How urine incontinent are you?

Number of responses received: 38

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
I am fully urine incontinent	20	52.6%
I am partially urine incontinent	15	39.5%
I am not urine incontinent	3	7.9%
Total:	38

At what age did you become urine incontinent?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Since birth	10	26.3%
3	2	5.3%
4	1	2.6%
5	1	2.6%
6	2	5.3%
7	2	5.3%
8	2	5.3%
9	2	5.3%
10	2	5.3%
11	0	0.0%
12	2	5.3%
13	1	2.6%
14	0	0.0%
15	1	2.6%
16	2	5.3%
17 or older	5	13.2%
Total:	38

How did you become urine incontinent?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Physical birth defect	7	18.4%
Mental birth defect	0	0.0%
Physical injury	10	26.3%
Mental disorder (not from birth)	2	5.3%
Never toilet trained	9	23.7%
Prolonged diaper wearing	18	47.4%
Physical abuse	4	10.5%
Mental/emotional abuse	6	15.8%

A: Do you attempt to make it to the toilet to pee?

B: How often did you make it?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Part A
Not applicable (I always use my diapers)	15	39.5%
Never	2	5.3%
Rarely	7	18.4%
Sometimes	8	21.1%
usually	4	10.5%
Always	2	5.3%
Not applicable (I always use my diapers)	16	42.1%
Part B
Never	1	2.6%
Rarely	11	28.9%
Sometimes	4	10.5%
usually	4	10.5%
Always	1	2.6%
Total:	38

How bowel incontinent are you?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
I am fully bowel incontinent	9	23.7%
I am partially bowel incontinent	13	34.2%
I am not bowel incontinent	16	42.1%
Total:	38

At what age did you become bowel incontinent?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Since birth	6	15.8%
3	1	2.6%
4	0	0.0%
5	0	0.0%
6	0	0.0%
7	0	0.0%
8	2	5.3%
9	2	5.3%
10	2	5.3%
11	0	0.0%
12	1	2.6%
13	0	0.0%
14	1	2.6%
15	1	2.6%
16	2	5.3%
17 or older	4	10.5%
Total:	38

How did you become bowel incontinent?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Physical birth defect	0	0.0%
Mental birth defect	0	0.0%
Physical injury	5	13.2%
Mental disorder (not from birth)	1	2.6%
Never toilet trained	6	15.8%
Prolonged diaper wearing	11	28.9%
Physical abuse	3	7.9%
Mental/emotional abuse	3	7.9%

A: Do you attempt to make it to the toilet to poop?

B: How often did you make it?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Not applicable (I always use my diapers)	8	21.1%
Never	0	0.0%
Rarely	2	5.3%
Sometimes	5	13.2%
usually	7	18.4%
Always	6	15.8%
Not applicable (I always use my diapers)	8	21.1%
Never	0	0.0%
Rarely	2	5.3%
Sometimes	5	13.2%
usually	7	18.4%
Always	6	15.8%
Total:	38

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Describe the level of urinary incotinence you have. How bad and how frequently do you have pee accidents?

Name	Age	Answer
wet boy	10	just at night every night
james	18	i am almost completely urinary incontinent. i wet myself completely at least 3 times every day and wet my bed every night. i wear nappies all the time because of this
soaker	65	I must wear diapers/plastic pants when ever I'm not going to be close to a rest room, or I sleep. I'm a heavy wetter because my doctor wants me to drink alot of fluids. I wet myself 7 to 11 times in a day.
Matthew	14	i still bw - so at night i have no idea that i have to go and it just happens
Allen	54	I have no control and have no feeling down there I'm diapered 24/7
diaper dude	13	I have accidents very often
yoto	15	almost always, but sometimes I make it
Wetbear_nb	42	I've been a bed wetter all of my life. I was a typical bed wetter as a kid up to around age 9 or 10. Mostly wet every other night. My bed wetting got a lot better as I was in my teens, usually a couple or 3 time a year. By the time I got into my 30's. I was wetting the bed quite a few time a year. I am still bed wetting a few time a year. I can go a couple of months dry and then be wetting the bed for a few night in a row. These days I sometimes leak a little after peeing too.
		about three to four times a day. I can feel when I have to go but at the last minute. So I often can't make it unless I am near a toilet. And even if I make it, by the time I remove my diaper it is too late. I try to go to the bathroom to make my mother happy. She seems to think that I can regain controlm but after so many years I don't think it is possible.
James	40	I am completely incontinent and often have "dribbling" in addition to normal accidents. This makes it so that I can almost never be without a diaper. On average I would I saw I have about five accidents a day warranting a diaper change, probably because I drink a lot of coffee for my job.
rob	14	when i wear diapers I have little control
Marc-Antone	16	i pee a lot when i have urinary incontinence accident, i have almost 2 accidnt per day and 1 at each night.
Jimbo	60	Used to be able to hold it it and not can't hold it in.If I don't get to the toilet in 5-10 minutes I wet myself.
Devon	15	I get almost no warning or feelings when I got to pee. I can hold it for a little while like 5 minutes. Then I make a pee. If I got a diaper on I just pee in it and don't try to hold it. If I don't have one on and can't hold it long I just pee in my pants.
Jon	16	I always have a diaper on so I don't try to control it.
Anon	14	Frequent and bad
dylan linby	16	WHen i need to pee i pee there is very little say in how nd where iut happen
Greg	33	I am totally pee incontinent. I wouldn't call them pee accidents because every time I pee it's an accident. I've been wearing diapers for eight years now and stopped trying to hold my pee about seven years ago. It took me about a year before I completely lost control. Now I pee a small amount about twice per hour. The pee quantity is small enough that I can go three or four hours before a change, so I'm wet about 3/4 of the time.
Paul	--	I have urge and frequency incontinence plus heavy after-dribble. I wet my diaper several times a day with little warning and my bladder often doesn't empty completely so I dribble a lot for several minutes.
		no control at all
peter14	14	When i have to pee i have to to it immediately when i feel to. So i am full time diapered. I only pee in my diapers
Tom	23	completely urinary incontient, no sensation at all
Mundungus	31	I can sometimes feel the need to pee, but 90% of the times it all end up in my diaper.

How and when (at what age) did you develop urinary incontinence?

Name	Age	Answer
wet boy	10	always wet the bed
james	18	i was about 15 when i started to become incontinent. i think this was because i wore nappies a lot around the house and would just pee in my nappies instead
soaker	65	I had an accident that injured my lower back when I was 12 years old. Some damage to the spinal cord has caused my incontinence.
Matthew	14	when i was 7 i just started having night time accidents and they got more and more frequent till it was like everynight
Allen	54	I've always had problems.Spinal damage at age 30 did me in the rest of the way
diaper dude	13	age 8 around
yoto	15	about age 8 or 9
Wetbear_nb	42	I've always had issues with bed wetting. I had it checked out and all the doctors come up with is I have a small bladder. It's the size of an 8 y/o's.
	12	5 after car accident
James	40	I developed a benign prostate tumor about three years ago, and the options were to get it removed and risk nerve damage in that area or to just deal with my incontinence. I decided not to risk the nerve damage and the expensive surgery.
Marc-Antone	16	i develope urinary incontinence at the age of 4 but it less ofter almost 1 per weak because i have a small bladder.
		About 25 or so years ago is when it started.
Devon	15	I was 7 and almost 8 when I was hit my a car riding my bike. I had broken leg and hip. I couldn't hold my pee or poop so they made me wear a diaper. When I was 10 I got hold them better but I still liked doing it my diaper.
Jon	16	I've always had bedwetting problems and some day time accidents. Around the age of 8 I told my parents I wanted to wear diapers all of the time and they agreed. I haven't tried to hold my pee since then.
Anon	14	Nasty fall (dow a flight of stairs) when I was 3 and a half years old.
dylan linby	16	'ast yar i began to wet myspe nd not kno it happened
Bobby	11	I fell and hit my tailbone.
Greg	33	I was around 25. I had just bought my first house, so that was my first time living alone. The first time I had the privacy to start really getting into diapers. I loved it so much that I never took off the diapers and never went back to underwear that didn't protect me. It didn't take long before I read about people who developed incontinence on purpose and I thought that sounded exciting. I decided that since I loved wetting my pants, I might as well go incontinent.
Paul	--	About 39 due to wearing diapers 24/7 for several years previously.
		I was not toilet trianed
peter14	14	never was out of diapers
Tom	23	from birth, sphincter muscle problem
Mundungus	31	I was 15/16 years old.

Explain how and when you have attempted to use a toilet when you had to pee. How often did you make it and not make it? How much of an accident do you have when attempting to use a toilet for pee?

Name	Age	Answer
wet boy	10	i am made to go in my diaper when at home if i take diaper off or ty to go in the potty i am striped naked and hit with a belt 150 times
james	18	when i was first started to become incontinent i would try to get to the toilet when i felt like i needed to pee but would usually pee in my nappy before i made it. after this i stopped wearing nappies for a while but kept wetting myself completely in my pants so i went back to wearing nappies
soaker	65	One of my many accidents was when I was younger (14). My mother and I were going to her girl friends house.I had ask my mom not to put me in diapers because they would show when I was in shorts. She agreed, but said she would bring my diapers just in case. I was playing a game of tag with the two dauther of the friend when I felt I needed to go to the bathroom. I started for the bathroom but soaked my shorts and peed down my legs into my shoes. I was placed in extra thick cloth diapers and plastic pants I had only a T shirt to wear with my diapers until my shorts were washed and dried. I wet my diaper twice more that day for all the girls to see. I attemp to make it when I'm close to a bathroom but most of the attemps end up with me soaking my diapers.
Matthew	14	my mom & d would wake me up in the middle of the night to go pee and stand over the toilet it totally sucked and i never got any sleep
diaper dude	13	Not very often
yoto	15	I never made it(rarely)
Wetbear_nb	42	In the day. I always use the toilet unless I am wearing diapers for fun. At night, if I wake up needing to pee. I get up and go. Normally I make it to the toilet in time but may start peeing in my diaper. Other times I'll stay in bad and use my diaper.
	12	I try sometimes but never seem to make it
James	40	After I first discovered that I had a tumor I tried to regulate my liquid intake and estimate when I would need to go to the bathroom, but more often then not I was too early or too late and would just end up wetting myself anyways, sometimes standing right in front of the urinal unzipping my pants! Once the flow starts I really have no power to stop it, so I would completely soak myself, not to mention unpredictable little leaks. I would have to change my pants at least twice a day before I finally accepted the fact that I would have to wear diapers. Now I don't even bother with the urinal, I know I won't make it anyways.
Marc-Antone	16	often i atempted to use the toilet but i don't succed very often. when i arrive at the bathroom i am alredy wet.
		If I am in the middle of something, and try to make it the toilet right away - no problem.If I delay even a few minutes - forget it - I set myself.
Devon	15	When I get the feeling to make pee if there is a bathroom close by I usually can make it to the bathroom in time. But sometimes like if I got a diaper on I don't even try to make it to the bathroom and pee in my diaper. Sometimes when I feel a pee coming I have tried to run to the bathroom though especially if im playing with friends and not wearing a diaper. About half the time I made it to the bathroom in time. But then I start to dribble pee out and I just quit trying to make it and stop and just pee in my pants. Sometimes I will get to the bathroom and don't even take my pants down and just pee in them in there.
Jon	16	I always pee in my diaper.
Anon	14	I sometimes try to make it to the toilet when in a full diaper in case it leaks or when I am in the company of someone who doesn't know I am incontinent which would mean it would be a long time for a change. I always rush to the toilet if I am not diapered for some reason, and normally miss. I only realise that I am going when I feel the pee trickling down my leg or feel a wet patch growing- unless I am right near a toilet I never make it. The other day, my mom ran out of clean diapers when I had a friend (who doesn't know about my problem) round. While she was rushing to the shop to buy some fresh ones, I felt a trickle down my leg and I ended up having a huge accident in the company of my friend.
dylan linby	16	I Treid to make it once in a resturant when i didnt have diapers on and made it t h door and pissed
Greg	33	The only "accidents" I have are when I leak. When I first started to wet only in my pants, I would leak often because I peed alot each time. Since the quantity of my pee each time is less now, the leaks are more minor.
Paul	--	I never try to make it to the toilet - my diaper is my toilet!
		I could not make it I completely wet my pants when trying to get to the toilet
Tom	23	never have
Mundungus	31	90-95% of all my urine end up in a diaper.

Describe the level of bowel incotinence you have. How bad and how frequently do you have poop accidents?

Name	Age	Answer
james	18	i am somewhat bowel incontinent. i usually mess myself once or twice a day. when i soil myself i usually completely empty my bowels into my nappy/pants
Allen	54	No feeling when it happens I try to control with laxitives but still have accidents
diaper dude	13	very bad
yoto	15	almost always
Wetbear_nb	42	I have IBS. Normally I make it to the toilet but if I waited to long when an IBS attack happens. I'll end up pooping my pants a little bit. This happens a couple times a month
James	40	As a result of wearing diapers for the last three years I'm partially bowel incontinent. I don't wear pull ups so undiapering myself can be a really big hassle, and over time it's just become more convenient to go in my diapers even though it's often messy. It's getting to the point where I don't even notice I've gone anymore until either the smell hits me or I do a diaper check, especially when it's more liquidy.
		If I have gas, it will sometimes start as gas and develop into Diareha, or what I believe to be gas comes out as a bowl movement.Usually only happens if I am sick though not always the case.
Devon	15	I never had real bowel incontinence. I just sometimes like to hold my poop longer and just use my diaper or do it in my white briefs and pants.
Jon	16	I can control it most of the time.
Anon	14	I have control of my bowels.
75865463427377	14	Very mild incotinence. When I have diharria or have not pooped for a long time I am very likely to have a accident. On these days I'll usually have just one accident though.
dylan linby	16	Gain if i need to poop i hae like thirty secs and then its in my di per
Greg	33	If I have to poop, I have to be sitting down in order to hold it. If I can't sit, I poop in my pants. This is only a problem if I'm in a place where the stink is obvious and a diaper change isn't possible right away. For example, if I'm in Best Buy and I have to poop. I can't sit down, so I poop in my pants. Is that a problem? No one will know that the stink is comming from me, and I can easily go out to the car, get a clean diaper and change in the bathroom. No problem. The combination of needing to poop when I can't sit down AND when I can't change my diaper doesn't happen very often. When I'm waiting in line, or when I'm in a public place like the zoo or at an airshow come to mind. I would say that I have a poop "accident" twice a month and it's only once every two months that it's a major inconvenience.
Paul	--	I'm not bowel incontinent but I do everything in my diapers anyway.
		I'm able to hold it but I have a diaper on 24/7 so why can't poop in them
peter14	14	I am diapered full time. When i have to poop i do it into my diaper. Only during morning change mum says that i have to sit on the toilet and try to poop. sometimes i really have to poop then i do it into the toilet. This happens about once a week. The rest of the week i poop into my diaper. I nearly doesn't feel when i have to poop cause i was allways in diapers due to my bladder problem. When i have to poop it just comes out of my butt. I was never toilet trained.
Tom	23	no bowel problems
Mundungus	31	only bowel incontinent if the poop i soft or i have diarrea.

How and when (at what age) did you develop bowel incontinence?

Name	Age	Answer
james	18	i was about 16 when i first started to become bowel incontinent. again i think this was due to my prolonged nappy wearing and the way i would just poop in my nappy and wait to be changed rather than use the toilet
Allen	54	Age 30
diaper dude	13	about age 8
yoto	15	about age 7 or 8
Wetbear_nb	42	I've had IBS since my 20's. I think it came from my poor eating habits back then and my job. I used to work in a job where I couldn't always get to a toilet when I had to poop and would end up holding it, think maybe I did some damage.
James	40	I'm not completely incontinent, but heading that way.
		The last 5 years it just suddenly developed.
Devon	15	Around the age of 9 I started pooping in my diaper because I was already wearing 1 and it was easier to just poop in it than running to the bathroom all the time just to poo. I would always try to hold it until I could hold my poop anymore. Then I just poop in my diaper or if I wasn't wearing any just do it in my pants.
Anon	14	I have control of my bowels.
75865463427377	14	14, I become so use to just using my diapers when I had runny poop, I would have accident when I was wearing my underwear.
dylan linby	16	'ast year
Greg	33	When I decided to become pee incontinent, I became lazy about holding it when I had to poop. I also like pooping in my pants, so I did it in my pants almost every time. I would be at home watching TV and I would feel the need to poop, so I would stand up, not hold it, and just poop in my pants. I didn't realize that I was weakening my ability to hold it until one day at the grocery store. I had to poop and I couldn't hold it, so I pooped in my pants. I had to park the cart in isle 9 while I went out to my car for a new diaper and changed in the men's room. It was my first real poop accident, and I thought it was cool.
		I didn't
Tom	23	never
Mundungus	31	16

Explain how and when you have attempted to use a toilet when you had to poop. How often did you make it and not make it? How much of an accident do you have when attempting to use a toilet for poop?

Name	Age	Answer
james	18	when i realised i was becoming incontinent i started trying to use the toilet but usually soiled myself before i made it to the toilet. i would completely mess myself when i had an accident
diaper dude	13	Not usually
yoto	15	I almost never made it
Wetbear_nb	42	Any time I have to poop. I'll use the toilet if one is easily available. If one is not near. I'll hold my poop. Normally I can hold my poop good but if I am having an IBS attack. I will poop my pants a bit. Not much but enough to have to clean up.
James	40	Every once in a while I do try to make it to the toilet, often before/after a shower or diaper change, if it's then and the toilet's right there I can usually make it okay, but other times if I've waited too long or the toilet's too far away I just end up soiling myself.
		I make it most of the time unless I try too hold too long or have a bad case of the cramps and then there's no holding it back.
Devon	15	I can usually make it to the toilet if I want too. But sometimes I wait too long and don't even try especially if I have a diaper on. Sometimes I like to hold my poop in until I can't hold it anymore. Then I just poop in my briefs and pants on purpose. I usually get punished if I am caught pooping myself on purpose but I still like doing it.
Jon	16	If I want to I can normally have someone remove my diaper in time to poop in the toilet. Sometimes I can't hold it long enough if no one is around to remove my diaper since I don't remove my own diapers.
Anon	14	I have control of my bowels.
75865463427377	14	When I'm at school, I always try to make it. At home I'll often poop myself.
dylan linby	16	? Tried a my girlfrinds house to make it to the toilet to poop as she thought she could trian me i hardly got off the couch and my trianer pnts were loaded front to back nd he hd to change me
Greg	33	If I'm holding it while sitting and I have to stand up, I poop in my pants. If I have to poop and I can't sit down anywhere, I poop in my pants.
Paul	--	I don't bother trying to get to the toilet, just use my diaper :-)
		I was able to make it all the time but I wear diapers why should I try
Tom	23	no problem

How do you feel about being urine incontinent? How did you feel about it as a young boy (ages 12 and under)?

Name	Age	Answer
wet boy	10	i always was
james	18	i am not too bothered about it as i wear nappies anyway and it is easier to just wet myself in my nappies rather than worrying about trying to get to the toilet in time
soaker	65	I was very upset when I could not control my wetting but had no choice in having to wear diapers. I was more upset when I wet my pants for everyone to see, than wearing wet diapers and plastic pants that did not show.
Matthew	14	it sucks
Allen	54	Got use to it fast but hard to hide when cloth diapers and plastic pants were all that was around in those years
diaper dude	13	not bad
yoto	15	I don't feel bad
Wetbear_nb	42	Today, I don't really mind my bed wetting. I am an AB/DL. So I cope very well. As a kid. My bed wetting bothered me some but it wasn't a big deal. My parents never did anything about either. No punishment or trying to cure me or anything.
	12	It was a pain when I was younger, but I don't really mind anymore.
Marc-Antone	16	i was feeling very humiliated and embarassed.
		It didn't happen until I got hurt at work about 25 years ago.
Devon	15	Before I was 12 I really didn't care if I pee on myself. I got teased about it but that never would really bother me too much. A couple of my friends pee also would pee in their pants too sometimes and we usua;;y made it a game about how long we could hold it before we started peeing.
Jon	16	I love wearing diapers and wetting them, so I don't mind at all.
Anon	14	I was ashamed, embarrased and annoyed about it untill I was nine. When I was nine I stumbled across a DL site and have enjoyed wearing diapers ever since. When I was 10 and 11, I even experimented with pooing my diaper (on purpose as I have control of my bowels). The doctor said I would start to regain control of by bladder in about a years time and be fully continent by the time i'm 18. However, I have no intention of coming out of diapers, I will still contanstly wet even when I have the control.
dylan linby	16	cool not haveing any control unlss ur diaper leaks
Bobby	11	i hate it
Greg	33	I never thought about being incontinent when I was young. I loved to pee and poop in my pants though. Now, I like being incontinent about 85% of the time. Sometimes it's a pain, but most of the time it's nice to be able to change when it's convenient. I still love the sensation of wetting myself.
Paul	--	I love it - I've been a DL for as long as I can remember and being incontinent has long been a desire and a goal. Now it's happened I don't regret it and look forward to needing diapers for the rest of my life - my ultimate goal is to have no control at all and to dribble constantly so even 5 minutes without a diaper will result in an accident.
		It's ok
Tom	23	always have, so it is normal to me
Mundungus	31	When I was younger it was hard to be diffrent. Today I?m as happy as anyone else.

How do you feel about being bowel incontinent? How did you feel about it as a young boy (ages 12 and under)?

Name	Age	Answer
james	18	i am not too bothered as i can just poop in my nappies. however, it is more difficult to clean and change myslef after soiling myslef. this isnt too much of a problem though as there is usually someone to change me after i have messed my nappy
Allen	54	It sucks
diaper dude	13	embarrassed
yoto	15	A little embarrassed
Wetbear_nb	42	I don't really like the IBS. It's kind of inconvenient and holding my poop hurts sometimes. Didn't really have any bowel incontinence as a kid
Devon	15	Before I was 12 I didn't care but it was embarassing especially if I pooped and strangers were around me and they could smeel my poop on me. Otherwise I didn't mind pooping myself.
Anon	14	I have control of my bowels.
dylan linby	16	EMbaresed i would be standin next to a bunch of cute girls and hve no choice other then to fill my diapr and it would smell nd they would leave me
Greg	33	It sucks when I poop in my pants when I'm in a place where it's inconvenient. But that doesn't happen very often.
Paul	--	I'm not bowel incontinent and only don't want to be because of the smell and because I can't always change my diaper promptly. If shit had no smell I'd love to be bower incontinent as I already do everything in my diaper and love to stay in a messy diaper as long as I can. OTOH, I also get off on the stink my messy diapers make so I'm stuck - either stinky diapers or incontinence - can't decide which is better!
		it's ok too
Tom	23	no problem with bowels

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Age

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Age

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Average Age of respondents to this question:	24.3
Range of ages of respondents:	10 -  65

Age Distribution
Under 10	0
10-14	10
15-19	12
20-24	1
25-29	1
30-34	2
35-39	2
40-44	2
45-49	0
50-54	2
55-59	0
60-64	1
65-69	1
70-74	0
75-79	0
80+	0

Youth Age Distribution
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	1
11	1
12	1
13	1
14	6
15	4
16	5
17	1

Diaper Types
Single disposable diapers- plain white	30
Single disposable diapers- plain white	14
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored	10
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	3
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	6
Single cloth diapers- plain white	4
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored	12
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	4
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	1
Multiple underpants- plain white	2
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	2
Other makeshift diapers	13
Single plastic pants- plain	8
Single plastic pants- patterned/colored	2
Multiple plastic pants- plain	0
Percentage of those 18+ who only wore these diapers as a boy:	28.57%

Pantslessness
Always	6
Usually	7
Sometimes	7
Rarely	14
Never	0
Percentage of those 18+ who reported being pantsless as a boy	21.43%

Diaper Usage
Pee	36
Poop	20
Percent of brothers 18+ whose diaper usage reported only as a boy	21.43%

Older Sisters
None	19
One	11
Two	1
Three	3
More than three	0

Younger Sisters
None	21
One	8
Two	4
Three	1
More than three	0

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