Response Number: | 0043 |
Date: | 10/11/2009 |
Name: | tommy |
Location: | pensylvania |
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Are you a girl or a boy? | ||||
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What is your relationship to the boy who was found in violation of proper use of the toilet? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Details/comments: I'm cousin but he lives with us |
Name of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | Byron |
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What was the date and time of the incident? | Many incidents/last one today |
Has this boy been reported here before and is therefore a repeat offender? | ||||||||||||
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Details/comments: Failing to flush (pee and/or poop) Evidence of no toilet paper used upon leaving poop unflushed Evidence of poor wiping skills Evidence of not wiping at all Wearing soiled underwear (skidmarks) in view of observer Hiding soiled underwear |
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Provide a detailed description of this incident. |
Byron is living with us since his parents divorced. his therapist say he is "infantalized" from living with his parents and in a bad situation there. He acts like a baby a lot. Cries at the drop of a hat and walks around all the time with a stuffed toy. I dont think he was ever poddy trained. He poops and pees his pants and his titey whiteys all the time. he does not even try to make it to the bathroom. no matter where he is ....at home or out of home he just goes when he have to. like today he was siting on the floor watching tv n he just peed rite there and made a big wet spot on the carpet and then he justpooped his undies too. they turnd all brown arouind his butt crack. GROSS |
Who else witnessed this incident (excluding yourself, obviously)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Include any available statements or accounts from the witnesses noted above: |
Just me. I was the only other one in the room. But my mom and dad and brothers also sat things l;ike this happen in the passed. At home and while away. One time we were hiking in the woods..my dad and me and byron and when we stopped to rest I saw Byron just stop and lean his back against a tree and he squated down a little and then I saw the pee spot frowind in the front of his jeans...very obvious cause they were tan color...and then i aslo herd a crakley sound and it was a big poop being shot out into his undies. My dad said FINE. You peed and messed yourself...you just have to wait till we get back home to get cleaned up and byron spent the rest of the hike with a load in his wet pants. |
How was the evidence of these violations documented/retained from this incident? | ||||
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Provide details on how this evidence was documented. |
Theres never a need to take pics or nothing. Everybody around him can tell just by looking and smelling him. Even if he didn't pee or poo he wears the same undies all the time until he smells so bad no onme want to be round him. |
Which violations has this boy been shown to commit in the past? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on this boy's past violations as noted above. |
you name it, he done it. one time we actually got him to play tuch football in the ward with some friends of my. he caut a pass and was runn ing and actually pooped himself cause he got so excited (I guess),,he scored a tuchdown too cause no one wanted to get near to him. |
Provide statements and accounts from others who have also noted the violations as indicated above. |
My rents say they feel sorry for him. I don't now. I use to but he get all the attention...good and bad. The kids at school call him "brownie" or "pppants". One boy at school said he caught byron in the boys bathroom standing at the urinal with his pants around his ankles and just wearing his underpants and this time byron was peeing in the right place but the boy saw byron push a big squishy load out into his underpants when he was peeing. The guy dint stay round to see what happnd next and i can only imagine. cause once I saw the same thing and when he finished peeing he stood there and just played with his peepee and moving back and forth with the poo jiggling in is undies. I guess he cummed. |
How did the boy respond to being confronted with his violations? Who confronted the boy? |
about everyone confronts hin. he either jus stares and says nuthin or cries. I gotta admit he is cute and gets a lot of simpathy |
What courses of action would you recommend be taken to punish the boy for his violations? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on your recommended methods of punishment. |
I jus think if he's gonna ack like a poopy baby boy he has to be responsable and clean up after himself. |
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Who meted out or administered the boy's punishment? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on how he was punished and by whom. Include those who had a role of some sort in the punishment and what their roles were. |
NONE! no one listens to me and byron continues doing the same stuff and getting away with it. I am glad I am graduating this year and will be going to college to get away from all byrons mess. But on the other hand there is some stuff that's likeable and OK about him too. It isnt ALL bad. I mean he been thru hell as a kid and never learned how to act. |
How has this boy been punished for past violations of using the toilet/bathroom? Who was involved and what did these people do? |
He has NOT been punished. Everbody feels sad for him cause of his parents and living situation in the past. I feel like I am beeing punished cause my parents make me clean hi m up if I am around when he messes or pees. |
How fitting did you feel the punishment was for what the boy did? | ||||||
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Why do you feel that the punishment the boy received was fitting and appropriate, too lenient or too harsh? |
wut punishment? |
How did you feel about the way this incident was handled? What do you think could have been done differently? How have you felt about the handling of past incidents? What do you think could have been done differently? |
since incidents are not handled at all I think that lots of things should be done. OK so he's emotionally disturbed...not a slow learner but still something's gotta be done. He can't be going around all the time wetting him self or pooping his pants whenever and wherever he want to. I can protect him at school now but after I graduate he's gonna have a hard time. |
How did this boy react to his punishment? |
Sometimes when I have to clean him up and if I'm NOT mad about it we talk and he tells me a little about how he grew up being locked in his room and mostly ignored...so I can understand why he does wut he does and he makes my heart melt when he looks at me with tears in his eyes and says thank you to me for cleaning him up. The state make him see a therapist and he has a social worker so maybe there is hope for him. If he does not get control of himself soon he will be schooled at home and I wont have to worry about who will protect him at school. |
Describe yourself and your relationship to the boy. What do you and him look like? What are you and him each wearing? |
I am 17 an am his older cousin. He was removed from his parents after they got divorced and placed by the state in our house. I am tall and skinny with light brown hair and brown eyes. He is not quite as tall..he not skinny and not fat..i guess he is average for his age. he has dirty blond hair which is too long if you ask me. he has light blue eyes and really really long eyelashes that make him look like a doll baby in the face. I just wear usual stuff...boardies and tees. Right now he is wearing a tee shirt and dirty undies and is in the den looking at tv/cartoons. |