As a young boy (before age 13), how were your diaper changes determined?

Number of responses received: 37

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Less than one week	7	18.9%
One week	0	0.0%
Two weeks	1	2.7%
Three weeks	0	0.0%
Four weeks	1	2.7%
2 months	4	10.8%
3 months	7	18.9%
4 to 6 months	2	5.4%
6 to 12 months	1	2.7%
1 to 2 years	4	10.8%
2 to 3 years	1	2.7%
3 to 4 years	1	2.7%
4 to 5 years	1	2.7%
5 to 10 years	1	2.7%
More than 10 years	4	10.8%
Check if this period emcompasses your entire life to date	4	10.8%
Total:	37

For which reasons have you been diaper punished?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Toilet training failure	8	21.6%
Not wiping	3	8.1%
Not flushing	2	5.4%
Pee accidents (daytime)	11	29.7%
Poop accidents (day or night)	6	16.2%
Bedwetting	15	40.5%
Other toilet/bathroom problems	5	13.5%
Behavior problems at home	17	45.9%
Behavioral problems in school	13	35.1%
Behavioral problems outside of home/school	7	18.9%
Because I am a boy	9	24.3%

At what age did your longest diaper punishment begin?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
3 or younger	2	5.4%
4	2	5.4%
5	2	5.4%
6	1	2.7%
7	1	2.7%
8	0	0.0%
9	1	2.7%
10	4	10.8%
11	1	2.7%
12	4	10.8%
13	1	2.7%
14	1	2.7%
15	0	0.0%
16	0	0.0%
17 or older	1	2.7%
Total:	37

Did your longest diaper punishment include wearing diapers to school?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	21	56.8%
No	4	10.8%
N/A (summertime)	9	24.3%
N/A (home-schooled)	3	8.1%
Total:	37

Where else outside of the home did you have to wear diapers during your longest punishment?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Stores	29	78.4%
Restaurants	27	73.0%
Movies	25	67.6%
Airports and airplanes/other public transport	22	59.5%
Church	23	62.2%
Camping	25	67.6%
Swimming	22	59.5%
Other outdoor activities	25	67.6%
Other public places	28	75.7%
Friend's houses	27	73.0%
Brother's friends' houses	18	48.6%
Sister's friends' houses	15	40.5%
Grandparents' houses	20	54.1%
Aunts/Uncles	23	62.2%
Other people's houses	27	73.0%

How much of your diaper punishment at home included having no pants on?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
All of the time	17	45.9%
Most of the time	10	27.0%
Some of the time	4	10.8%
Little of the time	2	5.4%
None of the time	2	5.4%
Check if you chose to go pantsless	3	8.1%
Total:	37

How much of your diaper punishment at home included having no shirt on?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
All of the time	6	16.2%
Most of the time	4	10.8%
Some of the time	6	16.2%
Little of the time	7	18.9%
None of the time	7	18.9%
Check if you chose to go shirtless	1	2.7%
Total:	37

What was the longest time you went without wearing any pants over your diapers during your longest diaper punishment?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Less than a day	7	18.9%
One day	2	5.4%
1 to 2 days	3	8.1%
3 to 5 days	4	10.8%
6 to 7 days	3	8.1%
1 to 2 weeks	4	10.8%
2 to 4 weeks	1	2.7%
1 to 2 months	2	5.4%
2 to 3 months	4	10.8%
3 to 4 months	1	2.7%
4 to 6 months	1	2.7%
6 to 12 months	0	0.0%
One year or more	5	13.5%

Who saw you in your diapers during the longest diaper punishment period?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Older brothers	13	35.1%
Younger brothers	13	35.1%
Older sisters	11	29.7%
Younger sisters	14	37.8%
Friends	23	62.2%
Brothers of friends	14	37.8%
Sisters of friends	10	27.0%
Friends of brothers	13	35.1%
Friends of sisters	13	35.1%
Boy cousins	23	62.2%
Girl cousins	22	59.5%
Boy babysitters	14	37.8%
Girl babysitters	22	59.5%
Other boys	21	56.8%
Other girls	22	59.5%

Which reinforcements/enhancements were applied to your longest diaper punishment?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Thicker diapers	25	67.6%
Bigger diapers	17	45.9%
Shorter shirts	11	29.7%
No shirts	15	40.5%
Pants confiscated	16	43.2%
More pins (cloth diapers)	4	10.8%
More tape (disposable diapers)	10	27.0%
Less frequent diaper changes	16	43.2%
Diuretics	11	29.7%
Laxatives	12	32.4%
Foods to make you poop more	9	24.3%
Pictures taken of you in diapers	20	54.1%
Other people told that you were diaper being punished	19	51.4%
Made to go pantsless in places where you normally wore pants	20	54.1%

List and describe the reasons you were punished in diapers for so long and why the punishment lasted for as long as it did. Also indicate the length of time during which you were diapered:

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	Wetting the bed when not wearing a diaper as I was supposed to
Jeff	13	Drinking
inpampers	35	When I was 4 I asked my mom to buy me diapers and after finally throwing a tantrum in the store she did. I was to wear diapers for 3 months but when the 3 months were over I didn't want to give up my diapers so whenever I wasn't wearing a diaper I peed my pants and I'd wet my bed and after a week or two I was returned to diapers, only this time I had to wear them 24/7 everywhere I went. I wore diapers to school, daycare, friends houses etc. I didn't think of it as a punishment although I was supposed to. I wore diapers 24/7 from the age of 5 till I was 6.5 during the day and wore diapers to bed till I was 8. My parents tried to end it after 6 months but by then I was diaper dependent.
matt	14	i got an F in a clss
john	12	i got a D
baby Stephen	60	Because I like wearing diapers.
Chad	19	I had ran away from school one day after wetting my pants because the teacher wouldn't let me go to the bathroom. It was the teachers fault but my mom just thought it was my fault I was picked up from my house from the police and tooken to the boys home later my parents came to see me and went to court and when I was allowed to go home my mom made me wear diapers for 10 years it was at first bad but I began to love them but no one knew.
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	It lasted all our lives because after our first brother Marc, was born and faught and refussed so much any potty training, when we came along and were born, our parents and All of the Adult relatives of the family, (Including our sisters,) had discovered deekers, and also followed the Diapering and keeping boys in Diapers advice of friends.
Bobby	10	I've been grounded since the beginning of summer vacation. I'm being punished for picking on other kids. My mom is making me wear diapers for the whole summer. I also made four-eyes jokes, so not only do I have to wear a diaper and rubber pants, but she's making me wear glasses too.
peter14	14	I am a bedwetter. With 8 my parents decided to put me in diapers 24/7 the whole summer holidays (2 month). I was not allowed to use the toilet for two month. I had to do my whole pee and poop in the diapers, and i was not allowed to change by myself.
abdl_mark	27	When i was 8 my first sister was born and i rembered all the attention she was getting over me because she was a babby. i want some attention so i stole 2 of her diapers and taped them together. One night i at bed time i went to my room and put on the make shift diaper. I fell asleep and the next morning when mom woke me up i had soaked the entire bed. At first she didnt think anything of it as i would occationally have a bed wetting episode but not that common. but when she pulled me out from under the covers and saw that i was wearing a diaper, she lost it. She told me that i was to wear diapers 24/7 for a week. I started argueing with her and she make it 2 weeks. before i shut my mouth it was up to a month. During the month when i misbehaved at all she would extend it out longer. By the time i was done i wore diapers 24/7 for the entire summer vacation.
Alex	16	I was really cocky and disrespctful to my teachers, parents and other adults, often without realizing it (I just didn't think before acting). I also was skipping out on homework, and once even class. I've been diapered since December last year, when I was 15.
Bonnaci	22	Just acting out, talking back, being disrespectful. On top of all that, I had a soiling accident. Spankings don't seem to phase me, so I wound up in diapers.

If your being a boy is/was one of the reasons, please provide more details:

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	Not really. Have no sisters.
Jeff	13	my mom dosent like me
Chad	19	I'm not sure if that was one of the reasons
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	Provided above, But yes, our being boys and not minding the shame or embarrassment of wearing nothing but Diapers, and using them, our family simply ruled over us and us boys wearing Diapers, and using them all our lives has been the absolute rule, no butts, about it.

How long did you think your diaper punishment was going to last? Did you have any idea at the outset? Did you think it would last as long as you thought it would? Explain if it went longer than expected, if it was extended, declared permanent or indefinite and the reasons for this:

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	A long time, weeks.
Jeff	13	forever still hasnet ended
inpampers	35	I thought my diaper 'punishment' would last the 6 months that mom & dad said it would but after almost 9 months of wearing diapers and 6 months of wearing them all the time I lost all bladder control. When my parents tried to stop it after 6 months I kept wetting my pants at which point they moved it to a year. It was only after a year and a half that they realized that I had to be toilet trained all over again.
baby Stephen	60	I did not know.
Chad	19	maybe 2 weeks
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	When Marc, turned 10 yr. even before that he was then hopelessly Diaper dependent, as were we, Marc, one day just before and outing Camping trip asked; "Can I, wear some pants and Clothes, out in public, we of course followed His, request. Out parents, and the Adults and our sisters that day laid down the law, and rules, Us boys as does all boys, belong in nothing but diapers, and we would As long as we lived at home or under any of the families roof would wear and use Diapers, period....
Bobby	10	Not very long. I thought she'd let me out of these things after a day, but I still have to wear them.
peter14	14	If i would have stopped bedwetting in that time the diaper punishment also would be stopped, but i knew that if i continue to wet every night it would last 2 month
Q	19	I thought it'd be shorter & got worred that it might be permanent by the 5th month.
abdl_mark	27	I thought at first it would only last a couple of days and my mom would get tired of dealing with me in diapers. but after the first week or 2 of being in them i realized that i was going to be in diapers untill i started acting right. The punishment was extended multiple times for any number of things that i did wrong.
Alex	16	I knew it would probably indefinate (or just really, really long) from the start, so far I'm still in diapers. Though it was considered to let me back to underwear once, about three months after it started, I screwed up again and they decided to keep me indefinately
Bonnaci	22	I knew it would be a week, I was told so at the beginning.

Describe the bathroom-related problems you had that led to being diaper punished:

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	I'm a life long bed wetter and was supposed to wear a diaper at night.
inpampers	35	After my diapers were used up when I was 4.5 I was just supposed to go back to wearing underwear but I didn't want to so whenever I was supposed to use the toilet I'd hold it and 5-30 minutes later I'd wet my pants. It didn't matter where we were the more public the better.
evan	10	complete loss of bladder control
baby Stephen	60	None
Chad	19	I was always wetting my pants in school
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	Simply any entry into the bathrooms in our home by us boys, Was absolutely off limits unless accompanied by parent, adult or our sisters, The doors were always locked, and only our parents, sisters, or Adults had the keys
Bonnaci	22	I sometimes soil at night. This was somewhat frequent as a child, and was normally not cause for punishment. But added onto the other behavioral problems, it was cause for some pretty swift punishments.

How did your parents handle your diaper punishment during this time?

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	Matter of factly. I didn't wear my night diapers as I should have, so full time day and night diapers were required/ All regular underwear was taken away.
Jeff	13	changed me in front of friends made me pee in front of friends and poop bathroom locked
inpampers	35	I was threatened repeatedly with being returned to diapers which only encouraged me to keep peeing my pants.
evan	10	they enjoyed it, and took pictures
baby Stephen	60	Made me wear diapers.
Chad	19	They changed me and I was not allowed to use the bathroom they put a lock on them.
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	All of our boys lives our parents have sticktly followed the rules, and us boys had to obey, or be further punished.
Bobby	10	She won't let me out of them. She sometimes makes me wear a baby drool bib because I cry so much.
abdl_mark	27	Mom was a house wife so she would be at home enforcing the punishment. When dad got home from work if we needed to do anything i was allowed to put pants on but i had to wear the diaper everywear.
Alex	16	My parents don't really handle my diaper punishment, it is left mostly in the hands of my brother, John.
Bonnaci	22	Simply no toilet privileges. I had to ask for changes, and was changed when it was convenient for them.

How did your brothers and/or other boys handle your diaper punishment during this time? List your brothers and their ages at the time and what their roles were (and if they, too, were also diapered):

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	No sisters. Brothers were all bed wetters, so they agreed with my parents that I should have worn my night diaper.
Jeff	13	laughed
evan	10	they blackmailed me, and told me he would invite all of his boy friends over to the house to watch my father change my diaper and give me an enema
matt	14	My brother John is also being punished for a D
baby Stephen	60	I don't remember.
Chad	19	They helped change me
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	All of us boys, were under the same rules and knew we dare not disobey our parents or sisters
Bobby	10	Laughed at me.
peter14	14	My oldes bro and a boy cousin, also were allowed to change me. They were both 14 at that time. They liked it to change me and they liked to play with my dick when they cleaned me. Often they touched me as long till i got a dry orgasm, and they liked that. I also liked that cause i could not touch myself, cause i had diapers 24/7. Afterward often my bro and sometime both boys made me masturbate them till they had an orgasm. It was a cool time, we all had fun.
abdl_mark	27	My younger brother who was 6 had asked mom if he could wear diapers like his bigger brother. Mom refuesed at first but then he started throwing a tempertantrum about it and she gave in but told him that he too would be diapered 24/7. As part of my punishment i would have to change his diaper when ever he needed changed.
Alex	16	My brother Andrew's (12 now) role apparently is to stand arround and my smartass cracks, in short he does nothing to do with my actual diaper punishment and just teases me because he can. John (16, about 3 months older than me), by the same token, takes almost complete control of my punishment, including checking, changing, dressing, and spanking me. He's pretty good about it (if strict).

How did your sisters and/or other girls handle your diaper punishment during this time? List your sisters and their ages at the time and what their roles were:

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	No sisters
Jeff	13	called me there baby
inpampers	35	My sister teased me about being a baby and needing diapers. She also used to pin me down and tickle me until I wet my pants which I suppose helped me get back into diapers.
Chad	19	my sisters also helped change me
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	Our Sisters, were the chief instigators of us boys being in and using Diapers. Daily they thought up stuff to humiliate us and embarrass us.
Bobby	10	My sister is younger than me and my mom makes me do what she tells me to.
peter14	14	One girl cousin, 16 that year was also allowed to change me. She was nice. I often had an erection when she changed me, and she found that nice, but never touched me.
abdl_mark	27	only sister at the time was a baby
Bonnaci	22	My sister was aware, but did not play a role at all.

Describe the diapers that you wore during your longest diaper punishment. How did you feel about them? How did your brothers and sisters and other boys and girls feel about them?

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	Disposable with plastic pants
Jeff	13	pampers extra thick laughed and teased me
DiaperedDavid	38	I was diapered using 2 Attends disp diapers and one Tranquility ATN diaper. Each diaper had boosters in them (between 2 and 4 per diaper). Over all the diapers, a pair of locking plastic pants were applied.
inpampers	35	I wore Pampers toddler size diapers the entire time I was diapered and I loved them, to this day I wish I never had to give them up. My sister used to tease me about being a diapered little baby but gave up after it didn't get me upset. I had a couple of friends who were intrigued, some friends I lost, some I discovered also wore diapers.
matt	14	I usually wore goodnites to bed but for the punishment i had to wear attends.
john	12	I, like my brother, usually wore goodnites before punishment but my parents decided to step it up so they make us wear attends and our mom changes us even in public.
	41	They were thin clothe diapers worn with plastic or rubber pants. They were not very absorbent.
baby Stephen	60	I wore disposable diapers. I like wearing diapers.
Chad	19	I wore luvs and huggies disposable diapers them
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	6 layer all-white Diapers with thick linings down the middle from front to back, total of 12 layers. we've all our lives worn nothing but Diapers and on very few occasions, we've been allowed to wear short, short, T-shirts, alway with something humiliating and embarrassing on them.
Bobby	10	They're thick cloth diapers with plastic pants over them. I hate them. They crinkle when I walk. They're hot. And I can't go outside because of them.
peter14	14	most of the time i had wite disposable diapers. at night i sometimes got two diapers, that the diaper pack was really thick. My bro was used that i wear diapers at night, but during day he sometimes teased me, especial when i had only my diapers and no pants or shirts on.
abdl_mark	27	i dont remember what diapers we used for this punishment but i do remember when i was really ticking my mom off she would put multiple underpants on me and to make my crotch really think so that i couldnt walk instead had to waddle or crawl
Alex	16	Generally I wore a single thick disposable that wasn't TOO conspicuous, so I didn't mind wearing it, though if I had been bad I would have to wear double diapers which I really hated.
Bonnaci	22	I was diapered in disposable diapers (usually one, but sometimes up to three if they wanted to make a point).

Describe the additional reinforcements that were applied during your longest diaper punishment. Include details regarding extended pantlessless, extra thick diapers, etc.

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	Around the house I was not allowed to wear anything to cover my diaper.
Jeff	13	extra thick
inpampers	35	I had spare diapers at school and was changed by my teachers. I had spare diapers at daycare/babysitters houses and I had spare diapers at my closest friend's houses and was changed by my friend's mothers.
baby Stephen	60	No additional reinforcements.
Chad	19	I had to wear nothing my diapers and was spanked often with a leather strap it hurt like heck
peter14	14	when i was at home with family members (bro, cousins, parents) i had to wear only diapers, no shirts or shorts, if it was warm enough. during night i also had to wear only diapers. When friends were coming or when we were out i was allowed to wear shirt and short, but sometime the diaper was obvious through the short, so most of my friend knew that i had to wear diapers for punishment, but most of them were cool with it. And 2 of my friends told me that summer that they are also bedwetters. They are still wetting every night like me.
Q	19	My diapers wher usuly only changed twice a week during punishment but wher only changed once a week if I misbeheved. additional diuretics & laxatives if I tried to resist punishment.
abdl_mark	27	after the first couple of times that my mom caught me with out my diapers on she made this strap that fit just below my hits and fit tight against the diaper. she would put that on me and lock it so that the diaper couldnt come off of me. multiple times she didnt allow me to put pants on when going to the local grociery store. expecially when mom and dad were both going as one of them would stay in the car and watch me and my 2 siblings instead of taking us in the store.
Alex	16	I was left pantsless all the time and under pretty much constant supervision by either John or Kevin (a kid a year ahead of me in school that John and my parents have watch me when they go away).
Bonnaci	22	Additional diapers, and absolutely no toilet privileges at all.

What was your routine for after school? Was it pants off first thing upon coming in the door? How long after getting home did you have your pants off? Were you diapered more thickly or with a different kind of diapers upon getting home? What else happened? Who changed your diapers and who saw you in your diapers?

Name	Age	Answer
tomar	22	Pants off as soon as I came in the door.
Jeff	13	pant off in stantley diaperder thickly mom and gilr friends changed me
inpampers	35	I was picked up after school and taken to 'daycare' which was run by the mother of one of the girls in my classes. As soon as I got there my pants were removed to see if I needed a diaper change or not, regardless I spent the whole time at daycare in just a T-shirt and diapers.
	41	Take off school clothes and be changed into diapers and plastic pants
baby Stephen	60	My wife changes my diapers.
Chad	19	It was always pants off even in school I was not allowed to wear any pants but in the winter I had to wear footed pajamas at home and in school it was humiliating.
Byron, Timothy, D.J. and Kevin	14	N/A we wore diapers around the cloch 24/7 as we were home schooled.
abdl_mark	27	My punishment happened during summer vacation, but whenever we went out of the house and they allowed me to wear pants, i would have to take my pants off as soon as we got into the car to head home. If they knew we were going to be away from the house for extended amounts of time they would put extra thick diapers on us so we would not need as frequent diaper changes.
Alex	16	When I got home John immediately took off my pants off and took them to the hamper in my room. Unless I messed at lunch I wouldn't get changed until before dinner time, and John would generally change me in the living room or the den, most of my family (and any friends eiter John or I brought home) would see me in my diapers all the way up until bed time.
Bonnaci	22	I was allowed to wear pants, but my diaper was checked upon arriving home. I never wore more than one disposable outside the house, so I would sometimes be diapered with additional disposables upon coming home. My parents used to change my diapers during diaper punishment (nobody else would see). My girlfriend changes my diapers now during my diaper punishments.

Average Age of respondents to this question:	23.2
Range of ages of respondents:	10 -  63

Age Distribution
Under 10	0
10-14	11
15-19	10
20-24	4
25-29	1
30-34	0
35-39	2
40-44	1
45-49	2
50-54	0
55-59	0
60-64	2
65-69	0
70-74	0
75-79	0
80+	0

Youth Age Distribution
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	2
11	0
12	2
13	1
14	6
15	1
16	2
17	0

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