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The Question of the Week for January 20, 2008:

How shy are you about having girls present when you are in diapers? What types of shyness do you feel?

Number of responses received: 40

Part B:
ResponseCountPercentGraph
Part A:


Very shy1127.5%
Moderately shy1230.0%
Somewhat shy1230.0%
Not shy at all410.0%



Bashfulness1742.5%
Embarrassment2870.0%
Shame1332.5%
Annoyance615.0%
Total:40  
What makes you feel shy about having girls present when you are in diapers?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
They like to see me in my diapers2665.0%
They think I look cute in my diapers2460.0%
They like to touch my diapers2152.5%
They like to change my diapers2562.5%
They like to see my privates1742.5%
They like to touch my privates1435.0%
They like to talk about about my diapers2357.5%
They like to talk about my odors1127.5%
They like to talk about my privates1230.0%
They like to watch me pee in my diapers1742.5%
They like to watch me poop in my diapers1127.5%
They like to see my erections1742.5%
They like to watch me masturbate in my diapers820.0%
They like to treat me like their baby2357.5%
Getting such attention2050.0%
What do girls like to see or sense that makes you shy?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Having diapers on without pants2562.5%
Wearing extra thick/multiple diapers1435.0%
Having my diapers show above my pants1435.0%
having lots of pins in or tapes on my diapers820.0%
My bare legs1537.5%
My diapered butt2665.0%
My diapered crotch2460.0%
My diapered front2357.5%
My pee-soaked diapers2152.5%
The bulge of my poopy diapers1537.5%
The smell of my pee1127.5%
The smell of my poop1127.5%
The sound of my farts512.5%
My erections through my diapers1537.5%
My genitals during a diaper change2255.0%
My butt during a diaper change1435.0%
Does having a girl see you in your diapers make you feel like she is seeing you in your underwear? Does having a girl watch you pee or poop in your diapers make you feel like you'd feel if she saw you using the toilet? Does having a girl change your diapers or watch you get changed make you feel like she's watching you take a bath/shower or getting undressed?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Part A:


Yes, not that there is anything wrong with this922.5%
Yes, and it makes me somewhat uncomfortable1230.0%
Yes, and it makes me very uncomfortable820.0%
Not really1025.0%
Part B:


Yes, not that there is anything wrong with this25.0%
Yes, and it makes me somewhat uncomfortable1435.0%
Yes, and it makes me very uncomfortable1025.0%
Not really1230.0%
Part C:


Yes, not that there is anything wrong with this512.5%
Yes, and it makes me somewhat uncomfortable717.5%
Yes, and it makes me very uncomfortable1537.5%
Not really1230.0%
Total:40  
Do you feel any more comfortable when you are in diapers in the presence of other boys than in the presence of girls? If so, for which reasons?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
It's OK for boys to seen in underwear/diapers by other boys1742.5%
It's okay for boys to seen naked by other boys1127.5%
It's okay for boys to be seen peeing/pooping by other boys1127.5%
Only other boys should change a boy's diapers37.5%
Girls' bodies are different than boys' bodies1127.5%
Girls go to the bathroom differently than boys do820.0%
Girls don't understand boys' feelings as well1127.5%
I feel better if the other boys are also in diapers2357.5%
I feel better if the other boys are also pantsless1230.0%
Kids don't know enough about sex to understand such matters37.5%
Girls treat diapered boys differently because they're boys1640.0%
Only a boy should smell another boy's poop410.0%
Only a boy should see another boy's erection (until older)615.0%
When girls are in decent clothes it makes me feel unequal922.5%
How old were you when you first felt shy about girls seeing you in diapers?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Under 400.0%
400.0%
5512.5%
637.5%
7512.5%
837.5%
9410.0%
1037.5%
11410.0%
1225.0%
13512.5%
1412.5%
1512.5%
1600.0%
1700.0%
Over 1712.5%
Total:40  
How old were you when you overcame such feelings of shyness towards being seen in diapers by girls?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Under 825.0%
837.5%
912.5%
1012.5%
1100.0%
1212.5%
1325.0%
1400.0%
1512.5%
1625.0%
1700.0%
18 to 2012.5%
21 to 2512.5%
26 to 3000.0%
Over 3012.5%
Never2255.0%
Total:40  
What makes you or would make you feel shy or uncomfortable about girls who are younger than you seeing you in diapers?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
They're toilet trained in spite of being younger2972.5%
They're decently dressed unlike me1640.0%
They may be confused by seeing an older boy in diapers2050.0%
They aren't mature enough to deal with the matter properly1127.5%
They want to change my diapers1947.5%
They want to see my genitals1435.0%
They want to see my naked butt1230.0%
They feel superior to me in spite of being younger2460.0%
They'll think that all older boys wear diapers1230.0%
Their perception of boys will be altered1332.5%
How much greater are your feelings of shyness when you are pantsless versus wearing pants while in diapers? How much greater are your feelings of shyness when you are completely naked versus wearing diapers in the presence of girls?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Diapered with pants on versus diapered and pantless:


Much greater1311.4%
Moderately greater87.0%
Mildly greater54.4%
Makes no difference119.6%
Diapered and pantless versus being completely naked:


Much greater1311.4%
Moderately greater87.0%
Mildly greater21.8%
Makes no difference1513.2%
Which of these states would you rather a girl see you in if you had to choose?:


In diapers1614.0%
In underwear1614.0%
Naked- genitals43.5%
Naked- butt32.6%
Total:114  
What factors affect your level of embarrassment/shyness from being in diapers in the presence of girls?

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Relationship of girl to me (e.g. sister, cousin)3075.0%
Age of girl to me2767.5%
Level of acquaintence with girl2767.5%
Frequency of time spent around girl2255.0%
The girl's frequency of/experience with seeing me in diapers2357.5%
Number of girls present2152.5%
Whether or not the girl already knew I wore diapers2562.5%
The girl's experience with seeing other boys in diapers1640.0%
The girl's experience with seeing other boys naked1332.5%
The setting (e.g. at home versus their house)2562.5%
Rate how embarrassed you would feel or had felt about the following situations where girls seeing you in diapers is concerned:

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have diapers on but cannot see them because I am wearing pants


Very embarrassed37.5%
Moderately embarrassed615.0%
Somewhat embarrassed1230.0%
Not embarrassed at all1537.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14I, we, are never allowed any pants only Diapers
DAVY  13every day
soaker  63My mother told her friend that I had to wear diapers and rubber pants to stay dry. Her friend wanted
  to feel my diapered 13 year old butt. My mom made me stand there as her friend pulled down my shorts and felt
  my total diapered area. I was 13 years old and she pulled back my rubber pants to se if I was wet, I was.
Greg  32This is very common because I wear diapers all the time.
Cameron  14One time I had to wear them to school, the girl's heard the crinkling and the ones that didn't my
  sister informed so that almost everyone knew, I felt like I was sweating all day with embarassment and
  humiliation.
diaperdan  46I had a pair of shorts on and my diapers showed when i open my legs
baby john  6the crinkle of my diapers and plastic panties when i walk or crawl
dean  --I wear 24/7
George  8In kindergarten when two girls told me they knew I was wearing a diaper. I was scared they'd tease me
doug  15hwen we are at a store and mom says my big bro needs to check my diaper and girls at another table hear it and laugh.
Jimbo  59Told both sisters about me wearing diapers.Uncomfortable

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have diapers on and can see them showing above my pants


Very embarrassed922.5%
Moderately embarrassed615.0%
Somewhat embarrassed922.5%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14I, we, are never allowed any pants only Diapers
DAVY  13i need them so this happens quite often
soaker  63I was on the train with my mom and a younger (12) girl told me my diapers were showing. I was in
  shorts and it was hard to hide that I was in diapers. My mother didn't want to make alot of changes so she
  added a lot of diapers to last a long time.
Greg  32I have often been seen in public where they saw my diapers sticking up above my pants.
diaperdan  46she went to scratch my back, my diapers & vinyl pants were sticking out of my pants on top
diaperme  22it happened at a collage class she was behind me. she leaned over and said that my undies were showing.
baby john  6they said hey baby come here let me check ur diaper
George  8In kindergarten when a girl pointed out I was wearing diapers instead of big boy underwear. I felt babyish
doug  15same
Jimbo  59If they don't know me, I don't care about them being seen.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in a diaper without having any pants on


Very embarrassed1435.0%
Moderately embarrassed820.0%
Somewhat embarrassed512.5%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
DAVY  13when im at home im usualy pantsless(helps stop rash). so anyone who comes round usualy sees me
soaker  63My younger sister's friends came over to see her. I didn't know it until she interdused me to 3 of her
  class mates as "the baby of the house"
Greg  32This is more embarrassing, but also more erotic.
Cameron  14My sister brings her friends over all the time and they watch me prance around in diapers, the worst
  is having to use them in front of everyone.
diaperdan  46I left the door open and was walked in on in my diapers & vinyl pants
diaperme  22the same girl and i went on a date and i told her i wore them. she asked if she could change me
mikeman  1224/7
baby john  6they say things to me like they didnt think somebody my age would wear diapers
George  8When my sister randomly brought one of her friends over, and I was sitting on the couch in just diapers. I felt worried.
Jimbo  59If they are strangers, I would be very self concious.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in multiple diapers and/or very thick diapers without having any pants on


Very embarrassed1435.0%
Moderately embarrassed37.5%
Somewhat embarrassed512.5%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14Depending on who the girl or girls are.
DAVY  13when my sisters friends decided that i would bee their baby for their sleepover. they put me in a onsie and diapers so thick i cant stand up. and my mum lets them!
soaker  63Both my mom and sisters put me in multiple diapers to cut down on the amount of diaper changes. I was
  shown to many ladies and girls in this way.
baby john  6they run around me and spank me on my diapered rearend
George  8Same as above. I am always in multiple diapers at home.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers but cannot see it or smell it because I am wearing pants


Very embarrassed410.0%
Moderately embarrassed717.5%
Somewhat embarrassed922.5%
Not embarrassed at all820.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  every day
soaker  63My mother ask me in front of her girl friends if I needed a diaper change yet.
Greg  32How would they know I have peed if they can't see it or smell it?
diaperdan  46she knows i wear diapers and we've been out for a few hours
baby john  6i was in store wiff mommy and stood still and pped in my diapers and some girls said look hes pping in his diaper

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers but can only smell it as I have pants on


Very embarrassed615.0%
Moderately embarrassed1025.0%
Somewhat embarrassed717.5%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  every day
soaker  63My mom would say she could smell my wet diapers after she interdused me to her girl friends, then
  pulled my pants down and my rubber pants waist band out to see if I was wet enough for a change.
Greg  32They would never say anything in this siduation.
baby john  6they tell mommy i think you better check hsi diaper i think he wet his diaper

Response
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers and can see and perhaps smell it it as I have no pants on


Very embarrassed1230.0%
Moderately embarrassed615.0%
Somewhat embarrassed717.5%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14They're always going to see and know as we're in Diapers and plastic baby pants 24/7 nothing else
soaker  63I had soaked my diapers and some pee had pooled in the bottom of my plastic pants. It was visable to
  all the girls at my sisters birthday party.
mikeman  1224/7
baby john  6im a heavy wetter and when i pp i make a big pp and puddle in my diapers and plastic panties the girls like to put hand on my diapers
Jimbo  59Only if they know me.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have peed in my diapers but cannot see or smell it as my diapers are so thick (I'm pantsless)


Very embarrassed820.0%
Moderately embarrassed615.0%
Somewhat embarrassed615.0%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
baby john  6i cant enjoy my pp diapers as they are nice and warm and smell good

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers but cannot see it or smell it because I am wearing pants


Very embarrassed717.5%
Moderately embarrassed37.5%
Somewhat embarrassed512.5%
Not embarrassed at all512.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
baby john  6i like to doodoo in my diapers and enjoy the feeling and smell of doodoo diaper and girls want to change me

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers but can only smell it as I have pants on


Very embarrassed1127.5%
Moderately embarrassed512.5%
Somewhat embarrassed37.5%
Not embarrassed at all25.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Greg  32This is very embarrasing because of how grossed out girls are about poop.
baby john  6they say i think somebody has a dirdy diaper on and needs changed
Jimbo  59I would be very self concious about the mess.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers and can see and perhaps smell it it as I have no pants on


Very embarrassed1845.0%
Moderately embarrassed25.0%
Somewhat embarrassed12.5%
Not embarrassed at all25.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14Depend on if their new and girls I, am not acquainted with. and their watching me or going th share in my Diaper change, because my sister will always point out my erection, and tease that my pooping my Diaper is very arousing to me, that's why I, have an erection
Greg  32This is most embarrasing because there is no doubt that it is me that they are smelling when they can
  see the poop.
diaperdan  46i was taken into a bedroom and had my diaper changed
mikeman  1224/7
baby john  6i love to load my diapers full of doodoo and walk around in it and squishy my doodoo and enjoy the
  stinky smell knowing i have on a stinky diaper and girls come up and stick hand in back of my diaper and smell

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I have pooped in my diapers but cannot see or smell it as my diapers are so thick (I'm pantsless)


Very embarrassed1025.0%
Moderately embarrassed512.5%
Somewhat embarrassed25.0%
Not embarrassed at all12.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  i a want mor doodoo in my diapers i like to smear doodoo allaround in my diaper and girls want to change me

Response
Girls seeing me in clean underwear


Very embarrassed12.5%
Moderately embarrassed12.5%
Somewhat embarrassed717.5%
Not embarrassed at all1230.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
doesnt hapen  doesnt hapen
Greg  32I am not shy about being naked.
Jimbo  59Diapers are one thing but underware leaves too much showing.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in wet (pee) underwear


Very embarrassed922.5%
Moderately embarrassed12.5%
Somewhat embarrassed37.5%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  doesnt hapen

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in skidmarked underwear


Very embarrassed717.5%
Moderately embarrassed410.0%
Somewhat embarrassed37.5%
Not embarrassed at all25.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  doesnt hapen

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in poopy (full-fledged accident) underwear


Very embarrassed1127.5%
Moderately embarrassed00.0%
Somewhat embarrassed12.5%
Not embarrassed at all25.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  doesnt hapen
Greg  32I don't want girls to be grossed out by me.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in multiple underpants being used as diapers


Very embarrassed410.0%
Moderately embarrassed37.5%
Somewhat embarrassed25.0%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  doesnt hapen

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me in diapers for their first time


Very embarrassed1742.5%
Moderately embarrassed512.5%
Somewhat embarrassed25.0%
Not embarrassed at all25.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
diaperdan  46i told her i was incontinent, she thought nothing about it, no big deal
baby john  6they thin me cuteand a baby
George  8When I was at home with one of my friends who is a girl and she asked if she could see me in diapers. I was a bit scared.

Response
Girls seeing me naked (genitals) while undressing, bathing, showering, etc.


Very embarrassed1025.0%
Moderately embarrassed512.5%
Somewhat embarrassed615.0%
Not embarrassed at all25.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
diaperdan  46i have a small package and was walked in on while diapering myself
baby john  6they wanted to lay me down and diaper me
doug  15if mom baby say several families with girls and boys ...id get my bath first and the girls tendd to crwod
  around the bathroom door and watch. mom would asnwer there questions about my privates if they hadnt seen then
  before or she bath me and the boys first and the girls could see in. they we go to bed and sshe would baththe
  girls last/

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me naked (butt) while undressing, bathing, showering, etc.


Very embarrassed512.5%
Moderately embarrassed820.0%
Somewhat embarrassed820.0%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
diaperdan  46same as above

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me naked (genitals) during diaper change


Very embarrassed1435.0%
Moderately embarrassed512.5%
Somewhat embarrassed37.5%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
soaker  63My mother changing me in front of the nabor lady and her daughters (3).
diaperdan  46have small package, some babies are larger then me
baby john  6they rub the baby wipe on my pp and say lets get u clean and laugh at size of my pp

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me naked (butt, clean) during diaper change


Very embarrassed1127.5%
Moderately embarrassed410.0%
Somewhat embarrassed512.5%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
diaperdan  46same as above
baby john  6they like to turn me over and put diaper rash cream on my hiney

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me naked (butt, poopy) during diaper change


Very embarrassed1332.5%
Moderately embarrassed25.0%
Somewhat embarrassed25.0%
Not embarrassed at all12.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14Especially if a new girl, because having a poopy dirty but, even a clean one, they see not just your buttocks, but they also see your anus, they're seeing your All and alway I, am erect, it is very shaming and embarrassing because you know your a Diaper-slave, and their slave, as I, have know say.
  doesnt hapen i wear diapers 24/7

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls seeing me having had a pee accident (wet pants)


Very embarrassed1025.0%
Moderately embarrassed410.0%
Somewhat embarrassed25.0%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
soaker  63I wet my pants when I went to pick her up at her girl scout meeting.

Response
Girls seeing me having had a poop accident in my pants


Very embarrassed1230.0%
Moderately embarrassed12.5%
Somewhat embarrassed00.0%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
mikeman  12yesterday
baby john  6they say i didnt know anybody could load this much poopoo in a diaper and go all over his butt

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls smelling me having had a poop accident in my pants, but not necessarily seeing it


Very embarrassed717.5%
Moderately embarrassed37.5%
Somewhat embarrassed25.0%
Not embarrassed at all37.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  doesnt hapen i wear diapers 24/7
soaker  63I had a poop in my pants accident when I was driving my wife and two of her friends to shopping. It
  was very wet and stinky. Thanks to my Attends and plastic pants it didn't leak. My wife told them I was a pants
  wetter but that I never poops his pants. They were shocked.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I had a pee accident but did not see or smell it


Very embarrassed717.5%
Moderately embarrassed25.0%
Somewhat embarrassed37.5%
Not embarrassed at all512.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Greg  32The only thing more embarrassing is when they start smelling my poop accident.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls knowing I had a poop accident but did not see or smell it


Very embarrassed615.0%
Moderately embarrassed410.0%
Somewhat embarrassed12.5%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
  doesnt hapen i wear diapers 24/7
Greg  32Not fully embarassing, because there is some doubt about whether it is me that they smell.

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls catching me masturbating naked


Very embarrassed1025.0%
Moderately embarrassed37.5%
Somewhat embarrassed12.5%
Not embarrassed at all512.5%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc  14Their allow to remove our diapers and then watch us masturbate, and even masturbate us on Diaper change.
soaker  63My mother caught me but did't say any thing.
dean  --I have had girls ask if they can help

ResponseCountPercentGraph
Girls catching me masturbating in my diapers


Very embarrassed717.5%
Moderately embarrassed37.5%
Somewhat embarrassed37.5%
Not embarrassed at all410.0%
Provide an example for when this actually happened and how you felt:

NameAgeAnswer
dean  --same
Describe the things that girls do that make you feel shy about wearing diapers in their presence:

NameAgeAnswer
wet stuff  --i mite not be able to date them
DAVY  13when my sisters friends decided that i would bee their baby for their sleepover. they put me in a onsie and diapers so thick i cant stand up. and my mum lets them!
Greg  32Ohhhh, Grosss!!!!!
diaperdan  46they say how small i am and diapers go well with me...
diapered_h4ck3r  15i just dont like people to know i wear them.
baby john  6they like to come up and check my diapers at leg openings and back of diaper. i like knowing i can pp and doodoo in my diapers without stopping my playtime and not have girls or mommy check my diapers
Bobby  10Laugh at me. Make fun of me.
George  8Girls often want to baby me and treat me like a little boy. Even though I enjoy this, it's still embarrassing at first because it's kind of funny having someone who isn't in my family baby me.
Tom  23I don't like girls involed at all since I'm gay and have no problem with boys
Jimbo  59Snicker and laugh and call me names.
wolf  14they baby me... which i like =)
What makes you feel shy about wearing diapers in the presence of girls that doesn't make you feel this way in the presence of other boys?

NameAgeAnswer
Greg  32Boys aren't as grossed out. They might be more curious about the diapers.
diaperdan  46the fact that when girls are around you think about having sex...not so with boys...
baby john  6they carry my diaper bag over their shoulder and stop me ever 10 minutes to check my diaper when in public wiff them
Bobby  10I feel the same way.
George  8The fact that no girl that I know wears diapers, but most of my friends who are boys are diapered.
Tom  23I don't care if either boys or girls know about my diapers or see me in them
Jimbo  59Can't explain it.
wolf  14i like girls better than boys, because boys r harsh and don't feel like i do
Are your feelings of shyness when wearing diapers in the presence a bashful feeling (you feel good but you're afraid to admit it), embarrassed (you feel highly self-conscious), annoyed (you want to be left alone), ashamed (humiliated that you are in diapers) or a combination of these feelings? Describe them in more detail.

NameAgeAnswer
diaperdan  46I love wearing diapers but feel that if people know they will think less of me..
diapered_h4ck3r  15all. i hate people to know that i am in diapers.
baby john  6i feel little whe people say isnt he too big to be in diapers and mommy and sister says hes not potty trained and wants to be in diaspers
Bobby  10Embarrassed, annoyed, ashamed. I hate having to wear these! They crinkle, they're hot, nobody will play with me.
George  8It's normally a mix of a bashful feeling and an ashamed feeling. I often feel bashful because I like being in diapers in front of girls, and when they baby me, but I don't admit it right away. And sometimes, usually with girls my age and younger, I feel ashamed because I'm acting younger than they are, and they often treat me like I'm their little boy.
Tom  23Everyone knows that I wear diapers and use them
Jimbo  59Highly self concious want to be left alone.
brian  13i feel bashful because i love to show off my diapers
wolf  14mostly bashful, and slightly embaresed that i'm 14 and still like to wear and use diapers
What was one of the first things you remember about feeling shy wearing diapers in the presence of girls? How did the reaction from the girls first establish these feelings?

NameAgeAnswer
Greg  32One time when I pooped in my pants while in a liabrary, it was very obvious due to the noise in a silent place. I girl near me noticed and gave me a look like she thought I was a freak.
diaperdan  46the fact that I couldn't have sex with them because of my incontinence, made me feel like a little child. Plus the fact that I have small genitals...
baby john  6they laughed when they changed me and i pped on them and got them wet
George  8When I was five, my older sister brought one of her friends over, and I was sitting in my playpen in the middle of the living room, and my sister's friend saw me and asked me "Aren't you a bit too old to be in diapers?" and this made me feel ashamed of myself, but my sister explained that I have cerebral palsy, and I can't control my bladder and bowels. She said she didn't mind, and actually thought I looked somewhat cute in diapers.
Tom  23I guess it was my girl cousins since I have no sisters
Jimbo  59When I was real young they would make a fuss over the big baby, and try to check my diapers to see if I needed changing.
wolf  14when my giwlfwiend said in public "awww, does my wittle baby boy need his diapee changed?"
Describe how your feelings of shyness vary between wearing pants while in diapers and being pantsless and in diapers in the presence of girls? How does being in diapers compare to being naked in the presence of girls? Does it make a difference whether you are naked because of a diaper change or because of undressing, taking a bath, etc.

NameAgeAnswer
diaperdan  46I would rather be in diapers then naked in front of girls...
diapered_h4ck3r  15i dont mind girls seeing me naked but if im seen in a diaper i will hate it and be very embarrassed. if i am in pants and a diaper i will not mind as long as they dont know im in a diaper.
baby john  6when im in clothes mommy usually has me in clothes that have snaps for quick diaper change, and girls
  much when in diaper as having diaper changed. i like to make them hold their nose or a say something about my
  stinky wet diaper. i feel small when my plastic panties get pulled on over my dry diapers and when my plastic
  panties get pulled off my wet and messy diaper unsnap snaps and check my diaper and dont snap my snaps backand you a can tell im in diapers. girls dont laugh as
George  8I'm normally not so shy while wearing pants over my diapers in front of girls if they know about it and don't mind it, but I might be a bit more shy if they don't know. When I'm in just diapers, I'm even more embarrassed, although the only girls I let see me in diapers are ones who I trust enough, sometimes my sister brings her friends over and they see me. I don't let a girl my age or younger see me naked because I think it's a bit inappropriate, but if one of my sister's friends wants to change me I may cover myself at first from shyness, but usually I overcome this after a bit.
Tom  23I'd rather girls not get involed with my diapers
Jimbo  59Don't like to expose my body at all.It has nothing to do with my diapers.
brian  13i dont own pants so i'm never wearing any pants just a diaper
wolf  14in pub i wear pants, only when around my giwl fwiend and cousins will i wear openly
Explain your reasons on why you feel less shy or embarrassed in the presence of other boys while in diapers versus being in the presence of girls. How do you feel about commonly perceived taboos towards having young boys and girls together in situations involving nudity, excrement of bodily wastes and weaing/changing diapers, which combines these two?

NameAgeAnswer
Tom  23I relate better to boys. I have only brothers and I'm gay
Jimbo  59It isn't a big deal for a guy to see another guy nude.We all have taken PE in school and had to shower afterwards.
wolf  14i wont let any boys let me see my diapers, even if they already know
Explain how being seen in diapers by a girl is akin to being seen in your underwear by a girl and why this mattered to you so much as a boy.

NameAgeAnswer
diapered_h4ck3r  15i dont mind being seen in my underwear much but hate being seen in a diaper because no-one understands!
Tom  23I don't like girls seeing me in either under wear (which I don't wear) or diapers
Jimbo  59When I was real young they would make a fuss over the big baby, and try to check my diapers to see if I needed changing.
Explain how being seen using your diapers by a girl is akin to being seen using the toilet by a girl and why this mattered to you so much as a boy.

NameAgeAnswer
Greg  32Being seen using a diaper is not the same as being seen using the toilet. Peing or pooping in your pants is not socially acceptable, but everyone uses the toilet.
baby  24its embarrassing
diapered_h4ck3r  15i just hate people to know that im wearing diapers cos they dont understand.
Tom  23Since I have no sisters, a girl always seemed like a stranger
wolf  14i will use my diapers right in front of my giwlfwiend or cousins, but would never let them watch me use the toilet
Explain how the relative age of a girl to you, your relationship to the girl and other factors affect how shy or embarrassed you feel about her seeing you in diapers. How do you feel about younger girls seeing you in diapers?

NameAgeAnswer
Greg  32I am more embarrassed if the girl is young and good looking or if I know them.
diapered_h4ck3r  15if i do not know them at all and am not going to see them again i wont mind too much but if i know them i will hate it. if a young girl (2/3/4) recently potty trained sees me i hate it because i get remarks like "im better than you because i am potty trained."
George  8I don't mind younger girls seeing me in diapers as long as they don't tease me, or flaunt that they are potty trained and younger than me. The only girls I'm not one bit shy around is my sister and my girl cousins, plus some girls I know really well who have seen me in diapers a lot. I don't let girls see me in diapers if I don't trust them, so mainly it has to do with the trust issue. If I don't trust a girl, I might think she could tease me, and I don't let her see me in diapers.
Tom  23Any age is a problem
Jimbo  59The younger they are the more self concious I am.
wolf  14the younger the giwl the more annoying. ps. i can't stand kids of ages 4-12 they have annoying voices and can really bug me
How has having girls see you in diapers and perhaps also seeing you naked affected your feelings about modesty, nudity, decency, and sexual development?

NameAgeAnswer
diapered_h4ck3r  15i hate being seen in diapers. it makes me feel embarrassed and stupid if they dont understand, and still a little if they do.
George  8I feel better about it now than I did when I was younger because more girls know now, and most of them think it's cute and love changing me, though I don't let them if they're my age or younger.
Tom  23Rarely
wolf  14not sure

Average Age of respondents to this question:22.2
Range of ages of respondents:6 -  63

Age Distribution
Under 102
10-149
15-198
20-246
25-292
30-341
35-390
40-440
45-493
50-540
55-591
60-641
65-690
70-740
75-790
80+0

Youth Age Distribution
61
70
81
90
101
111
122
132
143
156
160
171

Diaper Types
Single disposable diapers- plain white23
Single disposable diapers- plain white13
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored11
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white6
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored4
Single cloth diapers- plain white2
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored8
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white5
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored2
Multiple underpants- plain white3
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored2
Other makeshift diapers10
Single plastic pants- plain6
Single plastic pants- patterned/colored3
Multiple plastic pants- plain2
Percentage of those 18+ who only wore these diapers as a boy:20.00%

Pantslessness
Always12
Usually11
Sometimes7
Rarely7
Never1
Percentage of those 18+ who reported being pantsless as a boy6.67%

Diaper Usage
Pee40
Poop25
Percent of brothers 18+ whose diaper usage reported only as a boy13.33%

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