How often do you have messy bowel movements in your diapers?

Number of responses received: 51

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Before age 13- Always	13	25.5%
Before age 13- Usually	7	13.7%
Before age 13- Sometimes	13	25.5%
Before age 13- Rarely	9	17.6%
Before age 13- Never	7	13.7%
Ages 13 to 17- Always	6	11.8%
Ages 13 to 17- Usually	6	11.8%
Ages 13 to 17- Sometimes	13	25.5%
Ages 13 to 17- Rarely	4	7.8%
Ages 13 to 17- Never	5	9.8%
Ages 18 and over- Always	5	9.8%
Ages 18 and over- Usually	9	17.6%
Ages 18 and over- Sometimes	5	9.8%
Ages 18 and over- Rarely	2	3.9%
Ages 18 and over- Never	1	2.0%
Total:	51

What makes your bowel movements messy?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Diapers too loose	5	9.8%
Diapers too tight	4	7.8%
Diapers too thin	3	5.9%
Inferior diapers	4	7.8%
Diet	6	11.8%
Medication	4	7.8%
Diapers not changed	6	11.8%
Diarrhea	4	7.8%
Other medical cause	1	2.0%
Other	2	3.9%

How do you feel about messy bowel movements?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
I really don't like them	8	15.7%
I don't like them	11	21.6%
I don't mind them	13	25.5%
I like them	5	9.8%
I really like them	13	25.5%
Total:	51

What is the extent of the poop spread in a messy bowel movement?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Poop on more than half of buttocks	33	64.7%
Poop up in butt crack	33	64.7%
Poop throughout the crotch	31	60.8%
Poop on balls	28	54.9%
Poop up into the front of the diapers	26	51.0%
Poop leaks out sides of crotch	24	47.1%
Poop leaks out of seat of diapers	21	41.2%
Poop leaks out the top of diapers	16	31.4%
I've left poop stains on a cushioned chair/couch	14	27.5%
I've left poop stains on a hard chair	14	27.5%
I've left poop stains on a carpeted floor	13	25.5%
I've left poop stains on a tiled/hard floor	13	25.5%
I've left poop stains in my bed	25	49.0%
I've left poop stains in another person's bed	12	23.5%
I've left poop stains in the car	16	31.4%
I've left poop stains in other places	15	29.4%

How do you prevent messy bowel movements from leaking?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Wear thicker diapers	26	51.0%
Wear diapers tighter but not too tight	22	43.1%
Wear diapers looser but not too loose	7	13.7%
Wear plastic pants (with disposables)	17	33.3%
Wear plastic pants (with cloth diapers)	14	27.5%
Wear higher-rising diapers	16	31.4%
Wear diapers wider in the crotch	19	37.3%

In which places have you had a messy bowel movement in your diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Home	49	96.1%
School	27	52.9%
College	9	17.6%
Work	13	25.5%
Friend's house	25	49.0%
Friend of brother's house	13	25.5%
Friend of sister's house	12	23.5%
Grandparents' house	26	51.0%
Aunt/uncle's house	20	39.2%
Store	30	58.8%
Restaurant	22	43.1%
Movie theater	20	39.2%
Church	17	33.3%
Airport/airplane	17	33.3%
Jail/juvenile detention	3	5.9%
Other public transport	14	27.5%

In which school settings have you had a messy bowel movement in your diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Daycare/preschool	26	51.0%
Kindergarten	24	47.1%
Elementary school	22	43.1%
Junior high/middle school	19	37.3%
High school	12	23.5%
School bus	17	33.3%
Classroom	20	39.2%
Playground	21	41.2%
Gymnasium	14	27.5%
Playing field	15	29.4%
Lunch room/cafeteria	15	29.4%
Gymnasium	8	15.7%
Locker room	11	21.6%
Bathroom (other than while on toilet)	14	27.5%
Other	17	33.3%

Who knows it when you have a messy bowel movement?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Mother	31	60.8%
Father	28	54.9%
Grandparents	23	45.1%
Aunts/uncles	22	43.1%
Older brothers	13	25.5%
Younger brothers	16	31.4%
Older sisters	16	31.4%
Younger sisters	14	27.5%
Friends	23	45.1%
Boys in school	19	37.3%
Girls in school	19	37.3%
Boy babysitters	11	21.6%
Girl babysitters	18	35.3%
Adult babysitters	13	25.5%
Other boys	13	25.5%
Other girls	15	29.4%

What are the indications to the persons listed above of a messy bowel movement?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
They see poop leaking (no pants on)	14	27.5%
Poop smears left behind on furniture or floor	13	25.5%
The sound	18	35.3%
Bulge in back of diapers	29	56.9%
Brown stains in back of diapers	27	52.9%
The smell	39	76.5%
I tell them	23	45.1%

How long does/did a messy bowel movement usually take to clean up and what did it involve?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Less than 5 minutes	4	7.8%
5 to 10 minutes	17	33.3%
10 to 15 minutes	6	11.8%
15 to 20 minutes	9	17.6%
More than 20 minutes	12	23.5%
Toilet paper	17	33.3%
Baby wipes	40	78.4%
Shower	27	52.9%
Bath	15	29.4%
Extra diapering afterwards	16	31.4%
Pants left off	15	29.4%
Frequent erections from wiping	16	31.4%
Masturbation from brother or other boys	5	9.8%
Masturbation from sisters or other girls	7	13.7%
Self-masturbation	14	27.5%
Total:	51

In which kinds of diapers did you have messy bowel movements as a young boy (before age 13)?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Single disposable diapers- plain white	35	68.6%
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored	23	45.1%
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	10	19.6%
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	8	15.7%
Single cloth diapers- plain white	14	27.5%
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored	6	11.8%
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	21	41.2%
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	7	13.7%
Multiple underpants- plain white	7	13.7%
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	7	13.7%
Other makeshift diapers	7	13.7%
I was often pantless (more than 50% of the time)	26	51.0%
I was changed by my mother	27	52.9%
I was changed by my father	13	25.5%
I was changed by my brothers	11	21.6%

What do you consider to be a "messy" bowel movement? What criteria makes it messy vs. non-messy?

Name	Age	Answer
jamie	17	A messy bowel movment is a bowel movement that is not hard, it should feel realy squishy when you sit on it
kyl	14	my messy bowle movment consist of manly leakege diariah and deep smeel
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	The looser the messier. Sitting produces the worst messes, as the feces must spread beneath ones buttocks. Pasty feces are the worst to clean, as they stick like glue to the buttocks. Diarrhea is not so bad, because the liquid is absorbed by the bel crystals in the diaper, leaving only what dry pieces remain. I would far rather deal with diarrhea than pasty stool.
samooel (sam-oo-el)	14	I consider it messy when the diaper is so full it physically can't hold anymore poop
zack	9	i consider a messy bm either very runny (like diarrhea) or a lot of it
Tom	15	Solid poops I don't find messy, but diarrhea is messy.
Mike J	18	the mess should be everywhere
diaperedteen	23	If it is not in solid form, is of liquid nature, and spreads throughout the diaper easily
Cody	17	If my poop stays hard and only is in my butt crack and don't spread anywheres else that it isn't messy. But if I poop alot and it speads all over my balls and penis then it's messy. Sometimes I don't get a change and then I poop again so alot of poop is in my diaper and it gets really messy. I don't mind a messy diaper.
	14	diahrea on the diaper changers hands
	23	A messy poo poo is when i have the time to sit in my poopy diaper and play without changing. The big load gets all over my butt and i like to touch my butt, reminding myself that i'm a naughty boy who likes having a stinky bum.
NoMetalAlchemist	14	It was messy. When the diapers are all full of poop
15diapersthick	17	when it really stinks and smears up to my balls is a really messy diaper. when it is gooy it is messy when it is nonmessy is when it is just dryier.
Nicholas	12	If i have poop on my back it is a messy bowel movement. Sometimes if i play after i have pooped i am dirty on my back up to my neck when mom changes me.
RJ	46	If it's really mushy or if there is a lot of it. Sometimes under punishment I wouldn't get changed until I had done more than one load. Those were very bad.
john	13	most of my bowel accidents are cleaned up immediately and not difficult to clean up. my messiest diapers are when i am sick asleep or had to sit in the messed diaper. the worst messes are when my waterproof pants do not hold the poopies.
		when mommy breast feeds me or mommy feeds me prunes or cheese. my poopoo is really soft and loose and goes all over my diapers, up the front and up back and all over.
Allen	17	mushy, runny poop that isn't in one big lump
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	A messy Bowel Movement, is one that is mostly loose and gooey, very large and also cover the genitals and pubic area.
Poopy1	6	When my poopy fills my diaper. My poopy gets over my chair, mommy doesn't like when my poopy gets on the
wolf	15	hard to clean up
alexander	10	its messy once it leavs the diaper
diaperbutt	24	leaking out the back, front, and/or crotch, very runny, or if I smeared a really big poop around in my diapers
Bonnaci	22	Poop that slides around quickly when you move. Poop that just sort of flows out, you don't have to really push.
Grub	37	They're all messy. Most of them are contained inside the diaper but the ones from an enema are too much for the diaper. Of course I make them messier sometimes by smearing the poop. I have a particular "feeling" that I like from my mess. I love it when the poop is very firm and there's heaps of it. The BEST feeling is having that squeeze right up my butt crack and up to the top of my nappy at the back! When it's nice and firm, this big thick slab of poo sticks to your back and just feels awesome when I then hump a pillow wearing the nappy and cum in bucket loads

Describe your messiest bowel movement ever, especially if it occurred before age 13. How old were you at the time, where were you when it happened, what kinds of diapers were you wearing, were you pantless, what caused it to be so messy, what was the extent of the mess (both inside and outside of diapers) and who cleaned you up? How ong did the clean-up take (including diapering time)?

Name	Age	Answer
jamie	17	My messiest bowel movment I ever had in a diaper was a couple of days ago. When I sat on it it smeered all over my diaper area. I was wearing depends fitted maximum protection. I was pantless, it was so messy because I just had a loose stool. As I said it smeered all over my diaper region, I had to clean myself up. the clean up took 15 minutes plus and a good 20 plus baby wipes. The reason I said that was the messiest bowel movment I ever had in a diaper was because I have had many worse bowel movements but they wear in a toilet, I was like why why why cant I wear a diaper to have this great bowel movement in it.
kyl	14	i was 12 and had a friend over (he knows and wheres diaper to)we would often change each other and neither of use have any bowle control so we went to sleep and woke up loaded so i change him and loaded my self just on the smell and changed me and as he put a clean diaper on me i stood up look at my old one and loaded my self again so did he tis went on until we stoped changeimng each other and cept two dirty diapers on all day untoil my sis came home and changed us both
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	I really never had any really messy bowel movements before age 13, and those I did experience were under very controled circumstances. I did soil my diaper on the way back from Philosophy class because I could not hold it, and that would have to be the messiest. The mess was like thin oatmeal, not quite solid but not quite liquid. Fortunately, as I eat very little meat, it did not smell much. I went immediately to my room, removed the diaper, wiped myself down and dried myself off. I then took a long cold shower, which I do in the summer. No one noticed, but I did not want to repeat the event anyway.
samooel (sam-oo-el)	14	I was at home alone at age 12 and since I liked to poop my pants I remembered my mom had some laxatives so I took some of those and watched TV(just diaper one) and I heard my stomachrumbling so I got up and squatted and then pooped my diaper. and then went on watching TV. but then about 30 min. later I had to go again but the urge was stronger. so strong that it came out by itself so I went into the bathroom as it was coming out and I was wearing a white diaper which was now brown and a little goldish brown on the front since I also peed my diaper a lot. and then it started coming out in every which way and I actually had to hold the diaper so it wouldn't fall
zack	9	when i was about 7 and i was sick i had diarrhea and it leaked out of my diapers on the couch. my mom channged me and i took a bath to clean up
Tom	15	I was 15. I made an especially large diarrhea movement in my diaper. I was in my house wearing a single Secure Plus diaper. Poop was all over my crotch and behind area. It took me half an hour to clean everything.
Mike J	18	It was last week. I went to the doctor's office for an annual check-up. I was having difficulty holding the BM in. After getting weighed and blood pressure checked, I couldn't hold it in anymore. I then let out the biggest BM I ever remember. It went everywhere. I thought of trying to clean it up in the bathroom, but talked myself out of it. My doctor walked in, shook my hand and did the hernia test (you know, the cough routine). He then noticed my BM and mashed it up. He placed me up on the table and slid a fresh diaper underneath my loaded one. Afterwards, he untaped it and pulled back the depend. He then raised by bottom that he said was covered completely and started wiping the mess. He did it in an efficient manner by wiping me and then going through the check-up talking about blood pressure and weight. Once he was done, he rolled up the depend, threw it into the trash and rubbed my bum with some sort of vaseline-like material which was very good. He then put the new diaper on me very tightly and continued with the check-up. Fortunately, he didn't seem too upset about the inconvenience. Though he did do it quickly without any grudge. Overall, it took Dr. Roman a good 3.5 minutes.
Cody	17	When I was 11 we went camping from Friday to Tuesday and over the weekend I wasn't changed at all. I was wearing multiple cloth diapers and I spend 2 nights in them and I was really packed with poop and it started to leak before my sister changed me. My brothers even didn't want to sleep with me.
Olympianbabe	15	I was 3.I did it in the tub.I was pantless!!!!!!my mom picked it up.Took about one minute.
	14	luvs i was 13 my friends house, my friend and i were pantless i had a stomache ache so i was given medicine that makes you poop, friends mom cleaned me up about five minutes
	23	I am currently wearing one of my messiest diapers. I am 23. I've been wearing my loaded diaper for over 48 hours. It's stinky but not uncomfortable because i haven't been peeing in it. I've filled it several times, but i'm trying to keep it contained by not sitting down on it, so there is a huge bulge over my whole butt. It's coming out of the legs a bit, but I'm wearing pyjamas so it's not getting all over.
NoMetalAlchemist	14	I was eight. I had to poop, yet I didn't want to cause I was in class. I was wearing disposable diapers, with pants, and it leaked out of my diapers and pants. I ran straight into the bathroom, so I don't know how long it took or who cleaned it up.
15diapersthick	17	well i was 15 and i got near to diarrhea like movements and i was at my grandmother's house, she had gone down to the store so i was home alone for about 4 hrs. i had on a plain white diaper without my pants i had several bowel movements (all wetter each time) over a 1hr period. when i was through i had poop from my back to my stomachand it was running down my legs. it took about 1 and a half hrs. to get clean. it was fun though.
Nicholas	12	Last winter i pooped while i was playing outside in my snowsuit and i just continued to play afterwards. I was in cloth diapers and plastic pants but it could not hold my poop because i was riding on a sledge. When i got inside i had poop everywhere inside my snowsuit and it took mom more than half an hour to change me.
john	13	the worst diaper mess i remember was last winter when i was 12. i had the flu and i woke up on a saturday morning and i cried because my bed and i were messed with poop.i must have had a couple of accidents during the night. my sister and her girlfriend were the only people in the house and they came running when i yelled. after my sister and her girlfriend recovered from the sight of me,my clothes and the sheets covered with poop they helped me from the bed to the changing table. the girls collected wash cloths,clean diapers, fresh waterproof panties and the diaper pail. when they came to the table to change me they undid the front and crotch snaps of my sleeper and removed it i saw that they were surprised and "pleased" with having me to clean up, i had poop from my ankles to my neck, they started with my legs and wiped me clean before tackling my diaper.they removed my panties and the second diaper then they unpinned the inner diaper when nadene ,the girl friend ask my sisetr if she could could finish changing and diapering me. so my sister held my legs back while nadene lowered the front of the diaper and began wiping the poopie from my belly and penis she turned the diaper and continued with my bunns and butt nadene wiping the mess from my butt realy felt good.then they rolled me over and finished the job. i had a nasty rash so nadene rubed desitin on the rash. nadene slid a new diaper under me spread my legs and pinned it on and covered it with clean white panties.
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	My, our, messiest was planned by our sisters and other girls- friends of our sisters, we were fed brkfst, lunch, and dinner, and then also in between, then given a laxative. We kept going & going, till it covered our front genitals, we all got erections, an there was so much poop, you could not see our pee-pees, it took nearly 45 min. to clean us up, but we also masturbated in our diapers in the poop, then with gloved hands our sisters and the girls masturbated us several more times. It was so much poop, that it leaked around our legs into our Plastic baby pants.
peter14	14	i was about 12 years old. i am a bedwetter, so i usually wear diapers at night. that time i had a really bad diarrhea. for that reason my mother diapered me in the evening with a thick disposable diaper and a plastic pant. i was very deep sleeping like usually. when i awake in the morning the diaper was really full with pee and poop and also the poop leaked on the side. the diarrhea was so heavy, that my mother kept me the whole day in diapers. i messed a lot and sometimes it leaked also during day. my mother changed me that day. she cleaned me with wipes and gave me a shower. sometimes that day my mother had to clean me so intense (the poop was also at my penis) that i became an erection and one time i also ejaculated. she didn't say anything. it was the only time i ejaculated when i was changed by my mother.
Poopy1	6	last weekend my cousin came over, I was playing Lego Star Wars when my poopy said it needed to come out of my butt. I was wearing huggies. I didn't want to wear pants. I was being a good boy. On the day before, I ate a lot. I stood up, and announced that my poopy was coming. I wanted to sit on my cousin, and he let me. I sat and farted. I felt a poop left me, and then another one, and then I felt diaarhea come out of my bottom. My cousin rolled from under me, and I landed on the floor. my poopy was warm! my cousin then said he needed to change me. i was being changed, and i went peepee in his face. I pushed out another poopy and more diarrhea. my didy was FULL!
alexander	10	my sister didnt diaper me good enough, so it was really loose. i didnt feel sick but had diareah from a medication i was on for allergies. at first it was fine but then it started leaking all over the place. i was pantless at the time. it got all over our lether couch where i was laying watching a movie, then it left a trail on the floor when i ws walking around the house looking for somebody to tell. just my luck my sister locked herself in her romm with a bunch of friends (i think they might have been smoking because the music was blaring, there was a wet towel under the door and it smelt really funny) and my parents werent gonna be home for another hour (they were with my brother at a doctor appointment)so i went back to the couch and watched tv. when my parents got home i was litterally sitting in a pile of shit. and was crying because of the discomfort. my mom walked me to the bathroom and my dad brought wipes and a garbage bag. and my mom removed the diaper, wiped the mess off then told me to take a shower. when i got out my dad put a new diaper on me and told me to go play video games with my brother. my parents were yelling at my sister for having friends over and neglecting me. she had to clean up the mess. when i went out to get a glass of dr. pepper my sister was in the kitchen and she looked really out of it. so when i went back to my room i told my brother and we both laughed.
Bonnaci	22	My messiest soiled diaper was after I was given a small fleet enema (the kind that draws water into the bowels) when I was 19. I soiled my diaper within minutes, and leaked all over the floor. Clean up was awful! It took 15 minutes to get clean in the shower, and another 10 minutes to clean the floor. Diapering took another two or three minutes.
Grub	37	I was 12 and it was holidays so I was home all day by myself. I got a hose and a funnel and made myself an enema. I just kept filling up until I was in real pain. The only nappies I had were home made from lots and lots of old sheets froom the linne cupboard. The nappy was so thick I couldn't walk. I let the enema go and even though I had like 7 nappies on (no plastics), it leaked everywhere. The worst was out the leg holes and all down my legs. I was in the batthroom so I could watch it in the mirror but I didn't really like it down my legs - too bad :)

What are your more memorable moments dealing with messy bowel movements in school? In which grades did they occur and where? Did boys and/or girls witness/observe it? How did they react? How did teachers react? How was it dealt with and how did you feel about it?

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	i some howq never had one i remember
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	I have none, as I never did it in school. I only messed my diapers in the privacy of my own home or the like, with the exception of the event previously mentioned.
zack	9	when i was at recess i really had to go so i did and it was alot and some leaked out into my pants so i told the teachers and they told me to go to the nurse and theyd call my mom to bring me different pants so i went to my backpack to get a new diaper and went to the boys bathroom to change and then a couple boys in an older grade came in and saw me and they teased me and shoved my dirty diaper in my face... they stole my pants and i had to run to the nurses office to tell her what happend in just my diapers... alot of people saw me and it was embarrassing people commented behind my back and teased me.. when i got to the nurses office i told her what happened and she told the principal who called them to the office... she tried to get them to apologise to me but they wouldn't and they teased me again and told me they hung my dirty pants in the bathroom for everyone to see... the principal got really mad and she gave them a detention for a week and they had to clean up the bathrooms... i think that when there moms found out they made them wear diapers to school for the next three weeks because the next monday he came to school and had a buldge in his pants like a diaper... i was in 3rd grade then i thin...
Tom	15	Don't wear to school Kindergarten = classroom = changed by parent = kids laughing/disgusted grade = classroom = changed by substitute teacher 3rd grade = office = changed by principal (he wasn't so thrilled and I accidentally peed on his beard. I was so embarrassed. 7th grade = Mackinaw Island = changed by male chaperone. It was the best. He wore depends as well, but were hidden by Briefs. Afterwards, I saw him being changed by another male chaperone (we shared a hotel room) 10th grade = locker room = changed by my coach = he liked it as he is divorced and never raised any kids, but didn't want to. He called me daddy's little guy. The way he wiped made it feel like you were being changed hours after it even happened.
Olympianbabe	15	none
charlie	55	Second grade, had a bit of an upset stomach and the teacher wouldn't let me go to the bathroom. Wound up making a load in my pants, which spread all over. I was made fun of when getting ready to leave as some girls noticed the smell and my nervousness. I was called a baby, stinky butt and poopy pants.
	14	daycare age 13 nobody cared cleaned up fast
NoMetalAlchemist	14	There weren't any.
15diapersthick	17	i never had any messy diapers in school but in elementery school i was waiting to go home and pooped on my self.
Nicholas	12	I get changed in the nursery at my school and i get changed by the nursery teachers or the helpers. The nursery teachers are used to change messy diapers because some of the little kids in the nursery wears diapers too. Some of the helpers hates to change me if my diapers are very messy. Two years ago on an excursion with my class i pooped a lot and one of my teachers had to change me on a table in a park. I did not like that cause some of the boys and girls in my class saw me laying on the table with my legs lifted and a very dirty bottom. In the bus on the way home i was teased alot about it.
john	13	i was never potty trained so i have always been diapered at school and mess my diaper at least once a day so everyone is used to it and treat the diaper as a disability. i have had girls in school volunteer to diaper me but i refuse the nurse is very kind even when the mess is nasty.
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	since we were home schooled it was seen and our diaper changes were always in front of all who wanted to watch.
Poopy1	6	I never want to go to school!
wolf	15	kindergarden- 2nd grade. yes. "EWWW" . my freind would change me. i made sure i wasn't teased about it

What have your parents said about your messy bowel movements? How do/did they handle your messy diaper changes?

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	they dont say any thing because i cant control it so they just change me
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	They said and did nothing, as they did not know. I ONLY do that stuff when I am away from their prying eyes.
zack	9	they know i cant help it and they get me to take a shower when there really messy to clean me off
Mike J	18	They weren't so crazy about changing me and did a sloppy job. When my aunt and uncle were over, they always asked my uncle to change me which enjoyed it. He was incontinent as well so he relates a lot too me. Also, he does a better job at changing me (better wiping, diapers me tighter, etc.)
Olympianbabe	15	my mom just picked up my doo-doo after i made it. it was kinda hilarious.
charlie	55	Mom told me I was a big baby and needed diapers, but she put rubber pants over my undies for awhile
	14	yuck, they use lots of wipes
NoMetalAlchemist	14	They are upset with me. They keep me in the dirty diapers for an hour.
15diapersthick	17	they let me take care of it
Nicholas	12	I am always changed by mom. Sometimes if i have had a very messy bowel movement mom ask me tell her as soon as i have had an accident and not just continue to play afterwards.
john	13	no problem between mom and my sisters they change the messy diapers because they do not trust me to change the diaper when it is messed
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	They thought it was good for us to have large messy bowel movements since we alway got sexual gratification also from them.
Poopy1	6	Mommy and daddy say my poopy stinks. they change me outside and leve my didys outside
wolf	15	they just changed me like i was a baby
diaperbutt	24	they knew that they would happen so they didn't say too much. They just changed me and sent me back
Bonnaci	22	Typically a bath was used to change messy diapers.

What have your brothers and/or other boys said about your messy bowel movements? How do/did they handle your messy diaper changes?

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	same as the parents
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	Same as above. I do not have brothers however.
zack	9	my brothers help me out and my older brother changes me sometimes...
Olympianbabe	15	none
	14	i stink, they don't change me
NoMetalAlchemist	14	Nothing.
15diapersthick	17	no brothers
Nicholas	12	Other boys hate the smell.
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	N/A since they to have to wear diapers, and have had messy bowel movements.
Poopy1	6	My brother says that my poopie stinks. one morning I went poopie in my didy on top of him when he was sleeping. He tells mommy and daddy when I poop
diaperbutt	24	as above

What have your sisters and/or other girls said about your messy bowel movements? How do/did they handle your messy diaper changes?

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	my sisters friends often throw up because i smell
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	Same as above, but I only have one younger sister.
zack	9	my sister changes me too...
Mike J	18	They didn't care
Olympianbabe	15	next time i hafta poop during my bath, my mom just put a diaper on me.
charlie	55	Sister called me a big baby like mom did. Once when being babysat I made a load in my night diaper and sis got angry. She didn't want to change me but eventually did. I was 7 and she was disgusted with the mess. I had poop all over my butt and balls, and got put into the shower for cleanup.
	14	they say is smells but don;t mind changing me
NoMetalAlchemist	14	Nothing.
15diapersthick	17	or sisters
Nicholas	12	My sister says it is yukki when i have a very dirty accident. Yesterday when i came into her room she would not have me to sit on any of her furnitures because she could smell that my diapers were dirty. My babysitter Sandra does not care if i have a very dirty accident. She just changes me.
john	13	the girls show a screwy face but i am sure they love to wipe my messy butt and penis
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	They think it funny and a normal but shameful thing that is for all boys to experience.
diaperbutt	24	as above
Bonnaci	22	My girlfriend does not like my messy diapers at all. I must clean myself up, and am often given a few spanks on my bottom while she is diapering me again.

What do you like/dislike about messy bowel movements?

Name	Age	Answer
jamie	17	I love the feel of them, I hate the changing of them unless it is done by someone else.
kyl	14	i dont like the clean up my dick gets to big and hard
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	I dislike the feeling and the cleanup, which is why I seldom soil myself intentionally. I do like the diaper's convenience when diarrhea strikes, especially because the cleanup is usually relatively easy. Most diarrhea episodes from the past three years or so have been contained within the thickness of a diaper.
samooel (sam-oo-el)	14	I love filling my diaper cause it makes it feel so heavy that sometimes I have to hold it to keep it from falling
zack	9	i dont like them at all because i dont like messy diapers... they smell bad and feel bad...
Tom	15	It feels kinda cool at first but it's hard to clean up and smells really bad.
DiaperedDavid	38	The cleanup.
Mike J	18	I like the mess getting everywhere and being wiped by people. The embarrassment made it pretty unbearable.
diaperedteen	23	I like the feel. I like it nice and warm throughout my diaper. It feels good. I also like the smell.
Olympianbabe	15	I like it cause i eat too much and when i poop it all out it makes my stomach fell better.I also hate it cause it's messy and it smells bad
	14	stinky slimy
	23	It sucks having to get changed out of my poopy diaper eventually.
NoMetalAlchemist	14	I like the fact that I don't need to go poddy anywhere except in my diapers.
15diapersthick	17	the clean up, but if i am alone it can be alright
Nicholas	12	I like the feeling when my poop spreads in my diaper. I dont like when i get poop on my clothes.
john	13	i like it when the girls, my mom and the other women wipe the poopies from my penis and poop hole
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	it is a strange exciting feeling, that is sexually stimulating and only a boy can know that experience and erection, by experiencing it.
Poopy1	6	They are warm and soft. why do mommy and daddy want me out of them?
wolf	15	warm :D ... really smells and leaks :(
diaperbutt	24	I love really messy diapers beacuse it takes alot longer to clean me up and I get more pleasure from it
Bonnaci	22	I like how easy they are to have. I also like how they soak into the diaper and therefore leave a very noticeable brown spot (so a quick glance will tell anyone that you've soiled your diapers). I dislike the clean up quite a bit, and the smell tends to be worse than a standard soiled diaper.
Grub	37	It makes me feel "little", like I have no control. I don't like to have to push out a BM because that's not very babyish. I get such a hard on its painful

As a young boy (before age 13), was it better for you to go pantsless when you had messy bowel movements? Explain why or why not,or if it mattered.

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	i always had pants on it helped absorb the over flow
samooel (sam-oo-el)	14	it didn't matter. I just liked to poop in my diaper
zack	9	yes it was because for one thing i could wear multiple diapers to help and two it would be easier to clean then to clean it outta my pants if it leaked..
Tom	15	It was better to go pantsless cause then it wouldn't leak on my pants.
Mike J	18	I only wore them with pants. It conceals the mess better
diaperedteen	23	Yes, because if I leaked, then I didn't leak onto my pants at least
Olympianbabe	15	yeh cause i wouldn't get diaper rash
	14	yes it was easier to change
NoMetalAlchemist	14	Better. My parents could tell whether or not my diaper was filled or not.
15diapersthick	17	no i did not ever want any one to know
Nicholas	12	When i have a big accident it is better to be pantsless because then there is more room in my diapers for my poop. However it is also easy to see for everyone that i have pooped alot when i am pantsless.
RJ	46	If it was during the day I was pantless because I would be under diaper punishment. If it was at night, I might have pajamas on over the diaper if it was wintertime, otherwise just the diaper and a tee shirt to sleep in.
john	13	no it was not easier for me but it leves less poopy laundry for mom and my sisters
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	going pantless, is an absolute for us boys, we're given no choice in the matter, only diapers and plastic baby pants 24/7.
Poopy1	6	Yes my mommy says pants get dirty when i am in them.
diaperbutt	24	Yes so it was easier to check my diapers, also I rarely wore pants anyways so it didn't matter much
Bonnaci	22	Yes, pantless is the way to go. I've always been afraid of staining my pants (which is silly, really... Pants can be washed).
Grub	37	My nappies were too big to fit in pants but I would try to get some on so that they would hold the nappy up. I liked it being tight to my body so I coule feel the wetness and the poop

Did you ever warn the diaper changer that he or she was going to be dealing with a big mess? If he or she already knew about it, how did they know and indicate to you that they knew? Did they ever indicate that you were messier than you expected it to be? If so, how did they indicate this?

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	i always worn friends changeing me psarents or baby sitters thjat im loaded
samooel (sam-oo-el)	14	I change myself so N/A
zack	9	yes i have they dont mind...
Tom	15	I change myself.
Mike J	18	I always tell my coach, my uncle and my doctor this. They always say how could you have outdone yourself from yesterdays behemoth. Once they pull back the front, they always gasp in belief " Mike, how the hell can you turn your lunch into THAT?!?!?"
Olympianbabe	15	no
charlie	55	My sister's friends were over doing homework when I told sis I needed to use the bathroom but she told me to wait, so I got annoyed and pooped in my diaper. One of her friends smelled me told sis I stunk, called sis over who checked. She pulled down my pj's then pulled the back of my rubber pants and looked in the diaper and saw a big mess and got angry. Her friends watched and said ewwwwww. I didn't say anything but put my thumb in my mouth. I was 7
	14	already knew they didn't mind
NoMetalAlchemist	14	No.
15diapersthick	17	no one but myself changes me
Nicholas	12	Sometimes mom ask me if i have a big load in my diapers before i get up on the changing table. Usually i say no. Sometimes if mom knows that i have a big mess in my diapers i get a shower before i get on the changing table. Usually mom just washes me while i am laying on the changing table.
RJ	46	They'd know from the smell or for how I was behaving prior to the change. Sometimes I'd get comments on how much there was or just an exclamation.
john	13	my diaper changers usualy suspect a big one when i have a big mess
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (Ages 12-17)	14	No.
Poopy1	6	i say before my change to my mommy and daddy that my poopie is stinky. when my cousin comes over i tell him that my poopie says my diaper is tiny. he says he knows and changes me.
wolf	15	they could tell by smell and what diaper looked like
Bonnaci	22	I have warned my girlfriend that my diaper is very messy prior to being changed.

Provide more details regarding how you (or your diaper changer) prevent poop leakage from messy diapers.

Name	Age	Answer
kyl	14	i move slowly if i know i have pooped
The Nasty Blind Aspie	21	NA. I only change myself and would have it no other way.
samooel (sam-oo-el)	14	No preventage. I just poop till it leaks and then I change
zack	9	i wear plastic pants over my diapers
Tom	15	If I know I'm going to have to have diarrhea I put on a pair of plastic pants.
Mike J	18	They diaper it VERY tightly to make sure none gets out. They also put a brief over me to catch any excess.
diaperedteen	23	If I know that I am sick, I wear very thick diapers, also plastic pants
Olympianbabe	15	i dunno
charlie	55	rubber pants worked well
	14	use the right size of diaper
kelly	40	As I was already wearing diapers at night for bedwetting, My wife told me to start wearing diapers during the day. As the condition worsened,she experimented with several options. The current solution involves wearing medium size six-tape style Attends (she calls them Pampers)with a large (blue) four tape Attends over that so that it extends over the smaller diaper. Then I wear tight fitting pull on plastic panties over that.
15diapersthick	17	wear multiple diapers and don't move as much.
Nicholas	12	Mom always makes my diapers loose on the back so i have room to poop in them. Also i always wear loose pants or bibpants.
RJ	46	I'd get thicker diapers or a soaker panel put inside so it would be more absorbant. Also I had to use an incontinence pad to sit on whenever I wanted or had to sit or lie down.
john	13	frequent diaper changes and immediate rediapering
Poopy1	6	i hold my poopie in. my cousin says that the longer i hold my poopie in, the longer it is. I want a 10 foot long poopie!
wolf	15	be very careful when moving around
diaperbutt	24	I wear extra diapers, make them tighter and wear more plastic pants
Bonnaci	22	Plastic pants are used over disposables if I know my diapers might be messy.

Average Age of respondents to this question:	20.6
Range of ages of respondents:	6 -  55

Age Distribution
Under 10	5
10-14	16
15-19	12
20-24	5
25-29	1
30-34	1
35-39	3
40-44	2
45-49	1
50-54	2
55-59	1
60-64	0
65-69	0
70-74	0
75-79	0
80+	0

Youth Age Distribution
6	3
7	1
8	0
9	1
10	2
11	4
12	1
13	2
14	7
15	3
16	2
17	5

Question of the Week 07/08/2007
Question of the Week 07/22/2007

Return to Current Question of the Week Page

Return to Main Page