KGWil WARNING - This story does contain information regarding my own personal coming of age, which involves what some would refer to as bondage, also includes descriptions of orgasms and masturbation. No sex between any people involved. Of course, pants-wetting and diapers are involved. I guess it's about time I reflected on what has drawn me into diapers / wetting. All in all I am a normal child, raised in a normal (for this day and age) family. I had plenty of love, we were very blessed as far as income goes, and though I wasn't spoiled, I still had pretty much everything a kid could want. I am now 19, I am a faithful Christian by choice and by truth, and I believe that God does not frown on my desires as long as they don't get in the way of my relationship with Him. As far as purity goes, I am a virgin and will maintain that until I'm married; however, as most males, or I guess all people do, I still find myself masturbating. I have worked a lot on that, and I try to keep it to a minimum. Whether or not it's a sin depends on how far you want to read purity into your life, and I just have to kind of feel that one out. As in all things, I believe that the real sin is excess / abuse. Anyhow, enough about my beliefs. On to my life. The first memory I have of anything related to wetting is when I was about 5 years old. I was still a bedwetter, though I was successfully day trained at about the normal age. This first account has always stuck with me, and I don't quite know why... but I was at my babysitters house (who's daughters were about the same age as me, they are still good friends of mine) and we had a naptime. Well, of course I had my bedwetting problem, and I think my babysitter would have been fine had that been all I did... but I woke up and not only had I wet my pants, but also I had pooped in them. I of course was quite dismayed, but she was more so. I was dragged to the bathroom and stripped naked, put in the tub, and cleaned off. I really don't remember how I got back in any clothes or anything... but I remember that incident quite well in any case. Well, I never pooped myself in my sleep anytime after that, and only in the daytime when I was really, really sick (that can happen to anyone), and I think once in the bathtub (6 or 7 maybe?). But I did often have "skid marks" in my undies... a common trait I shared with my cousin (M) who was about 2 years younger than me. I used to stay over at his house a lot, and I noticed it. He often times smelled like it too (of course I'm sure I did as well, but you never notice your own smells). Anyways, my first memory with a diaper was at my cousin's house, I was probably 7 or 8 and he was maybe 5 or 6. His mom had been doing some babysitting and there were some old-school Pampers in the laundry room. We begged her for one and she finally said yes... I'm sure in hindsight she wondered what the hell we wanted with a diaper,' but nonetheless we took it. It was a pretty small diaper, and I remember him putting it on, and then me trying to put it on, smelling it (and loving the aroma), and that's about it. I know we didn't use it, but I'm not sure what he did with it... My cousin and I played together a lot...My mom would keep him for my aunt, or my aunt would keep me for my mom...etc. The basic family kid trade. Well, we were wacko kids when together, and though I never really associated anything sexual with it until later in life, we always wanted to see who was the strongest, or who could tie the best knots, etc. We were like brothers, really. So you can see where that led. We played tie-up games a lot and this came with tickling, stuffing socks and undies in each others mouth, sitting on the person and farting... stupid things like that. Of course, I always desired to be the victim, and I really wanted to not be able to get out. I think that looking back I really, really wanted someone to tie me up and tickle me until I wet my pants. A lot of times when I was all tied up and gagged, I would say "I really need to pee" or something of the sort, muffled through the sock.. Sometimes he would say "too bad" or "go in your pants" or just merely start tickling me. I regret never having the guts just to start going in my pants, or to really tie him up good and actually make him go (I desired more to have him escape so it was "my turn"). Also, fear of parental discipline was a big factor, and we didn't want our tie-up escapades to be stopped. The last time I remember doing this was at my house at the time. I'm guessing I was about 12 and this time my cousin decided to tape me together...or rather mummify me in tape. Right about the time he got done, I heard the door close meaning that our parents who had been out shopping were home. I used all my strength to break my arms free from the tape and I hid in the closet. My aunt found me first and just laughed. My mom gave me this look I'll never forget like "this is not acceptable." I'm sure she read something deeper into it as she is somewhat homophobic; she probably saw it as a kinky / gay sort of thing, though I still think its just kids learning and playing (I'm not gay btw, in case you had the wrong idea). But she had good reason to be upset whereas I just didn't understand... This was before I gave my life to Christ, so I had no real motivation from a moral standpoint, and though I was probably "feeling" the sexual relation there, it didn't register in my brain as I had never really been educated in that department. I don't really know how to mesh my personal wetting and diaper fantasies together... I'll try to correlate these events as best I can, but if it sometimes seems like I'm flashing back or I'm out of place, please forgive me. Heh. I think the first time I remember having an experience that spawned a fantasy about wetting was when I was at my cousin's house. I was again probably about 12. He was talking about how he "jizzed" in his pants, I asked him what that was, he said "when you pee your pants a little." Well of course I thought this was an open door to giving it a try without anyone making fun of me. (looking back, I'm thinking he must have picked that up from his older brother who didn't want to explain it to his pre pubescent little bro and just said that it was "like peeing" or something of the sort). Anyhow, it must have been hours later or maybe even the next day or something, but we were jumping on his trampoline and I decided this would be the perfect opportunity. I did a few jumps and sit down falls and whatnot and each time squirted out a little bit of pee. It wasn't much, and of course I couldn't justify a pants wetting, but it was probably a quarter sized wet spot on my jean shorts and quite a bit more in my undies. I told my cousin then "I think I jizzed myself" and he just looks at me and says "what?" I say "I just wet my pants a little." He just kind of gave me a weird look and laughed at me a little and said "Oh." To this day I wonder if I could have justified wetting myself... I was a kid, I was playing too hard on the trampoline, I didn't realize it, etc. My aunt probably would have shrugged it off, don't know about my mom. My cousin would have made fun of me for a little while and forgotten it. I wish I would have. I wet the bed until I was about 11. I always had a plastic sheet on my bed, and I hardly ever had anyone over to spend the night. I guess I thought it was somewhat normal. Usually I got up in the middle of the night and got my parents up. They always thought it was a nuisance I could tell, but they got up and changed my sheets nonetheless. I think they thought I was lazy, but I know it was real accidents. I remember it never happened at others houses, and I was always scared to death that it would happen at church camp or school sleepovers. But, it never did. I guess I was lucky or else there was something subconscious. Either way, when I was finally dry at night the plastic sheet came off, and I didn't really pee in the bed again accidentally after that except once recently. However, the idea of it at the same time that I hit puberty is what set me off in my desires for wetting and eventually diapers. I was 12, almost 13 (I think most of this other stuff had already happened), when I had my first wet dream. But we hadn't had any sex ed yet (it came real soon, but a bit too late), and I was never really told about that stuff, so when I had my first wet dream (and subsequent ones) I thought that in some weird way I was wetting the bed. Of course I didn't want mom knowing about it, so I just hid the undies and hoped she never found out. One dream in particular, which has probably created some weird psychological / sexual link, I dreamed that I had to go really bad, and that I was trying to find a bathroom but I couldn't, and in the dream I screamed "I'm gonna pee my pants" and that's when I orgasmed and I woke up mid orgasm and I couldn't stop it of course... After that point, even when I learned about what was happening, I always got turned on thinking about wetting the bed, wetting my pants, having to go, tied tickled helplessness that led to wet pants, that trampoline incident.... you name it, that's what got me turned on. One time in the midst of all this, I got up one morning before school and got into the shower and had forgotten to take my undies off. My mom found them of course and asked why they were wet, and I just truthfully said "I forgot to take them off and got in the shower." She just said "oh, I've done that before" and went on her way. So of course, this spawned many ideas for me concerning hiding peed clothes with the fact that my clothes were wet anyways. Many times after this, I would find sneaky ways to have my "underwear pees" where I would go into the shower (before I was going to take a shower) and watch myself in the mirror as I soaked my briefs. Then I would just turn on the shower and soak the briefs anyways. I think mom may have been able to detect my pee or that I was lying, but she never said anything really. There were a few pair of underwear that I hid behind towels in the cabinet that one day would be mysteriously gone... I don't know if she ever thought anything of it or not. If so she has never said a word. This also got me thinking about bathing suits and how they would handle pee. Whenever I had one on and was actually playing with water or in a pool or whatever, or like at camp when I would wear a bathing suit to shower, I always just pee in it. In fact I still do, and I'm sure a lot of people do. Since then I have gotten a tad more daring, sometimes wetting it while its dry right before my first jump into a pool or the lake or whatever. I doubt if anyone has ever noticed. I remember vaguely a few incidents where I wet myself on purpose outside of our house when mom wasn't home. I think once the neighbors saw, but who knows. At this point, I had already started building computers a little here and there, and what I had was "mine" per se, so my parents generally didn't pry in what I did on the internet and stuff. So that's when I started searching for wet pants and bedwetting... generally I looked for help and for stories. That's when I remember coming across a few stories or sites that talked about diapers. I remember one story in particular that really made me recall that childhood memory at the babysitters, and added a new fetish into my lineup of turn ons. The story talked about a 15 year old girls "true account" (I think this may have been posted at "the toilet" message boards) of all of a sudden starting to wet her bed again, and then poop her bed, and her dad forced her into diapers as a lesson. Boy did that ever do it. I was naive but at least I knew that my dick was rock solid and that meant "sexual." I'm sure it was augmented by the fact that it was a girl in the story, even though I've never really been turned on by "erotic" or porn material (something which I had to struggle with...I know I'm straight because I'm aroused around women when I'm around them, and by particular women, but never by a man unless it solely involves wetting or diapers, which is what causes the stimulation, not the actual man.) my point being that I'm turned on by wetting, and now diapers, but then the girl is in that situation... had I known what masturbation was at the time I would have exploded. We moved again, giving me my own basement, when I was about 13 almost 14. So now, I've got a little array of these things that really, really turn me on. It really was a matter of time before I discovered masturbation. I remember that after reading about the diapers I would use towels, toilet paper...whatever I could find and try to make myself diapers, supported by swim trunks or briefs... It never really worked, but I never really wet my pants... which meant that I had control. I didn't want to... I wanted to wet uncontrollably. I tried getting myself really, really desperate and then jumping real hard on my bed, or falling, trying to lift something heavy... nothing really worked, my mind just couldn't let go. Doing it in the shower just wasn't enough. Well, One day, I had a hard on and I found that taking my swimsuit and rubbing it made me feel like I really had to go. So I did that. And I did it faster. And harder. And eventually I remember thinking to myself "I'm doing it, I'm really gonna pee my pants unstoppably" and then I came. Of course I was hooked, and double of course I didn't know what the hell I was doing. I finally figured it out on my own about 3 months later when I started reading stories about other peoples diaper experiences. Well, I continued to get more daring, and in the meantime was given a few strokes of luck. One of those was when my mom one day got a maxi pad sample in the mail. I figured that was probably the next most absorbent thing to a diaper, since I got the mail and she didn't even have to see it, I took it and hid it. Later on (probably a week or more) I had the opportunity to use it. Oh I peed in it all right. It sure didn't hold as much as I thought it would though and ended up leaking out onto my pants and bed. I thought I was had. But then again, it really didn't soak in much, and I just covered it up and didn't draw attention to my bed, especially since I did my own laundry (of course for good reason). I don't think it smelled much but it just dried on there. I did my laundry sometime later that week. My next stroke of luck was when I was about 14 almost 15 my mom got some sort of surgery done (that's not the lucky part, I know she was in pain) that caused her to leak some fluid, and to prevent her from getting it on the furniture and whatnot she had to get some adult diapers to wear. Well I was already trying to come up with some way to get my hands on them, but I never knew where they really were and I respected my mother enough not to go rummaging through her stuff. Well one day when I was taking the trash out (this was quite some months later) I found them in the trash can. The whole unused stash. I thought I would go ballistic. I took them inside and hid them in my room and began using them every chance I had. I remember still the first time I got to pee in a diaper since I was a little kid. I went into my bathroom and locked the door, watched in the mirror with a big grin of disbelief on my face as I, surprisingly easily, let it all go flooding into the diaper. I loved it, even when it started leaking a bit right onto the bathroom floor, I didn't care. I was careful with how I used those. They certainly did not last a year, but i remember when I did turn 16...One of my first ventures out to buy more diapers I chickened out...but on my second time around I went to a store that was out of the way, at a really odd time, and got them quick and left. I went with Walgreen's brand overnight diapers.... and they were, to my surprise, plastic coated. This made my pleasure even more so because I knew that "real" diapers weren't that clothy stuff...it was the plastic coated ones. Sometime in the midst of this I made some special ops missions to the store to buy some of the stuff I had read about in people's stories; probably all happened not too long after I turned 16... I bought a pacifier, some bottles, baby powder, baby oil, and wipes in some number of trips. I found a babyish looking red, short striped shirt in my mom's box of "throw away clothes," and found myself playing baby a lot during that time, but it just really wasn't for me. I got kind of used to the pacifier but never could bring myself to use it at night. One time, when we were getting ready to sell that house, my mom was cleaning stuff up and I had hidden the pacifier under some clothes. She picked up a stack of towels or something, and the paci fell out on the floor. She asked me if I knew where it came from, and I made a desperate lie that I had no idea, and she assumed it was from someone that we showed the house to. I was more afraid of having to tell her everything if I said it was mine because her first thought probably would have been that I was on ecstasy or something (which I never have, never will). I eventually threw all that stuff away for ultimate fear of it being found when we moved. I also experimented with baby diapers, but I'm a big guy and not much would ever fit me. I can stretch Goodnites XL to fit me BARELY. However, I did enjoy lining my adult diapers and my undies with a pampers size 6, and I can't get enough of the smell. I still line my undies when I'm at home to this day. I also got some of the new Pampers Easy-Ups recently to see what they hold (not much) and I especially noticed the pampers smell in them...stronger than the diapers I think. Anyways, that's about all I do now because I'm in college and I don't really care for my roommates thinking I'm some weirdo. But I would like to wear diapers just because I'm a lazy ass. If they made toddler style training pants in a size i could wear, I would be in heaven... there's something about that stage...like you are supposed to be gaining control but the training pants just remind you that you are still diapered... you can't be trusted to not have an accident. It's a complete turn on. Touching again on bedwetting... as I mentioned before, I didn't wet the bed on accident after about age 11, but what inspired me to go ahead and write all my experiences was a recent, unexpected accident I had: It was a "bathroom dream," the kind I wanted to have when I was purposely wetting the bed (keep reading), and I woke up starting to pee, but I was able to get up and hobble to the bathroom before any got on the bed, however, my PJ bottoms were soaked by the time I got to the toilet, and I just sat down and finished with them on. Luckily my mom had gone to the store, I don't know what she would have said, but she sure would have noticed. I am hoping that this doesn't happen to me at school, but then again, deep down inside I am happier that it was more of an accident. I couldn't help but jack off to my own little regression. Yet regardless of the current feelings I have, I did pee the bed on purpose for a while when I was 16-17 in a half hearted effort to justify my buying / wearing diapers. The plastic sheet returned at dads house, while at home I found myself confronted with an unconcealed baby "crib pad." This was somewhat mixed feelings for me, as it was more babyish and still obvious, there's really nothing more "shameful" than having another person discover your plastic mattress cover. I did my best to make my accidents seem as childish as possible, but forcing myself to be upset though I was really happy was hard. My mom made me go to the doctor, and as a result of my efforts I had to get my first ever blood test, which sort of shaded my happiness for a bit. I had to lie to my physician, and also was prescribed overactive bladder and bedwetting medicine. To my disappointment, the doctor never even mentioned diapers, and when I mentioned other "protection" to my mom, she just basically told me that "I didn't want that." I guess she didn't understand that by my asking, it meant that I did. Either way, I acted like the medicine worked, phased out my bedwetting, and blamed it on the stress of school. I decided that I wasn't going to get what I wanted, and if I did it would probably make life harder for me anyways, especially at up and coming college. During all these years, I have wet myself many times on purpose, in diapers, etc. I have wet way more than most kids would anyhow. But those accounts are boring, and planned, and if I do tell them, it will be another day. I will conclude this with 2 accounts of my only genuine pants wettings since I considered myself "beyond" accident age. The first I believe I was 15. I was messing around with my computers, and I think I was putting one together for a neighbor, but I was messing around with an old AT style case with the pushbutton power switch that had 4 wire leads to connect it to the power supply. Well, I had to go to the bathroom anyhow, and was somewhat fidgety, and that usually causes me to be a little bit reckless or inattentive...I had been careful up to that point, but this time I forgot to unplug the power supply from the surge protector and sort of wasn't thinking about those power switch wires being "live." Well, I just reached up my pair of pliers and pulled one of those wire leads off, and I remember hearing the pop of the surge protector as a bit of electricity ran through my body. It was enough to lay me out on the floor and make me shake for a few seconds...and it of course was enough to make me wet my pants. It took me about 5 or 8 seconds to regain control of myself and assess what had happened. The first thing I did was stop my pee and get up to look at the surge protector. Fried. The lead that I had pulled off had also soldered itself to the side of the case. Then I inspected my personal damage and found that my jeans had a nice big wet patch on them...very noticeable. I ran off to the bathroom and finished peeing, and then abruptly changed clothes. I fantasize about someone catching me and thinking that I should be punished for wetting my pants, but unfortunately at the time I was just more concerned that I didn't do any permanent damage to myself and namely the computer, and I really didn't want to have to explain to mom that I almost electrocuted myself. The second time was when I was 16. I was driving home from our lake home and I hit a lot of traffic from the holiday folks heading home. I had had a cup of coffee and then downed about half of a super size DP from McDonalds when I ran into the traffic and knew I might be in trouble. This particular stretch of road is in between towns, and though my home wasn't far, the only turn offs in between were neighborhoods, and that's the last thing I needed...to be running around doing a pee dance around a bunch of people's houses. Well, there was much contemplating in my head as I became more and more urgent to go... but long story short, eventually I had to grab a t-shirt from my bag in the back seat, stick it under my but, and let it come as it needed. I tried to do it in little bits so I wouldn't get my seat wet or soak all the way through. It worked relatively well, though it did augment the wetness on my shorts. When I finally got home, I was pretty relaxed until I realized that my mom and her boyfriend were both home. I didn't know what to do. I decided to let my shirt hang way down, carry my bag low behind me, and make a mad dash for my room. I did, and managed to pull off my soiled pants and undies and put on just a pair of athletic knit shorts about 5 seconds before my mom just walked into my room asking me how my trip was. I was relieved to say the least, but after that was extremely turned on at my own "almost caught" situation. Well, that's all I've got for now, maybe someday I'll be able to add more to this, but so far this is my experience. I want to say again that, through all of this, deciding what is pure and what is sinful has been a daily struggle. If you have trouble with that, feel free to email me and we can chat. This is still a relatively secret part of my life...one of my friends knows some of it, and of course, God knows it all. I hope that someday I will have a loving wife who will share or at least humor me in my desires, and then maybe I won't have to feel quite so guilty as I do sometimes. In any case, it has been thrilling and fun, though maybe not always right... but I know I am loved and I am forgiven. Thanks also to Deeker for providing this page...it has been a good site to come to and relax and read. Wishfully wet, KGWil