Response Number: | 0060 |
Date: | 02/07/2010 |
Name: | Kayla |
Location: | Not given |
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Are you a girl or a boy? | ||||
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What is your relationship to the boy who was found in violation of proper use of the toilet? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Name of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | Brian |
Age of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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What was the date and time of the incident? | 39882 |
Has this boy been reported here before and is therefore a repeat offender? | ||||||||||||
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Details/comments:
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Indicate the violations found for this particular incident: | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide a detailed description of this incident. |
My brother Brian gets into his video games so much he doesn't want to go to the bathroom. He's had some accidents before in the past few months. This time, my mom warned him he should go to the bathroom about three times but he wouldn't listen. She said she had warned him enough and if he had an accident again, he would have to wear a diaper 24/7 for the rest of the month. Brian said he didn't have to go and he could reach the toilet if he did. Half an hour later he suddenly jumped up and ran to the bathroom but he already had a big stain on his pants. The chair was a little wet too. |
Who else witnessed this incident (excluding yourself, obviously)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Include any available statements or accounts from the witnesses noted above: |
How was the evidence of these violations documented/retained from this incident? | ||||
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Provide details on how this evidence was documented. |
Which violations has this boy been shown to commit in the past? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on this boy's past violations as noted above. |
Brian always forgets to go when he's playing video games, so he often ends up peeing his pants. |
Provide statements and accounts from others who have also noted the violations as indicated above. |
How did the boy respond to being confronted with his violations? Who confronted the boy? |
My mom waited for him to come out of the bathroom. When he did she dragged him in front of a full length mirror so he could see himself in his wet pants. She scolded him for not listening to her and peeing his pants like a little kid. Then she yanked his pants and underpants down right there in the living room and held him down on the floor while she put a diaper on him. He was screaming and crying that she was being unfair. |
What courses of action would you recommend be taken to punish the boy for his violations? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on your recommended methods of punishment. |
What was the actual punishment given? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Who meted out or administered the boy's punishment? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on how he was punished and by whom. Include those who had a role of some sort in the punishment and what their roles were. |
My mom put his first diaper on while he was kicking and screaming and she said he had to wear one 24/7 for the next month. She said that if he wasn't ready to use the toilet yet, then he couldn't unless she said so. The first few days he still protested every time she wanted to change him but finally he gave up. After a while mom made me change him sometimes too, when she didn't have the time. |
How has this boy been punished for past violations of using the toilet/bathroom? Who was involved and what did these people do? |
How fitting did you feel the punishment was for what the boy did? | ||||||
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Why do you feel that the punishment the boy received was fitting and appropriate, too lenient or too harsh? |
Mom still allowed him to go to the bathroom if he had to poop. She took his diaper off for that. (or she made me take it off) afterwards, me or mom put it back on him. She should have just made him poop in his diaper too. |
How did you feel about the way this incident was handled? What do you think could have been done differently? How have you felt about the handling of past incidents? What do you think could have been done differently? |
How did this boy react to his punishment? |
He was embarrassed and angry at first. But later he seemed to accept it. |
Describe yourself and your relationship to the boy. What do you and him look like? What are you and him each wearing? |