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The Question of the Week for March 4, 2007:

For which reasons did your parents punish you for having accidents?

Number of responses received: 31

Response Count Percent Graph
They were frustrated 21 67.7%
They were embarrassed 12 38.7%
They didn't want to deal with the mess 9 29.0%
They felt I was too old for having accidents 21 67.7%
They thought I was being lazy 14 45.2%
They thought I was being defiant 5 16.1%
It made them feel like inferior parents 1 3.2%
To get me to stop having accidents 17 54.8%
They didn't want to keep buying diapers 6 19.4%
They didn’t want to deal with the extra laundry 8 25.8%
They didn't want to deal with the smell 6 19.4%
They didn't want to deal with other inconveniences it caused 5 16.1%
Before age 6, how often were you punished for having accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Frequently 9 30.0%
Sometimes 8 26.7%
Rarely 9 30.0%
Never 4 13.3%
Total: 30
From ages 6 to 12, how often were you punished for having accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Frequently 14 45.2%
Sometimes 11 35.5%
Rarely 2 6.5%
Never 4 12.9%
I'm not that old yet 0 0.0%
Total: 31
From ages 13 to 17, how often were you punished for having accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Frequently 11 36.7%
Sometimes 7 23.3%
Rarely 4 13.3%
Never 4 13.3%
I'm not that old yet 4 13.3%
Total: 30
How often did you have pee accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Before age 6- Frequently 23 26.4%
Before age 6- Sometimes 5 5.7%
Before age 6- Rarely 0 0.0%
Before age 6- Never 1 1.1%
Ages 6-12- Frequently 17 19.5%
Ages 6-12- Sometimes 8 9.2%
Ages 6-12-- Rarely 4 4.6%
Ages 6-12-- Never 1 1.1%
Not this old yet 0 0.0%
Ages 13-17- Frequently 10 11.5%
Ages 13-17- Sometimes 9 10.3%
Ages 13-17- Rarely 4 4.6%
Ages 13-17- Never 1 1.1%
Not this old yet 4 4.6%
Total: 87
How often did you have poop accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Before age 6- Frequently 6 6.9%
Before age 6- Sometimes 10 11.5%
Before age 6- Rarely 8 9.2%
Before age 6- Never 5 5.7%
Ages 6-12- Frequently 7 8.0%
Ages 6-12- Sometimes 4 4.6%
Ages 6-12-- Rarely 10 11.5%
Ages 6-12-- Never 8 9.2%
Not this old yet 0 0.0%
Ages 13-17- Frequently 3 3.4%
Ages 13-17- Sometimes 6 6.9%
Ages 13-17- Rarely 7 8.0%
Ages 13-17- Never 9 10.3%
Not this old yet 4 4.6%
Total: 87
Did you feel like you deserved to be punished for having accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Yes 16 39.0%
Yes, somewhat 12 29.3%
Not really 7 17.1%
Not at all 6 14.6%
Total: 41
In which ways were you punished for having accidents?

Response Count Percent Graph
Made to wear diapers (pants on) 19 61.3%
Made to wear diapers (pants off) 21 67.7%
Made to remove pants and go around in underwear 3 9.7%
Made to go naked 5 16.1%
Made to wear extra pairs of underwear (pants on) 1 3.2%
Made to wear extra pairs of underwear (pants off) 2 6.5%
Spanked (pants on) 10 32.3%
Spanked (pants off, diapers or underwear on) 12 38.7%
Spanked (bare butt) 14 45.2%
Made to wash out soiled pants 7 22.6%
Made to wash out soiled underwear 8 25.8%
Made to be seen by others in diapers 13 41.9%
Grounded 12 38.7%
Sent to bed early 14 45.2%
Denied other privileges 19 61.3%
Which kinds of diapers were used for punishment on you?

Response Count Percent Graph
Single disposable diapers- plain white 20 64.5%
Single disposable diapers- patterned/colored 12 38.7%
Multiple disposable diapers- plain white 9 29.0%
Multiple disposable diapers- patterned/colored 6 19.4%
Single cloth diapers- plain white 7 22.6%
Single cloth diapers- patterned/colored 4 12.9%
Multiple cloth diapers- plain white 9 29.0%
Multiple cloth diapers- patterned/colored 3 9.7%
Multiple underpants- plain white 1 3.2%
Multiple underpants- patterned/colored 1 3.2%
Other makeshift diapers 3 9.7%
I was made to go pantsless in these kinds of diapers 15 48.4%
Who witnessed your accidents and the punishment that followed?

Response Count Percent Graph
Mother 26 83.9%
Father 24 77.4%
Younger brother 10 32.3%
Older brother 5 16.1%
Younger sister 10 32.3%
Older sister 9 29.0%
Aunt/Uncle 10 32.3%
Uncle 8 25.8%
Grandmother 9 29.0%
Grandfather 6 19.4%
Friend 10 32.3%
Brothers' friends 6 19.4%
Sisters' friends 6 19.4%
Other boy 10 32.3%
Other girl 10 32.3%
Other adult 10 32.3%
How effective do you think getting punished for accidents is/was for you?

Response Count Percent Graph
Very effective 6 21.4%
Moderately effective 3 10.7%
Somewhat effective 3 10.7%
Barely effective 6 21.4%
Total: 28
Provide details on how you were punished for your accidents. If punishment frequency and/or methods changed with age please include these details:

Name Age Answer
matthew 22 i was a bedwtter my whole life and had to wear diaper only at night but when i turned 10 my mom made me wear diaper and only diapers 24/7 her or my sis changed me
craig 11 I was made to wear diapers for one full week
Jake 19 My parents just yelled at me, and made me feel bad about the fact that I was a big kid who still wore and used diapers. Often when I peed or pooped in them where a bathroom was easily accessible, they would spank me.
Ryan 13 When i had an wetting accident last month they put me in diapers, hid the diapers, never told anyone, and grounded me when i didn't tell them if i messed.
DiaperDon 37 I was not punished for accidents until I was 10 or 11. I guess my family decided by then that I was just being lazy. They would check my underwear every night, and if there was a yellow spot I would be spanked. This went on for several weeks. I started showing them underwear that I hadn't worn yet to avoid the spankings. Eventually, they took me to a urologist who did some tests and discovered that I had a slight deformity in my urethra that made it impossible to keep everthing clean. There were always a few drops in my pants. The spankings stopped after that.
bedwetter i was spanked and made to sit in my wet pants at first but then i was put back into diapers and after a while in diapers i did not care if i ot punished that just ment being in diapers longer the only time i hated being punished was when i was spanked usually with my pants down but some times bare but spanked
Eric 17 I WAS SPANK WITH A BELT. FIRST WITH PANTS ON THEN UNDERWEAR AND DIAPER ON THEN BARE NAKED
Nicholas 12 As long as i am still in diapers my parents treat me like a little boy. I have to go to bed very early and i sleep in the same room as my little brother. I am not allowed to wear cool clothes - i have to wear kiddy clothes like bibpants have to have bib or an apron on everytime i eat.
Mike Webster 61 I started school 1 year late because I was still in diapers 24/7. From age 6 to 12 I was wet most mornings. Durning the 6 to 12 years when I got cought with wet pants I was spanked and spent the rest of the day in diapers and waterproof pants.
Marc 12 Before the age of 5 is was put into diapers full time for my accidents and was spanked with my wet and or poopy diaper on when I had an accident. They let me keep my pants on then but from 5 on my family decided that pants were too much of a hassle and took them away. I still get spanked with my dirty diapers on.
Cody 17 On my 16th Birthday I wet my bed, my parents told me I was far too old to be wetting, I was told that I was being
lazy and irresponsible. If I wet my bed every night that week I would be put into diapers 24/7. I was told if I wanted to act irresponsible I would treated as I was acting. Obviously I wet every n
pooped too. My parents went balistic, I was spanked with the strap and then they put me into a diaper. From then
on I've had to wear 24/7 and I'm not allowed to wear any pants at home or at friends or relatives houses. They
change me just before going to bed. And I get five spanks for every night I wet and ten for every night I mess.
Provide details on the reasons your parents punished you for having accidents. Did you feel such reasons were justified at the time, or in retrospect? Describe the effectiveness/ineffectiveness of the ways you were punished:

Name Age Answer
craig 11 I was made to wear diapers
Jake 19 They felt that I could wait long enough to use the toilet, and that I used the diapers because I wanted to. I thought they were wrong to be as harsh as they were, as I really couldn't help it.
Ryan 13 They put me in diapers for having bedwetting/pooping accident. I think they did it because they couldn't think of anything else. It had no effect I still wet/mess the bed to be put in diapers.
bedwetter extra laundry was to old to be having accidents
Eric 17 I FELT LIKE I SHOULD NOT SHOW WHAT I HAD DONE TO MY PANTS
Nicholas 12 Last time i got punished was last Monday and it was because i pooped myself in the shopping center. Mom got angry and called me a baby and i started to cry. Then mom got more angry and i cried louder. As soon as we came home i was changed and send to bed. It was ok mom got angry on me. I think she got very angry on me because i cried a lot and not because i pooped. I was tired and behaved like a cry baby.
Cody 17 They thought I was far too old to be wetting and (rarely) messing the bed, they thought I was just too lazy to get the night.
How did you deal with the frustration of getting punished for something you felt was beyond your control and not your fault?

Name Age Answer
craig 11 I tryed to hide it but it was useless because my brother tolled mommy or daddy
Jake 19 Whenever I was alone I would suck on a pacifier to help calm me down, I got such a psychological attachment to it that I still keep it in my pocket at all times, and if I get really stressed, I will walk into a bathroom, sit down on the toilet and suck on it for several minutes to relax.
Ryan 13 I wasn't that frustrated just because im the calm type. I actually know why i had bedwetting/pooping accidents, I paid a hypnotist to make me wet/mess the bed only because im an DL.
Eric 17 UPSET
Nicholas 12 Sometimes i start to behave like a little boy. Sometimes i start to spill a lot and make a mess when i eat. Sometimes i dont want to get changed even when i have pooped in my diaper and i try to escape from my mom.
Mike Webster 61 Didn't like it. I never thought it was my fault. I was never punished/spanked for waking up wet.
Byron, Timothy, D.J., & Kevin plus Marc (Ages, 12 yr. to 17 yr.) 14 N/AWe simply obeyed and used our diapers to pee and poop in
List some examples of situations where you felt that getting punished for accidents was unfair (e.g. not being allowed to use bathroom and then having an accident):

Name Age Answer
craig 11 Going on long trips or asked to ues the bathroom in the food store or the mall
Jake 19 In my sophomore year of high school, I pooped in my diaper during dinner, and my parents thought it was an intentional defiant act, or an act of laziness, so they got really mad. They spanked me in my poopy diaper then made me go change it.
Ryan 13 After a while the punishment got worse. I wasn't allowed to change myself, For 5 nights straight each day I wet/messed the bed they put an extra diaper on me if didn't they took one off, then they made me wait 3 hours after wetting/messing my diaper before they changed me.
Eric 17 Mad at my parnets for more then a week
Nicholas 12 I cannot control it so i think its unfair everytime i get punished for using my diaper.
Cody 17 Well they send me to bed quite early and and a couple of times I had to go before I went too sleep, and then I messed my diapers, I got ten spankings, it was completely unfair.
How did your brothers react to seeing you get punished for having accidents?

Name Age Answer
Allen 17 My younger brother by 3 years enjoyed it because my dad taught him how to spank me if i dirtied my diaper after the age of 11. Both my younger brothers and my younger sister were allowed to spank me if I pooped my diaper regardless of when.
craig 11 he didn't care or feel sorry
Jake 19 Felt bad for me
Ryan 13 They wanted to wear diapers also so my mom put them in diapers too but they had to change themself and were allowed to use the bathroom if they wanted, and could not be in diapers if they wanted to.
Eric 17 he said that i should get it more ofen
Nicholas 12 My brother does not react on it - he is only three!
Byron, Timothy, D.J., & Kevin plus Marc (Ages, 12 yr. to 17 yr.) 14 They are in the same boat, they too wear diapers 24/7
Cody 17 My brother was actually the nicest (though my parents had him spank me a couple times, I think he went easy on me)out of my family, he changes me as soon as I need it and he's really comforting, we've gotten closer actually.
How did your sisters react to seeing you get punished for having accidents?

Name Age Answer
Jake 19 Felt bad for me
Ryan 13 No sisters
Eric 17 no sisters
Nicholas 12 My sister behaves like she is older than i.
Marc 12 They thought it was funny and made fun of me.
Byron, Timothy, D.J., & Kevin plus Marc (Ages, 12 yr. to 17 yr.) 14 they only delighted in the fact that our parents, enforce us living 24/7, in diapers.
What was the worst punishment you received for having an accident? Where and when did it occur and what kind of accident was it (pee/poop)? What were the circumstances and the consequences that followed?

Name Age Answer
craig 11 at the mall mommy spanked me right in front of everybody and pulled my pants and underwear down and diapered me right therein front of everybody
Jake 19 The worst punishment I ever got for an accident was my mom slapping my face and being grounded for a month. When I was twelve, I broke my wrist, and so for awhile my parents/siblings had to change my diaper whenever I needed it. We were out at Wal- Mart and I told my mom that my diaper was getting pretty wet. She sighed and went into the bathroom to change me. She pulled off my old depend and slid a new one under me. She slid the diaper up between my legs, taped it up and helped me to my feet. As she was pulling my jeans up I let out a loud fart and a massive load of poop began to come out uncontrollably into my diaper, along with another long stream of pee. I didn't even realize I had to go, but she didn't believe me.
Ryan 13 The worst was during spring break. I hadn't wet/messed the bed all week but then I overfilled my diaper to where it leaked. They made me wear so many diapers I had to waddle everywhere.
Eric 17 spnked bare bottoms and wearing t-shirt and diapers in public
Nicholas 12 Four years ago i was in Berlin with my parents and my sister. One day when we came in at a restaurant mom asked for a place to change me. When i had been changed and we came back to the table a high chair was set up and it was for me. My dad told me that i had to sit in the high chair because i was a diaper kid. Everything ended up being a big mess and i cried a lot!
Marc 12 I was in my basement playing video games when I suddenly pooped. I was wearing a diaper at the time but I didn't want to tell my mom because I would get a spanking if I did so I just sat in it and played my video games. After a while my mom came down to check on me. I tried to hide the mess in pants but saw what I had done. Even worse was the fact that the diaper had leaked and poop got into the carpet. First she made me clean up the carpet. Then she spanked me 25 times with my mess diaper on. Lastly she put me into 6 overnight diapers and I had to wear 6 diapers like that for the rest of week.
Cody 17 I think the worst time was probably the first time when I messed my bed and I got a lot of spankings, more than I ussually get.
If you were a parent (or if you are one) would you punish your sons for having accidents? Explain why or why not?

Name Age Answer
matthew 22 yes because they shouldnt be having accidents but i also think i will diaper discipline them anyway because diapers is a good form of dsicipline being 22 and still in diapers i would know i think diapers did me good especially in my teen years i wasnt out causing trouble i wasnt having sex at a young age all because of diapers
craig 11 I don't know i'm just a kid
Jake 19 I would not punish my sons/daughters for having accidents unless I had proof that they were doing it on purpose.
Ryan 13 I would ask if they want to be put in diapers, because that what i wanted that option.
Eric 17 yes because they may need it
Nicholas 12 I would not punish my son if he cannot control it
Cody 17 I would not punish my son more than have him wear a diaper when he needed it, there would be no spankings and it would be more about handling the problem rather than spanking him
How did getting punished for having accidents make you feel towards your parents? Did it have any effect on how you feel about them now? Did you ever seek reprisal or get back at them for unfair punishment?

Name Age Answer
matthew 22 i hated my mom when i was younger but know i think she did the right thing
Jake 19 It really damaged our relationship. I am still in diapers, but I am always uncomfortable around them. Even though I am in college, I am still slightly afraid of being hit by them if I have an accident while I am visiting
Ryan 13 It made me notice that they are not always nice and happy. No effect now. No
Eric 17 mad ,not talkingto them
Nicholas 12 I love my parents ;-)
Cody 17 I'm still a little mad at them about it, but I do admit I needed the diapers.
How do you wish your parents could have handled dealing with your accidents?

Name Age Answer
craig 11 by understanding more
Jake 19 I wish they would have been supportive and understanding about my lack of control. Not all kids can be potty trained by age three.
Ryan 13 Just put me in diapers.
Eric 17 put diapers on with out spanking
Nicholas 12 Its ok that i have to wear diapers but i wish they would stop treating me like a little kid
Cody 17 I wish they would just give me diapers and not spank me

Average Age of respondents to this question: 20.0
Range of ages of respondents: 6 - 61

Age Distribution
Under 10 3
10-14 7
15-19 11
20-24 1
25-29 2
30-34 0
35-39 1
40-44 1
45-49 1
50-54 0
55-59 0
60-64 1
65-69 0
70-74 0
75-79 0
80+ 0

Youth Age Distribution
6 1
7 0
8 1
9 1
10 0
11 1
12 3
13 1
14 2
15 1
16 1
17 5