Response Number: | 0047 |
Date: | 12/13/2009 |
Name: | Alex |
Location: | Derby, GB |
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Are you a girl or a boy? | ||||
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What is your relationship to the boy who was found in violation of proper use of the toilet? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Name of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | Chris |
Age of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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What was the date and time of the incident? | Last Friday afternoon |
Has this boy been reported here before and is therefore a repeat offender? | ||||||||||||
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Details/comments: Peeing on the floor Evidence of poor wiping skills Found soiled underwear (skidmarks) in laundry |
Indicate the violations found for this particular incident: | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide a detailed description of this incident. |
Chris was chatting or playing on his computer. I saw him started fidgeting, so I told him he should go to the rest room. He ais dhe didn't need to, besides he was too busy. I saw him becoming even more restless and started grabbing his crotch, so I repeated to him to go to the rest room. He didn't answer, just continued on his computer. Shortly after I heard some dripping sound from him. There my 14 year old brother sat wetting himself, making a puddle on the floor. Fortunately it was a wooden floor. |
Who else witnessed this incident (excluding yourself, obviously)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Include any available statements or accounts from the witnesses noted above: |
How was the evidence of these violations documented/retained from this incident? | ||||
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Provide details on how this evidence was documented. |
I took photos of him while he peed in his pants. I told him I would show them to his friends, he said he didn't care as they knew he still wet his pants. |
Which violations has this boy been shown to commit in the past? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on this boy's past violations as noted above. |
Chris wets himself pretty often. When out playing with his friends or playing ball at the court he often comes home wet. He even some times poops himself, but that is seldom. He always try to blame others, like spraying water on him, falling in a pond etc. When coming smelly home after pooping he says he has just farted. He sometimes wet the bed, because he doesn't want to leave that warm, cosy bed to go to the bath room. |
Provide statements and accounts from others who have also noted the violations as indicated above. |
His friends have started teasing him. Instead of calling him "Chrissy" they now call him "Pissy" |
How did the boy respond to being confronted with his violations? Who confronted the boy? |
He doesn't care very much about what his friends say, but he doesn't like too much when my parents and I shout or yell at him because he still is a baby. |
What courses of action would you recommend be taken to punish the boy for his violations? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on your recommended methods of punishment. |
My brother is too lazy to use the bath room. Therfore he should be forced wear diapers 24/7 for a long periode, and when being indoor he should only be allowed to wear diapers, so everybody can see what a baby he is. Besides it will then be easier to check if he has used his diapers. An alternativ could me that he has to wear his wet/soiled pants the rest of the day. |
What was the actual punishment given? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Who meted out or administered the boy's punishment? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on how he was punished and by whom. Include those who had a role of some sort in the punishment and what their roles were. |
I was home with him alone on Friday. I put him into a diaper and plastic pant and made him clean up the mess on the floor and wash his pants and underwear. I inspected him also clean out the skidmarks in his boxerbriefs which are always there. Afterwards I refused him to use the computer for the rest of the day and denied him the coke he uusually get on Friday afternoon. Unnecessary to say he was "pissed" at me! LOL |
How has this boy been punished for past violations of using the toilet/bathroom? Who was involved and what did these people do? |
He always have to clean up when he messes or wets himself. He is grounded if for the rest of the day when wetting outdoor and have to wear diapers tobedfor |
How fitting did you feel the punishment was for what the boy did? | ||||||
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Why do you feel that the punishment the boy received was fitting and appropriate, too lenient or too harsh? |
Because he just continue wetting himself (and some times messing) he needs to be punished harder to learn his lesson |
How did you feel about the way this incident was handled? What do you think could have been done differently? How have you felt about the handling of past incidents? What do you think could have been done differently? |
He should be punished harder, he is usually just lazy. |
How did this boy react to his punishment? |
Chris was very mad at me because I refused him the computer and the coke. That obviously hit him more than having to wear diapers. The cleaning up etc he is |
Describe yourself and your relationship to the boy. What do you and him look like? What are you and him each wearing? |
As said he is my brother. I have to admit I actually love him, he is generally a very nice and funny guy. If I could only understand why he wets so much on purpose! We are both blonde with blue eyes, hair nearly covering our ears, and rather tall for our age. Most people easily see we are brothers. We wear regular clothing, jeans, sweatpants, shirts, sweatshirts (w/hood). We both prefer rather tight boxerbriefs to other underwear. |