THE GIRL'S GUIDE TO DEEKERIANISM
(formerly titled “The Girls Guide to Diapering
Boys")
Revised July 20, 2008
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Introduction
The
following is an ongoing work that is subject to frequent updates, revisions and
additions. At times some material may be deleted. Please be sure to refer to
this document often to look for new or changed information.
While
the information contained in this document is a serious work and all of the
ideas expressed in it are a genuine reflection my true feelings about the roles
Girls should play in the lives of diaper-wearing boys, it is not expected for
anyone who reads this information to actually put all or any of these ideas
contained herein into practice. Many of these ideas would require considerable
expense and parental approval, and would likely represent significant changes
to a family’s lifestyle. The ideas presented here would be best implemented by
families with an existing infrastructure that allows for the use of diapers by
the boys in such families.
The
ideas expressed in this document are a product of my view of how I would like
to have experienced my boyhood in hopes that other boys could enjoy the same
experiences.
This
document makes frequent references to “Deekerianism”.
A forthcoming detailed article on Deekerianism will
be published (no projected completion date, so don’t ask). For now, it is
important to understand that “Deekerianism” is NOT a
religion or cult, nor is it by any means an attempt to establish a religion,
cult or any sort of societal unit. I am not setting out to make money off of or
to exploit a group of gullible followers. I am not a god by any means and I
certainly do not expect or even wish to be worshipped as one. I am a God-fearing
mere mortal like everyone else.
To
understand what Deekerianism is, it is nothing more
than a fictional
universe. It is a representation of a worldview as I would like to see it.
Some of my friends have referred to it as “The Deekerverse”.
In the Deekerverse, a select group of boys live their
lives such that they are completely indulgent of their diapers with the aid of
their Sisters, who in turn indulge in the sight of their diapered brothers and
in the handling of their diapers, including changing their diapers, washing,
drying and folding them. These boys and their Sisters are completely immersed
in these pleasures. The Deekerian worldview is portrayed in the Stories and the Drawings that I have created.
The
reason I say that the Deekerverse only applies to
“select boys” is because I recognize that if all boys went around in diapers all the time then they would not be
recognized as being different or special from the ordinary boys. Only an
arbitrarily small percentage of boys and their Sisters in the Deekerverse are recognized as Deekerians
by their continuous devotion to their diapers. The rest of the world sees them
as freaks, but they do not care.
The
original title of this document was “The Girls Guide to Diapering Boys”. The
title was changed because this article covers more than just diapering boys. It
covers the other aspects of how the ideal Deekerian Sister should behave and
act in the presence of her brother and how she should handle other matters as
they pertain to her brother, her family members, her friends and others whom
she comes in contact with,
This
document has undergone a significant re-write since its original creation back
in January of 2002, remaining unchanged since this time. Having taken another
look at it, I realized it was sorely in need of several revisions. In addition
to adding new ideas that have developed since then, I took out the previous
introduction on why boys should wear diapers and why Girls should be the ones
to keep them in diapers. While some of this information was based on cited
facts, a lot of this information was admittedly propagandistic and it read more
like a crazed zealot’s manifesto more than anything else. The information was
presented as if to be factual, but in reality was based on nothing more than my
own personal notions.
This
is not to say that I reject these notions. I still ardently hold them true to
my heart, and when I write the forthcoming article on Deekerianism
I will present this information again, but only in a form that reflects it as
my own philosophies. The original document was written in the midst of my excitement
over having recently at the time established contact with a family whose ideals
and practices are nearly 100% Deekerian.
Target
Audience
While anyone is welcome to read this article (not that I
could really stop anyone from doing so anyway). It is intended
for Girls ages 8 and up. Some of the words used in this article may be beyond
the vocabulary level of a young Girl (or boy), but this is how young readers
build their vocabularies, after all. There are some sexual references that some
may find to be inappropriate for such a readership, but these remarks have been
kept to a level that I feel is acceptable for a prepubescent reader as many
children at this age at least have some vague notions of sexuality that will
further come into focus in the coming formidable years of their young lives.
You should
read this article in its entirety if you are the following:
Please
also feel free to share this information with your parents as you will need
their help to supply you with the necessary resources for providing your
brother with the Deekerian Diaper Boy Experience.
*It is assumed that you, the Girl do NOT wear diapers
yourself and you have absolutely no need or desire to do so, and neither do any
of the Girls to whom you provide this information.
Notes
For
your brother to be diapered in a truly Deekerian
sense, Cloth diapers are very strongly recommended as they offer a
multitude of advantages over disposable diapers:
You
might be reluctant to use cloth diapers because of concerns involving laundry
and the hassles associated with washing, folding, pinning, to say nothing of
the smells generated by keeping such diapers around the house waiting to be
washed. This is understandable. This can be used to your advantage as well if
you use a clothes line that is conspicuous to neighbors and passersby. Also,
let the foul smell be a constant reminder to your brother that he is the one
that made them stinky.
You
also may be unfamiliar with how to fold cloth diapers. They are many ways a
cloth diaper can be folded. Some are even prefolded
or made in a contour fashion. If you use flat diapers that require folding, a
simple Google search will yield dozens of hits to useful web sites. Disregard
the fact that most of the sites you visit will assume that you are diapering a
baby. These instructions work just as well on your brother, no matter how big
he is. The only difference is scale. Feel free to experiment with different
folding methods and use the one that looks the best on your brother and is also
the most effective.
In
a word: WHITE! Say it out loud with feeling several times. While diapers come
in several colors and patterns and they may look cute on your brother, nothing
screams "DIAPERS!" louder and more prominently than a plain
white-as-snow diaper wrapped thickly around a boy's butt. When you see your
brother bending over to take a big dump in his diapers, there is no mistaking
all that thick white fabric on his butt for diapers. Colors other than white
tend to detract from the basic essence of a diaper's function and from a
distance could possibly be mistaken for shorts or swimwear (which is why Little
Swimmers are frowned upon in the Deekerian world). Furthermore, your brother
will get the idea that he has any sort of choice when it comes to the
appearance of his diapers. The same thing goes for plastic pants. They should
be made of a frosty-white translucent material. Colors are not necessary here,
either.
If You Must
Use Disposable Diapers
If
the cost and the trouble of obtaining and handling cloth diapers is not for you and you would rather use disposable diapers,
don’t despair. The Deekerian world understands that the majority of diapers
used today are disposables. Disposable diapers are perfectly acceptable in Deekerianism, so long as they are:
Plastic
pants worn with disposable diapers are optional, but are recommended.
Disposable
diapers are more effective when worn in multiples if you take the time to poke
holes in the exterior of the diaper’s surface. These holes should run the
entire length of the diaper from front to back.
It
is also recommended that disposable diapers (at least the outermost diaper) be
secured with clear, wide mailing tape, wrapped all the way around the boy’s
body at least three times, with each pass covering a different portion of the
diapers with minimal overlap and optimum surface coverage.
A Word on Goodnites
Simply
put, Goodnites (and similar products) are not recognized
as diapers in Deekerianism. As they are marketed as
such, they are only intended to be worn as relatively thin, inconspicuous
undergarments that “disappear under pajamas”. They are only intended for
bedwetting and, according to several reports from this site’s Diaper Ratings,
they are not designed for and not suited for containing bowel movements. Their
purpose and design violate several Deekerian tenets. They barely passed for diapers
by Deekerian standards back when they were plain white. They are not suitable
for use in multiples, and the range of sizes available and the design of the
garment do not adequately allow for multiples to be worn. Now that they come
with designs printed on them and even come in a boxer shorts variety, they are
completely off the list as far as diapers are concerned and are not at all
recommended for Deekerian diapering.
In
addition to whiteness, there are four other essential requirements for a diaper
boy's diapers: BIG, THICK, HIGH-RISING, AND MULTIPLE! The goal of
diapering your boy, among other things, is to make them as absolutely as big
and thick as you possibly can. Discreetness is certainly not the goal here,
quite the opposite, in fact. This is achieved by using multiple diapers made
from thick materials and folding them into many layers. How many diapers you
use is limited only by the amount that you can get to fit on him. As a minimum,
six diapers should be used, but much more than this is what is encouraged. You
should have diapers available in several larger sizes that you can fit over the
smaller (but still big) diapers he has on underneath. Larger diapers that rise
up high on your brother's body are a must, too, both for their added
conspicuousness and for their added capacity. It’s not like your brother is
going to be concerned about his diapers showing above his pants (he won’t be
wearing any, more on this below) Listed below are ten reasons for why a diaper
boy's diapers should always be so big and thick:
(1) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers stand out very prominently. You
don't want him to be able to hide his diapers from view. No matter how he sits,
stands lies down, or whatever, you should always be able to see his
diapers. His diapers should remain fully visible at all times!
This is so that every time you look at him, you will undoubtedly notice his
diapers first thing. You will immediately be reminded of what he uses his
diapers for and most of all, it will make you all the more glad that, as a Girl,
you do not have to wear diapers or deal with the messes and the smells that
diaper boys must deal with. Unlike him, you will be able to ruminate upon all
the freedoms and choices that you still have by not wearing diapers yourself.
You will certainly enjoy gazing at his nonstop diapered state and find him to
be look quite cute in his diapers. Over time, you will automatically associate your
brother and by extension, all boys in general, with diapers, especially if you
are a young Girl (10 or under) and more highly impressionable.
(2) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers draw even more attention to themselves
(and the parts of the body they cover) and, of course, the purposes for which
they are worn. When you look at your brother, you want to note his torso first
thing if you are looking at him from the front, or his
butt if you are looking at him from behind. Making his diapers thicker makes
these areas of his body stand out even more and impossible to ignore. Likewise,
they call further attention to the functions that his body performs in these
areas, and you will want to be constantly reminded of this as well.
(3) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers prohibit the
use of pants, in which their absence helps to fulfill the first two purposes.
Pants are strictly forbidden in Deekerianism (except
where and when absolutely needed, at which times such provisions are to be
absolutely minimal) and the use of thicker diapers conveniently makes them
impossible for a diaper boy to wear.
(4) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers have a greater capacity so they can
hold more pee and poop and be worn for longer periods of time. This is
especially true for diapers that rise up higher on the boy’s body.
(5) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers have a greater capacity allow for
fewer diaper changes, but when diaper changes are performed, they last longer.
You won’t be inconvenienced by having to change your brother’s diapers several
times a day. When it does come time to change his diapers, it will take longer
and your brother will be able to savor it better. It will take more time for
you to remove all the diaper pins (or tape) and all the diapers you put on him.
You will spend more time cleaning up the larger mess that he has left for you.
This means that he will be treated to more wiping of his butt and balls, which
he will likely enjoy very much. He will (eventually, if not now) love watching
you put diaper after diaper after diaper on him, along with each diaper pin
that you add to his increasingly thick diapers.
(6) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers offer some degree of odor
control by being thicker and keeping smells contained. While no amount of
diapers can completely trap in the noxious and inevitable odors of pee and
poop, at least when he has more diapers on there is more material to absorb
these odors. Such diapers also muffle his farts and absorb the gas.
(7) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers lessen the chances for unsightly and
messy leakage to occur. Your brother is going to sit in the same places you
also sit, such as the couch or the kitchen table. You might even share the same
bed with him. You want to be assured that no matter where he goes, you won’t end up getting any of his pee or poop on your
clothes. Also, you’d rather look at his thickly padded rump without having to
look at the brown, poopy mess that lies so securely beneath all that thick white
diaper material. You might enjoy the mystery of wondering whether or not his
diapers are clean, but never knowing because his diapers are too thick to allow
for any visual detection.
(8) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers further
reinforce his use of diapers. The more diapers he has on, the more difficult it
is going to be for him to get them all off if, for any reason, especially in
the early stages of his permanently diapered state, he decides to attempt using
the toilet. This reason works well when you combine it with the use of excessive
diaper pins, which is covered down below.
(9) Bigger,
thicker, high-rising multiple diapers open up new possibilities for having
fun with your brother. You can challenge yourself to seeing just how many
diapers you can get your brother to wear. You can determine how long he can go
without a diaper change and test other limits of his extreme diapers. If you
have more than one diaper boy, you can engage them in contests to see which one
of them stays in his diapers the longest without a change.
(10) Bigger, thicker,
high-rising multiple diapers will force your brother to waddle. You
will certainly enjoy observing how difficult it will be for your brother to
walk in a normal fashion. He may even resort to crawling. Also, you will notice
that every time he sits he has to keep his legs wide apart and keep his
diapered crotch in view. He will not be able to bring his knees together to
attempt hiding his diapers.
Some
Disadvantages to Using Multiple Diapers on Your Diaper Boy
As
with most things in life, with the advantages come disadvantages, and
admittedly, there are some such disadvantages to using multiple diapers on your
brother. They are listed here to bring your awareness to them and so that you
can hopefully overcome them.
(1) Longer, less frequent diaper changes: Some Girls
enjoy performing frequent diaper changes on their brothers and may be put off
by having to spend so much time removing several diapers and diaper pins and
then putting them back on again.
(2) Hiding evidence of diaper usage: Some Girls
like to see when a boy has peed and pooped his diapers, either for practical
purposes, for her amusement, or both.
(3) Additional expense/storage space: Obviously,
having to use more diapers means having to keep a greater supply of diapers
available. The idea of using multiple diapers may not sit well with families on
tight budgets. Even if cost is not an issue, storage space might be.
(4) Hiding erections: Some Girls like to see when their
brothers are sexually aroused in their diapers (knowing that most often it’s
the diapers themselves that cause these erections). Extra thick diapers obscure
the most aroused erections of even the most well-endowed
post-pubescent boys.
You
should always use as many diaper pins as possible on your brother
and you should have a very abundant supply of them. The more pins
you use the tighter you can make his diapers. More diaper pins will make
it more difficult for him to remove his diapers should he decide to try taking
them off so he can use the toilet. Please note that larger diapers that go up
higher can accommodate more diaper pins, too. Each diaper used should be pinned
up as much as possible. At the very least, the outermost diaper should contain
the most diaper pins. At least six diaper pins on each side makes a pretty strong
statement about how much you want your brother to remain in his diapers. You
can even use diaper pins with his shirt, which is explained farther down. Diaper
pins with either metallic or plain white heads are recommended for the same
reasons that white diapers are recommended. Lastly, get the largest diaper pins
you can find. Larger diaper pins will be able to penetrate thicker diapers more
easily.
Three
words: NO! NO! NO! One of the first
and foremost privileges that your brother should never, ever have
is the choice to wear pants or shorts! Not wearing pants over diapers is one of
the fundamental tenets of Deekerianism. If he is the
type of boy who likes to wear the latest labels and brands of jeans, he should
especially not be entitled to this privilege. A diaper boy should have no
fashion conscience at all. To him, his sense of fashion should be strictly
limited to how he looks in his diapers, period. No Levi's, no Dockers, no Old
Navy, nothing! Diapers generally do not distinguish themselves from one
another by their brands. If your brother does have a preference for a certain
brand of diaper, however, allow him to wear it so long as it meets the criteria
stated above.
At
the same time, your brother will always know that any time you see him, you see his diapers, too. He knows that any attempt to
cover himself will be utterly futile and quickly
learns to accept letting you see him in his diapers. He knows that his diapers
are inseparably integrated with his identity as himself and as a representative
of all boykind. He knows that you will always think
of diapers synonymously when you think of him. He knows that he cannot escape
from the fact you associate him with the way he has to release his bodily
wastes into his diapers where they will all remain and accumulate, reeking of
foul odors, until his diapers are changed by you! Most of all, he learns to accept the fact that he, as a boy,
should remain in diapers. He will likely learn to enjoy this most significant
and wholly exclusive aspect of his boyhood. As a Girl, it gives you plenty of
reasons to feel good about yourself as well as you gain complete control over
your brother.
But
in order for all of the principles stated above to become more effective, with your
brother, you must eliminate his pants completely! Letting him
wear pants or even shorts masks his diapers and, more significantly, his
identity with diapers. Since you wear pants and likely wear shorts, too, you
don't want his available choices of attire to blend with yours in any way at
all. His diapers and your pants are to be as distinct as night and day. You
don't wear diapers; he doesn't wear pants. The relationship between the two is to
be perfectly mutually exclusive.
While
shorts (at least the older styles that boys used to wear) provide for more leg
exposure-— an important characteristic of Deekerian diaper boys— they still
cover up the diapers, and you want the diapers to show. Completely.
For a boy who does wear pants (any boy, not your brother), when you look at him
you likely do not think about how he eliminates his wastes and you probably
don’t give much thought to what he is wearing in general unless he has had an
accident in his pants (which is common for boys) you don't anticipate that he
will smell bad, either, and the thought may not even cross your mind in this
instance.
Now,
if you look at a boy in diapers, the principles stated above will likely immediately
and prominently come to the forefront of your mind and all at once you will be
reminded of all the things that you have learned to associate with your brother.
You look at his diapers and, upon immediately recognizing that he is in
diapers, (it bears repeating) you cannot help but to think about what he is
forced to do in his diapers. As a specific example, it is impossible to
look at a boy's white thickly diapered-up butt and not also think about him
pooping in them along with the foul odors that his pooping inevitably produces.
This is the very thought process that you want to establish when you look at your
brother.
Fortunately,
prohibiting your brother from wearing any pants is easy to enforce. Simply put
enough diapers on him to make them too thick for any pants to fit. Making his diapers
extra thick serve many other purposes, too, all of which were explained in
detail above.
If
the circumstances are such that your brother is no longer going to ever need
pants again, especially if he is going to be home-schooled, for example, you
have several options for disposing of them entirely, and in this case, you
should. If you think his soon-to-no-longer-be-his pants might fit you and he
hasn’t tainted them with his pee and poop or his excessive flatulence, go ahead
and claim them as your own. While Girls' fashions do not reciprocate for boys,
boys' apparel, however, can also be worn by Girls and look just as fashionable.
Perhaps your Sisters, Girl cousins, or your friends
could use them.
DON'T
GIVE THEM TO ANY BOYS! You don't want your brother to see that his old pants are
going to one of his fellow young males. If you are unable to dispense of his
pants in this manner, you can always donate them to Goodwill, the Salvation
Army or some other charitable organization. Granted, you run at least a 50%
risk of his old pants going to a boy, but at least your brother will never know
what becomes of what were once his pants.
The
above suggestion assumes that his old pants are clean enough for you or another
Girl to wear. Often times, however, a boy has had many accidents in his pants
and has left behind indelible pee and poop stains. It would be far beneath a Girl's dignity for her to be seen wearing
such soiled pants or for her to carry suspicious odors from wearing pants that
have evidence of one's inability to retain bodily wastes until such a time a
toilet was available. Such pants need to be destroyed at once! Either burn them
or mutilate them beyond wearability as your brother
may later try to retrieve them from the trash.
If
you do burn, shred or otherwise destroy his pants, make a formal ceremony of
it. Have everyone in the family present. Invite friends as well. Gather up all
of your brother’s pants, and be sure to also get his shorts, swimming trunks,
underwear (white briefs excepted, the reasons why will
be explained later on) and pajama bottoms, and carry them in a bag to the
intended location for their destruction. Do not let your brother carry his own
pants; you and/or one of your Sisters should have this honor instead. Decide
ahead of time how the pants will be destroyed. If they are to be incinerated,
have a designated fuel bearer carry the fuel and maybe have this same person
apply this accelerant. If a stick or torch is used, have one ready to go ahead
of time. Bring cameras and be sure to get photographs and video shots (which
can be posted to Youtube).
When Your
Brother Needs to Wear Pants
In
a perfect Deekerian world, a diaper boy would never wear pants. In fact, he
would never even own a pair of pants. Everywhere he went— school, church, the
mall, the airport, doctor appointments, the supermarket, even formal events
such as weddings and funerals— he would be in his diapers only. Weather would
not be a factor, and if it was too cold he’d have to remain indoors. Such is
the life of a diaper boy.
Since
Deekerianism recognizes that such a scenario is not
realistic, it concedes that a need for a diaper boy to wear pants is at times
inevitable. These times, however, can and should be kept to an absolute barely
provisional minimum.
At
the very least you should lock your brother’s pants away in a trunk or other
receptacle. Use a padlock (use two or more locks for good measure if possible),
and make sure he can never get a hold of the key. As a good gesture to your
brother, have on some tight-fitting jeans. Let him see you tuck the key deep
down into your back pocket. Push it down all the way. As he is watching you do
this, he will be staring at your tight pants and decidedly diaperless
derriere and this will further remind him of what makes you, a Girl, different
from him. By seeing where the key is, this will relieve him of the temptation
to look for it, but at the same time will also let him know that since it is on
you, he will have no way of ever getting it. When you go to bed and change into
your nightwear, be sure to remove the key from your pants pocket unless and put
it in a safe location so that at night he cannot sneak into your room and take
it. Better yet, if you can lock your bedroom door and don’t share the same
bedroom with him, then do so. When you change pants, always be sure to take the
key out of the pocket of the dirty pair and transfer it to the clean pair.
Again, let your brother watch you do this.
Even
if your brother has a minimal need for wearing pants, he may not need to have
any pants of his own. He can borrow your pants if (with his diapers on) they
will fit him and aren’t too Girlish for him to wear. Don’t worry about him
getting pee and poop in your pants, as he will be diapered. He will, however,
likely have to wear thinner diapers to allow pants to fit. Since his diapers
will at best be partially exposed, there’s no need to go to the trouble to make
them extra thick. They may show over the top of his pants, out the leg opening
of his shorts and produce a pronounced bulge (make sure his diapers are visible
in these ways when he has pants on).
If
it isn’t practical or acceptable to you to have your brother wear your pants,
then you should keep the following in mind with any pants that are designated
for him to wear:
Do
not buy him new pants. When he needs a pair of pants go
to thrift shops and secondhand stores. There is absolutely no need for him to
wear the latest fashions. Don’t even by him off-brand new pants, The pants he
wears don’t even need to look good, so don’t be concerned about fading, holes,
tears, rips, or other defects. Remember that he is only wearing pants because
it’s what society expects him to wear when he is out in public.
Keeping His
Pants Minimal
In
most if not all civilized societies, wearing decent clothes is the expected
social norm. Unless your brother is going to spend absolutely one hundred
percent of his time at home, he is going to need to wear pants when he goes to
school, the supermarket, the dentist or the barbershop. Perhaps some relatives
would have a difficult time with your brother wearing just his diapers, so
pants may be needed when visiting Grandma.
These
are the only times he should ever have to wear pants. If he is home or out of
public view he should be pantsless as much as
possible. This can be achieved by following these guidelines:
Your
brother is in nothing but diapers 24/7/365 (366 days if it's a leap year).
Since he is in only diapers all throughout the daytime, it makes absolutely no
sense at all to allow him to wear anything over his diapers at night, either.
Pajamas simply are not necessary, period. You may allow your brother to keep
his pajama tops, but the bottoms must be done away with for the same reasons
listed above in the "Pants" section. Like with pants, if your brother
is diapered extra thickly, his bottoms will not stand a chance of fitting and
will thus be completely useless to him. Since you or your Sisters likely have
no use for them, either (they may have a fly front,
after all), you might as well either destroy them or donate them to charity.
For
some boys, sleepers may be used in place of pajamas. While sleepers may serve
well to inhibit the boy's access to his diapers, there are other methods you
can use to make his diapers more difficult for him to remove and keep his
diapers fully conspicuous. Some diaper boys may wear sleepers to keep warm in
the wintertime. Likewise, there are other ways you can ensure that your brother
keeps warm in his bed. You can let him use an electric blanket or use more
covers. Since you can probably keep your house at a comfortable temperature
during even the coldest of weather which allows less clothing to be worn, there
is no reason that your brother should have to wear anything more than his
diapers. Sleepers, like pants, hide the diapers from view and are thus strongly
discouraged from use.
Socks
are optional, and their use and their absence each have an advantage. On one
hand, they reduce the amount of leg exposure that the diapers otherwise
provide. On the other hand, socks make a nice accessory to the appearance of your
brother. If you let him wear socks, it is recommended that he wear the type
that comes to just below the knee and have colored stripes on him.
Shirts,
like socks, are optional, but their use is recommended. There are some
advantages, however, to having your brother go shirtless. By not having him
wear a shirt, this allows for 100% exposure of his diapers. You can enjoy
seeing how high up over his stomach and up his back his diapers go.
On
the other hand, shirts do offer several advantages. Shirts draw more attention
to the fact that your brother has no pants on, but can still wear his shirt.
It's as if he has gotten dressed as much as he can, and once he has his shirt
on, that's it. If you do allow your brother to wear a shirt, here are a few
guidelines:
(1) Make sure that
it is a very short shirt so that it leaves as much of his diapers
exposed as possible. You may even want to consider getting him some cheap
shirts that you can trim up so that they just meet his diapers at the
shirttail.
(2) Just plain
ordinary T-shirts will do here. Don't buy anything with buttons, collars,
pockets or anything extra. There is no need for expensive shirts or whatever
the current fad is. Just like with pants, your brother isn't putting on a
fashion show for his shirt, either, just his diapers.
(3) Plain white
undershirts are the least expensive. colored shirts,
however, offer a greater contrast against his white diapers, so black shirts
would work well here.
(4) Shirts can be
used to help reinforce your brother's diapers. By using several diaper pins,
you can stick them into the shirttail and fasten them to the top of his
diapers. The more pins you use the better. It is especially recommended that
you use a greater concentration of diaper pins in the rear where they are out
of his reach. This also gives you an excuse to spend more time back there to
enjoy the view of his diapered butt. If his shirt is too long you can roll up
the excess shirttail to increase his diaper exposure. Also the extra material
in the rolled-up shirttail will further reinforce the hold of the diaper pins.
(5) Shirts can be
used to display messages to express your brother's need to be in diapers. You
can have a custom T-shirt designer make shirts with any message you want on it.
You can also purchase iron-on lettering and do the job yourself. If you have a
computer and a color printer, there are kits available in computer and office
supply stores with which you can print up your own T-shirt transfers. You can
print anything from photos you have taken of your brother to any number of
logos or other graphics. The possibilities are endless. Use your imagination!
Don’t
throw it out just yet! That’s right! Just because your brother is going to be
in his diapers from now on doesn’t mean you have to get rid of his underwear
(provided it is plain white with a fly front). His existing supply of underwear
can still come in handy for diapering purposes. The next section will explain
the reasons for holding on to his underwear.
For this section, “underwear” refers specifically to
full-rise plain white boy’s fly-front briefs, or tighty
whities. All other styles of boys’ underwear (mainly
boxers and bikini-style or “speedo” briefs) are not
acceptable in Deekerianism and should be cast out at
once. Colored and cartoon-print briefs should be supplanted with plain white
briefs if they are going to be used.
Cloth
diapers usually aren’t readily available if you are just starting out with
turning your brother, boy cousin, babysit-ee boy,
etc. into your brother. You may wish to get him started right on his diapers
away, but you don’t have any diapers for him. Fortunately.
all hope is not lost here. His existing supply of
underwear (see above for the definition of “underwear”) can easily be adapted
to serve as his diapers until such time you get him some real diapers. Just
have him wear several pairs together. You may enjoy using this method of
“diapering” him anyway. Think of the multiplicity factor that comes into
play here. There is something very satisfying about your brother wearing several
dozen pairs of underwear! Think about how he’d be wearing more underwear at
one time than you wear in over a month’s time. It’s more underwear than you
probably have in your entire underwear drawer.
Let’s
take a moment to compare boys’ underwear (in its original style, as God intended) to Girls’
panties. When you compare this style of boys’ briefs to Girls’ panties, the
boys’ briefs clearly have features that make them more adaptable to serve as
diapers when worn in multiples, features that Girls’ panties do not have. The
original style for boys’ underwear is plain white briefs with a fly
front and a wide waistband usually with stripes running
around it, all of these features being exclusive to boys’ underwear.
Until the mid 1970’s, most boys’ underwear even had a second layer in the
seat. This was a nice (and necessary) feature of boys’ underwear that
should be brought back. As was discussed at the beginning of this article, boys
are poor wipers, and this second layer helped to absorb the fecal matter that
he left behind. It also hides the resulting stains from view, and lastly, the seams
that ran up each side of his seat made this second panel stand out, and by
extension, the reasons for its placement. These seats, when multiplied over the
use of several pairs of underwear, could really make a boy’s butt stand out! In
addition to the higher rise and the fact that they are white, boys’ underwear
also has a wider crotch and is made from a thicker material.
By
comparison, Girls’ panties, both then and now, come in a variety of colors and
patterns, are made from a thinner material, are narrower in the crotch, do not
come up nearly as high and do not have a wide, striped waistband. These would
perform poorly as diapers if worn in multiples, and Girls don’t need to and
definitely should never wear their underwear like this anyway. Girls rarely
even let their underwear show (except for thongs) as their pants come up high
enough to cover it. For most boys who wear the style of underwear that was
meant for boys in the first place, you could usually count on seeing it show.
Unfortunately
things have changed and boys now have lots more choices when it comes to
underwear. Perhaps these choices evolved because of the fact that boys became fashion
conscious with their underwear and wanted choices beyond plain white.
Perhaps some boys felt that the original styles of boys’ underwear resembled diapers
because they were white and the general fit on the body was the same, add to
this the extra layer in the seat. Boys’ underwear has evolved since the late
1970’s in such a way that it has produced other choices that are less
diaper-like than the original white briefs, and this is unfortunate, because
boys need to be reminded in one way or another that they belong in diapers
of some sort, even if it involves the use of their existing underwear. It all
started when Underoos were introduced. These were
colored briefs which accompanied a T-shirt with a superhero’s emblem printed on
it. Later on the T-shirts were eliminated and the superhero’s likeness was
screen printed onto the briefs themselves. Hanes makes these kinds of briefs as
Showtoons and Fruit of the Loom makes them as Fun
Pals. Either these briefs are designed in patterns that are repeated throughout
the fabric or they are a single print placed prominently on the seat of the
garment. Other “enhancements” which deviate these
types of briefs from their original diaper-like predecessors include
solid-color waistbands and fly-front seams. They don’t seem to come up quite as
high on boys as they used to, either.
Deviating
even further away from the diaper-esque appearance of
the original boys’ white briefs are the ones which do not even have a fly front
and are cut very low. These usually come in exotic colors and designs, too,
which, combined with the other missing features of the original style of boys’
underwear, makes them too much like Girls’ panties. In no way are these types
of boys’ underpants suitable to serve as diapers. The greatest blasphemy of all
against the original design of boys’ underwear is the current trend with boxer
shorts! These are not at all like the preceding types of underwear. They will
not serve as diapers at all. One can only hope that the trend will pass and
boys will once again return to wearing plain white underwear. Fortunately for
now, plain white boys’ underwear is still widely available in stores, which is
what you will likely be buying for your brother if you choose to not use real
diapers on him, either for now or at all. Just as only white diapers
should be used, it follows that only white
briefs should be used if this is how your brother will be diapered.
The
overall premise here is pretty basic, just use lots
and lots and LOTS of underwear on him! How many pairs should be wear, you might
ask? Just as there is no real set limit to the number of diapers he can wear at
a time, there is no predefined or absolute limit to the number of pairs of
underwear that he should wear, either. It takes a lot of underwear (and we mean
A LOT!) to approximate the thickness that can be achieved by the use of several
diapers. There are several things you will want to consider when going about
diapering your boy in this manner.
Here
are a few suggestions which will make your experience with diapering your
brother in multiple underpants more fun and enjoyable:
(1) Use diaper pins
for reinforcement- You can use diaper pins to reinforce your brother’s
multiple underpants in the same ways that they can be used with real diapers.
Just stick the pins through the first 6-10 pairs (or more) and fasten them to
his shirt.
(2) Alternate
every other pair- You can achieve some great visual and functional
enhancements to your brother’s multiple underpants by having him wear every
other pair backwards. The backwards pairs will add more material to the
back of his diapers because of the fly front being stretched across his
backside. This compensates somewhat for the double-seat which is no longer a
feature of today’s boy’s white underpants, though they are available at Tiger Underwear; tell him Deeker
sent you if you go there!). The bulk of the additional fabric in the fly will
be more even distributed this way. The seat will be in the front and it will go
up very high, enough to completely engulf his chest. The tradeoff here is that
the fly front on his butt won’t go beyond the height of his buttocks, if that.
If you use this on your brother, have him wear the first dozen pairs all facing
the right way, alternate the ones in the middle, and then have him wear the top
dozen pairs of so all facing the right way.
(3) Add your own
double seat- If you have the time and the ability to sew, you can still
reproduce the look and the functionality of the double-seated boys’ briefs
which are now part of a bygone era. If you buy new underwear for your brother,
you can cut squares out of his old underwear and then sew them in the
appropriate spot on his new undies. He may have a
supply of underwear which he has outgrown stored away somewhere, so use these.
You may also be able to pick up used boys’ underwear from thrift stores for
this purpose. The important thing is that the fabric used for this purpose also
be white. Also, why stop at adding just one extra layer to the back of
his underpants? Make them quad-seated!
(4) Make several
waistbands show- While the huge, bulky conglomeration of white briefs tightly
and abundantly wrapped around your brother’s butt will be a very obvious
indication that he is wearing a lot of underwear, you can draw even more
attention to this fact by making several waistbands show. As you approach the
maximum amount of underwear that he can wear, the topmost pairs will not be
able to go up as high as the pairs just beneath them because of the increasing
thickness. Try to accentuate this effect as you reach this final stage of
“diapering” him.
Recommended
Reading/Viewing
The information on using multiple pairs of underwear
for diapers is based on my own personal boyhood experiences. To gain a greater
understanding of how this affected my feelings about diapers and boys, I invite
you to read my own history. I
also invite you to read a story I wrote about a boy I knew in junior high
school who came to school wearing his underwear like this. The story, albeit
based on true origins but is fictional, is called What
Might Have Been. This story will expose you to the effectiveness of
multiple pairs of boys’ white underwear being worn as diapers and the extent to
which this sort of activity can be taken.
While you are exploring the sections of this web
site that focus on the use of multiple underpants for diapers on boys, take a
moment to view the various drawings that will give
you a visual representation of what a boy looks like when this method of
diapering him is used. In fact, you might as well look at all of the Diaper Boy Drawings, most of
which show boys in actual diapers. Start with the newer sets as they are of
better quality than my earlier works.
You are also invited and encouraged to share your
thoughts and impression about boys’ white briefs in the Survey
for Girls Whose Brothers Wear Tighty Whities.
Whether
you choose to use real diapers on your brother or have him wear enough
underwear to make the shareholders of Fruit of the Loom, Hanes and BVD to
forever worship you for making them all rich, there are lots of ways you can
add to the overall experience that your brother will have by wearing diapers
all the time. Here are just a few ideas:
Language
How
you communicate your feelings and observations to your brother about his
diapers is very important. This goes for both spoken and written communication.
The following guidelines should help emphasize these points:
General
Language Guidelines
References to
Bodily Wastes
Talking
about your brother’s diapers without referring to how he uses them would be
like talking about a CD player without referring to the CDs it plays, so proper
word choice is advised as follows:
References to Genitalia
As
dealing with diaper changes will expose you to your brother’s “private parts”
(which won’t be quite so private when you’re involved), inevitably there will
be times when you will need to talk about these parts of his body.
Penis: There are
dozens of synonyms for a boy’s genitalia, some of which are purely sexual in
nature (e.g. “cock”) so these should be avoided. You can’t really go wrong with
referring to his penis as “his penis”. There are a few other juvenilely
acceptable terms such as “pee-pee”, “wee-wee” and “wiener” that you can
probably use. “Peter” is also marginally accepted, though it does seem to
teeter towards having sexual connotations.
Testicles: A wide range
of words have come into use to refer to a boy’s testicles. The most common are
“balls” and “nuts”, though “nads” is often used, too.
Most families should accept the use of “balls” and “nuts”, and their variants
“ball sack/bag”, “nut sack/bag”. Other words such as “(family) jewels” and “cajones” are used mostly by teens and adults. Words such as
“junk” and “package” generally refer to the penis/testicles collective and are
also generally used by teens and adults, though not necessarily always in a
sexual context.
Erections: Popular
culture and its focus on sex have led to a colorful array of words to describe
a sexually stimulated penis, which you will certainly see when you are changing
your brother’s diapers, even if he is several years away from puberty.
“Hard-on” is probably the most common noun form, but “stiffie”
is also often used. These terms should be acceptable within most families, as
would be the adjective counterparts “hard” and “stiff”.
Other sexual
terms:
In the context of performing a diaper change it isn’t likely that you would
need to talk about your brother’s masturbation, ejaculation or other sexual
activity, but in some situations surrounding diaper changes and his diapers in
general, these matters are naturally bound to occur. Because this guide is not
so much about a boy’s sexual response to his diapers as it is to the process of
diapering him and acknowledging his diapered state, this is an area that I feel
is best left to the discretion of the individual.
Butt vs. Ass
When
it comes to diapering your brother, there is no avoiding the backside of his
body. His butt can and should be the central focus of his diapers. His diapers
highly accentuate this part of his body and draw attention to what actions take
place in this part of his body. The backside is the most prominent view of his
diapers, so it is important to focus on and call out frequent, pronounced
attention to your brother’s diapered-up rear end.
Just
as there are dozens of words and phrases for genitalia, bodily wastes, sexual
responses and sexual activity, it should come as no surprise that the ways to
refer to one’s backside are plentiful, but you should only be concerned with
the most common words, “butt”, ass” and “bottom”.
While
the first two terms are generally synonymous with one another in reference to
one’s backside and are the most common, Deekerianism
makes some important distinctions between the two words and therefore advises
that they be used in their respectively appropriate contexts.
Butt: Most of us
become familiar with the word “butt” very early on in our language development.
Parents often use this word when speaking directly to their children, usually
in reference to the condition of one’s butt during a diaper change, or when the
threat of a spanking is issued, or sometimes as a command (e.g. “Get your butt
moving!”). As we become familiar with our bodies in these early formative
years, we recognize the butt as the place where poop and farts come from. It
smells bad, and sometimes it makes funny sounds, too, and since it stands out
so prominently it looks funny on another person’s body and the sight of one’s
butt evokes thoughts of stinky, smelly poop and farts coming out of it all the
time, so the butt is often a central subject of childhood amusement.
As most of us
learn the word “butt” first and that we learn of it in the exclusive context of
recognizing the eliminatory aspects of the butt, it only makes sense to assign
this word in a Deekerian sense to describing the backside in the context of its
excretory and flatulent functions.
Ass: A few years
later, usually in the boundary-testing preteen years, we learn of another word
that for all intents and purposes means the same thing as “butt”— “ass”. While
the FCC has long since loosened up its restrictions to permit the use of this
word on broadcast network television, it is still considered somewhat vulgar. Its
extended cousin “asshole”— which literally refers to the anus but is most often
a figurative term used in the pejorative to describe a boorish or contemptible
person— is verboten by most parenting standards and is still not allowed to be
spoken on the air last I checked. Some parents may not approve of its use by
younger children, especially the latter.
As
we maturely sexually at around age 12 (give or take a couple years), we come to
recognize one’s backside as not just a part of the body that makes stinky stuff
and funny low-pitched fluttering noises, but we are drawn to its sexually
attractive properties on the person of our ascribed sexual persuasion (in other
words, most pubescent boys like to look at Girls’ asses, but gay boys will like
looking at other boy’s behinds). As our sexual understanding and development
continues in these years, we recognize and become aware of the backside as a
point of central focus for sexual activity. As most written passages with
sexual references to the backside would seem to indicate in this writer’s
experiences and observations, any such thoughts of and references to the
excretory/flatulent functions of the backside are rarely mentioned alongside
any such sexual contexts. It’s as if the two are mutually exclusive.
Since the word
“ass” is primarily used amongst adults and amongst teens with varying degrees
of parental acceptance and that the understanding of and use of this word comes
into widespread being during the sexually formative years, in a Deekerian sense
it is best reserved for sexual contexts only., even though in general the word
is virtually interchangeable with “butt”.
Bottom and
other “butt” words: A lot of parents will use the word “bottom” in the presence
of their children, so this word becomes ingrained in our vocabulary early on as
a synonym for the butt (the pooping butt, not the sexual ass). Therefore, Deekerianism recognizes this word as an acceptable variant
to “butt”. “Tush” and “tushie”
are also cutesy childish words that work well in a Deekerian sense.
As
mentioned above and even within this article, there are lots of other words and
phrases for “butt” and “ass”. Most of these words, however, are generic and in
a Deekerian sense, they don’t connote either excretory or sexual meanings.
Examples include: arse (British variant of “ass”,
pronounced “oss” with only a hint of the “r”) backside,
behind, booty/bootie (mostly reserved for sexual references), bum (chiefly
British, general usage), buns (refers to the buttocks, not really suited for
Deekerian use), buttocks (doesn't take into account the anus, pooping part of
the butt), can, cheeks (refers to the buttocks), derriere, fanny (which means
something completely different, albeit anatomical and private in nature in
British dialects), gluteus maximus (used by those
wanting to sound educated), hind (end), hindquarters (said mostly of animals
and by old-time farmers), keister (rarely used), posterior,
rear (end), rump, and seat.
As
a conclusion to this section, keep this phrase in mind: boys have butts; Girls have asses.
Since this
article is being written for a general audience that includes preteen Girls and
boys who may see it along with their brothers (who may be younger yet) and
their parents, I am going to exercise as much care as I feel is appropriate for
such a readership with what is written here in this section.
Your
brother’s feelings about his diapers can be and often are very highly sexual in
nature. The sight of diapered boys and their bare legs along with the way his
own diapers look and feel on him (the diapers themselves and the contents from
his body) can be very, very arousing to a boy. Because of this, you should
encourage your brother to masturbate
in his diapers, whether or not he is sexually mature enough for this activity.
Even if he is not old enough to ejaculate yet, he will still likely have very
strong sexual feelings from his diapers. Once he is old enough to recognize
how his body reacts sexually to his diapers, encourage him to indulge in these feelings and as
often as possible by the various activities listed above (stories and drawings,
for example). Once his sexual development kicks in, he will already be
intimately familiar with how wonderful his diapers make him feel and he can
always count on his diapers to relieve him of such urges that come naturally to
boys.
If
your brother turns out to be gay, then he will already be set in his ways with
his sexual development and diapered boys will be naturally attractive to him,
eventually without diapers on. However, many diaper boys still develop feelings
towards Girls as this is natural for most boys. With him seeing you in tight
jeans, scant shorts, swimwear, panties, thongs, or even nothing at all, his
sexual feelings towards Girls will compound the sexual feelings that he already
gets from his diapers and the fellow diapered boys who accompany him. As his
sexual tension builds, his urge to release these feelings will intensify. He
may desire sexual intercourse with Girls, but he knows that having his diapers
on him all the time will never allow him to experience this sensation. He will
likely succumb to confusion over his sexual feelings. He will often ponder why
looking at a Girl’s scantily clad (or naked) behind with no traces of excrement
whatsoever gives him the same feelings as a boy’s super-thickly white-diapered
butt coated in smelly poop. Inevitably, he will resign himself to the more
familiar and comfortable feelings that he has been getting from his diapers and
other boys in diapers all along and thus, he will most often choose diapers as
his outlet for his unbridled sexual feelings. Of course if he’s gay or destined
to be gay this won’t affect him much sexually, but it will still remind him of
how you Girls can and do like to dress. If he is sexually aroused by your
skimpy attire, he will resign himself to never getting to experience sexual
intercourse, at least not until he is an adult and able to act on his own free
will.
If
your brother appears to focus too much on Girls as his outlet for sexual
feelings, remind him that these feelings should be spent on diapers instead.
Put him into more diapers. Stick some more diaper pins in and surround him with
pictures of himself and other boys in diapers if you think he is thinking about
Girls instead. Let him know that Girls are completely off limits to him.
Diapers are to be his one and only sexual outlet. Let him know that you are
fully aware of his sexual feelings as a boy and that his masturbating in his diapers
is the only way that he will be allowed to release these urges. However, you
shouldn’t necessarily dress more modestly if you do this. Keep the temptation
for him to stray from his diaper feelings out in the open to keep the sexual
tension high.
If
your brother requests privacy for when he masturbates, let him have it since
you want him to get as much sexual gratification from his diapers as possible.
However, do try to encourage him to allow you to watch or at least be present.
He has so little to hide about himself as it is, and your skimpy attire will
keep his sexual tension high until he has to let it go. If your brother has
brothers, friends or boy cousins who wear diapers, encourage them to masturbate
in their diapers, too.
If
you don’t feel that presenting your own body as a means of building sexual
tension in your brother is appropriate, invite your friends to fulfill this
role.
Since
you, the Girl, are obviously NOT the one who is wearing diapers, you can
optimize your ways of emphasizing and exploiting these differences between
yourself and your brother. You might think that being fully in charge of
changing your brother’s diapers and ensuring that he stays in them and uses them at all times is enough. You might also think that
being able to remain dressed throughout the day and wearing a much, much
thinner amount of material around your waist, not to mention being able to use
the toilet any time you need to use it, would clearly make the distinction that
illustrates your idea of what makes boys and Girls different. You might relish
the fact that you still enjoy many freedoms and choices that your brother does
not have because he wears diapers. That is all true indeed. However, there are
ways you can make these differences between you and your brother even more
pronounced. It is your duty as a Deekerian Sister to constantly remind your
brother of who he is and who you are, so you have a
role of your own to fulfill in this all-important and ongoing objective.
Your Clothes
Since
you don’t wear diapers, you have the choice to wear pants and shorts. Your
brother is well aware of this. Make it a point to remind him of this. This
doesn’t necessarily mean you need to go around him all the time and say “Ha ha! I got pants on and you don’t!” though this works well
at the beginning. Wear pants or shorts that accent your absence of diapers.
Tight-fitting jeans and shorts will make the contours and the cleft of your
buttocks stand out. Just as your brother’s butt is the most prominent part of
his body, he is going to look at your rear, too. Let him see that your pants
conform to the shape of your derriere and that there is clearly nothing that
bulges out from this point. Make him well aware of the fact that you can be
trusted to wear so little over your backside and remain clean.
Boys
who are approaching sexual maturity or are past this stage are naturally
attracted to Girls and they find their rear ends to be attractive and will
therefore stare at them. Since they are behind you where you can’t see where
they are looking, boys will take advantage of this convenience that serves
their hormones well. Girls know this and they use it to their advantage as
well. They know that in a sexual sense their rear ends are not looked at as the
part of their bodies from which feces emerge, but rather, as something that
will make boys horny. So Girls will wear pants and shorts that accentuate this
feature of their bodies.
What
does this have to do with diapers and boys? It further differentiates the
thoughts that he gets from looking at your ass from the thoughts that you get
from looking at his butt. Also, by making yourself
look more sexually attractive, this teases the boys and it may tempt them to
deviate from their thoughts about diapers and instead think about sex. Once a
boy comes to the realization that he can never get his diapers off in order to
fulfill these thoughts, he will revert to thinking about the diapers to which
his sexual feelings are far more attuned and he will channel his feelings that
originated with thoughts about you back into his diapers.
Your
choice of whether to wear pants or shorts will likely depend on the weather,
but other factors may influence this decision, too. Both garments serve to
remind your brother of the fact that he cannot wear either them.
Each has its advantages:
Pants: While this section
mostly refers to jeans, khakis, capris, and
sweatpants may also be considered as examples. Since pants have no place
(literally and philosophically speaking in a Deekerian sense) on your brother,
by contrast, on you they should send a clear and ever-present reminder to your
brother that you wear pants because you
can! Your pants demonstrate a strong impression of decency and modesty.
Your legs are covered, his aren’t. Your legs are secure and protected from
view; his legs are always exposed, whether or not he likes it.
If
you wear jeans, they should either be blue or black with pockets on both sides.
They should be tight, but comfortable. The idea is to show that your butt,
covered as it may be, has no padding over it whatsoever. Visible panty lines
will also make a point that this is all you are wearing beneath those pants,
and beneath that is your clean ass. The jeans make a fashion statement, they
have sex appeal, and most of all, you can wear them
and your brother can’t! Remind him of the meaning of the phrase “she who wears
the pants!”
The
wearing of pants is so integral and essential to the Deekerian Sister ideal
that the Deekerianism has an organization devoted to
Deekerian Girls. The organization, appropriately enough, is called “Wear the
Pants.” This organization’s logo and activities are featured in many of the Diaper Boy Drawings.
Every
time you acquire a new pair of pants, take a moment to point out to your
brother that you got NEW PANTS! Either wave them in his face before putting
them on, or after putting them on, stick your ass in his face (to the point of
making him think that you will fart) and make him see your NEW PANTS! This goes
even further if your brother has gotten some new diapers at the same time.
Your Shorts
Shorts,
which come in a variety of colors, fabrics and styles, serve the same purposes
as long pants do, but they also provide additional benefits (and possible
drawbacks) to you. If nothing else, they are more comfortable on hot summer
days and provide additional freedom of leg movement for summertime activities,
but many Girls know that guys like to look at Girls and their sexy legs in
shorts, so they have an additional element of sex appeal. Cutoff jean shorts
serve the best of both worlds and are considered to be the optimal style of
shorts for the Deekerian Sister.
One
possible drawback to wearing shorts is that by exposing your legs this puts you
one level closer to your brother’s status as a diaper boy. It is your decision
whether or not to abstain from wearing shorts due to this particular
characteristic.
Girls
are vain and fashion conscious by nature. Use these naturally-born
characteristics to your full advantage. Let your brother know about all the
latest fashions that you are wearing, especially where your pants are
concerned. Let him know that you have a choice of what to wear when you get
dressed in the morning. Remind him of this point every time you do your
laundry. To him, the concept of “getting dressed” should become foreign to him,
since he is pretty much fully dressed by being in his diapers and nothing but
his diapers, morning to night.
If
you really want to make your brother think a lot about himself as a diaper boy
and his inability to keep his body clean, wear a swimsuit or a bikini around
him, even if you don’t plan to go swimming or getting wet in the backyard.
Swimsuits especially accentuate a Girl’s ass. Your brother, by virtue of being
a boy, will look squarely at this part of your body and think about how you can
and do so dutifully keep this area so clean and be able to nearly show it off
bare. He knows that he would never be able to do this himself if he wanted to.
Swimsuits are also a good way to increase the tension in sexually mature boys
only for them to fall back on their tried-and-true feelings about diapers.
Your Underwear
Whether
or not you choose to conspicuously wear your underwear in the presence of your
brother, one thing is important: DO NOT WEAR PLAIN WHITE UNDERWEAR! Even though
your underwear is thinner and lower-rising than a boy’s tighty
whities, it is still highly advised that you do not
wear plain white underwear, as it might vaguely resemble a diaper, however
minimal this resemblance may be. If you must wear white underwear, then use
this to your advantage and make sure to point out to your brother the lack of skidmarks in your underwear as evidence of your impeccable
wiping skills. Even if it is not plain white underwear, be sure to do drive this
point home with your brother if you are inclined to allow your brother to see
you in your underwear in the first place. If you are not inclined to let your
brother see you in your underwear you should at least show him your panties before
throwing them in the wash. For extra good measure and an added bonus, make him
sniff them.
To Expose or
Not Expose Your Underwear
There
are two distinct schools of thought in Deekerianism
with regards to Girls allowing their brothers to see them in their underwear.
Choose whichever school of thought best appeals to you:
Not exposed: This is the
traditional Deekerian stance on Girls exposing their underwear to the eyes of
their brothers. Traditional Deekerianism dictates
that a Girl should always remain modest and decent in her attire. By remaining
dressed she shows her brothers that she is mature and responsible enough to
have earned her right to wear clothes, particularly pants. By not wearing
proper pants she is greatly compromising her dignity and approaching the status
of her brother. Her brother is in his underwear, too, by being in his diapers
(especially if his diapers are in the form of multiple underpants). Having
pants on distinguishes the Girl from her brother, whose lack of pants symbolize
his lack of maturity and responsibility.
Exposed: Progressive Deekerianism dictates that a Girl should allow her brothers
to see her in her underwear at times. By doing so, the purposes fulfilled are
threefold:
(1) This gives her
the opportunity to show her brother how she practices proper posterior hygiene.
He can only assume and take the Girl’s word for it that her ass is clean when
she has pants on, but allowing him to see for himself how well she wipes after
a bowel movement sends the intended message.
(2) Her brother
can see for himself how much different his Sister’s underwear is from his
diapers. He will notice how thin the single layer of fabric is,
thin enough for the skin tone to show through, in fact. He will compare this to
the multitude of thick layers of cotton that comprise his diapers which could
be several inches thick. The volume of fabric in his diapers in comparison to
his Sister’s underwear is hundreds of times greater. He will notice the narrow,
low-tension waistband and compare this to the strong, tight waistbands of his
plastic pants, or the wide, striped elastic waistbands of his multiple briefs.
He will notice how her panties barely come up to her waist and may even leave
the uppermost portion of her butt cleavage exposed. In comparison, his diapers
dominate his torso and go up over his stomach in the front and go even higher
in the rear. No way could he hide such diapers from
view with pants on, not that he ever wears pants over such diapers. He will
notice the lack of skidmarks in the seat of her
underwear and he may want to take a closer look just to be sure (let him and
encourage him to do this, in fact), and of course, the fact that she can wear
underwear in a variety of colors and styles, of which plain white is not one of
them as this is a key characteristic of his diapers.
(3) By being
almost naked, her brother will naturally become sexually aroused, forgetting
that this Girl is his Sister. As mentioned earlier, if the Girl presenting her
body in such a manner as to evoke erotic feelings in her brother seems
inappropriate, her friends are invited and encouraged to fill this role in her
place.
Even
if you do choose to let your brother see you in your underwear for the reasons
listed above, you should only do so sparingly, such as at night when you are
getting ready to go to bed. He should still see that you do regularly wear
pants and that you wear them for the reasons stated above.
Types of
Girls’ Underwear
As
with pants, shorts and other articles of clothing for Girls, there are several choices
of styles when it comes to underwear. Choose the style that best suits you and
the intentions you have with regards to Deekerian practices.
Panties: These are the
traditional Girls’ underwear. Sometimes they are called briefs, but Deekerianism is hesitant to call them this, as this term is
reserved for boys’ tighty whities.
They come in a variety of colors and patterns. They are usually made from a
thin cotton material and rise up high enough to provide comfort when worn
beneath pants but not so high that they are likely to show above the pants.
They are best suited for times when a Girl is having her period and is wearing
the appropriate protection. Such panties in recent times have come to be known
as “granny panties”, which is a pejorative term (as “tighty
whities”, sadly, has become a derogatory moniker for
traditional boys’ briefs). Don’t let this discourage you from wearing them if
they are comfortable and send the intended message to your brothers.
Low-rise
panties: These are similar to traditional full-rise panties, but
they are cut to expose more of the body. These are ideal for Girls who adhere
to the progressive school of thought in Deekerianism
that allows for exposure of her underwear to her brothers. They are an ideal
compromise for the Girl who is reluctant to wear “granny panties” but is also
reluctant to wear a thong that would leave 95% of her ass exposed.
Thongs: These are
very small and skimpy panties for Girls who are not afraid to show it all
(almost all of it, anyway). They are sometimes referred to as “G-strings” or
“butt floss” (though in Deekerian parlance they should be called “ass floss.”)
They are available in sizes small enough for preteen Girls to wear. They also
make them for large and fat Girls and every size in between, and such large Girls
should not be afraid to wear them just because they are fat. They are for Girls
who are confident about their bodies and wish to wear underwear with a serious
attitude. While most Girls who choose to wear thongs wear them either for
comfort, to avoid having panty lines, or for sex appeal, they serve a
distinctly Deekerian purpose of ultimately showing boys how Girls keep their
asses wiped clean, plus the added benefit of inducing sexual tension where and
when appropriate. Because the idea is for others (mainly your brothers) to see
them and your nearly naked ass and its cleanliness, the progressive school of
thought in Deekerianism that allows for exposure of
her underwear to her brothers. For best results, wear black thongs as they are
the most opposite in color from boys’ white diapers, as well as in size and
volume of fabric used. Other colors are acceptable, but do avoid wearing white
thongs at all costs.
Because
thongs are such an integral part of the Deekerian canon, you are invited and
encouraged to participate in Deeker’s Survey for Girls Who Wear Thongs.
Going Naked
If
you’re willing to almost bare it all in a thong, then what is to stop you from
going all the way? Other than “that time of the month”, if you feel completely
uninhibited, show your brother what it means to be clean.
Just
as you get dressed in the morning, at night you get ready for bed. To your
brother, this activity of “getting ready for bed” is not applicable to him. Your
brother’s “sleepwear” is the same as his daywear, diapers! In theory, he’s
“ready for bed” at any time of the day. You, however, have a choice here as
well, and you should wear pajamas for the same reasons you wear pants or shorts
in the daytime. Alternatively, you can
wear a nightshirt (sometimes called dorm shirts), which drape down over your
body. If you are comfortable with wearing underwear around your brother at
night, this is your choice depending on how you feel towards this. You could
also simply remain fully dressed until it is time for you to get ready for bed,
especially if you sleep in your underwear or sleep nude. (You’d NEVER let a boy
sleep naked, now would you?!)
Shirts, Socks,
and Bras
At
this time there are no Deekerian guidelines set in place for Girls wearing
shirts, socks or bras. Shirts, like the shirts your brother may wear, can be
worn to display messages to express your feelings about your brother and his
diapers.
You
might think that it is a good idea to lock the bathroom so that your brother
cannot go in there to use the toilet. If you diaper him thickly enough and use
lots of pins in his diapers, then his diapers serve as their own security and
he will have no access to the toilet anyway. Remember that he still has to
enter the bathroom to brush his teeth and take his baths/showers. It may be
necessary for you to stand outside the bathroom door while it is open and make
sure he doesn’t try using the toilet during the first few weeks of his being
diapered, but once he gets used to the diapers and becomes fully incontinent
he will not have any desire for using the toilet.
Even
if you do use lots of diaper pins on your brother’s diapers, it is still a good
idea to take extra measures to secure the bathroom and restrict your brother’s
access to it. Here are a couple options:
A
key lock is recommended as bearing a key will send a strong message that a
combination lock may not, as this will be discussed in detail below. Most
padlocks are sold with two or more keys. One set will go to your parents; the
other set belongs to you and your Sisters, if any.
If
you’re really serious about sending
your brother a strong message about his banishment from the bathroom—
specifically the toilet— you may wish to add some additional security measures
to the toilet itself. Consider bolting some lengths of chains into the floor.
Use lengths of chain (at least four) that are just long enough to converge at
the center of the toilet’s lid. Ensure that the chains leave no slack when
drawn up from the floor and onto the toilet’s lid. Attach one or more locks to
these chains at their convergence point.
If
your brother is locked out of the bathroom anyway you may see that this extra measure
is not necessary, but there will be times when he will be in the bathroom for
baths, showers and other matters of hygiene for which he will still be
responsible by himself, so at some point he will see the toilet. Have him see
that the toilet is fully off limits to him!
If
bolting chains to the bathroom floor is not practical or desired, consider
constructing an enclosure around the toilet. Include a locking door with this
enclosure.
If
you are concerned about extra locks delaying your access to the toilet, it is
important to plan extra time when you have to use the bathroom. Do not risk overdoing it on the security
at the risk of possibly having an accident yourself! At best, this would
send a very fundamentally wrong message to your brother should he ever learn of
such a horrific incident.
Keys
Handling Keys
As
mentioned above, key locks are recommended over the use of combination locks. Combination
locks take longer to open, especially if more than one attempt is needed to
open it (and don’t you know all too well how often this happens in school when
you’re running late for class), and having as quick of access as possible to
the bathroom available to you is of paramount importance. Consider the fact
that your friends, babysitters, female cousins and all other Girls who are
guests will need to use the bathroom, too. It’s easier to give them your keys
than to expect them to memorize a combination they will only need when they are
visiting your house. Also, if your brother should happen to learn what the
combination is, you might as well relieve that lock of its now ineffectual duty
as a security implement and put that lock to use as a paperweight and go buy
another one.
Not
only are keys more convenient for you and for your female guests, but they can
send an additional conspicuous message to your brother. Every time he sees you
handling those keys and hearing them jingle against other keys, he will always be
reminded of his permanent Diaper Boy status. Every time you lock the bathroom
door, if your brother is present, make him watch you lock the door. Make sure
he hears the shackles snap into place. When you are finished with the keys,
stick them deep down into your rear pants pocket, as far as they will go. This
is important for three reasons:
By
sticking the keys all the way down to the bottom of your pants pocket, not only
will this obviously make it too difficult for him to try retrieving them, but
it will also prolong the show that you put on for him.
If
you use padlocks, it is very important to stress this: take the locks into the bathroom
with you! If you leave the
locks on the outside of the door while you’re on the toilet, your brother has
access to them. He could do any number of things with them, such as discarding
them, or worse, fastening them while you are in the bathroom, thereby locking
you in.
When
you leave the house, always take your keys with you! The only exception to this
would be if you have other Sisters who do not have keys of their own, or if you
and your parents use the same keys. At night be sure to leave the keys where
you and any other Girls (Sisters or guests) can have easy access to them, but
not your brother. Applying similar additional security measures to your bedroom
door as described above are recommended for this reason. If you do use padlocks
on your bedroom door, remember, install them on the inside of your bedroom. On the other hand, if doing so would pose a
hazard in the event of a fire, then do
not apply these security measures to your bedroom door.
Be
sure to educate all of your friends and any other Girl guests on the handling
of keys and having access to the bathroom.
Just
as you can use pictures of diapered boys from the Internet to remind your
brother of his existence as a boy, there is also an abundance of pictures of
Girls on the Internet, modeling everything from swimwear to jeans. These pictures
are perfectly legal and are not in any way pornographic. Many of these
pictures can be found on modeling sites. Encourage your brother to look at
these pictures, too, as they will also serve as a strong reminder to him how
little clothing Girls can wear, something that they could never do if they had
to wear diapers.
Modesty
is a one-way street when it comes to how open you are about letting your
brother see you in compromising states of dress, versus how you see him in his
diapers. Your brother’s sense of modesty should be completely eradicated once
he has become accustomed to you seeing him in his diapers. As suggested
earlier, he doesn’t even need the door to his bedroom. It’s not like he should
be afraid of you barging in on him while he’s in his underwear. When you think
about it, he’s ALWAYS IN HIS UNDERWEAR! You see him naked when you
change his diapers, so there is no such thing as modesty as far as he is
concerned. Your brother may have some other privacy concerns, however, which
will be addressed further down.
As
for you, the Girl, modesty should be irreciprocal,
that is, he should still respect your privacy, but you need not respect his, at
least as far as seeing him in his diapers is concerned. Even though you see him
in his “underwear” all the time, you shouldn’t let him see you in yours. Always
wear pants or shorts in the daytime, and wear pajamas or at least a night shirt
at night. Don’t ever let him see you naked, either. To do this only moves you
closer to being on an equal plane with him. By only letting him see you in
decent clothing, this further differentiates you from your brother and the fact
that he has to wear nothing but his diapers all the time.
It
has been mentioned that your brother has no need for modesty since he’s always
in his diapers, and when he is not, he is naked because you are changing his
diaper, and that he probably doesn’t even need the door to his bedroom. If he
is sexually mature he is likely going to engage in masturbation frequently. He
will likely want privacy for this. Even though you are fully aware that he does
this and what he thinks about when he does it, he will likely want to have his
bedroom available to him as a safe haven where he can explore these thoughts
about his diapers and act upon them in private. Perhaps you will want to leave
the door up for this. The more he is allowed to explore his feelings for
diapers, the more he will bond with his diapers.
If
your brother invites any of his friends over, insist that they, too, must strip
off their pants and allow you to diaper them. If they cannot or will not do
this they will not be allowed into your house. Lock away their pants and do not
give them back until they are ready to leave. If they are staying over for a
sleepover, remind them of all the rules for boys. If your brother loses friends
to his diapers then he needs to find friends who are willing to join him in his
diapers.
aper your brother.
Home-schooling
is an option that most families do not have, but if your family is fortunate
enough to have your boys educated at home, do it. Kids at a public school would
tease him mercilessly and his social development would suffer. By
home-schooling him, he won’t be exposed to other kids, and most of all, he
won’t have to ever get dressed to go to school. His diapers will be the
required dress code. If he does go to public school, he’s out of your domain at
this point, so diapering techniques and enforcement will be left to the
discretion of others.
Survey Request
Please
take a moment to fill out the Survey for
Sisters of Diapered Boys. The questions asked there will help me to gain a
greater understanding of what goes on in the households of families whose boys
wear diapers and are changed by their sisters.
It is my hope that you have
gained a considerable amount of understanding towards boys and the need for
them to be in diapers all the time. I hope you have learned how you can use
diapers on your brother to your utmost advantage so that you can assert your
superiority as a Girl and at the same time take pleasure in observing boys
using and enjoying their diapers. It can and should be a most satisfying and
rewarding experience for you. I hope this article has given you the guidance to
make the most of keeping boys in diapers and defining their mere existence to
be entirely based on their need for diapers. Best of luck to
you. May all your brothers be DIAPERED!
Survey
Please take a moment to fill
out the following Survey (GIRLS ONLY, PLEASE!):