How often does your brother complain about his diapers?

Number of responses received: 19

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
All of the time	4	22.2%
Most of the time	4	22.2%
Some of the time	4	22.2%
Little of the time	5	27.8%
None of the time	1	5.6%
Total:	18

For which reasons does your brother complain about his diapers? (Section 1 of 3)

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Because he has to wear them in the first place	11	57.9%
Because he is being punished with them	4	21.1%
Because he has to wear diapers without pants	7	36.8%
Because they are too thick	10	52.6%
Because they leak	7	36.8%
Because they are smelly	3	15.8%
Because he wants to be changed	8	42.1%
Because he can't use the toilet	4	21.1%
Because he can't wear regular underwear	8	42.1%
Because he's the only one in diapers	10	52.6%
Because only the boys wear diapers in our house	1	5.3%
Because his diapers are uncomfortable	7	36.8%
Because I laugh at him or tease him	10	52.6%
Because others tease and laugh at him	9	47.4%
Because diapers are too babyish to him	13	68.4%
Because they look too plain (white only)	3	15.8%

For which reasons does your brother complain about his diapers? (Section 2 of 3)

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Because he has been wearing them for too long	9	47.4%
Because he can't invite his friends over	6	31.6%
Because I see him in his diapers	11	57.9%
Because my sisters see him in his diapers	4	21.1%
Because my other brothers see him in his diapers	5	26.3%
Because my friends see him in his diapers	11	57.9%
Because his friends see him in his diapers	4	21.1%
Because other boys see him in his diapers	5	26.3%
Because other girls see him in his diapers	8	42.1%
Because I have to see him naked when he is changed	10	52.6%
Because I have to touch his genitals	7	36.8%
Because I have to touch his butt	6	31.6%
Because they make it harder for him to sleep	4	21.1%
Because they embarrass him	14	73.7%
Because they sexually arouse him against his will	3	15.8%
Because they make it harder for him to masturbate	1	5.3%

For which reasons does your brother complain about his diapers? (Section 3 of 3)

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Because they make him waddle	9	47.4%
Because they make his butt stick out (pantsless)	6	31.6%
Because they come up so high (pantless)	4	21.1%
Because they show through his pants	7	36.8%
Because they show above his pants	5	26.3%
Because they give him diaper rash	10	52.6%
Because they irritate his skin (other than rash)	6	31.6%
Because they aren't the kind he'd rather wear	3	15.8%
Because they draw my attention to him	9	47.4%
Because they make too much noise	11	57.9%
Because they take too long to be changed	6	31.6%
Because of the problems they cause in school	4	21.1%
Because nobody wants to be his friend	6	31.6%
Because he can't host or go to sleepovers	9	47.4%
Because they limit his ability to leave the house	7	36.8%
Because they limit his activities (e.g. sports)	7	36.8%

Does your brother complain more or less than he used to complain about his diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Much more	1	5.6%
More	6	33.3%
Less	0	0.0%
Much less	5	27.8%
About the same	6	33.3%
He never complains	0	0.0%
Total:	18

Is your brother punished if he complains?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Always	7	41.2%
Usually	1	5.9%
Sometimes	5	29.4%
Rarely	2	11.8%
Never	2	11.8%
Total:	17

To whom does your brother complain about his diapers (other kids)?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Me	18	94.7%
Another sister	5	26.3%
Another brother	2	10.5%
Boy cousins	2	10.5%
Girl cousins	4	21.1%
His boy-friends	3	15.8%
His girl-friends	2	10.5%
His girlfriend	2	10.5%
My friends	3	15.8%
Another sister's friends	1	5.3%
Another brother's friends	0	0.0%
Boy babysitters (17 and under)	1	5.3%
Girl babysitters (17 and under)	9	47.4%
Other boys	1	5.3%
Other girls	2	10.5%

To whom does your brother complain about his diapers (adults)?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Mother	13	68.4%
Father	7	36.8%
Grandmother	5	26.3%
Grandfather	4	21.1%
Aunt	5	26.3%
Uncle	2	10.5%
Male babysitter (18 or older)	2	10.5%
Female babysitter (18 or older)	7	36.8%
Other man	0	0.0%
Other woman	1	5.3%

How do you deal with your brother's complaints about his diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Help solve the problem for him (depending on what it is)	5	26.3%
Ignore him	6	31.6%
Use a distraction aid (e.g. headphones/music)	2	10.5%
Tell him to shut up	8	42.1%
Tell him to leave the room	6	31.6%
I leave the room myself	5	26.3%
Listen but show no sympathy	5	26.3%
Listen sympathetically	4	21.1%
Punish him myself	9	47.4%
Tattle on him	7	36.8%

In which ways is your brother punished for complaining about his diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Spanked	11	57.9%
Verbally scolded	8	42.1%
Grounded	5	26.3%
Diaper time extended	8	42.1%
Diapers thickened	8	42.1%
Pants taken away	7	36.8%
Pantsless time extended	5	26.3%
Diaper changes delayed	11	57.9%
Sent to his room	9	47.4%

List and describe your brother's most common complaints about his diapers:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	In the past, before they, learned for real the consequences of complaining, their greatest complains, were they wear grown boys and to old to wear and use diapers, and then they also complained about having absolutely No Say in the matter of being in and using daipers, and their shame and embarrassment about being in diapers and having to be changed and naked by our girl-friends.
June	16	David	13	He thinks he shouldn't wear them cuse theyre baby diapers and he think he should wear soemthing more mature
susi		no name given		everybody laughs at me, everyone at my class picks on me, i dont have any friends cause of this, i look so dumb
Angie	9	Bobby	10	They crinkle. They're babyish. They're hot. He has to stay in the house.
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	These make me look like a baby.
Amy	18+	David	15	He says he's not a baby but of course he still is mentally. He cries when we pick out packages of diapers at the store even though he's usually wearing just a diaper. He doesn't like to go to the nursery at church because we usually take him wearing just a diaper and the other babies are wearing clothes over their diapers - so he thinks he's the only one in diapers.
Stacey	11	Ryan	15	He complains that the neighbor kids who are 3 and 4 are always teasing him about his diapers and they are big kids

Describe how you usually deal with your brother when he complains about his diapers:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	I usually tell their dad or grandparent their complaining and then their delt with and punished Spanked by them and I, decide on my part of their punishment.
June	16	David	13	Say that there perfect for him because he acts like a baby all the time and hes too old to wet the bed i also say if he doesn't shut up ill tell his friends
susi		no name given		i just ignore hi, or if he is complining about that he wants a diaper change i will tell my mom or stepfather to change him or even to our other brother
Angie	9	Bobby	10	I just tell him it's his own fault. He's grounded and has to wear diapers.
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	Well, then stop acting like one.
Amy	18+	David	15	We try to tell him that his diapers are nothing to be ashamed of and that he can't help it. We tell him things like someday we'll show him how to use the potty.
Stacey	11	Ryan	15	I say "who is the one in sagging diaper?"

Describe how your other sisters usually deal with your brother when he complains about his diapers:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Same as mine above.
June	16	David	13	we dont have others
Amy	18+	David	15	pretty much the same way.
Stacey	11	Ryan	15	give him a pacifier or bottle

Describe how your other brothers usually deal with your brother when he complains about his diapers:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Their all in diapers too
June	16	David	13	we dont have others
susi		no name given		he always laughs at him and teases him making him cry
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	Same As me
Stacey	11	Ryan	15	ignore him

Describe how your parents usually deal with your brother when he complains about his diapers:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Again remind them that they are Diaper-boys- slaves, and they don't have any say in the matter, then they punish the boy or boys...
June	16	David	13	they say that he still has to wear them cuse they still fit and are cheepest and if he keeps it up they punish him, sometimes make him put them on before bed earlier
susi		no name given		they help him and try to make him feel better.
Angie	9	Bobby	10	Mom will usually ignore him or tell him it's his own fault but sometimes sends him to his room or the corner.
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	Everything they can possibly think to do.
Amy	18+	David	15	Pretty much just ignore him - mom says she doesn't think he can stay dry long enough to use the potty.
Stacey	11	Ryan	15	spank him or put him in th corner or change or check him in front of others

Describe how tolerant others are of your brother's complaints. In other words, at what point do his complaints cross the line? Is it based on the complaint itself, how vocal or persistent he is about it, etc.?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	As stated above, the adults, rule and told the boys they are Diaper-boys, and have no say, so their complaints ever are immediately delt with.
June	16	David	13	mom and dad dont let him talk about it much
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	His point croos the line everytime because he always acts like a baby.
Amy	18+	David	15	If he throws a temper tantrum - we'll try to ignore him.

Why does your brother complain more or complain less about his diapers than he used to?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Everything
June	16	David	13	more cuse hes older and thinks hes too old
susi		no name given		cuase now he is 15 and he'll like to have friends
Angie	9	Bobby	10	He's been complaining the same all summer.
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	Dunno
Amy	18+	David	15	I think he's just starting to realize that he's different than others.
Stacey	11	Ryan	15	more i think, he say i am 16 and i am treated like a toddler, i say does baby need his diaper changed, he is cranky

Which complaints are you most apt to address or help your brother with, and under what circumstances are you more likely to help him with these matters?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	Skin brake down, Diaper-rash, those are the only lagitamate complaints
susi		no name given		changing him or when he gets home crying cuase they played a prank on him at school
Angie	9	Bobby	10	None
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	NONE!!!
Amy	18+	David	15	Well, he needs his diapers, so we just can't really help him there.
ANNA	18+	DAVY	13	if he is poopy then i change him within 1/2 hour, otherwise he can wait

Which complaints are you least apt to address or help your brother with, and under what circumstances are you more likely to not help him with these matters?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	All others as talked about above
June	16	David	13	dont help him at all
susi		no name given		when he says they are really noisy
Angie	9	Bobby	10	I don't let it bother me.
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	Everything
ANNA	18+	DAVY	13	if his diapers are to tight or wet

Describe how your brother has been punished for complaining or complaining too much about his diapers:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Patti, & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, Cousins, Byron, & Timothy	14	I, set up for my girl-friends and my sisters- girlfriends, to come over and join in on punishment of the boys, I, always watch and tease as their dad, or grandpa, spanks them, bare butt naked.
June	16	David	13	had to put them on earlier, mom and dad have to put them on him, he has to wear locking pants, gets grounded
susi		no name given		my parents make him go to his room without having dinner, or they just make him go around the house in just his diapers
Angie	9	Bobby	10	Spanked, sent to his room or corner.
babysitterkimi	12	Stephen	10	He gets spanking and then has to be is a stroller for the rest of the day.

Age Distribution- Sisters
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	0
11	0
12	0
13	1
14	0
15	2
16	1
17	0
18+	7

Age Distribution- Brothers
4	0
5	0
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	1
10	0
11	0
12	1
13	1
14	1
15	1
16	1
17	2
18+	3

Diaper Types
Single disposable diapers- plain white	10
Single disposable diapers- plain white	7
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored	3
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	3
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	5
Single cloth diapers- plain white	4
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored	10
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	7
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	1
Multiple underpants- plain white	0
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	4
Other makeshift diapers	5
Single plastic pants- plain	2
Single plastic pants- patterned/colored	1
Multiple plastic pants- plain	0

Pantslessness
Always	8
Usually	4
Sometimes	2
Rarely	4
Never	0

Diaper Usage
Pee	18
Poop	15

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