Ask Deeker A Question (Responses)- November 2009

Question #1:  Is it weird that i rather have a father figure change my diaper instead of a women?

I don't think it's weird. Lots of people prefer to have a father figure change their diapers.

Question #2:  Do you wear diapers to bed?

All the time.

Question #1:  Did you have a happy Thanksgiving? I had a happy Thanksgiving

Yes, I did. I'm glad you had one as well. Bet you needed those diapers after eating all that food.

Question #1:  Are there baby style diapers for a 15-year-old-boy?

I doubt it. The market for such diapers would be too small for any major company to justify the expense of producing such a specialty.

Question #1:  Is it okay for 18-year-olds to wear diapers?

If it's okay for 52-year-olds (see question #346 below), then it's certainly okay for 18-year-olds.

Question #2:  Is it okay for older children to like diapers?

Lots of older boys like to wear diapers (probably more than what some will admit), and I see nothing wrong with it if the boy has a desire to wear diapers. Why is toilet training compulsory anyway?

Question #1:  When is the new C.R.I.B story going to be posted?

As soon as I get the motivation to continue it. It seems that a lot of people don't care for this story, so I am not exactly moved to put forth the effort.

Question #2:  What do you think the best type of diapers for a teenage boy are?

If I had it my way, I'd have all boys (preteen and teen) wear multi-layered plain white cloth diapers, but I concede that disposable diapers are the way things are these days, even in light of raised environmental and earth-friendly awareness. For looks, a plain white diaper is best, and the thicker, the better, not just for looks, but also for function.

Question #1:  I know that diapers are linked to my being aroused; The Question is, why would one single pair of white briefs trigger arrousal also?

It could be the white color being similar to diapers, or the tightness of the brief.

Question #1:  Would you like it if your dad changed your diaper instead of your mom?

I don't remember my dad ever changing my diapers. This was one of those things that I was used to my mother doing, and my father's approach would not have likely made me as comfortable.

Question #1:  How do you feel about a 52-yr-old male still wearing a diaper for comfort?

No different than how I'd feel about a 25-year-old still wearing diapers for comfort. I and a lot of other people who have yet to reach that age and beyond will eventually be 52-year-olds who all wear diapers for comfort. There's nothing wrong with being 20,30, or even 70 and liking to wear diapers. It's a desire that does not go away and is with you for life.

Question #1:  What if you met a woman that also wore diapers and she fell for you? Would you go out with her?

Assuming she wore diapers for recreational purposes, it would depend on how close we were. Being in the presence of a woman who wore diapers would completely shake my Deekerian foundations, though, and it would take a lot to accept and adapt to something such as this. We would have to have a solid and stable relationship.

Question #1:  Do you think diaper punishment should be enforced more by parents or sisters?

The wording of this question is ambiguous. First interpretation: Do you think that more parents and sisters should enforce diaper punishment? I think diaper discipline is a better alternative to spanking for a variety of reasons, so yes, I think they should enforce diaper discipline more. Second interpretation: Who do you think should enforce diaper discipline more, parents or sisters? If there are girls in the family I've always been in favor of having the parents delegate this duty to their daughters, whether or not they are older or younger than the brothers whom are being diaper disciplined. A girl of similar age and stature against her brother can be more effective in enforcing diaper discipline due to her role as an opposite-sex sibling and have the backing of her parents. A sister's role in enforcing diaper discipline allows her more freedom with her similarity in age to her brother, plus the fact that she is more impressionable at a young age. A girl who is put in charge of her brother in diaper discipling him can make a much greater impression on the boy.

Question #2:  Do you think stores should have free sample diapers for teens?

It would make things a lot easier for a lot of teens (and preteens)-- and me, since it would give me another way to advise teens who ask me such questions so frequently. While it may seem like a nice gesture on the part of the diaper manufacturers to provide free samples for those who may not be able to get diapers otherwise, no company is going to offer free samples for reasons other than the fact that they are counting on the free samples leading to a big enough increase in sales to justify the expense of the freebies. The only other reason might be done as a gesture of goodwill or to make the company look good to consumers as a generously philanthropic enterprise. If a company is willing to offer free diaper samples by targeting the preteen/teen market with such samples, I'm all for that, but if I were the CEO of such a company I wouldn't be willing to incur the possible losses from the throngs of desperate kids who continually rely on free samples to sate their diaper desires without ever actually buying such diapers.

Question #3:  Should girls always associate teen boys as diapered babies?

Only the cute girls. Seriously, though, it's never fair to make a blanket judgment against an entire group of people with a common demographic (e.g. all teen males) since not everyone within that group will fit such stereotypes. I know my stories my allude to such broad-brushed ideas, but one has to keep in mind that the Deekerian world (or Deekerverse) is a fictional construct and such thinking would not be possible or practical to implement in real life. There are a lot of boys who would just not be a proper fit for the Deekerian ideal (e.g. jocks, stoners). There really is no specific criteria to define an ideal Deekerian diaper boy, but those with a small stature, a weak demeanor and who are more socially vulnerable, awkward and inept are the best candidates, especially when they are at the mercy of their sisters.

Question #4:  What do you think of teen sports teams wearing diapers for extra protection?

I don't see anything wrong with this since diapers could provide some extra protection of a boy's jewels with the added benefit of not having to break way from the game to use the toilet. On the other hand, if boys who are athletically endowed (i.e. jocks) were to embrace the use of diapers on a large scale, it would in essence diminish the Deekerian value of diapers since I feel that diapers are reserved for boys who are socially deficient, as most boys who are involved in athletics tend to be popular and are confident enough about themselves that they could wear diapers and not compromise their social standing. If anything, in many settings such a gesture would only serve to mock the boys who are either forced to wear diapers due to medical needs or punishment, or for boys who have a diaper fetish and cannot help but want to wear diapers.

Question #1:  Which diapers do you think are thicker, Pull-Ups, Underjams, Goodnites?

Dunno. I've never had the opportunity to make a comparison.

Question #1:  How would you feel about a diaper story based on videogame characters? (i.e. Mario, Luigi, Link, Kirby, etc.)

Honestly, I'd probably not feel too enthusiastic about such a story. Video game characters just don't fit well in the fanfic realm. Their existing environments and their roles are not conducive or adaptable to a diaper-esque theme.

Question #1:  My mom is going to start letting me wear diapers every time we go out but not to school. She said that it would be all right if she had her little boy back! She's even letting me wear the Huggies pull ups, too, which are my favorite. You were a great help!

Fantastic! Glad to be of help. Perhaps you can submit a True Account to detail your success story! Since you have sisters, be sure to mention them and any reactions to and/or roles that they had in you wearing diapers.

Question #2:  Now that I wear diapers do you have any tips on wearing diapers in public? When we go out my mom stays out a long time,and I like to show them off, and I do have to change my own diaper. Any tips around those areas?

You�re lucky to have a mom who will let you wear diapers in the first place. You will be envied by many. I�d make sure your mom is okay with you letting your diapers show when in public. If you can show off your diapers, I think you can figure out ways to do this on your own. As for changing your diapers, I�m not sure what kinds of tips you are seeking.

Question #1:  Do you wear diapers to feel like a baby?

I wear diapers to reminisce upon and vicariously relive my boyhood years, but not to feel like a completely dependent baby.

Question #1:  I really want to wear diapers again, and I think my chances are kind of good and bad. My mom is taking my four-year-old brother out of them, and my mom and my dad are getting a divorce so it will be easier to get my mom to buy them for me because I know my dad would say no. and I'll have to start watching my brother and sister while my mom works so there will be more money in the house. So how do I tell my mom that I want to wear diapers again?

Either your chances overall are good, so-so, or bad, or some other level in between. Perhaps you meant that your circumstances favor you in some ways, but not in other ways. As tough as it may sound, the pending divorce may work in your favor since the stress of the divorce may have an impact on your brother and cause him to regress, and you, too, could use this as an excuse (but don�t acknowledge to her that you are regressing as many regressors are not always aware of their behavior being an indication of regression). I�m not suggesting that you exacerbate any extenuating circumstances for the divorce, so let it run its course as your parents decide to handle it. If you will be living with your mother after the divorce this sounds like it will work in your favor.

Question #1:  I need help. I want to wear diapers, and I want to poop my pants, but I am afraid I would get caught. If I did, I would get in big trouble! Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whoa! Easy on the exclamation points there, fella. What if there was a shortage? You need to choose a time and a place when you are least likely to get caught. If you do get caught and get into trouble, that a risk that you have to assume and take respomsibility for. Only you can determine which elements (e.g. presence of family members, household environment) could most likely work against you and then work around them. Develop a plan that optimizes your opportunities and allows for you to dispose of any incriminating evidence.