. One every Diaper Change we girls masturbate the boys to ejaculation, (regardless of who's watching or there,)
amanda	18+	jamie	14	yes, he rubs it to get it down.
Amy	18+	David	14	When he's being sent to bed, I lay him down and change him in his crib and after I'm done changing him, he rolls over and humps himself into the mattress.
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	If he has a woody before the diaper change, he keeps it throughout the change. Sometimes he gets hard during the change. He always goes back to normal after his dry diaper is on and his pants are up.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	Usually he is erect when before he gets changes and stays erect during the whole duaper change. I usually have some sex play with him during the change like mostly masturbating him all the way. Sometime he masturbates by himself and I watch him doing it and then clean him up after he squirts sperms. After he is diapered he gets hard again and I can see his penis pushing out his diaper a little. He also plays with his penis through his diaper. Mom and me encourage him to masturbate in his diaper if he wants too.
Traci	16	Joey	14	He's hard thru the whole change, but to get the clean one on, we have to play with him to make it small agin

Explain why you would rather see your brother's erections through his diapers or see him in diapers that are too thick for his erections to show. If each is desired for their own reasons explain why:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	I like to see his erection, both in a diaper and not!
susi	16	alex	14	he just looks cute in his diapers
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	All explained above.
Amy	18+	David	14	If he's not wearing plastic pants, I can tell when he has erections because I know the tell-tale signs, but hopefully nobody else can, especially since he often is out in public in nothing but a diaper. If I have the diaper on too tight, I know he's sometimes uncomfortable when he gets erections.
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	I like seeing his erect penis, but I also like looking at a big bulging diaper too.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	Usually I like him to be thickly diapered because it makes him waddle more and he looks more like a baby than a teen. It makes me feel like I can rule over him more cause he's a diaper boy and has to always wear diapers and I don't have to wear any. But sometimes I still want to see his erect penis pushing out his diaper in the front cause I get excited myself looking at his hard penis in his diaper.
Traci	16	Joey	14	I like looking at him when hez hard. I think its realy cute

Before you fully understood sex what were your impressions of seeing your brother with erections? Did it amuse or surprise you? If so, how did it effect these feelings? How did your girl-friends react to seeing your brother with erections during diaper changes or when he was in diapers (pantsless)?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	it was amusing and funny at first. I didnt know why i liked it, but later i did. My girl friends had the same reactions, and we both liked watching our brothers change. they (brothers) were OK with it, and liked to see us change too.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Also, all explained above
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	The first time I saw his penis erect I was shocked. I didn't know why it was so big. My girlfriends saw his erect penis only a few times. They were more surprised that it was big in the first place than anything. I was older then and so were they, so we all knew about sex then.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	I thought it was weird too see his penis cause it was so different from my vagina. I could see everything on him and he couldn't see anything on me. It was weid that I could make his penis get hard so fast just by touching it. We did that a lot when we took baths together. My friends all thought it was so cool to see his hard penis too. All of them wanted to touch it and they like to play with his penis too. We all like to change him and still do.
Traci	16	Joey	14	We found it funny and my friends that dont have brothers woulf come to see what a boy looks like there insted of seein it in pictures

How do you think having erections during his diaper changes affected your brother's sexuality and his understanding and perceptions of sex? Do you think he would think and act differently in a sense of sexual understanding and behavior if he did not wear diapers beyond his toddler years?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	I think he gets hard a lot more often than if he didnt use diapers for bedwetting.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	I think his growing up 24/7 in Diapers, has made is erections and his reactions to his wearing and using Diapers, a very sexual thing, and that sexual, because most always all the boys he's ever with are also in Diapers, and with Diaper aroused erections, that he's, they, are gay, and have little interest in sex with girls, only boys and their being in Diapers, or naked with erection certainly, does add a whole lot to these boys.
Amy	18+	David	14	I really don't think he understands or has a knowledgeable connection to his erections.
Kristen	18+	Jason	17	He's bisexual. I think he would have been regardless of his diaper wearing or changing.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	Me and my brother are like so totally open about sex now and I feel that is cause his wears diapers and I change him. Maybe it would be different if he didn't like to wear diapers but I don't know. I know he likes me to change hom and play with his penis when I change him. I don't think this would have happened if he didn't wear diapers.

What are your parents' attitudes towards allowing you and your other siblings to understand the opposite sex and sex in general? How do you feel about such topics being discussed within and amongst family members? Do you think having a brother in diapers has aided this understanding and fostered more open-ness and thus healthier attitudes towards the topic of sex?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Lindsay	12	Marc	12	They told us if we understood it, it would be less of a curiosity to be explored improperly, and lead to something we didnt want. They were as open as we wanted them to be, within reason. My brother was open with me, and i was open with him. We didnt have sex, but played a couple times, and I think we both understand it better. now, even at about 13 years old, were cooll with each other, and get along better than other brothers and sisters.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	It is all explained above.
Dianne	13	Austin	15	Mom and our stepdad are totally cool about the way I change Austin and do sex things with him. We all are very open minded in my family about sex and sex topics and we usually discuss sex and other health subjects together. Mom has 2 friends who have boys that are in diapers too and they all have the same attitude about diapers and sex that we do. I wish more boys would wear diapers and their parents have the same attitude about diapers and sex that we do.
Traci	16	Joey	14	yes were open about it

Sister Name

Age

Brother Name

Age

Answer

Age Distribution- Sisters
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	0
11	0
12	0
13	1
14	0
15	2
16	1
17	0
18+	7

Age Distribution- Brothers
4	0
5	0
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	1
10	0
11	0
12	0
13	1
14	2
15	1
16	1
17	2
18+	3

Diaper Types
Single disposable diapers- plain white	9
Single disposable diapers- plain white	2
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored	4
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	2
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	0
Single cloth diapers- plain white	0
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored	3
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	1
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	1
Multiple underpants- plain white	0
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	2
Other makeshift diapers	2
Single plastic pants- plain	1
Single plastic pants- patterned/colored	1
Multiple plastic pants- plain	0
Percentage of brothers 18+ who only wore these diapers as a boy:	0.00%

Pantslessness
Always	3
Usually	6
Sometimes	4
Rarely	1
Never	0
Percentage of brothers 18+ who were reported as pantsless as a boy	0.00%

Diaper Usage
Pee	13
Poop	7
Percent of brothers 18+ whose diaper usage reported only as a boy	0.00%

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