Section #1: You, The Babysitter |
Entry Number: | 0008 |
Date: | 08/20/09 |
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san antonio | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Are you a girl or a boy? | ||||
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Describe your overall appearance (hair, body build, hair color/style, complexion, glasses, clothes you usually wear while babysitting, etc.) |
medium length brown hair (kinda a shag), stocky, light complexion, glasses, I wear clothes that look good while still feeling comfortable. |
Section #2: The Family |
How old were you when you first babysat for this family? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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When did you babysit for this family? (Date or range of dates, etc.) |
8/7/2008-current |
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For how long have you had to babysit for this family (per visit)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Do you currently babysit for this family? | ||||||
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Do you expect to babysit for this family again? | ||||||||||
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Why or why not do you expect to babysit for this family again? |
they seem to like me, and the kids and i have come to an understanding. |
Are/were you paid for babysitting for this family? | ||||||||||
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Details/comments: Daddy is awesome in bed. |
How did this family learn of your availability for babysitting? |
I'm his next door neighbor, and he asked me to. |
What do you like about babysitting for this family? |
the kids are generally well-behaved and they have a good dynamic. |
What do you dislike about babysitting for this family? |
I've had to babysit while the boys were sick, and it got me sick too. |
Describe what this family is/was like. What were the parents like? What kinds of work did they do and what kinds of activities did they do (where your babysitting services were needed)? What was their house like? What kind of environment did they live in (suburban, rural, inner-city, etc.)? How would you describe their socioeconomic status? Was this status reflected in how you were paid? |
they're an all-american (divorced)family. Dad married Mom and had kids, but later realized that he is gay (that story again). anyway, after the divorce they moved here. Dad likes to go out sometimes or go off on business, and I have to study; so, it works out. They live in a suburban setting, but are well-to-do. |
Section #3: The Boys (and Their Diapers ) |
How many boys did you babysit for in this family? | ||||||||||||
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How old were these boys at the time you first babysat for this family? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Are any of these boys twins, triplets, etc.? | ||||
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Details/comments: the 8 year-olds |
Describe what the boys look like. Include ages, body size and build, hair color, and how they are usually dressed when you are present. What are their personalities like? What interests do they have? What are their favorite activities? What behavioral problems do you have to deal with from them the most? How do you deal with them? |
Unless friends are over, none wear anything but their diapers/underwear and footed pajamas are worn for bed. they are all textbook for their ages. the 12 year old is showing some interest in not just sports but music too. the 8 year olds are mischievous as all get-out ( they get punished the most (five diapers for each infraction)). The six year old tends to follow in the 8 year olds' footsteps, and the five year old really just likes to play and is un potty-trained much to Dad's chagrin. |
How many of the boys AGES 4 AND OLDER regularly wear diapers? | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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Do any of the boys wear plain white briefs (tighty whities) for underwear? | ||||
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What kinds of white diapers and/or white briefs do the boys wear? | ||||||||||||
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How many white diapers or pairs of white underwear do the boys wear at a time? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Disposable diapers
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Indicate if the boys wear diapers (including multiple underpants) for any of these specific reasons given: | ||||||||||||||||
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For which reasons do the boys wear multiple diapers? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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For which reasons do the boys wear plain white diapers? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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How often are the boys pantsless and in diapers/underwear by their own choosing? | ||||||||
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How often are the boys pantsless and in diapers/underwear against their will? | ||||||||
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For which of the following specific reasons do the boys not wear any pants over their diapers or underwear while at home? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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How often do the diaper-wearing boys pee in their diapers versus pee in the toilet? | ||||||||||
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How often do the diaper-wearing boys poop in their diapers versus poop in the toilet? | ||||||||||
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How often do the diaper-wearing boys wear a shirt when they do not have any pants on over their diapers? | ||||||||||
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What kinds and colors of shirts do the boys wear with their diapers? How much of their diapers do their shirts allow to show? |
if it's for punishment the boys will be wearing a special cut t-shirt, usually pastel colors, sometimes with baby print) that exposes their belly-buttons and diapers, or a onesi |
What do the diaper-wearing boys wear to bed (including those who wear multiple briefs for their diapers)? | ||||||||||
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What do the tighty-whities-wearing boys wear to bed (not including those who wear multiple briefs as diapers)? | ||||||||||
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How long before bedtime are the boys diapered? | ||||||||||||||
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For the boys who wear just their diapers to bed (including those who wear multiple underpants for diapers), how long before bed do they have their pants off? | ||||||||||||||
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On mornings or days when the diapered boys do not need to leave the house, for how long do they remain in just their diapers (including multiple underpants)? | ||||||||||||||
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How often are the boys in just their diapers/underwear upon your arrival? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
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How often do you change the boys' diapers (over age 4 only?) | ||||||||
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Who else changes the boys' diapers when you are present? | ||||||
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Did you know that there were boys in this family past the age of four who wear diapers before you agreed to babysit? | ||||
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How did you find out that these boys wear diapers? How did you feel after finding this out? |
i knew the 5 year-old wore diapers because i'd seen him on multiple occasions being changed in the stairwell, but the others i found out after the agreement was made. It was bot |
What bathroom problems have you observed from the boys (including those who do not always wear diapers)? | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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Describe how the diapers look on the boys. Include details such as thickness, number of layers, rise on their bodies (how high up their diapers go), how wide the crotch is, how the boys walk, what their bare legs look like in contrast to their diapers, etc. |
when the boys are diapered, i make sure they look like babies. so, they generally have at least 6 layers (not including boosters, that would bring it up to 12) that come up to their bellies, and in the back, just far enoungh to cover where the lower back meets the hips. as such the boys are either forced to crawl or waddle, because the diapers are at least 4-5 inches wide at the crotch and easily 2-3 inches thick. |
Why do the boys past the age of four in this family wear diapers? |
various reasons as detailed above. |
Do the boys have to be diapered in a particular way or fashion? Who decided or determined how the boys are to be diapered? |
yes, their father demands it so. He's threatened to diaper me if i didn't comply the next time. |
What were your first impressions towards the way these boys wear their diapers and use them? How did you feel about the magnitude (thickness, height/rise of their diapers), not wearing pants, and how the boys behave towards their wearing diapers? |
i was just very intrigued as a social psychology student. |
How do you feel about dealing with pee and poop-filled diapers worn by boys of such an age? How do you deal with the smell and texture of their bodily wastes? |
i don't...it's perfectly natural. |
What were your first impressions towards the way these boys wear their diapers and use them? How did you feel about the magnitude (thickness, height/rise of their diapers), not wearing pants, and how the boys behave towards their wearing diapers? |
see previous answers. |
How do the boys feel about wearing diapers? How do they feel about not wearing pants over their diapers? How do they feel about their sisters seeing them in their diapers and perhaps also changing their diapers? |
they don't care. For them, it's just how things are. |
What did you anticipate dealing with upon learning that the boys in this family wear diapers? What expectations did you have? Were there any expectations that did not come to be or were exceeded? What things did you not expect to deal with or consider? What other surprises did you deal with? |
just abnormally juvenile behavior for their ages, and the boys set me straight on that right away. |
Section #4: The Girls |
How many girls did you babysit for in this family? | ||||||||||||||
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Are any of these girls twins, triplets, etc.? | ||||
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Describe what the girls look like. Include ages, body size and build, hair color, and how they are usually dressed when you are present. What are their personalities like? What interests do they have? What are their favorite activities? What behavioral problems do you have to deal with from them the most? How do you deal with them? |
What types of clothes do the girls ages 4 and over wear around the house in the presence of the diapered and pantless boys? | ||||||||||||||||||||||
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What types of underwear do the girls ages 4 and over wear? | ||||||
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What do the girls ages 4 and over wear to bed? | ||||||||||||||
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How long before bedtime are the girls ages 4 and over dressed for bedtime? | ||||||||||||
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How often do the girls ages 4 and over voluntarily wear their underwear around the house? | ||||||||||
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How often are the boys in their diapers/underwear at home versus the girls being in their underwear? | ||||||||||||||
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How often do the girls wear pajamas or something other than just their underwear to bed? | ||||||||||
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How often do the girls see the boys in their diapers or their multiple underpants? | ||||||||||
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How often do the girls laugh at the boys for being in their diapers or their multiple underpants? | ||||||||||
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How often do the girls tease the boys for being in their diapers or their multiple underpants? | ||||||||||
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How do the girls call attention to seeing the boys in their diapers or their multiple underpants? What features and parts of their underwear/diapers do the girls point out? |
How do the girls feel about the themselves wearing pants when they see the boys only in their diapers or their multiple underpants? |
How do the girls feel about their underwear and how it compares to the boys' diapers/underwear? In which ways do the girls compare their underwear to the boys' diapers/underwear (color/whiteness, thickness, height, multiplicity, etc.)? |
List and describe all the ways the girls like to tease the boys for wearing diapers or lots of underwear and how the girls only wear one pair of thin panties. How do the girls like to call attention to seeing and smelling the boys' bigger, thicker, whiter diapers/underwear? |
How do the girls feel about getting to use the toilet when the boys pee and poop in their diapers/underwear? |
Why do you think the girls pay so much attention to the boys' diapers or underwear? Do the boys pay as much attention to the girls' underwear? If not, why? |
Why do the girls tease the boys about their diapers/underwear? Is it because boys' underwear looks different from girls' underwear and that they wear it so thick and/or in multiples? |
What kinds of words do the girls use when they talk about the boys' diapers/underwear? Do the girls call it underwear, undies, diapers, briefs, etc.? What do the girls call the boys' private parts (genitals, butt, etc.) What do the girls call the boys' bodily eliminations? How do the parents feel about the girls' choice of words or how they present their feelings and observations of the boys with such language? |
What observations and feelings do the girls make and have when they see the boys' padded-up white butts? Do the girls like to be behind the boys to see their butts, follow them up stairs, etc.? |
In which ways do the girls touch the boys' diapers or their multiple underpants? How do the boys react? For what reasons do the girls do it? |
Why do you think the girls never let the boys see them in their underwear but yet the girls see the boys in their diapers/underwear? How do the boys feel about this double standard? Have you noticed this in other families, including your own? What are your thoughts on this? |
Section #5: Activities |
What activities did the boys enjoy doing that the parents would approve of or not object to? |
just what's normal for kids their ages. Blood-off video games, PG movies, TV-Y7 shows, etc. |
What activities did the boys enjoy doing that the parents would NOT approve of or object to? |
once again, just waht's normal. PG-13 and R movies, causing ruckus, TV-MA shows, Blood-on video games, etc. |
What activities did the girls enjoy doing that the parents would approve of or not object to? |
What activities did the girls enjoy doing that the parents would NOT approve of or object to? |
What kind of rapport do you have with the boys in this family? What do they like about you? Is there anything you know of that they do not like about you? |
we get along great! they actually look forward to having me come over to watch them. They like that I allow them to eat junk, stay up late, and generally just be as they are. They don't like that i still enforce most of the rules with their father's punishments. |
What kind of rapport do you have with the girls in this family? What do they like about you? Is there anything you know of that they do not like about you? |
How well do the boys get along with one another? How well do the girls get along with one another? How well do the boys and girls get along with each another? Is there anything you know of that they do not like about you? |
the only problem is with Ryan (one of the eight year olds and the ringleader for most of the trouble in the house). He likes to mess with his youngest brother for being unpotty-trained, which is where most of the diaper discipline comes in. |