| Title: | An Irresponsible Boy | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Name: | Vera | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Email: | not given | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Gender: | Female | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Current Age: | 34 | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Whom Story is About: | My nephew | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| Posting Date: | 10/12/08 | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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| Summary: | Ronald is my cousins only son and a two years ago I allowed him to move in my home after his mother and father seperated and my cousin (his mother) was a drug addict and still is today. I felt sorry for him and I live in a rural community near Harrisburg, Pa. My younger sister and I live together and neither of us has been married or have children. We at first wern't sure how to rear children and tried our best to be nice to him. Right away he was rude and misbehaved very often at school and at home. We tried punishing him most by grounding him and not letting him watch TV or use the computer. He didn't improve over the first few months and he was an uncontrollable 11-year-old. My sister and I would get weekly calls from school about his conduct and we were at a loss of what to do. |
One Saturday morning my sister, who is 28, was taking a shower and when she was finished she went to put the dirty towel in the hamper. When she opened it, there was Ronald who had just watched her shower. She was in tears and put her robe on and brought him to me in the kitchen. I was so mad at him. I grabbed him and Connie (my sister) and I started taking his clothes off. After a bit of a struggle we had him nude and with Connie's help I pulled him over my lap and spanked him until my hand hurt. I then told him to stand in the corner but he ran away crying. Connie and I stopped him and it was quite a scuffle but I ended up tying his hands to the radiator and made him stand there naked for over an hour. He finally admitted hiding in the hamper a lot of times and that he also had watched me shower. Even though I was uneasy punishing him this way, I knew he was humiliated and his rear was red as could be. That was the first time I saw him cry. After he went to bed that night Connie and I discussed how to punish him in the future. Connie went on the internet and found quite a few different ideas. One was diaper discipline, which neither of us had ever heard of. I was against it at first but threatened him with it and Connie also showed him how it�s done on an internet page. After all that he still was disruptive in school and I kept threatening him and Connie even went out and bought disposable diapers to show him. Within a few days he got in more trouble. This time Connie and I took him to his room and made him take off all his clothes. This time he had nowhere to run and after I told him to take them off or we would, he slowly got undressed. When he was finally naked I made him lay face down on the bed and I spanked him with his belt. I actually felt bad at the time but I was so angry at him I made sure he knew who was the boss. He cried and cried and then I put the diaper on him and told him if he had to pee or poop, he had to do it in the diaper. He couldn't believe we were doing this to him and when he found out he wasn't allowed to wear anything else he cried for another hour or so. The first time we changed him that evening Connie had to hold his arms while I took off the diaper and washed him. Later before he went to bed I told him he wasn't allowed to shower that I was going to give him a bath. When I got him in the tub he was so embarrassed again that he sobbed the entire time. I then put him to bed and put two diapers on him and told him he couldn't use the bathroom. The next morning was a Saturday and he was then informed that he couldn't go out and had to stay in diapers the entire weekend. Either Connie or I would change him every couple hours and by Sunday he still didn't poop. Connie told him if he didn't poop she would give him an enema. He didn't want to go in the diaper but by Sunday afternoon he finally did. Connie was changing him and called me in the room and with the two of us cleaning him up he was again crying with embarrassment. We then made him walk to the bathroom naked and bathed him. He got a little better but still was in trouble often. Before we diaper punished him I would always spank him first. I made him strip and after the spanking I made him stand at the kitchen wall for half an hour naked. The whole time he would sob and cry while covering his penis with his hands. He will be 13 in three months and has gotten fairly good grades in school and is well behaved at home now. The last time he was punished was almost 6 weeks ago. I think he finally started to wise up and we make sure there are diapers in his room all the time just so he doesn't forget.