Before age 6, did having another sibling in diapers make you jealous?

Number of responses received: 19

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	12	63.2%
No, I was an only child	0	0.0%
No, because no other siblings were in diapers	3	15.8%
No, because I was already in diapers myself	4	21.1%
No, I had no feelings for diapers at all then	0	0.0%
Total:	19

Between ages 6 and 12, did having another sibling in diapers make you jealous?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	8	42.1%
No, I was an only child	0	0.0%
No, because no other siblings were in diapers	7	36.8%
No, because I was already in diapers myself	4	21.1%
No, I had no feelings for diapers at all then	0	0.0%
Total:	19

Between ages 12 and 18, did having another sibling in diapers make you jealous?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	4	21.1%
No, I was an only child	0	0.0%
No, because no other siblings were in diapers	6	31.6%
No, because I was already in diapers myself	6	31.6%
I am not this old yet	1	5.3%
No, I had no feelings for diapers at all then	1	5.3%
Total:	19

How did you act upon this jealousy?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Asked if I could wear diapers	10	52.6%
Sneaked diapers from sibling's supply	8	42.1%
Bought my own diapers	4	21.1%
Got diapers from another person	5	26.3%
Put on several pairs of underwear	2	10.5%
I peed in my pants	9	47.4%
I pooped in my pants	4	21.1%
I peed in my underwear (no pants on)	7	36.8%
I pooped in my underwear (no pants on)	3	15.8%
Pretended to wet the bed	6	31.6%
Drank extra fluids I hoped would cause real pee accident	4	21.1%
Ate foods that I hoped would cause a real poop accident	2	10.5%

Part A: Who within your family knew that you were wearing diapers (or some facsimile thereof)? Part B: Who within in your family knew that you were using your diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Part A:
Mother	15	78.9%
Father	14	73.7%
Older brothers	6	31.6%
Younger brothers	5	26.3%
Older sisters	4	21.1%
Younger sisters	5	26.3%
Part B:
Mother	16	84.2%
Father	13	68.4%
Older brothers	7	36.8%
Younger brothers	5	26.3%
Older sisters	4	21.1%
Younger sisters	5	26.3%

How many attempts did you make to indicate your wishes to wear diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
1	3	15.8%
2	1	5.3%
3	0	0.0%
4	1	5.3%
5	2	10.5%
More than 5	1	5.3%
More than 10	2	10.5%
More than 20	5	26.3%
None (I already wear diapers)	4	21.1%
Total:	19

How did your parents find out that you were wearing/using diapers and/or peeing and/or pooping in your pants/underwear?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
They saw me in diapers (pantsless)	8	42.1%
They saw my diapers showing above pants	7	36.8%
They smelled pee odors	9	47.4%
They smelled poop odors	5	26.3%
They heard noises	5	26.3%
They found evidence of the diapers	7	36.8%
They found evidence of wet/poopy clothes	5	26.3%
They found other evidence	3	15.8%
Tattled on by brothers	3	15.8%
Tattled on by sisters	1	5.3%
I voluntarily told them myself	4	21.1%
I confessed after being confronted	5	26.3%

How did your brothers find out that you were wearing/using diapers and/or peeing and/or pooping in your pants/underwear?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
They saw me in diapers (pantsless)	7	36.8%
They saw my diapers showing above pants	2	10.5%
They smelled pee odors	4	21.1%
They smelled poop odors	2	10.5%
They heard noises	3	15.8%
They found evidence of the diapers	1	5.3%
They found evidence of wet/poopy clothes	2	10.5%
They found other evidence	2	10.5%
Told by parents	2	10.5%
I voluntarily told them myself	4	21.1%
I confessed after being confronted	0	0.0%

How did your sisters find out that you were wearing/using diapers and/or peeing and/or pooping in your pants/underwear?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
They saw me in diapers (pantsless)	10	52.6%
They saw my diapers showing above pants	3	15.8%
They smelled pee odors	4	21.1%
They smelled poop odors	2	10.5%
They heard noises	3	15.8%
They found evidence of the diapers	2	10.5%
They found evidence of wet/poopy clothes	2	10.5%
They found other evidence	1	5.3%
Told by parents	2	10.5%
I voluntarily told them myself	2	10.5%
I confessed after being confronted	0	0.0%

If you were caught in any way, how subtle or blatant were you with trying to get caught?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Very blatant	5	26.3%
Moderately blatant	0	0.0%
Moderately subtle	4	21.1%
Very subtle	1	5.3%
Didn't want to get caught at all	2	10.5%
Not applicable (I already wear diapers)	4	21.1%
Total:	19

What do you remember about diaper jealousy before age 6? What were your thoughts, feelings, wishes, etc.? How did you act upon these feelings?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	i wanted to wear diapers because my sister was in them
Tom	54	I was six and my brother was two and still in diapers. He would lay on the floor in his wet diapers and my Dad would get down and change him. I would lay next to him on the floor. Usually I had on pajamas but later I would put on a diaper or I would wet my pajamas and lay down. Dad would see me and scold me and make me change but would not diaper me. I wanted the attention and the feel of the diaper.
Zed	35	It took a long time for me to stay dry overnight, so I really wasn't all that jealous before I was 6 because I was in diapers at night until I was 5.
abdl_mark	26	i had just got over my problem with bed wetting when my brother was born. seeing him in diapers made me really jellious because i did not have them anymore. so i would wet the bed and my pants so that my parents would put me back in them
alex	16	I had diaper full time till i was 5 and nights till i was 9
diaperedteen	24	I remember that my brother was potty-trained before I was during the night, but I was out of them during the day and wanted to be in them so bad during the day. I had nite diapers until age 6, but was out of day diapers by age 2. I often took his diapers and wore them. I specifically rememeber a HUGE package of Huggies thick (the purple package back then, plus a red one) diapers sitting on the floor of his side of the closet and me wanting them SO bad.
Tom	23	I had no jealously because I wore diapers day and night
inpampers	36	I didn't have any jealousy about diapers before age 6 because when I was a little older than 4 I was put back into diapers. At first it was just at the daycare because I (pretended) to accidentally wet the bed during nap time. Then (again at the daycare) I wet my pants while playing and again the next day. I wet my pants once while at home without the results I wanted but the next day I wet my pants in the middle of the diaper aisle at the grocery store and that was the last straw. I was put back in diapers and wore them 24/7 for the next 2.5 years.

What do you remember about diaper jealousy between ages 6 and 12? What were your thoughts, feelings, wishes, etc.? How did you act upon these feelings?

Name	Age	Answer
Tom	54	As I got older, I finally just diapered myself and would make a point of being caught with my pants down so to speak. Dad saw me more than once. I still wanted to wear diapers. My brother stopped wearing them but we saw a baby next door in diapers and I wanted to wear them. Eventually Dad let me wear a cloth diaper around the house if no one was home except him and my little brother.
Zed	35	My family visited relatives out of states when I was 7, and my little sister was diapered so she wouldn't soak the sheets. I wished it was me who still had to wear diapers and woke up wet. When we got back home, I'd sneak the left over diapers she hadn't used out of my parents' bathrooms and pee and poop in them.
alex	16	When i was 7 i got a younger brother. i often looked at his diapers and hoped to get a diaper by day also. sometimes i also put a diaper on that age also by day. either from my own night diapers or i tried to put on a diaper from my bro.
		I was out of diapers, as was my brother, but wanted to be in them SO bad.
Bob	63	My little brother, who was about 3 years old at the time, pooped in his pants and my mother got mad and told him he was going to have to wear a baby diaper. After she diapered him, I begged her over and over to put a diaper on me. She just told me I was too old for diapers. There were times I would take a pair of my baby brothers plastic pants and wear them so my mother would see me in them. I was always told to take them off and not to wear them again.
Tom	23	Same as above
inpampers	36	When I was 7 my aunt & uncle came to stay with us along with her 3 year old son. When I saw her changing his diapers all my feelings came rushing back. One day when I thought everyone was out of the house I went into the guest room and helped myself to a couple of diapers and went back to my room to put one on. I was happy as a clam and crawled around my room acting like a baby (sucking my thumb etc.). I was standing in front of my mirror admiring my diaper when I had to pee, so I spread my legs a little wider and began peeing in my diaper when I saw my aunt's face over my shoulder in the reflection. She didn't say a word, just watched as I continued to wet my diaper. When she gathered that I was done she led me back to her room, laid me on her bed and changed my diaper. She kept me in diapers for the next 2 days and left me with some when they left. My mom found a couple of used ones in my closet but didn't mention anything to me until she caught me wearing one about 2 weeks later when I was staying home from school because I was "sick". After demanding to know where I had gotten it (and the 3 used ones in my closet that she revealed she had discovered) I told her that my aunt had given them to me after catching me wearing one. Mom insisted that I was lying, she threatened, spanked and eventually grounded me, brought me to the school nurse and told her that I was to be kept in diapers when I was in school and after a month found out from my aunt that I wasn't lying. She was so apologetic that she let me wear diapers any time I wanted for the next 3 years.

What do you remember about diaper jealousy between ages 12 and 18? What were your thoughts, feelings, wishes, etc.? How did you act upon these feelings?

Name	Age	Answer
Tom	54	When I was sixteen, I found out that my Granddad was making my cousin who was abuot 12 wear diapers at his house. Granddad was mad than my cousin would pee on the floor or have w big wet spot on the front of his jeans. Granddad was so mad that he put him in diapers. I was so mad. I liked seing cousin Charlie in diapers, but I wanted it too. I finally figured it out and I stood in from of Granddad in his kitchen wearing a t-shirt and white undershorts and proceeded to pee full throttle wetting myself and making a pee puddle on the kitchen floor. Granddad was so mad. He grabbed me by the arm and marched me into the hall bathroom. I was told to pull off the wet undershorts. He proceeded to spank me with a wooden bath brush while he was seated on the stool with me draped over his lap with my head between the wall and the toilet stool.
Zed	35	I missed having no control over my bladder and bowels. I remember just looking at a diaper, knowing what it was designed to do, and wishing putting one on cause me to piss and shit all over myself without having to force it.
alex	16	with 9 i got dry at night and didn't ger any more diapers. my bro was also late dry and had also diapers full day till he was nearly 6. with 12 my desire for being diapered was so big that i started to wet my bed again on purpose and drank much in the evening. after some days my mom asked why i wet my bed again. i told her that i don't feel it when i have to pee at night, it just happens. then she told me if i don't stop peeing at night she will diaper me again like my little bro. - oh i was happy, thats what i wanted. two days later i got real diapers that fitted me perfect.since that i am in diapers again every night and sometimes by day.
Idiaperedteen	24	finally gave up at age 12, and got a job and purchased my first package of diapers -- Luvs Size 5. They didn't fit me, but I loved them nonetheless.
Bob	63	Still having diaper wishes, I would take a bath towel to the attic and put it on like a diaper and wet it. This continued until my mother started missing her towels and couldn't figure what had happened to them.
Tom	23	Same as above
inpampers	36	I didn't really have any jealousy until I turned 14 and could no longer fit into baby diapers. But after a fair bit of brainstorming discovered that if I taped 2 together end-to-end and then taping one in the middle that it turned into a diaper big enough to fit me and when it was wet I could just remove the middle diaper (since it was the one that wrapped under my crotch) and replace it with a fresh one. It wasn't until I turned 17 that I discovered adult diapers and began wearing them

How did your mother react when she found out you wanted to wear diapers or were acting in such a manner as to indicate such wants?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	she never found out
Zed	35	Shocked, but understanding. I think she realized I wasn't ready to be potty trained when it was forced on me, and it made sense to see I wanted to be back in diapers.
		she thought that it was cute
diaperedteen	24	She was disgusted. I stole some from the daycare where she worked when I was 6 to 10 on a regular basis. She lectured me strongly about how diapers are only for babies, and questioned why I wanted them.
Bob	63	she just told me I was too old for diapers and would never diaper me.
Tom	23	I had to wear diapers
inpampers	36	see above

How did your father react when he found out you wanted to wear diapers or were acting in such a manner as to indicate such wants?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	surprised, not surprisingly
Tom	54	He was pissed and swore at me and called me names. "You fucking little bastard". "I will show you how we treat babies around here". He finally diapered me. He was still upset loking at me on the floor wearing a diaper. I was all happy and smiling. He reached down and slapped my face and then slid off his belt and used it across my backside. I cried but I also had an erection.
Zed	35	Dad didn't know, as far as I know.
alex	16	He accepted that i wet my bed again and he also often diaperes me and my bro at night.
diaperedteen	24	He was somewhat more forgiving, rationalizing that I needed day diapers still due to my many accidents and to "protect the furniture and car." Sadly, my mother won that argument.
Tom	23	Same as above

How did your brothers react when they found out you wanted to wear diapers or were acting in such a manner as to indicate such wants?

Name	Age	Answer
Tom	54	He was younger and told Dad immediately. He later teased me since he was no longer diapered but I was.
Zed	35	No brothers.
alex	16	my little bro was happy that i now also had diapers at night and that my mom often diaperes us side by side in the bathroom.my bro is also still a bedwetter
diaperedteen	24	Indifference. He never teased me, and is a great brother.
Tom	23	Same as above

How did your sisters react when they found out you wanted to wear diapers or were acting in such a manner as to indicate such wants?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	she was very young so she only watched my dad's reaction
Zed	35	I don't think they knew.
Bob	63	The one time I remember is that my sister got scared that my mother woould find out and told me I should take it off.
Tom	23	No sisters
inpampers	36	thought it was funny/cute. Teased me. Changed my diapers.

How were you punished for your diaper-jealousy actions? If your parents conceded, how did this concession come about?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	he let me wear my own sized diapers
Tom	54	I was disciplined for bad behaviors and once it was established that I actually wanted to wear diapers,it was open season on discipline. Dad used this to keep me in lne and submissive. If I ever talked back, I was slapped across the face immediately. If I ever did something wrong like pee my pants, I was spanked hard, diapered and stood in the corner. I was often the center of attention when Dad would have some neighbor guys over. I was to get them beers and sit on the floor, usually wearing diapers. They would all laugh at me and slap me around. I was to be silent and I obeyed.
Zed	35	No punishment. When my mother knew I wanted to be back in diapers, she bought them for me and lectured me on how to keep myself clean and hygienic.
abdl_mark	26	made me wear them 24/7 for the entire summer. pee and poop. any time i was at the house i could not wear pants as to embarress me.
		i didn't
alex	16	The thoight that i am real bedwetter again. later they also found me wearing diapers by day. then i had to wear diapers for two month till sommer holidays 24/7. They thought if i have to wear all day like a baby i would stop wearing diapers. it was the best time of my life, cause only my parents changed me the whole two month, like a real baby. then they accepted that i would wear diapers any more and that i would stay a bedwetter. now i get diapers every night and wear them often by day at home.
diaperedteen	24	Strong lectures. When I started buying my own diapers, I would hide them and they would throw them away. This cycle continued very often.

Describe how blatant or subtle you were with any plans to get caught wearing/using diapers and/or peeing and/or pooping your pants/underwear. Did you have any "plan"? How successfully executed was your plan? What was the actual versus intended result?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	i tried to be moderately blatant yet subtle but there was not a plan i just winged it
Tom	54	I wanted to wear diapers. I had two cloth diapers that I would pin on myself and I would stand in my room with the door open pretending to put on my pajamas. DAd would eventually walk by and I would bend over to put my foot in the PJ's or have my arms over my head with the PJ top over my face exposing my diapers below. I would pee my pants to force diapers and I would eventually ask DAd if I could wear my diapers and eventually he just said yes. I was more comfortable and he liked the dominant role.
Zed	35	Mildly subtle. I wouldn't wear diapers in a situation where they'd be noticed, but I'd "hide" dirty ones where I hoped they would be. It wasn't until I'd decided I didn't want anyone to know I was using diapers and tried to hide them that anyone found out I was.
diaperedteen	24	I did have accidents, but it did not matter.
Bob	63	I was wearing a pair of plastic pants out in the open one evening. When my mother saw I was wearing them she told me to take them off and to never wear them again. Which I did anyway, but when alone.
Tom	23	Everyone always saw me in my diapers

If you could have done it differently, what would you have done?

Name	Age	Answer
chris	16	just asked up front
Tom	54	I would have asked to wear diapers 24/7. I would have liked more exposure in front of others. I would have wanted others to know that I wore diapers and to change me when I was wet.
Zed	35	I wish I hadn't kept my diaper love hidden for so long, and let everyone know sooner that I'd rather mess myself than use the toilet.
diaperedteen	24	Had many more accidents, especially in school, where some of my best friends were still in diapers.
Bob	63	Pooped in my pants like my little brother had done. I think then she would have diapered me.
Tom	23	Nothing

Average Age of respondents to this question:	27.8
Range of ages of respondents:	11 -  63

Age Distribution
Under 10	0
10-14	3
15-19	4
20-24	3
25-29	2
30-34	0
35-39	3
40-44	0
45-49	0
50-54	2
55-59	0
60-64	1
65-69	0
70-74	0
75-79	0
80+	0

Youth Age Distribution
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	0
11	1
12	0
13	1
14	1
15	0
16	3
17	1

Diaper Types
Single disposable diapers- plain white	15
Single disposable diapers- plain white	7
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored	3
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	4
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	7
Single cloth diapers- plain white	5
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored	4
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	3
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	1
Multiple underpants- plain white	0
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	1
Other makeshift diapers	6
Single plastic pants- plain	3
Single plastic pants- patterned/colored	1
Multiple plastic pants- plain	0
Percentage of those 18+ who only wore these diapers as a boy:	9.09%

Pantslessness
Always	2
Usually	6
Sometimes	7
Rarely	2
Never	0
Percentage of those 18+ who reported being pantsless as a boy	18.18%

Diaper Usage
Pee	17
Poop	6
Percent of brothers 18+ whose diaper usage reported only as a boy	18.18%

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