Have you ever shared a bed and/or bedroom with your brother?

Number of responses received: 16

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes (same bed)	11	68.8%
Yes (same room but different beds)	5	31.3%
No	0	0.0%
Total:	16

Up to what age did you share a bed and/or bedroom with your brother?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Under 4	1	6.3%
4	1	6.3%
5	0	0.0%
6	1	6.3%
7	0	0.0%
8	1	6.3%
9	2	12.5%
10	1	6.3%
11	1	6.3%
12	1	6.3%
13	1	6.3%
14	1	6.3%
15	1	6.3%
16	2	12.5%
17	0	0.0%
Over 17	2	12.5%
Total:	16

What kinds of diapers does/did your brother wear to bed?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Single disposable diaper- plain white	8	50.0%
Single disposable diaper- patterned/colored	5	31.3%
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	3	18.8%
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	0	0.0%
Single cloth diaper- plain white	1	6.3%
Single cloth diaper- patterned/colored	0	0.0%
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	5	31.3%
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	1	6.3%
Multiple underpants- plain white	0	0.0%
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	0	0.0%
Other makeshift diapers	0	0.0%

What else does/did your brother usually wear in bed?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Shirt or pajama top, diapers exposed	7	43.8%
No shirt, just diapers	9	56.3%
Pajama bottoms, no shirt	3	18.8%
Full pajamas	4	25.0%
Night shirt (covers diapers)	1	6.3%
Boxers or other shorts over diapers with shirt	2	12.5%
Boxers or other shorts over diapers without shirt	1	6.3%

What do/did you usually wear in bed?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Pajamas	8	50.0%
Night shirt	6	37.5%
Panties	7	43.8%
Thong	2	12.5%
Bra	1	6.3%
Shorts	2	12.5%
Nothing	5	31.3%

For which reasons did your brother wear diapers to bed?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Bedwetting/urinary incontinence	12	75.0%
Bowel incontinence	5	31.3%
Punishment	5	31.3%
He just wanted to wear diapers	3	18.8%

Has your brother ever wet the bed while you were in it?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes	12	80.0%
No	3	20.0%
Total:	15

Has your brother ever masturbated in the bed while you were in it or in the room?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes (same bed)	11	68.8%
Yes (same room but different beds)	3	18.8%
No	2	12.5%
Total:	16

Do/did you undress in front of your brother?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes, he saw me completely naked	11	68.8%
Yes, but just down to my underwear	3	18.8%
No, he had to be out of the room when I was not dressed	2	12.5%
Total:	16

For which reasons did you and your brother share the same bed or bedroom?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
There was only one bed for us	9	56.3%
There was only one bedroom for us	8	50.0%
So I could look after him	4	25.0%
He didn't want to be alone at night	3	18.8%
I didn't want to be alone at night	3	18.8%
He was being punished	1	6.3%

How did you feel about sharing a bed or bedroom with your brother?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	OK
Carleen	15	Joey	12	I like it most of the time except when his diapers leak but I have learned to put enouph layers on him and tight.It makes it easy to put my hand in and check in the middle of night and change him if real wet already I dont need to get from my bed and check. I think it makes us closer than other sister and brother we almost never fight and we never go to bed mad like I know my friends do with their brothers. I feel weird sometimes cuz we are the only ones I know that still sleep together.
Katie	6	Matt	11	I don't really mind, as for him wetting, he can't help it.
sara	14	jeff	14	i do not like it evry ince inawile he ses that i wet the bed and not him. so i get put in to diapers for a munth
Erin	14	Jeff	12	I hated it. He was still totally incontinent and soaked the bed or his diaper every single night. I told my mom he needs a crib, not a bed because he's nothing more than a bedwetting little baby.
marie	16	max	15	its fun
gene	18+	dean	18+	We are steps and lovers since we were 14.
	13	Mark	10	It was ok as long as he stayed on his side of the bed
Lexi	6	Matt	11	I'm the one that wants to share a bed with him.
Autumn	18+	David	13	I'm the youngest girl, so it just made sense I guess.
sarah	13	derek	14	i liked it
Alissa	15	Cory	16	I don't mind him saring my bed with me. We have slept in same bed since we were little so we both seen each other naked so it's no big deal.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	No big deal, they always knew who was Superior and in total charge. As far as our room and bed being the same, it was only during their younger Diaper years, they had their own nursery when oldest brother was age 9 yr.

How did your brother feel about sharing a bed or bedroom with you?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	OK
Carleen	15	Joey	12	He wants to but I think he is immature for his age so he wants to sleep safe with me and he wants to be close to me after our mom died.
Katie	6	Matt	11	He doesn't seem to care.
sara	14	jeff	14	i gess he liked it because he could blam the acsedents on me
Erin	14	Jeff	12	I don't think he liked me seeing him in his little baby diaper every night but that's what babies who can't control their bladder wear to bed.
marie	16	max	15	he is having fun
gene	18+	dean	18+	He loves it
	13	Mark	10	He was cool about it but liked to be alone with his diaper on when he was punshed
Lexi	6	Matt	11	He didn't seem to care.
Autumn	18+	David	13	It didn't matter to him.
sarah	13	derek	14	he didant mind
Alissa	15	Cory	16	He doesn't mind sharing the bed with me either.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	It, was no big deal for my brothers, and just a family thing, Us girls were always Superior, and it also made for convenience with caring for their diapers.

How did your parents feel about you and your brother sharing the same bed or bedroom? How did they address concerns regarding privacy?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	OK
Carleen	15	Joey	12	My dad doesnt care. We have the same room but we do have a bunk bed. He has a small bed and top and I have a bigger one on the bottom. He tried to sleep on top but he always came down with me in the middle of the night when we are little and we never changed. Now he just stays there in my bed after I put his diapers on him. My dad says if we see other bare and play with our sex stuff that I wont be curious with other boys at school and do stuff with them and get pregnant and I wouldnt do it anyway. I already know what boys are like so why would I. All the boys at school are jerks. I dont need them to make me happy.
Katie	6	Matt	11	They understand why I do.
sara	14	jeff	14	they dident mind because the thought we were bolth bed wetters thanks to my brother
Erin	14	Jeff	12	My mom told me to deal with it. She's a single parent trying to raise three kids and our house was really small.
marie	16	max	15	they don't care
gene	18+	dean	18+	They know and are happy for us. we both have had bad marrages.
	13	Mark	10	They made us sleep in that one bed untill we got some money to buy a new bed, they always knoked beforethey entered
Lexi	6	Matt	11	Our parents thought it was a little cute. There weren't many privacy concerns.
Autumn	18+	David	13	David sleeps in a crib
sarah	13	derek	14	they wanted us to
Alissa	15	Cory	16	We have a small house and me and my brother have 1 bedroom and mom the other. Mom says as long as it's okay with us we can share the same bedroom.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	They knew the boys had deep respect, and wouldn't do anything they shouldn't. It was back then a thing we had to do as there was no room for the boys' to have a nursery.

Provide details on what your brother wears/wore to bed, especially his diapers and if this was all he wore (nothing covering diapers):

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	Just diaprs
Carleen	15	Joey	12	He just wears diapers It gets to hot wearing other stuff and its easier to change him with nothing on.
Katie	6	Matt	11	He normally wears one pair of white disposable diapers (Unless he's sick, then he'll wear two-four) and some black sweatpants to bed.
sara	14	jeff	14	he wore pijamas that he cant get undone by him selff so it is harder for him to blame me. (i picked his pijamas out)
Erin	14	Jeff	12	Normally, he wears nothing but a baby diaper to bed. When it's really cold, he gets to wear a shirt/pajama top to bed too.
marie	16	max	15	He wear pull-ups but most of the time were naked while kissing
gene	18+	dean	18+	My brother has worn cloth diapers and plastic pants for bedwetting all his life. we live in So. Cal. so in the summer he wear only diapers and baby pants. He has many weights of pjs(footed, flesse)
	13	Mark	10	He often only wear a t-shirt and his diaper
Lexi	6	Matt	11	He wears plain, white, disposable diapers and sweat pants to bed, he never wears a shirt to bed unless it's REALLY cold.
Autumn	18+	David	13	He usually just wears a diaper, especially if it's warm - otherwise, a diaper and a shirt.
sarah	13	derek	14	he only wore diapers to bed
Alissa	15	Cory	16	I usually change him so he wears cloth diapers to bed most of the time. Sometimes we wants to wear a pullup so I don't chnage him then. In summer he just wears his diaper and nothing else. In winter he wears his diaper and a tee shirts or pf top but his diaper is still exposed.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	just their Diapers, and Plastic baby pants, nothing else, they wore 24/7 nothing but diapers cloth, and plastic baby pants.

Provide details on what you wear/wore to bed:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Carleen	15	Joey	12	I just wear panties. I always wore just panties except when I started to get breast and then I wear shirt I didnt want my brother to see them but then he would see them anyway and I let him play with them and suck them so I didnt wear shirt anymore.
Katie	6	Matt	11	I wear my underwear (Of course) and my pajama tops and bottoms, I'm too young for a bra.
sara	14	jeff	14	i would ware pijamas that i can get un done by my selff. but if i was framed i was put in to a ugly night gown so i could be checed easer
Erin	14	Jeff	12	Usually just a nightshirt or else pajamas.
marie	16	max	15	nothing when my parent are not in the room
gene	18+	dean	18+	Were lovers so I wear from nothing to heavy flannel.
	13	Mark	10	I often wear my shirt and some super shot shots
Lexi	6	Matt	11	I wear my pajamas.
Autumn	18+	David	13	A long night shirt and underwear.
sarah	13	derek	14	i always slept naked
Alissa	15	Cory	16	Well in winter I wear just pjs usually or panties and tee shirt and in summer sometimes just panties and no bra or I sleep naked.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	Generally my sister, and I, wore just a long T-shirt, nothing else, But, during summer months, often we wore just our panties, or Tongs, and occasionally, if weather was real hot, (though we had good Air-condition,) It was comfortable to sleep naked.

Describe the times when your brother wet the bed while you were in it. If he ever had any bowel accidents while in the bed with you, describe these incidents, too:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Carleen	15	Joey	12	It never happened to many times like 3-4 times. He always had problem so I never let him sleep without a diaper. A few times if he drinks a lot before bed andI dont wake to check him he pees to much and it leaks a little. He only gets bowels accidents when he is sick with the squirts but he always feels it and controls it most times. It makes our room smell bad but I light candles and stuff.
Katie	6	Matt	11	He has wetting accidents everynight, and sometimes his diaper will soak through, when he's sick he'll sometimes poop. And for some reason after he poops he wets, then gets an erection. One time his privat part was near the leg of the diaper and he had sprayed me a bit, and it woke me up.
sara	14	jeff	14	i am a vary deap sleaper so i dont notes till the morning. he wets the bed without kowing but if he hass to go poop he poopes in my undies. ( that is how he frames me) i might add it is veary gross but my parents dont beleve me because it is so gross
Erin	14	Jeff	12	When we first started sharing a bed, I was 6 and he was 4. My mom had decided the best way to nighttime train him was to let him sleep in his own urine and he would learn to quit wetting the bed. Unfortunately, he also soaked me every night so one night I got really mad, grabbed a disposable diaper from the closet and diapered the little baby. He cried and cried but I threatened to beat the hell out of him if he took it off or kept crying so he eventually fell asleep and, of course, soaked his little diaper in the process.
marie	16	max	15	hwe were kissing and then he peed on me but i didn't stop cause it was fun
gene	18+	dean	18+	his baby pants leaked.
	13	Mark	10	would wet the diaper in the middle of the night weal he was awake it some times leked but often not he had large bowel movement he often twored the morning
Lexi	6	Matt	11	He wets the bed everynight, one time his diaper leaked through and he peed all over me and the bed. There was one time when he pooped because he had encorprisis.
Autumn	18+	David	13	If we hadn't changed him, he might leak sometimes.
Alissa	15	Cory	16	H e usually wets every night. But sometimes he leaks and that can be a pain. I have to change the bed when he leaks. If he poos during the night I can smel it and thne I get up and change him. Sometimes if the smell isn't too bad I go back to sleep and change him in the morning.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	Marc, my oldest brother was approx. 5 yr. and it was summer, and he woke up during the night sweating, he took off his plastic baby pants, because he though it would make him more comfortable and he wet his diapers and they leaked, we just change the bed and I, re-diapered him and put his Plastic baby pants back him.

Describe the situation that required you and your brother to share the same bed. Include details such as living conditions, size of house, etc.:

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	it was a smal aprtment
Carleen	15	Joey	12	We have a new house like 5 years after living in a small apartment and we had to share. Now my brother could have his own room but my dad hasnt finished it yet so we share my room and it is our room for now. We have a bunk bed but my brother never want to sleep on it but with me. Dad says he will get his own room fixed when Joey wants his room and will sleep there.
Katie	6	Matt	11	Sometimes I get scared at night, and want to sleep with him.
Erin	14	Jeff	12	Our house is really small but it's all mom can afford. There's only two bedrooms - mom has one and my brother and I had to share the other (my little sister slept with my mom until a few years ago).
marie	16	max	15	we wanted to and we got chance to make love whitout my jparent knowing about
gene	18+	dean	18+	We live together med. house 2 bedrooms
	13	Mark	10	we lived in a new aprtment 2 bed room house small rooms
Lexi	6	Matt	11	I just get scared at night.
Autumn	18+	David	13	4 Bedroom house.
sarah	13	derek	14	i didant want to e alone
Alissa	15	Cory	16	We live in 2 bedroom house and it's small cause that's all mom can afford to rent. So, me and my brother share our bedroon together.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	The main house was small, and just simply not enough bedroom, we did not at that time have the money to remodel the home. So that came later.

How did you know when your brother was masturbating? Was he subtle about it or did he care if you knew?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	he tryed to be subtle at frist but i saed i was ok with it.
Carleen	15	Joey	12	I can always tell because I am there and he doesnt hide it. We both do it and it is natural so why hide it. I see his penis all the time when I change him and I play with it to get it soft again. He doesnt squirt spirm yet but his penis and balls is getting so bigger now I think he will get hair soon and then maybe he will squirt spirm. Sometimes he will help me to and rub me.
Katie	6	Matt	11	It was one time right after he just had an erection, he turned to the wall and put his hands into his pants and diaper. I felt him pull the blanket up over himself and looked over. When he had found out that I saw him he was kind of scared. But I didn't say anything.
marie	16	max	15	excited
gene	18+	dean	18+	He was in his room, he was about 10 yrs old, I walk in to get the laundry. He had a playboy on his bed and was stroking for all get out. he yelled for me to leave. I just closed the door and said to him that I changed him and it was nothing new. I asked why? He said he liked the way it felt. he got red in the face. I asked what else? He said he was thinking of me. since that day we masturbate together.
Lexi	6	Matt	11	When he starts to pee he always puts his hands in his diaper and faces to the wall. He seems to like to do it when he's peeing.
Autumn	18+	David	13	He doesn't really understand what he's doing when he masturbates. He just rubs himself in the crib by laying on his tummy and "pumping" into his mattress.
sarah	13	derek	14	well he dose it when im in the bed with him and we have a twin bed so we r practicly tuching eachother but i dont mind i cinda like watching him masturbate
Alissa	15	Cory	16	Usually I know he's doing it cause I can feel the bed move and his is moving a little too. At first he tried to do it when he thought I was sleeping. Now he don't care if I know hes doing it. I even help him masturbate too
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	He, they, morning, noon and night, masturbate, and did it when young even. They also did it in their diapers, and Diaper-humped all the time.

How did you deal with your own privacy needs or feelings about modesty with your brother sharing your bed/bedroom? How did your brother's privacy privileges compare to yours?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Carleen	15	Joey	12	I got a little worried about it when I started to get breast and hair at my vagina but after like 6 months I gave up and let him see me naked again. It was to hard to stay so private.
Katie	6	Matt	11	When I needed some privacy I went into the closet for a moment.
Erin	14	Jeff	12	What privacy did he have? I always saw his diaper whether he wanted me to or not because he wasn't allowed to wear anything over his baby diaper while he was in the house.
marie	16	max	15	nothing we walk all the time naked just cause we want to
gene	18+	dean	18+	we have lived together off and on for 30+ yrs. First when are parnets got married(we were both 9), from24 to 26 yrs old, and now 43 to 49.
Autumn	18+	David	13	David has absolutely no need for modesty. His diapers are nothing to be ashamed of. I could undress in front of him and it wouldn't phase him; but I seldom do.
Alissa	15	Cory	16	We don't have any modesty about seeing each other totally naked or dressing in front of each other. When I take my bath he even comes into the bathroom with me sometimes. We even take baths together sometimes to save time and I don't mind it.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	I, of course had always the Bathroom, which they could not enter, plus, the family made the closet off limit to the boys, and it was huge and had stuff and lighting just for us girls.

How did you deal with smells in the bedroom from your brother's diaper usage and/or poor hygiene?

Sister Name	Age	Brother Name	Age	Answer
Q	18+	Q	17	i got use to e'm
Carleen	15	Joey	12	I just use powder and scented oil on him when I put his diaper on and that takes care of smell mostly. I also burn candles and bath him real good even if he doesnt think he needs it. His arm pits smell worse than his diapers. I make him use deoderant even in bed.
Katie	6	Matt	11	I just sort of ignored it.
sara	14	jeff	14	the windo and dor is open 24/7
Erin	14	Jeff	12	I would change the little brats diaper and make him take the dirty diaper to the trash.
marie	16	max	15	its smeel weard but fun
	13	Mark	10	we often got up about the same time so I didn't smell any thing untill after brekfast
Autumn	18+	David	13	Kept his diaper pale emptied. Used air-fresheners.
sarah	13	derek	14	i liked the smells
Alissa	15	Cory	16	I can open the windows if I want to but then it gets too hot without the A/C on after a little while. I used air freshners from spray can if the smell it's too bad. He gets changed a lot to keep him from being smelly and dirty.
Patti & Cheryl	18+	Marc, D.J., Kevin, and boy cousins Byron, & Timothy	15	we used air filters and fans for circulation of the air. also made sure that the diaper pales, always sealed well and tight. etc.

Age Distribution- Sisters
6	2
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	0
11	0
12	0
13	2
14	2
15	3
16	1
17	1
18+	5

Age Distribution- Brothers
4	0
5	0
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	1
11	3
12	3
13	1
14	2
15	2
16	2
17	1
18+	1

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