Have you ever made any friends primarily on the basis that they wear diapers, too?

Number of responses received: 20

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes, because he also wears/wore diapers	14	70.0%
Yes, but his wearing diapers was secondary	4	20.0%
No	2	10.0%
Total:	20

How many such friends have you made or did you have in your boyhood?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
None	2	10.0%
One	6	30.0%
Two	2	10.0%
Three	3	15.0%
Four	3	15.0%
Five	1	5.0%
6 to 10	0	0.0%
More than 10	3	15.0%
Total:	20

In which grades have you had such friends?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Before kindergarten	6	30.0%
Kindergarten	5	25.0%
First	6	30.0%
Second	8	40.0%
Third	8	40.0%
Fourth	10	50.0%
Fifth	9	45.0%
Sixth	9	45.0%
Seventh	8	40.0%
Eighth	10	50.0%
Ninth (Freshman)	8	40.0%
Tenth (Sophomore)	4	20.0%
Eleventh (Junior)	3	15.0%
Twelfth (Senior)	4	20.0%
Home-schooled (N/A)	3	15.0%

How old were you when you first made such a friend?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Under 4	2	10.5%
4	4	21.1%
5	1	5.3%
6	2	10.5%
7	1	5.3%
8	1	5.3%
9	2	10.5%
10	2	10.5%
11	0	0.0%
12	1	5.3%
13	1	5.3%
14	1	5.3%
15	0	0.0%
16	0	0.0%
17	0	0.0%
Over 17	1	5.3%
Total:	19

Where have you met such friends?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Daycare	7	35.0%
Around the neighborhood	9	45.0%
In the classroom	7	35.0%
On the playground	4	20.0%
In the restroom	5	25.0%
In the locker room	5	25.0%
During gym class	1	5.0%
On the bus	2	10.0%
During summer camp	9	45.0%
During other youth group activities	2	10.0%
Church	2	10.0%
While camping with family	2	10.0%
In public place	3	15.0%
In public restroom	2	10.0%
While traveling	3	15.0%
Other	6	30.0%

Part A: How often have you initiated contact with your prospective friends who also wear/wore diapers? Part B: How long does it take you to overcome inhibitions and be open with him about your diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Part A:
Always	1	3.4%
Usually	2	6.9%
Sometimes	6	20.7%
Rarely	2	6.9%
Never	0	0.0%
Part B:
Immediately	8	27.6%
Within a few days	5	17.2%
Within a week	1	3.4%
Within a few weeks	3	10.3%
Within a month	1	3.4%
Over a month	0	0.0%
Total:	29

Part A: How often are you approached by other diaper-wearing boys who seek you as a prospective friend? Part B: How long does it usually take others to overcome inhibitions and be open with you about their diapers?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Part A:
Always	3	8.8%
Usually	2	5.9%
Sometimes	8	23.5%
Rarely	2	5.9%
Never	4	11.8%
Part B:
Immediately	9	26.5%
Within a few days	1	2.9%
Within a week	1	2.9%
Within a few weeks	3	8.8%
Within a month	1	2.9%
Over a month	0	0.0%
Total:	34

Within the first week of friendship which things have you and your diaper-wearing friends done together?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Let him see me in my diapers	17	85.0%
Let him see me naked	8	40.0%
Let him see me getting changed	13	65.0%
Let him change my diapers	6	30.0%
Let him see me masturbating	5	25.0%
Let him masturbate me	4	20.0%
Let him engage in other sexual activities	3	15.0%
Let me see him in his diapers	14	70.0%
Let me see him naked	8	40.0%
Let me see him getting changed	11	55.0%
Let me change his diapers	6	30.0%
Let me see him masturbating	6	30.0%
Let me masturbate him	5	25.0%
Let me engage in other sexual activities	3	15.0%
Have him at my house for a sleepover	10	50.0%
Go to his house for a sleepover	11	55.0%

Within the first month of friendship which things have you and your diaper-wearing friends done together?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Let him see me in my diapers	16	80.0%
Let him see me naked	10	50.0%
Let him see me getting changed	13	65.0%
Let him change my diapers	12	60.0%
Let him see me masturbating	8	40.0%
Let him masturbate me	8	40.0%
Let him engage in other sexual activities	4	20.0%
Let me see him in his diapers	13	65.0%
Let me see him naked	11	55.0%
Let me see him getting changed	12	60.0%
Let me change his diapers	12	60.0%
Let me see him masturbating	7	35.0%
Let me masturbate him	8	40.0%
Let me engage in other sexual activities	5	25.0%
Have him at my house for a sleepover	14	70.0%
Go to his house for a sleepover	14	70.0%

Describe the first diaper-wearing boy you befriended. Where, when and how did you meet him? How old were you and him at the time? Include any other notable Deekerian details (diaper usage and reasons, diaper types, white diapers, multiple diapers, pantslessness, presence of sisters, etc.)

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	It was when we, were around 7 or 8, and not being our brothers, or cousins, (Also in Diapers & using, 24/7), It was a boy I, our family were very close friends of through our church affiliation, Scotty, Wright, and family, came over to our home, for a Spring Barbecue, and us boys, to swim in the lake. We, had always know that the family, looked at boy's punishment, and discipline very much as our parents did. Scotty, had gotten in to trouble with both his dad and mom, and when they arrived at our home Scotty, was in nothing, but a verrrrry thick, all white, high rising, (just like our Diapers,) and real loose noooissssyyyy Plastic baby pants, NOTHING ELSE! Watery eyed, and red faced He, was made to get out of the car, his, Sister, Ruth, giggling, and teasing the whole time, (Ruth, is 2 yr. older, than Scotty,) Only, because of his embarrassment, and shame, did we try to make him feel, Hey, you ain't the only one that's wearing Diapers. Well, because of both our parents, Aunt Josey's, and our sisters, encouragement, and showing them the deeker, web. sight and the girls perspective on boys being in and using Diapers, it was made know that baby Scotty, would be Diapered for a very long time, probably, No!, likily for life, just like us boys.
Crash	21	I started a diapered relationship at around 15 and it went on for about three years. He and I were the most inseperable couple that you could ever meet. if I could have him back I would give anything at all. We usually wore Attends or Depends if there were no stores that carried the Attends brand. The reason for his diaper wearing was because of a medical reason but he also had a deep fetish for them and told me the same day we met. He was very handsome and attractive in every form possible. I had to move and we haven't seen each other since then.
inpampers	36	His name was Tim and he was 5. We were at the same daycare. There were no other kids above toddler age in diapers except for us. He wore them because he had to and I wore them because I liked them.
Dustin	15	I remember when I was in after school care there were several boys there all wearing diapers like me. They were mostly white pullups. I met my friend Allen there cause he lived around the block from me and we could play together when we weren't in daycare. We were like 5 at the time. We were friend after that until his family moved to another state when we were 10. We played in our diapers all the time and usually his sister or my sister would change us.
peter14	14	we met at school. our parents figured out, that we both were bedwetters. so i invited him, he was also living near our house. we played together and talked about bedwetting. soon i invited him for a sleepover. when it was time for sleeping, my mom let us lay down side by side, put off our pj's and diapered us both. then we played around in our diapers. at morning we both had a wet diaper.
Incontinent Guy	52	I met a diaper-wearing friend on the internet. He stopped by my house one evening after he had been working in this area. We just sat in my living room and visited for about an hour
boby	--	in the bathroom at school he was tall thin and blonde we were both 8 we both were changing ourselves and we started talking to each other we both liked to pee and shit in the diapers we only wore thin cloth ones so nobody else would see them but they knew about us i have a sister but he doesn�t
Doug	14	His mom and mine are friends and since my mom worked his mom babysat me alot. he wets the bed and i do too, so we were immediately friends who were left in diapers after school. we are ually in cloth during theday hours so we rash less and disposables at night. we get white one mostlye but colored ocacsionally.

Describe the other diaper-wearing boys you befriended in your boyhood. Provide the same details asked in the preceding question.

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	Each, and all, have been an adventure, each one all their own, most always, at first meeting them, all of them, except a few of the younger boys, whether they had been wearing Diapers, for a while or just recent, or, being put into Diapers for the first time and infront of us, there was always great humiliation, embarrassment, and even shame, but alway it was surprisingly quickly over come. Out of the countless many boys, there has been only a couple of boys, that besides seeing and experiencing Diaper Changes, in view of one another, we've been allowed by Sisters, to stay naked, and us boys have Masturbated one another, and done all of use mutual sexual play.
Crash	21	My other "friends" were involved in orgy parties that we had organized and there were plenty of sausages poking around on those occasions.
inpampers	36	I was in grade 3 and he and I were 8 years old. I was in the toilet stall in the gymnasium changing my wet diaper my pants were at my knees my hands were at the tapes when Quentin opened the door to the stall. His eyes went wide as he was treated to a full view of my soaked Pampers. I slammed the door shut and changed my diaper as quickly as I could. At lunch he kept trying to talk to me and I finally agreed to go over to his house after school. When we got there his mom took him into his room and a couple of minutes later they emerged only Quentin wasn't wearing any pants just a T-shirt and Pampers. Quentin's mom explained that he was being diaper- punished for his bad grades and asked if I not tell anyone at school. Quentin practically shouted that I was wearing diapers too. His mom looked at me skeptically and I dropped my pants to reveal my wet diaper. His mom asked if I would like her to change my diaper and I said yes. She led me into Quentin's room in the corner was a 3/4 full box of Toddler size Pampers she took one out and had me lie on the changing pad on his bed. She popped the tapes of my wet diaper and tugged it out from under me, then she wiped me down, spread out the new diaper and with my help slipped it under me before dusting me with baby powder and taping me snugly inside.
Dustin	15	Besides Allen I met some other boys who wore diapers. I met 2 boys at summer camp and we were put in same cabin cause we all wore diapers. We were 9 at that time and all of us wore disposible diapers cause it was easier for the conselors to change us. I remember we were only changed twice a day. In the morning and we were diapered after dinner for bed.
Incontinent Guy	52	I haven't met other diaper wearers.
Doug	14	He is 14 too and rarely wets the bed but he wears them now because he and i like to play with each other in them.

How confident do/did you feel about approaching other boys who wear diapers in the interests of seeking their friendship? How do you initiate contact? Which awkward situations have you had to deal with? What steps do you take to build to gaining more trust and becoming more intimate with one another? How do you deal with shyness on your part or on the part of others?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	Not a lot has't to be done, if your in Diapers your self 24/7, and using them, and the other boy is in Diapers, the other boy usually always isn't in Diapers by his choice, or wanting to wear and use Diapers, or very few and far between, get that privilegel... It is alway, because of punishment, or the parents or guardians discision. So, all boys in Diapers, that we've come across, being that we are just like them, (In Diapers, and using Them,) they take and become friends very quickly.
Crash	21	very confident and not embaressed in any way shape form or fashion. I enjoy being seen by those I know.
inpampers	36	If I thought that they wore diapers I'd leave little bits of 'evidence' (corner of a diaper peeking out from a suitcase by my bed, an inch or two of my diaper peeking out of the top of my pants, or just wetting my diaper until it leaked) around so that they'd notice and hopefully say something. (Note no one ever got past the leaky diaper without saying something)
Dustin	15	At first I was shy about approaching another boy who wore diapers. Mainly I played just with Allen tjose first years and sometimes a younger boy who wore them too would join is. We got teased alot too by other boys. Except for the 2 boys at camp there weren't too many boys I knew who wore diapers like me.
Incontinent Guy	52	I don't feel very confident about approaching other men who wear diapers.
Doug	14	im afraid to but id like to ave bunch of diaper buddies

How do/did you feel about other boys who approach you who seek your friendship? How do they initiate talking about diapers with you? How did you or him overcome shyness or inhibitions? What steps do they take to build to gaining more trust and becoming more intimate with you? How do they deal with shyness on your part or on theirs?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	I, assume that this question, is directed about friendship with boys, that aren't wearing Diapers, (Yet! hopefully,) Since I am the Diaper wearer, and user, I, make it a habit, (since he's a boy,) and should we in Diapers, I, strive 100% just to be a friend, and totally open with him, about wearing and using Diapers, Their Arousing and Sexual satisfaction, Their security, and openess about my body, and my pee-pee, I, let him watch me being changed and being aroused and erect, and then both my parents, and Sisters, do and initiate the rest of getting him into Diapers, It, has never failed, with any boys parents, and that boy being Diapered...
Crash	21	they're the same way I am. They told me themselves.
Dustin	15	When I was 11 then I met some boys who wore diapers like me. They all knew me from church and 2 of them were brothers. Their mom made them wear diapers mostly to punish them. They knew I wore so they asked me to come over and play at their house. We are still friends and I go over there alot of time to play vid games and sleepovers.
Incontinent Guy	52	I don't mind being approached by others. The friendship is most important. Diapers are secondary.

What things do/did you and your diaper-wearing friends do together as far as your diapers were concerned? How much time did it take for you and him to become comfortable enough in each other's presence to talk about diapers, be seen in diapers, have sleepovers without pajamas on, changing each other's diapers, engaging in sexual activities, etc.?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	Yes, always we have mutual sexual activities, and never ever wear nothing, or nothing but our baby Diapers, and Plastic baby pants, and possibly in the evening just for our Sisters, and other other girls amusement will wear short T-shirts, with Diaper logo on them. Diaper Changes, are alway by the girls and Sisters, pluse masturbation of each boy, and of course we're also treated as babies, and fed, etc. and occasionally taken out place in public by our Sisters.
Crash	21	everything that is involved with diapers and some "extra" activities in the bedrooms.
inpampers	36	We went to movies and drink lots of pop so we'd have to use our diapers before the movie was over (sometimes more than once), We'd play D&D, play video games etc. If we were over at my place we'd wait till my parents had gone to bed (after age 10) and then take off our pants and just wear our diapers and let each other know when we were peeing etc. then take turns changing each others diapers.
Dustin	15	Mostly we play games and watch TV just in our diapers. It didn't take us too long to become friends either. When you know another boys wears diapers like you do you become friends fast cause other boys don't don't wear them lik you usually hate us and want to beat us up. Sleepovers and diaper changes are always a lot of fun too. I think it so natural to start doing sex with your friends specially when you sleepover cause we see each other naked during changes and we are all hard. You always have to touch his dick when you are changing him or he changes you. Usually more sexual activites happen too like jacking him off and giving him a blow job. I do same things with my non diaper wearing friends at camp outs or sleepover too.
Incontinent Guy	52	We just showed each other our diapers.
boby	--	we did as much diaper stuff as we could together after four days our parents couldnt get us to not do diaper stuff
Doug	14	when i first got took to his house i was in a diaper and t-shirt only and i was crying but mo said he wouldnt mind and then i met him at the door and he was in a diaper too..we were 7 i think. so tjhen his mom would send us out play in his sand box and swingset and we get dirty and she would strip us for a bath together and we see each other naked all the time. we napped inthe same bed and slept in to on sleepovers. asn we got pajama shirts when is was cold but no pants ever. when we needed to go poop his mom or mine would have us take off the cloth diapers and then have to put them back on us..so finally we had to help each other pin then back on so we didnt interupt whateverthe mom was doing so we started playing baby games with each other and changing etc. as we got older we would be at his house or mine alone and we would open the others diaper and jack each other off ..now we suck too and we like to still take showers together and baths too.

What kinds of diapers have your other friends worn? Did they wear multiple diapers? Were their diapers white or other colors? How often did they go around pantsless? Who else saw them in their diapers? How did sisters and other girls treat you and your friends when they saw you in diapers, changed you, etc.?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	Disposable- usually always Attends, because of thickness etc. and Cloth all white Diapers.
Crash	21	Attends,Goodnites,Depends,Molicare,Select Quality,plus too many others to list.
inpampers	36	Up until I was 12 the only diapers available were Pampers and even after Huggies and Luvs appeared on the market it was years before they were trustworthy so unless we wanted to wear cloth we wore Pampers. While Quentin was being diaper punished he was taken out of his pants and put in diapers as soon as he got home. Once his mom found out that I enjoyed wearing diapers there were always Pampers at their house and I would be stripped of my pants/shorts as soon as I got there (which made it easier to check if my diaper needed changing). When Quentin's diaper punishment ended Pampers were still kept at his house (by his mom) for me but if Quentin wanted he could wear diapers as long as I was over. When his sister turned 13 (she was 3 years older than us) she was allowed to change our diapers. It was as this point that Quentin stopped wearing diapers whereas I sometimes went over to his house even when he wasn't there because I enjoyed having his sister change my diapers and when I was older and had stopped wearing diapers 24/7 I would go over and deliberately pee my pants so that his sister would put me in diapers (usually once or twice a week)
Dustin	15	Most of them wear white disposible diapers. I have a friend who wear multiple briefs..maybe 6 or 8 at a time instead of diapers. Another friend wear maybe 3 or 4 briefs and pees in them on purpose just for fun. We all go around the house pantless and usually my sister and her friends like to watch us just in our diapers. They change us too. I like getting changed by girls. I think girls are the best diaper changers. im not shy about letting girls look at my dick.
Incontinent Guy	52	My friend wears cloth and plastic pants, but I've only seen him in a disposable diaper.
boby	--	white disposable rarely pantsless loads of people thought disgusting at first but cute later
Doug	14	usally cloth ones by day and disposables at night. we never gets pants unless we go out in public. my older brother and soem relatives have seen me. i dont know who all ahas seen my friend

How did your friends' brothers and sisters treat them for wearing diapers? How did they treat you? How did you feel the first time they saw you in diapers or at least talked to you about your diapers? How did their parents treat them and treat you?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	Usually, always Sister, if brothers were included they too were Diapered, the Sisters would alway teases and join our Sisters, in babying us boys, and Diapering us.
Crash	21	They weren't around and didn't know about the activities going on.
inpampers	36	Quentin's sister was very matter-of-fact in regards to his diapers but she loved babying me. Sometimes she would have one or two of her girlfriends over and they'd all take care of me (feeding me bottles, letting me 'breastfeed', etc) If I came over without a diaper on they'd gather round me while I either stood in the kitchen or sat in a highchair that Cheryl kept in her room and brought into the kitchen for me to sit in while they gave me bottle after bottle until I peed my pants.
Dustin	15	My older brother's friend most of them think im weird. But they usually treat me okay. Usually my brother tells them before they met me. So they all know I wear. One of his friends told me he had to wear diapers until he was 12. He said he still likes to wear them sometimes. He is the coolest of my brother's friends and I like him alot. I have gone over his house and we have played in our diapers together. We change each other too. :-)
Incontinent Guy	52	There were no other people around.
boby	--	understanding

Have you ever been turned down or shunned by a prospective diaper-wearing friend? What happened to cause this? Likewise, have you ever turned down or shunned someone who was seeking your friendship? What were your reasons for not accepting his friendship?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	No, never...
Crash	21	No None of these thing occured at all. We wouldn't allow it at all!!
Dustin	15	No...not too often. There is this boy in my church youth group that I know he wears but he never wants to talk to me about it. So I never talk to him about it. Maybe some day he will want to talk about it and I will listen and help him but now he is too shy. I never turn down a boy who wears diapers and wants to be my friend. Us diaper boys have to stick together.
Incontinent Guy	52	I've never been turned down or shunned as far as I know. I shun someone in the UK who is into boys - don't want to go there. I also avoid talking to guys who get off on telling me how they just crapped their diapers.
boby	--	no

What situations do/did you run into while in school with seeking friendship from other diaper-wearing boys? Where and when have you formed successful friendships in school? What obstacles have you had to deal with in pursuing such interests?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	N/A Home schooled
Crash	21	Friendly and accepting relationships from many of them.
Dustin	15	There aren't that many boys in my school who are open about wearing diapers. In school most of the boy approach me about my diapers are dudes who don't have to wear them. Some of them want to try them out and ask me if I can give them some diapers so they can see how it is to wear one. That's how become friends with non diaper wearing dudes. I usually bring some extras to a sleepover and let them wear them. Then we change each other too and usually do sexual things with each other too.
Incontinent Guy	52	I never sought friendship with other diaper-wearers in school.

Describe the times when you have squandered a potential friendship with a diaper-wearing boy. What stood in your way of seeking or gaining his friendship?

Name	Age	Answer
Byron, Timothy, D.J., Kevin, & Marc (ages 12-17)	14	N/A hasn't happened, we're just not that way, whether or not a boy wears Diapers, or not, If a boy shuns or makes fun of us because we wear and use Diapers, let him be and go his way, he is the one that's trully missing out on friendship, and a wonder experience, that only wearing and using Diapers, your self can tell you what it is like.
Crash	21	At home with my boyfriend. We went out after the third week of our friendship and then it turned into a relationship.
Dustin	15	This hasn't happened to me yet.
Incontinent Guy	52	I never had this happen.

Average Age of respondents to this question:	27.3
Range of ages of respondents:	10 -  72

Age Distribution
Under 10	0
10-14	5
15-19	4
20-24	2
25-29	1
30-34	0
35-39	2
40-44	1
45-49	1
50-54	1
55-59	0
60-64	0
65-69	0
70-74	1
75-79	0
80+	0

Youth Age Distribution
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	0
10	1
11	0
12	0
13	0
14	4
15	1
16	0
17	1

Diaper Types
Single disposable diapers- plain white	15
Single disposable diapers- plain white	8
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored	6
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white	5
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored	4
Single cloth diapers- plain white	2
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored	4
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white	2
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored	0
Multiple underpants- plain white	0
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored	3
Other makeshift diapers	4
Single plastic pants- plain	4
Single plastic pants- patterned/colored	1
Multiple plastic pants- plain	0
Percentage of those 18+ who only wore these diapers as a boy:	0.00%

Pantslessness
Always	8
Usually	6
Sometimes	4
Rarely	2
Never	0
Percentage of those 18+ who reported being pantsless as a boy	0.00%

Diaper Usage
Pee	18
Poop	9
Percent of brothers 18+ whose diaper usage reported only as a boy	0.00%

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