Response Number: | 0033 |
Date: | 09/03/2009 |
Name: | Laura |
Location: | Ohio |
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Are you a girl or a boy? | ||||
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What is your relationship to the boy who was found in violation of proper use of the toilet? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Details/comments: I'm actually a stepsister. |
Name of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | Tommy |
Age of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage: | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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What was the date and time of the incident? | 40028 |
Has this boy been reported here before and is therefore a repeat offender? | ||||||||||||
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Details/comments:
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Indicate the violations found for this particular incident: | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide a detailed description of this incident. |
Tommy's 9th birthday was on August 3rd. He has been wetting the bed almost every night for about 2 months now. My mom told him if he wet the bed the night before his birthday, he would be going back into diapers at night for the foreseeable future until he could show that he could keep dry on a regular basis. That night, he soaked his bed and when he got up, he tried to hide the fact he had wet the bed by taking the sheets, etc. off the bed and putting them in the washer. Mom caught him putting the sheets in the washer and he told her it was because they were dirty and that the hadn't wet the bed. When she checked them, she found out the truth so she went to the grocery store and bought him a huge box of Huggies. He's been diapered every night since then and has only woke up to a dry diaper once. |
Who else witnessed this incident (excluding yourself, obviously)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Include any available statements or accounts from the witnesses noted above: |
How was the evidence of these violations documented/retained from this incident? | ||||
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Provide details on how this evidence was documented. |
Which violations has this boy been shown to commit in the past? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on this boy's past violations as noted above. |
Like I stated above, he's constantly wetting the bed like a little baby. I guess that's why he wears baby diapers. |
Provide statements and accounts from others who have also noted the violations as indicated above. |
How did the boy respond to being confronted with his violations? Who confronted the boy? |
He initially denied he had wet the bed again. However, the evidence was overwhelming - wet sheets and a big wet spot on his mattress. But now, the only th |
What courses of action would you recommend be taken to punish the boy for his violations? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on your recommended methods of punishment. |
Personally, I would diaper him 24/7. He's had daytime peeing accidents while on long car trips before and wet himself last year at the mall too. I would also like to take pictures of the diaper wearing baby and give them to his friends and classmates. He's really popular in school and if they knew he wore diapers designed for little babies, they probably wouldn't like him anymore. |
What was the actual punishment given? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Who meted out or administered the boy's punishment? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Provide details on how he was punished and by whom. Include those who had a role of some sort in the punishment and what their roles were. |
My mom just went to Target and bought a big box of Huggies that day. Later that night, she came downstairs with a diaper in her hand and told him to lay down on the floor so she could put it on him. He started crying and told her he wasn't a baby and didn't need to wear a diaper. She just asked him if he didn't need a diaper then why was his bed wet every night? He still resisted so she told him he could either let her diaper him at bedtime only or else she would consider putting him back in diapers during the day too. He then let her diaper him although he wasn't happy about it at all. |
How has this boy been punished for past violations of using the toilet/bathroom? Who was involved and what did these people do? |
No, although I thought he should have been put back in diapers a long time ago since he's always wet the bed since I can remember. |
How fitting did you feel the punishment was for what the boy did? | ||||||
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Why do you feel that the punishment the boy received was fitting and appropriate, too lenient or too harsh? |
How did you feel about the way this incident was handled? What do you think could have been done differently? How have you felt about the handling of past incidents? What do you think could have been done differently? |
The punishment was fitting. I mean he wets his bed like a little baby all the time so it's only right that he should wear diapers to bed. If he wouldn't w |
How did this boy react to his punishment? |
Describe yourself and your relationship to the boy. What do you and him look like? What are you and him each wearing? |
I'm the older stepsister. I'm about 5'2" and weigh about 90 pounds with blond hair. He's not quite 4 feet tall and probably weighs only around 50 pounds. He's really skinny and has light blond hair. |