Response Number: | 0052 |
Date: | 12/27/2009 |
Name: | Rob |
Location: | Malibu, CA |
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Are you a girl or a boy? | ||||
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What is your relationship to the boy who was found in violation of proper use of the toilet? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Name of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | Travis |
Age of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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What was the date and time of the incident? | August,2009 |
Has this boy been reported here before and is therefore a repeat offender? | ||||||||||||
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Details/comments:
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Indicate the violations found for this particular incident: | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide a detailed description of this incident. |
This was a family picnic. Travis was playing with the other cousins 4 to 12 when Bryan (age 11) came over to Travis' mother, Cathy, with whom I was talking, He resisted at first but after several calls, each in a more serious voice, he came over to his mom. His pants were very wet, all the way down the leg. Some His mom said, "You wet your pants again! You know better than that. Your not a baby any more. I did not bring any clean pants for you." She then turned to a and asked if she could borrow a diaper. Julie looked in her diaper bag and pulled out a Huggies size 6, some wipes and a plastic bag for Travis� wet clothes over to a near by picnic table. As soon as Cathy lifted Travis on to the table, he laid back and lifted his legs. Cathy pushed his t-shirt up, removed his s print on them. She unfolded the diaper and put it under Travis. The way Travis kept his hands above his head and raised his legs, it was clear that he was fasten the diaper, I heard say �you are getting too old for diapers.� She then had Travis sit up while she put his tennis shoes back on and then lifted him the top of the diaper. You could still see the printed waist band. The diaper fit well and did not look too small. Cathy pointed Travis back to the group of and gave him a pat on the bottom signaling him it was time to go back and play. Travis ran off and resumed playing. |
Who else witnessed this incident (excluding yourself, obviously)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Include any available statements or accounts from the witnesses noted above: |
After Cathy returned from changing Travis, Judy asked if he still had lots of accidents. Cathy said, "More than I would like." I should have thought to b |
How was the evidence of these violations documented/retained from this incident? | ||||
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Provide details on how this evidence was documented. |
Which violations has this boy been shown to commit in the past? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on this boy's past violations as noted above. |
Cathy said that Travis had lots of accidents and that she usually carried dry clothes for him. She also said he still wears diapers regularly at night. |
Provide statements and accounts from others who have also noted the violations as indicated above. |
How did the boy respond to being confronted with his violations? Who confronted the boy? |
Bryan turned Travis in. Travis resisted being pulled away from play to be changed, but seemed to have the diaper routine down well. I think he get diaper |
What courses of action would you recommend be taken to punish the boy for his violations? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on your recommended methods of punishment. |
What was the actual punishment given? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Who meted out or administered the boy's punishment? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on how he was punished and by whom. Include those who had a role of some sort in the punishment and what their roles were. |
How has this boy been punished for past violations of using the toilet/bathroom? Who was involved and what did these people do? |
It is my understanding that he is often put in a diaper after an accident. Sometimes he is put in a diaper before and outing just to be safe. |
How fitting did you feel the punishment was for what the boy did? | ||||||
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Why do you feel that the punishment the boy received was fitting and appropriate, too lenient or too harsh? |
How did you feel about the way this incident was handled? What do you think could have been done differently? How have you felt about the handling of past incidents? What do you think could have been done differently? |
I think Travis should have been diapered before the picnic to avoid the embarrassment of an accident. |
How did this boy react to his punishment? |
Travis seem to be very comfortable in a diaper. |
Describe yourself and your relationship to the boy. What do you and him look like? What are you and him each wearing? |