Name:	Unavailable
Location:	California USA

Your age:

6   7   8   9   10   11   12   13 ● 14   15   16   17   18   19   20   21 or over

Are you a girl or a boy?

Girl ● Boy

What is your relationship to the boy who was found in violation of proper use of the toilet?

Older sister ● Younger sister   Older brother   Younger brother   Older girl cousin   Younger girl cousin   Older boy cousin   Younger boy cousin   Friend of his sister   Friend of his brother   Girl babysitter   Boy babysitter

Details/comments: I'm his older sister.

Name of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage:

Cody

Age of the boy who was found to be in violation of proper toilet usage:

4   5   6   7   8   9   10 ● 11   12   13   14

What was the date and time of the incident?

Last incident was last Saturday, June 27, 2009.

Indicate the violations found for this particular incident:

Peeing on the floor   Peeing on the toilet seat   Failing to flush (pee only)   Failing to flush (pee and/or poop)   Evidence of no toilet paper used upon leaving poop unflushed   Evidence of poor wiping skills   Evidence of not wiping at all   Wearing soiled underwear (skidmarks) in view of observer   Found soiled underwear (skidmarks) in laundry   Hiding soiled underwear   Hiding soiled pants   Forgetting to put the toilet lid back down   Using too much toilet paper   Not replacing empty toilet paper roll   Leaving too large of stools (turds)   Leaving poop streaks or smears on the toilet seat   Stinking up the bathroom   Failure to deodorize bathroom odors   Pee accidents in pants   Poop accidents in pants   Pee accidents in underwear only (no pants worn)   Poop accidents in underwear only (no pants worn)   Deliberately peeing in pants ● Deliberately pooping in pants ● Deliberately peeing in underwear only (no pants worn)   Deliberately pooping in underwear only (no pants worn)   Wetting the bed   Leaving wet (pee) spot on floor or furniture ● Leaving poop spot on floor or furniture   Lying when asked if needing to go the potty ● Lying about having accidents   Attempting to blame smell on someone else   Attempting to attribute smell from accident to flatulence   Failure to use restroom when opportunity was presented ● Refusing to use toilet when told ● Failing to meet toilet training expectations   Peeing in an improper receptacle or location   Pooping in an improper receptacle or location

Provide a detailed description of this incident.

Cody was playing outside in front of the house wit some of his friends. He had to go to the bathroom but he didn't want to come inside to go. So he just did a pee in his pants and still went on playing. Then after a little while he did poop in his pants too. One of the girls (his age..like 11) came in and told me and mom that Cody had messed himself in his pants. Then mom told me to go and get him and make him come inside to get cleaned up. When I went outside and told him to get his butt inside we refused to come. So I went and told mom and she went outside to get him but he had already run away into the woods across the road from our house. Then I had to go and look for him. He came back in like an hour and he was really messy. Mom told me to get his pants and undies off him. I did and told him to get in the bathtub because I had to wash him off. Mom then punished him for a week..no PS..no bike. She told Cody next time that happens he will be put in diapers and his pants and briefs will be locked up until he learns to potty like everyone else does. I want mom to make him wear diapers all the time. I told her I would change him when she is at work. My friend's little brother has to wear diapers all the time and we can change him. He is 9. My friend will help me change Cody too if mom makes him wear diapers. I am so hoping that she does it.

Who else witnessed this incident (excluding yourself, obviously)?

The boy's mother   The boy's father   The boy's grandmother   The boy's grandfather   The boy's aunt   The boy's uncle   The boy's older sister   The boy's younger sister   The boy's older brother   The boy's younger brother   The boy's older girl cousin   The boy's younger girl cousin   The boy's older boy cousin   The boy's younger boy cousin   The boy's friend ● The boy's preteen girl babysitter (under 13)   The boy's preteen boy babysitter (under 13)   The boy's teen girl babysitter (13 to 17)   The boy's teen boy babysitter (13 to 17)   The boy's adult female babysitter (18 and older)   The boy's adult male babysitter (18 and older)   Another girl unrelated to the boy ● Another boy unrelated to the boy ● Another female adult unrelated to the boy   Another male adult unrelated to the boy

Include any available statements or accounts from the witnesses noted above:

There were like 4 kids outside playing with Cody. There were 3 boys...his friends and 1 girl who is 11. All of them saw Cody messing in his pants. But on the girl came in and told me and mom. The boys didn't tell anyone. But they did tell me later that Cody always pees and poops his pants when they play games.

How was the evidence of these violations documented/retained from this incident?

Took photos   Withheld soiled garments ●

Provide details on how this evidence was documented.

I undressed Cody and then mom came in and saw his peepee and poopy clothes. That's when she yelled at him.

Which violations has this boy been shown to commit in the past?

Peeing on the floor ● Peeing on the toilet seat ● Failing to flush (pee only) ● Failing to flush (pee and/or poop) ● Evidence of no toilet paper used upon leaving poop unflushed ● Evidence of poor wiping skills   Evidence of not wiping at all ● Wearing soiled underwear (skidmarks) in view of observer ● Found soiled underwear (skidmarks) in laundry ● Hiding soiled underwear ● Hiding soiled pants ● Forgetting to put the toilet lid back down ● Using too much toilet paper   Not replacing empty toilet paper roll   Leaving too large of stools (turds) ● Leaving poop streaks or smears on the toilet seat ● Stinking up the bathroom ● Failure to deodorize bathroom odors ● Pee accidents in pants   Poop accidents in pants   Pee accidents in underwear only (no pants worn)   Poop accidents in underwear only (no pants worn)   Deliberately peeing in pants ● Deliberately pooping in pants ● Deliberately peeing in underwear only (no pants worn) ● Deliberately pooping in underwear only (no pants worn) ● Wetting the bed ● Leaving wet (pee) spot on floor or furniture ● Leaving poop spot on floor or furniture ● Lying when asked if needing to go the potty ● Lying about having accidents ● Attempting to blame smell on someone else   Attempting to attribute smell from accident to flatulence   Failure to use restroom when opportunity was presented   Refusing to use toilet when told ● Failing to meet toilet training expectations   Peeing in an improper receptacle or location   Pooping in an improper receptacle or location

Provide details on this boy's past violations as noted above.

Cody has like horrible bathroom manners. He never wipes, he never flushes, he never puts the toilet seat down too. He pees and poops in his briefs and pants on purpose even inside the house. That makes mom furious and she has just about given up trying to get him to behave. He even wet in his bed cause he don't like to get up and doesn't mind he is sleeping in a wet bed. Mom had to put a rubber mattress cover on his bed too. I have even seen him when he is peeing in his briefs cause a big wet sport apprears on his crotch and pee rolls down his legs. That's why I think he should be put in diapers pernmentally.

Provide statements and accounts from others who have also noted the violations as indicated above.

Mary Leigh is the other girl in the block and she is 11. She has seen him delibrately peeing and pooping in his pants outside and even when she coves over here. His other guy friends have seen him doing it too. But they never tell on him and they think it's kind of cool when he does it. Like they support him and probably they have done the same thing themselves. I think all of them should be put in diapers all the time too.

How did the boy respond to being confronted with his violations? Who confronted the boy?

Cody can put up an awful fight about. He tries to run away and hide too. Mom has even spanked him for doing it. He is really bad and now he is getting stronger and harder to hold him down to get him all cleaned up. That's why he should be forced to wear diapers without any pants. That would calm him down and make him obey us better.

What courses of action would you recommend be taken to punish the boy for his violations?

Put him in a single disposable diaper   Put him in multiple disposable diapers   Put him in a single cloth diaper   Put him in multiple cloth diapers ● Use only plain white diapers ● Put him in multiple white underpants (6 to 12 pairs)   Put him in multiple white underpants (12 or more pairs) ● Make his diapers too thick for pants ● Make him go pantsless ● Confiscate his pants ● Ban him from the bathroom ● Secure/lock the toilet   Reinforce his diapers to prevent their removal ● Let other girls see him in diapers ● Let other boys see him in diapers ● Make him clean the toilet/bathroom for this incident   Make him clean the toilet/bathroom until further notice   Make him wash his soiled clothes (including underwear)   Make him clean up all other pee/poop messes for which is is responsible   Counsel/advise him on his violations   Spank him ●

Provide details on your recommended methods of punishment.

I want to get mom to make him wear multiple cloth diapers with plastic panties over them all the time. My friend told me that what her mom makes her brother do. They lock up his pants and boxers so he can't wear them. They don't let him use the bathroom either. He must use his diapers when we has to go..both pee and poop. She changes him. I've seem that cause I have changed him too. That's what we should do with Cody too.

What was the actual punishment given?

Put him in a single disposable diaper   Put him in multiple disposable diapers   Put him in a single cloth diaper   Put him in multiple cloth diapers   Use only plain white diapers   Put him in multiple white underpants (6 to 12 pairs)   Put him in multiple white underpants (12 or more pairs) ● Make his diapers too thick for pants ● Make him go pantsless   Confiscate his pants ● Ban him from the bathroom ● Secure/lock the toilet ● Reinforce his diapers to prevent their removal   Let other girls see him in diapers ● Let other boys see him in diapers ● Make him clean the toilet/bathroom for this incident   Make him clean the toilet/bathroom until further notice   Make him wash his soiled clothes (including underwear)   Make him clean up all other pee/poop messes for which is is responsible   Counsel/advise him on his violations   Spank him

Who meted out or administered the boy's punishment?

Myself ● The boy's mother ● The boy's father   The boy's grandmother   The boy's grandfather   The boy's aunt   The boy's uncle   The boy's older sister   The boy's younger sister   The boy's older brother   The boy's younger brother   The boy's older girl cousin   The boy's younger girl cousin   The boy's older boy cousin   The boy's younger boy cousin   The boy's friend   The boy's preteen girl babysitter (under 13)   The boy's preteen boy babysitter (under 13)   The boy's teen girl babysitter (13 to 17)   The boy's teen boy babysitter (13 to 17)   The boy's adult female babysitter (18 and older)   The boy's adult male babysitter (18 and older)   Another girl unrelated to the boy   Another boy unrelated to the boy   Another female adult unrelated to the boy   Another male adult unrelated to the boy

Provide details on how he was punished and by whom. Include those who had a role of some sort in the punishment and what their roles were.

Mom didn't have any cloth diapers so she made him wear 14 pairs of white undies. His pants were taken away and he can't use the bathroom either. Mom probably will get coth diapers and some more white briefs for him to wear.

How has this boy been punished for past violations of using the toilet/bathroom? Who was involved and what did these people do?

He was telled at and spanked most of the time. But that don't really work well with Cody cause he still like to do it.

How fitting did you feel the punishment was for what the boy did?

It was fitting and appropriate ● It was too lenient   It was too harsh

Why do you feel that the punishment the boy received was fitting and appropriate, too lenient or too harsh?

If mom makes him wear diapers all the time it is fair punishment.

How did you feel about the way this incident was handled? What do you think could have been done differently? How have you felt about the handling of past incidents? What do you think could have been done differently?

Mom should have done this years ago when Cody first started peeing and pooping in his pants deliberately.

How did this boy react to his punishment?

Cody hates it. He was fighting and cursing when I was taking off his clothes and getting him into the bathtub to clean up him. Mom threaten to spank him with a belt if he didn't stop fighting and cursing us. He stopped but that made him start to cry and he told me he hated me forever.

Describe yourself and your relationship to the boy. What do you and him look like? What are you and him each wearing?

I am 13 years old. I am average build for my age...like 100 pounds and 5'5" tall with light brown hair and eyes. I wear glasses to read mostly cause i'm farsighted. I like to wear shorts and cutoffs in summer with cute tops and stuff. I don't wear a bra at home cause I have small breasts. I don't have a boy friend yet. Code is 10 but he will be 11 in October. He is like 4'11" and 80 pounds, but he is starting to grow up real fast now. He has dark blond hair and gray eyes and is skinny. He usually wears cargo shorts or jeans in summer with T Shirt top. Right now I'm wear a long tee top and panties on under it cause it's so hot. Cody is wear like 10 pairs of white brief undies and tee top too. He is wet and messy and I will change him later. My friend told me about Deeker's website and I read the part for girls who have brothers who have to wear diapers too. Like I have no problem with letting Cody see me in just my panties to tell him that girls are superior to boys and we can wear pretty undies and they can't.