Have you ever been caught away from home without a change of extra clothes when you needed one because of diaper leaks?

Number of responses received: 40

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes, I had no extra changes of clothes with me at all	35	87.5%
Yes, because I already used up all changes of clothes I had	11	27.5%
This has never happened to me	2	5.0%

How old were you when this happened?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
under 6	9	22.5%
6	9	22.5%
7	11	27.5%
8	13	32.5%
9	12	30.0%
10	16	40.0%
11	13	32.5%
12	15	37.5%
13 - 14	18	45.0%
15 - 16	11	27.5%
17 - 18	6	15.0%
19 - 25	10	25.0%
26 - 30	10	25.0%
30 - 40	7	17.5%
40 - 55	4	10.0%
Over 55	4	10.0%

What did you have to do because of not having any extra clothes?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Keep the clothes I was already wearing on	30	75.0%
Remove the clothes and go around in just my diapers	17	42.5%
Buy more clothes at a store	2	5.0%
Borrow clothes from someone else	9	22.5%
Contact someone to bring me clothes	3	7.5%

What were the consequences of not having any extra clothes?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
I began to stink badly of pee	16	40.0%
I began to stink badly of poop	11	27.5%
Pee leaked out of my diaper into pants	32	80.0%
Poop leaked out of my diaper into pants	10	25.0%
I made a mess of the seat I was in	18	45.0%

Where were you when you were caught without extra changes of clothes?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Kindergarten/preschool/daycare	9	22.5%
Elementary school	13	32.5%
Junior high (middle) school	9	22.5%
High school	6	15.0%
College	6	15.0%
Work	7	17.5%
While in a car	21	52.5%
At a friend's house	25	62.5%
At a relative's house	18	45.0%
In a store	21	52.5%
At the movies	12	30.0%
At the airport/bus depot, etc.	6	15.0%
While aboard a plane, bus, etc.	11	27.5%
Other	12	30.0%

For which reasons did you not have any extra clothes with you?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
I forgot to bring them (or bring enough)	11	27.5%
Someone else forgot to bring them (or bring enough)	11	27.5%
I was detained/stranded in the place I was in	6	15.0%
I was away longer than I had expected to be	20	50.0%
I had lost the clothes	2	5.0%
I needed more clothing changes than I expected to need	9	22.5%
I didn't think to bring any	21	52.5%

For which reasons were you not able to get any more clothes at the time?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
I had no money to buy clothes in spite of being near stores	5	12.5%
I was too far away from a place to get clothes	16	40.0%
I had no transportation to get to a store	2	5.0%
I could not leave the place I was in (school, work, jail)	15	37.5%
I could not contact someone to bring me clothes	8	20.0%
Person in charge of me would not let me get more clothes	10	25.0%
I was detained/stranded in the place I was in	11	27.5%

List the times and places when and where you have found yourself without a change of clothes and in need of changing:

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc	14	We, were on a camping trip, and also happened while just traveling, we wet and pooped our diapers, we are in Diapers 24/7, and we had no more clean diapers with us to be changed into.
Jdiap	28	On of the times was coming back from Hawaii... 6 hours in wet clothes and diapers. I had to change my diapers when we landed and wait for my pants to dry out.
PghDave	55	once i was at my friend Toms house and i was watching a movie with him and i forgot and let it go and it leaked onto my shorts. he laughed adn tol dhim mom and shehad me change into someof his udnerwear and shorts.it was embarraassing because she had me change in the kitchen wihc iswehr thoer laudnr room is located and his dad jsut laughed at me.
PghDave	55	As a child, went to join the cub scouts at the school. Ended up peeing myself as the meeting was not that night and the school was closed. Was afraid of peeing in public or behind a bush. Now just use my diaper
The Nasty Blind Aspie	22	At the local dining hall several times, at a Chinese restaurant, at the house the group I belong to uses for studying and games.
Bob	13	Several times at school and while I was at the grocery store with my mom, once while I was on a plane from visiting my dad.
Hub	17	It's mostly just been times that I flooded my diaper and leaked while over somewhere. It never happens/happened too often, just that I usually either have to change out of it into something on-hand or make my way home to get cleaned up. Happened once in a while at camp, which was a bit awkward.
Nicholas	13	It has happened in school and at my daycare many times. In the airport one time. In a plane one time. In a store several times. In Barcelona during a holiday one time. In a car many times.
dylan linby	15	i was in the store in my home town and i have also been caught in the movies
bedwetter	--	while traveling on a trip i had to pee and went in my diaper for the first time and was fine but a while later i had to pee again and wet my diaper a second time and this time it was to much for my diaper to hold and it leaked out of my diaper into my jeans making it very noticeible tha i had wet my pants
Adam42	66	At work or in the car.
nappyboy	6	school/plane/bus/park/anywhere
soaker	64	I was 17 and I drove my mother and myself to my mothers best friends house. We were stuck in a traffic jam for over 1 1/2 hours. This made the trip over 4 hr. We could not leave the car. My mother had me in diapers and a plastic pant because I had accidents at times. I soaked my diaper twice plus, to my shame, pooped in them also.
colin	36	when i finshed work about 10 times, at the movies 1 time, on a day trip 2 times round freainds 20 times in tescos 2 times
		Friend's house
derek chew	--	at my friends house my poop and pee leakes and everyone made fun of me and took my clothes and made me stay in my messy diaper
Matt	23	In the car. I had been out for the day, shopping and whatnot, and I had to pick up my mon from work. I ended soaking my diaper big time, and it leaked. I put another diaper under me so I wouldn't soak the seat. Luckily I was able to hide it so my mom didn't see. At a friend's house. I was watching TV, and when I got up, I felt the back of my pants, and they were damp. The chair was also a little damp, but luckily it was leather, so nothing soaked in. I quickly wiped the chair off, and made sure that I didn't let my friend see my backside. My friend knew that I sometimes wore diapers, but I'm sure wouldn't think too much of me leaking on the furniture.
diaper boy	7	malls, grochery stores, school
adam42	66	In my car. At work.
Tom	23	At Friend's houses
Jake	32	On road trips, in airplanes, at the store. These were all times when my diaper leaked and I didn't have clothes to change into. I just changed my diaper and pulled up the wet pants and wore them over the dry diaper.
peepeepants	30	When I was 7 & 8 years old I frequently would either forget or not notice that my diaper needed changing and it would end up leaking. This happened several times at school but also at friend's houses or where ever I happened to be. When I was between the ages of 17-18 I would go out drinking with my friends and forget about my diaper completely until it started leaking and frequently ended up walking home with a completely soaked diaper which I was still peeing in to the point that streams of urine were flowing down my legs. After that I usually carried a couple of spare diapers with me but occasionally forgot.

Describe the most memorable time and place when you were caught without an extra change of clothes or without enough clothing changes and needed a diaper change:

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc	14	we were brought by our sisters to an all girls party and we used our Diapers, and had no changes till they went and got some.
Jdiap	28	I was on a fishing boat, and although I could hid the leak spots on my shorts with water splashes, I stunk really bad, and it was noticed that I couldn't sit still with the mess in my diaper. Finally after a few hours my girlfriend took me and changed me.
PghDave	55	another i was at Kmart and i had to pee and my older brother made me wait untilhe was ready adn i peed and it leaked onto my pants and he refused to get me ne pants ani had to walk allover teh store wet and lots of people saw me and i was 13.
The Nasty Blind Aspie	22	I'll describe a few. Just after I got into diapers for the first time, which was shortly after going to college, I wet one while standing in line to order food. Fortunately my pants were rather dark. I also wet and leaked while with two of my best friends, but this was minor and neither of them noticed. The most major leek happened when I was with my grandmother and another best friend and her children at a Chinese place in town. I had been gone all day, and I tried to let it go slowly, but obviously that didn't work out. I went to the bathroom and cleaned up as best I could, and when I came back I asked if the seat was wet. When I received a reply in the affirmative, I said that I had noticed water or something on my seat and that I wanted to see what it was. Finally, the last time it happened was on leapyear when I went too long and drank too much at a party at the house where our one group meets. Root beer always makes me urinate, and I probably had four to six glasses. Anyway, there were only small half moons, and by the time I left it was pitch dark out.
Bob	13	(I was 13) When I was flying back from seeing my dad, the flight was delayed on the tarmac, and I wound up wetting myself several times. Since it was only supposed to be an hour flight, I neglected to bring either new clothes or fresh diapers. I wound up soaking both my pants and my seat. Since it was a small plane/small airport, they used the stairs to disembark. I had to walk about 1000 feet from the plane to the terminal. It was in the middle of a snowstorm, and I nearly froze to death on the way in. On the car ride (100 miles or so) mom made me wear my wet pants as punishment for being irresponisble. She brought a garbage bag for me to sit on so I wouldn't ruin her car--she said she'd figured she'd need it. The stewardesses didn't seem to upset.
Hub	17	At camp, having to walk back to my cabin whilst leaving my kids at the archery range to wait for me to clean up.
Nicholas	13	Last summer i visited Barcelona during a holiday with my parents. During the afternoon i pooped a lot in my diapers. My diapers leaked badly and my shorts became very dirty. After mom changed me i could not have my shorts back on again so i had to go for the rest of the visit in just my diapers.
dylan linby	15	i was in a car on the way to a store wheen i pooped and had bad diarihia whick filled my diaper from back to front. they began to leak i soon as i peed and i had no more clothes to change so i stayed in the ones i ad which smelled and became stainded
nappyboy	6	me and my mummy and daddy were goin usa for holloday and im nt potty trained so i wear nappies all the time and my mummy forgot to put sum extra chlothes in her bag and i had a big accident and leaked my nappy and ruined my chlothes so my mummy took me toilet changed my nappy and left me in nothin but my nappy so i ad to go the rest of flight in jus my nappy
soaker	64	On the trip to my mothers friends I walked into the friends house with a very full diaper. The diapers and plastic pants had leaked onto my shorts and my mother asked if she could wash my clothes. The women said that was no problem and called her next door girl friend and had her bring over some extra plastic pants because mine needed a wash. I was taken to the bathroom for a shower and my mother made me lay on the floor for a new diaper and a pair of plastic pants that the nabor ladies daughter had worn when she visited her mother, also a bed wetter. I was in only the diapers/plastic pants and a tee shirt for the next 2 hours.
colin	36	whent to the movies to see lord off the rings the fist one and about 3/4 off the way in to the movie i could tell my diaper was going to max out and was going to wet the chair i was in so told a fraind that i had wet the chair and we whent outside as i fellt down if i could have i would have used my paci as i was so upset
MJ	19	It was when I was 10 and stayed at my friend's house. After playing board games all day I really had to go use the bathroom. Apparently it was too late and his dad caught notice. He took me into the bathroom and took care of my mess. Since my parents were out of town over the weekend, I had my friend's dad drive me over to my house and basically walk into my house without any pants on. Keep in mind this was in the middle of July in Texas and my friend's dad was driving a pick-up truck with black leather seats. After 10 minutes I walked out with everything needed to change myself. My friend's dad finished changing me in my driveway for all the neighborhood to see then we got back into his truck to head back to my friend's place. It was probably the most embarrassing 30 minutes I can recall.
Matt	23	I was in class my freshman year of college. I had gone to class in an attends that was a little wet, and I thought it would make it through class. I was wrong. I leaked out the leg bands in the back, leaving the telltale half-moon wet spots on my pants, as well as on the chair. Luckily I didn't have a class after this one, and was able to cover the wet spots with my bookbag and go home to change.
adam42	66	I was at work and started leaking.
Tom	23	I was about ten years old. I was at my friend's house. We were playing games and I didn't realize I had wet my diaper as much as I had. My friend told me that he could see wetness on my jeans.
Jake	32	I was on a roadtrip and peed too many times in the same diaper and leaked. I stopped at a rest area and changed my diaper in a restroom stall. I had no extra jeans with me, so I just pulled the wet jeans up from my ankles, after the diaper change, and wore them over the dry diaper.
peepeepants	30	My friend Sadie and I were at the movies when (unknown to me) my diaper leaked during the film. When we got up to leave Sadie noticed the seat was wet, then she saw my pants and lead me to my car double-time. When we were alone she asked me what happened and I blurted out that my diaper had leaked. Once my diaper wearing secret was exposed I confessed to her that I wore diapers because I enjoyed it. After digesting the information she asked if I had any fresh diapers to change into. I told her that I had some in the trunk and that I'd change when we got to her place. Once I had changed Sadie made me give her my wet pants so she could put them in the wash. When I opened the door she forced it the rest of the way open before taking pictures of me standing in her bathroom wearing a t shirt and disposable diaper. Once the clothes were in the wash she told me that she had ordered pizza. When the buzzer went it turned out to be 2 of her friends which shocked me badly enough to wet myself in front of all 3 of them. Sadie then told me I could either get kicked out of her apartment in just my wet diaper and walk home or I could let them baby me for the night. Not seeing any other alternative I spent the night being treated like a baby by Sadie and her friends.

Describe any times when you had to remove the clothes you were wearing and had to go in just your diapers (no pants):

Name	Age	Answer
Jdiap	28	I have come home from some where and flooded my diaper while we were in the car. My girlfriend made me take of my soaked jeans and I was left with wet diaper until she rinsed out my pants and could bath me and change me. I then was left to spend the rest of the night in just diapers.
PghDave	55	a few tomes mom hs takedn us to to park for picnic after cchurhc and i didtn bring play clothes and she made me take off my church pants and shirt and i was in just my diaper and that happend when iw as 8, 9, 10, 11 and 12 at least. it is embarrassingtobe the biggest boy in a diaper ina public park.
The Nasty Blind Aspie	22	That has only happened in my room, and I just changed right after that happened.
Hub	17	So long as I've changed and cleaned up properly, none, as far as I know of.
Nicholas	13	Two years ago i pooped in my diapers in a plane and mom removed my pants because they were poopy.
dylan linby	15	i would never walk around in my diaper
bedwetter	--	after the trip was over and i got home i took off my pants and went around in just my wet diaper for a while because i was not ready to take it off yet , then i got cleaned up and put a dry diaper on
nappyboy	6	on a plane and bus
peter14	14	I was about 10 at a friends house. I had my diapers as usual and i forgot to change my diaper till i leakes badly into my pants. The mom of my friend then changed my diaper ( I had some to change) but i didn't have some pants to change, so i had to stay the rest of the day in only my shirt and diapers. At first it was embarrassing, but then i liked it to be in just my diapers. it was a cool feeling, and i liked it the way my friend lookes on my diapers. the next time he also wanted to try a diaper when he came to me. since that we diapered each other several times.
MJ	19	I was visiting my uncle and I went out to lunch with him and one of his friends. I notified my uncle I really had to go use the bathroom. He told me to just go in my diaper and he will change me. He and his friend escorted me into the bathroom and I took a huge dump. My uncle asked me if i brought any spare pants with me. I didn't, but he and his friend changed me while he drove back to his place and returned after 45 minutes where I stood in the men's room with his friend wearing only a T-Shirt standing above the diaper I just crapped in covered by wipes.
derek chew	--	all the time
Tom	23	At my aunt's house when I was 12 years old.It was no big deal because my cousins knew I wore diapers and had seen me many times in them.
Jon	15	I was at my friends house. My diaper leaked b/c I did not have it changed soon enough. After my friend's mom changed my into a fresh diaper, she had me go around their house in just a diaper while she washed my pants.
Jake	32	I have never done that. Wearing wet pants is less embarrassing than wearing only my diaper in public.
peepeepants	30	I was out at the bar with my friend Sara and her friend Lindsay and had already wet my diaper to capacity by the time we were leaving. On the cab ride over to Sara's apartment I peed again, soaking the seat of the cab. When we got to Sara's I was forced to take off my soaked pants and stay in her bathtub in just my diaper until she and Lindsay got back from the drugstore with some diapers for me. By the time they returned I had not only wet my diaper again but had messed in it as well, so while Sara helped me clean up in the bathroom Lindsay peed her pants apparently forgetting that she could just go down to her apartment (which was right under Sara's). So when Sara and I emerged from the bathroom with me in just my diaper we discovered Lindsay's pants wetting and Sara hauled her into the bathroom and put her in diapers as well. We started watching a movie and before it was even half over both Lindsay and I had wet our diapers. After changing both of us Sara went to bed. Lindsay and I woke up the next morning to Sara changing Lindsay's wet and my wet and messy diaper. Lindsay tried to protest but after Sara reminded her of the fact that she had wet herself 3 times in less than 8 hours that she was going to spend the day in diapers, I didn't even try to fight the idea of my diaper wearing and to this day Sara keeps a supply of diapers in her apartment and forces me to take off my pants whenever I'm at her place so she can tell if my diaper needs changing or not.

Describe any times when you have had to wear something too small, too revealing of your diapers, or out of season because of needing to change clothes:

Name	Age	Answer
PghDave	55	mom keeps a old pair of my big brother gym shorts in the car for emergencies .. a few times i have wet thru to my pants and after im changed, i get put in them adntheya re so short the edge of my diaper can show wheni walk or sit down. so i try to pull my shirt to cover the gap..momget mad that i stretch my shirt way down and she will tr to straigten it up. people cansee the diaper esily.
The Nasty Blind Aspie	22	After the incident at the Chinese place, we went back home sometime later and all I had left were thin sweats.
Bob	13	After soaking my pants at a family BBQ, I once had to wear my younger cousin's shorts. My diapers buldged out and stuck out the top wasteband. Nobody seemed to care.
dylan linby	15	see above
nappyboy	6	i jus go with nothin but my nappy
peepeepants	30	I was over at my friend Rob's house for a sleepover when I was 8(he knew I wore diapers) and while we were playing in the yard my diaper leaked. He took me to his room to change but after I didn't have anything to wear over my diaper. He was a year younger than me and with the extra padding of my diaper the shorts that he lent me barely concealed my diaper (so I thought). We went downstairs to get a snack and I was immediately stopped by his mother who wanted to know why I was wearing a pair of Rob's shorts when she noticed what I was wearing underneath. She yanked the shorts down and asked why I was wearing diapers. I had no choice but to tell her that my previous diaper had leaked in my pants. She said that if my diaper leaked badly enough that I couldn't keep wearing my pants then I shouldn't be wearing pants at all so 'other' people could tell if I needed a change. She made me get my bag which had 3 spare diapers in it and said she'd check me every hour to see if I needed changing. I ended up wetting my diaper during dinner and pooping myself while we watched a movie afterward, Rob's mother changed me both times. Even though I was wet when I woke up I was forced to eat breakfast before she'd change me. I ended up wetting myself again but the diaper held it. She changed my diaper after breakfast but still wouldn't let me wear anything over it. I ended up wetting my last diaper 10 minutes before my mother arrived to pick me up. Rob's mother was talking to mine when I walked into the kitchen in an obviously wet diaper. After thanking Rob's mom and Rob, mom dragged me to the car questioning why I was wearing a wet diaper and whether I had more at home. After telling mom where half my stash was she changed me into a fresh diaper and told me that I'd be spending the next week in daycare and the next 2 weeks in diapers 24/7since I wanted to be a baby again and that after my week in daycare I'd be sent back to school in diapers and she'd arrange to have my teacher change me in front of the whole class.

List any other boys you have known to have no extra changes of clothes with them when they needed them:

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc	14	Our cousins, and brothers
The Nasty Blind Aspie	22	None that I've seen, though I've heard plenty of stories from others on line.
Hub	17	Every now and then I've had to share old clothes with boys in my cabin, mostly out of not having anything to wear on laundry day but, on occasion, out of needing something to change into after some activity or accident.
Nicholas	13	My brother
dylan linby	15	my friend we where together and he had pooped several times and had no change of clothes or diaper
Tom	23	My brothers, all who wore diapers Average Age of respondents to this question: 25.3 Range of ages of respondents: 6 -  66 Age Distribution Under 10 3 10-14 7 15-19 9 20-24 4 25-29 1 30-34 2 35-39 2 40-44 1 45-49 0 50-54 0 55-59 2 60-64 1 65-69 2 70-74 0 75-79 0 80+ 0 Youth Age Distribution 6 1 7 1 8 0 9 1 10 1 11 0 12 1 13 2 14 3 15 4 16 1 17 2 Diaper Types Single disposable diapers- plain white 27 Single disposable diapers- plain white 16 Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored 10 Multiple disposable diapers- plain white 4 Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored 8 Single cloth diapers- plain white 5 Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored 11 Multiple cloth diapers- plain white 5 Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored 0 Multiple underpants- plain white 0 Multiple underpants- patterned/colored 0 Other makeshift diapers 14 Single plastic pants- plain 10 Single plastic pants- patterned/colored 2 Multiple plastic pants- plain 1 Percentage of those 18+ who only wore these diapers as a boy: 29.41% Pantslessness Always 7 Usually 12 Sometimes 8 Rarely 8 Never 1 Percentage of those 18+ who reported being pantsless as a boy 35.29% Diaper Usage Pee 39 Poop 20 Percent of brothers 18+ whose diaper usage reported only as a boy 35.29% Comments Name Age Comment The Nasty Blind Aspie   22 It may seem like this happens to me quite often, but we're talking about a three year span and lots of diaper time here. I really am careful, and I use good diapers. Question of the Week 04/06/2008 Question of the Week 04/20/2008 Return to Current Question of the Week Page Return to Main Page