Are you diapered in a particular, prescribed manner?

Number of responses received: 36

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes, very specific, rigid guidelines	12	35.3%
Yes, some but not much flexibility	8	23.5%
Yes, but with a good deal of flexibility	7	20.6%
Somewhat, but nothing really spefific	5	14.7%
Not at all	2	5.9%
Total:	34

How often are you diapered in such a manner (when in diapers)?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Always	17	50.0%
Usually	8	23.5%
Sometimes	6	17.6%
Rarely	2	5.9%
Never	1	2.9%
Total:	34

What are the particular prescribed attributes that are applied to your diaper-wearing?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Thickness	18	50.0%
Tightness/diaper layers	18	50.0%
Height of diapers	10	27.8%
Size of diapers	18	50.0%
Number of tapes/pins used	9	25.0%
Color of diapers	13	36.1%
Brand of diapers	20	55.6%
Type of diapers	22	61.1%
When I am diapered	25	69.4%
Where I am diapered	22	61.1%
By whom I am diapered	24	66.7%
When I am to be checked/changed	21	58.3%
When (if ever) I can wear pants over diapers	16	44.4%
When I wear certain types of diapers	12	33.3%
Who can see me in my diapers	13	36.1%
Who can see me getting a diaper change	16	44.4%

What are the particular prescribed attributes that are applied to your diaper-wearing? (continued)

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
How much I pee/poop into my diapers before a diaper change	21	58.3%
How many diapers are kept on hand	16	44.4%
When diapers are purchased	15	41.7%
When diapers are washed (cloth)	8	22.2%
How siblings are to behave around me while in diapers	12	33.3%
How things are handled when visitors are present	16	44.4%
Wearing diapers outside the house	19	52.8%
Wearing diapers in school	18	50.0%
Reasons to wear diapers in the first place	21	58.3%

Who determined the ways you are to be diapered?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Myself	7	19.4%
Mother	26	72.2%
Father	12	33.3%
Older brother	2	5.6%
Younger brother	6	16.7%
Older sister	12	33.3%
Younger sister	12	33.3%
Aunt	6	16.7%
Uncle	4	11.1%
Grandmother	3	8.3%
Grandfather	2	5.6%
Other boy	2	5.6%
Other girl	6	16.7%
Other adult	6	16.7%

Who had the greatest involvement of all in determining how you are to be diapered?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Myself	2	6.3%
Mother	18	56.3%
Father	0	0.0%
Older brother	1	3.1%
Younger brother	0	0.0%
Older sister	2	6.3%
Younger sister	1	3.1%
Aunt	1	3.1%
Uncle	1	3.1%
Grandmother	1	3.1%
Grandfather	0	0.0%
Other boy	0	0.0%
Other girl	2	6.3%
Other adult	0	0.0%
Everybody had the same involvement	3	9.4%
Total:	32

How much input or say did you have in determining how you are diapered?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
None at all	14	43.8%
A little	12	37.5%
Some	2	6.3%
A lot	2	6.3%
Complete involvement	2	6.3%
Total:	32

Are the prescribed ways you are diapered documented (written)?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Yes, very thoroughly	6	18.8%
Yes, somewhat	5	15.6%
Yes, a little	2	6.3%
Not at all	19	59.4%
Total:	32

Overall, how do you feel about the ways you are diapered?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Stongly Agree	7	21.9%
Agree	6	18.8%
Neutral/mixed	12	37.5%
Disagree	2	6.3%
Strongly disagree	5	15.6%
Total:	32

Up to what age were you diapered in such a prescribed manner?

Response	Count	Percent	Graph
Under 4	1	3.1%
4	1	3.1%
5	1	3.1%
6	0	0.0%
7	1	3.1%
8	0	0.0%
9	1	3.1%
10	2	6.3%
11	0	0.0%
12	8	25.0%
13	0	0.0%
14	4	12.5%
15	1	3.1%
16	1	3.1%
17	0	0.0%
Over 17	11	34.4%
Total:	32

Provide specific details on the physical characteristics required for the diapers that you wear (color, size, height,thickness/number of diaper layers, width of crotch, brand, etc.)

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	must be tight and secure
Mike J	17	they're Depends
Roger		It was a triple diaper folded with the outer 2 diapers folded together and the 3rd folded into the crotch to make a real good padding.
soaker	62	Two cloth diapers were used as a base, with three more folded in the center as soakers. Only one pin on each side. Rubber pants were placed over the diapers until plastic pants became the rage. The diapers were white. The rubber/plastic pants could be any color my mother or sister decided to buy. They liked pinks, yellow and prints. They though I looked cute in them.
Chris	15	very thick with 8-10 diapers on.
Baby Tommy	15	All of my diapers have to be thick enough that I cannot run, and can barely walk - at night they must be thick to the point that I can only just crawl. They are all white other than the disposables I wear in the daytime.
Broc	16	I have to wear baby diapers or youth diapers. Size 6 for baby and the smallest for yough. The height must be up to my elbows so if I can wear paints they are still shown. I have to wear 4 diapers(min).
Dante nickname-alias	19	i have to worn now tena maxi slip small(i had car incident when i was 12, and my body stop grow anymore.
Jeff	12	I always wear one Huggies size 6 diaper whether I like it or not. My sisters love the fact that I still wear actual baby diapers despite my age.
	18	depends,goodnites,pullups
Mike P.	56	I'm disabled by spina bifida and I've always worn diapers as I'm completely incontinent. As a child I wore cloth diapers. I started out with Curity diapers. After I began changing myself when I was between 9 and 10, my mother was able to get a different kind of cloth diaper. It had an "hour glass" shape, with a narrow crotch and a wide, thick front and back. The diaper was fastened by buttons and loops; there were two large buttons on each side of tthe front and corresponding cloth loops on the on the back. My mother thought this was easier than dealing with pins as I did when I first began changing myself. There was a removable, folded piece of cloth that ran down the center (crotch) of the diaper for additional absorbency. By the time I was about 13 I began putting on weight and went back to wearing generic cloth diapers. For a brief period of time, I didn't use pins. I just pushed the diaper between my legs and pulled my rubber pants up over the diaper.
allen	18	8 layer prefold flat diapers & plastic pants , never any other type of diaper. Not even to school.
Cody	17	I wear size 6 Pampers active fit. I have to wear two together to fit.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Out Aunt Josey, still continues to make All, of us boy's diapers, They are white cloth material of the thickest diaper material, & cut so that they are both wide between the legs, and length so that they rise high in the front and back, they are 6 ply thick, and then down the middle they are lined with the thickest absorbent padding 8' wide, from the front to the back, for a total of 12 layers. And are made of an entirely white material cloth.

Provide specific details on your diaper changes (when you are to be checked/changed and by whom, where your diaper changes are to be handled, how much pee/poop you have to have in your diapers, etc.)

Name	Age	Answer
	14	i get one diper change a day i pee in it 3-4 times befor a cange and poop 1 some times 2 times befor changes
diapered_bottom_boy	22	i am checked regualarly, but cannot be changed until i have soaked my diaper. I can only be changed on a changing pad on my dresser. my uncle checks and changes me.
Mike J	17	At home it's usually in my room by my parents or every once in a while my uncle. Out in public, say the doctor's office or my friend's house, my doctor changes me or my friend's parents. At school I'm changed after school by my gym teacher in the locker room. I'm usually checked before I go out in public and the changes are more frequent when I'm ill. It's usually nice to be changed by my gym teacher because he always makes them so tight.
Roger		before bed I had to lay down on the bed, mom folded the diapers together and I had to raise my hips and the diapers were slid under me, pulled through my legs and pinned. Once mom was satisfied that the padding was right she put the rubber pants on me, making sure the diapers were completely covered then in the warm weather I went to bed or in the cold weather I put on pj's.
soaker	62	They would check my diapers at any time they felt I may be really wet. My sister loved to check me in front of her friends. I was changed whenever I was soaked or had a BM.
Chris	15	I get changed an hour after bowel movements, I made that up.
Baby Tommy	15	During the day time I wear an Abri-Form X-Plus Small nappy, with a Huggies Superflex size 6 as a stuffer. I cannot ask to be changed at any time, somebody else must check me. I cannot be changed until the nappy is wet throughout, and until poo has reached my crotch. At night I wear five plain white cloth nappies, with at least twelve pins. On top of this I wear a pair of teddy- bear patterned plastic pants. Once these are on I am put into a specially-designed sleeper with mittens, booties and a hood - which is impossible to take off and leaves only the face clear. This is to stop me being able to do anything in the night. My nappy cannot be changed until the morning comes.
Broc	16	I'm cheack every hour by one of my family members, if it's wet or diry I'm usually put into a new one, I can not ask to be changed, they just come to me. If there are alot of pee/poop in the diaper I get new ones put on.
Dante nickname-alias	19	i have chek all two hours, sometime place's where is embrassing, but my mom never think is big deal! for her.....
Jeff	12	Pretty much, I'm just changed whenever I need to be changed. About the only time I'm always checked is right before I'm put to bed when my younger sister gets to check my diaper to see if I need changed or not. If I do, she changes me.
	18	A full wetting
Mike P.	56	Before I began changing myself, I was changed by my parents (mostly my mother) at home and by personal care givers at school. Both at home and school, I was changed in the bathroom. At school I was usually changed (or changed myself) on a schedule unless I pooped myself and I or my care giver was aware it (sometimes I wasn't aware that I messed myself until I went to the bathroom to get changed). At home my mother was usually aware of when I needed to be changed.
		I'm changed anywhere required when mom or my younger sister check and see if I need changing. Usually they will grab my bum and see if I've pooped and if not then they stick a finger in the leg hole to see how wet I am.
Cody	17	I am checked when my girlfreind can smell my diaper or when I have wet myself. I can only wet once before being changed and I only poop a little.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Our diapers are changed by our sisters, mother, occasionally dad, and or Adult relatives, or babysitters. They are generally only twice daily, and if not full of poop, and pee, left on, (or occasionally removed for short period for sex play.) Once in the late morning after Breakfast, then again in the evening . A show is made of our diaper changes, if at all possible, with our sisters friends or parents friends if over at the home or we happen to be away, at friends home. Generally always in our Nursery on the diaper changing table.

Provide specific details on when you are to be in diapers only and when you may wear pants over your diapers:

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	inside I can wear just my diaper, but when i go out i have to put pants on over my diaper.
Mike J	17	I'm in diapers at school and at home. Every once in a while I wear them out in public.
Roger		As a bedwetter I wore diapers and rubber pants to bed with pj's on over if it was cold. Otherwise I slept in the diapers and rubber pants.
soaker	62	Every night after supper was diaper time. In the summer I was in diapers and a T-shirt. I was allowed to were a pants to cover the diapers until I went to bed, then the pants were removed. I was also made to wear diapers when we went on drives over 2 hours, I could also wear pants then.
Chris	15	If I am outside I am allowed to wear pants anytime else the pants are off.
Baby Tommy	15	At home I can only wear nappies with a onesie, or a sleeper at night. Outside the house I can wear a onesie and a pair of shirts.
Broc	16	I can only wear paints over my diapers in public.
Dante nickname-alias	19	i like it when my diaper not obvious. i not really proud myself, my mother allwys put minimum 2 booster pads in my disposables diaper.
Jeff	12	I'm in diapers only whenever I'm put to bed for the evening. When I'm in diapers during the day, it depends on whether my mom is home or not. If she's home, I'm usually allowed to at least wear shorts over my diaper. If it's just my sisters, I can't wear anything over my diaper or else I get punished.
Mike P.	56	Except for bedtime, bath time, and my nightly suppositories for my BMs, I usually always had clothing on over my rubber pants and diapers. Except for being in the tub or on the toilet for a bowel movement, I always had a diaper on.
allen	18	no specifics, I wear whatever I'm dressed in by mom or my sister.
Cody	17	I have to sleep and travel in just my diaper and t-shirt and have to stay in just diaper until my girlfreind or sister get my clothes ready in morning.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Always, 24/7 unless those over us say other wise and remove our Diapers.

Provide specific details on who may or may not see you in your diapers (including if this pertains to diaper changes or being seen in diapers in general)

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	no one is allowed to be in the room during changing, unless my uncle says its ok.
Mike J	17	Some people have spied on me while my gym teacher is changing me, but they seem to ignore it now.
Roger		Only my family could see me in diapers. No one outside of the family was allowed to see me.
soaker	62	Most of the time I was changed in my bedroom. On trips I was changed whenever it was needed, car,train,boat, womens restroom, friends house bathroom floor of bed .In front of whomever my mother or sisters let view the wetter.
Chris	15	only my family may see me in my diapers except people that I say may come in.
Baby Tommy	15	Everybody can see me in my nappies, and anyone who wants to change me can (including any visitors).
Broc	16	Anyone can see me in my diapers anytime, anywhere.
Dante nickname-alias	19	i don't like see someone my diaper, i have waer them, not using them just fun.
Jeff	12	Anyone and everyone has seen me in my Huggies. Teachers, schoolmates, relatives, strangers in grocery stores or shopping malls, it doesn't matter. I've worn diapers everywhere both with pants and without.
	18	girl friend has to see me in diapers all the time
Mike P.	56	At home, I always had privacy in the bathroom although I really didn't care if my brother or sister saw me getting changed. At school I was seen by others when I got changed. I didn't mind it too much when I was just wet, but I never liked others seeing me when I messed myself.
allen	18	anybody can see me in my diapers, like mom says..... babys don't have a choose of who changes them , where they are changed , who sees them in thier diapers.... so therefor neither do I .
Cody	17	Anyone is aloud to see me in diapers
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Any and everyone, always, not exclusions ever, that is in our Diapers, and also on our Diaper Changes...

Provide specific details on how your diaper supply is maintained (buying diapers, washing diapers, who washes/folds them, when new diapers are purchased, etc.)

Name	Age	Answer
	14	one diper a day
diapered_bottom_boy	22	none
Mike J	17	My family purchases them when we're out.
Roger		Mom washed them I had to rinse out the rubber pants each morning and hang them to dry.
soaker	62	My sisters and me were made to wash and hang out my diapers and plastic pants for all to see.
Chris	15	My parents buy diapers when I am on the last package.
Broc	16	My diapers are bought in the store, I get the money, and I must go and buy them myself. I give them to my diapers and they fold them, I can only wear disposble. I buy diapers 1-2 a week.
Dante nickname-alias	19	my parents mbuy my all stuffs.
Jeff	12	Mom just buys me more Huggies whenever she goes to the grocery store and she thinks she needs to buy more. She always makes a scene when she's buying them though because she tells the cashier these are for her 12 year old son who hasn't learned to properly use the potty yet.
	18	When their is only 3 left i go buy 48 diaper which is 3 bags
Mike P.	56	My mother managed all my diaper stuff at home.
allen	18	all I know is mom washes them and either mom or my sister fold them and they are kept in the closet.
Cody	17	My girlfreind buys a pack of 24 diapers once a week for me. This means I am changed about 3-4 times a day.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Our sisters, and the Adults, see to the sufficient supply, Each week, us boys are assigned to a week of laundry duty, and washing and drying our diapers.

Overall, how did the prescribed ways you are to be diapered come about? Why are things to be done the way they are?

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	my uncle says it has to be done that way, because thats how he was diapered when he was a boy.
Roger		As a result of being a regular bedwetter and needing ot be well padded to keep my bed dry.
soaker	62	My mother used trial an error until I there was a dry bed over night.
Chris	15	It is so I can be able to be at utmost comfort
Baby Tommy	15	To make sure my punishment is effective.
Broc	16	My older and younger brother bring it up when they saw me wet the bed and they told them I did it perisly to wear diapers and wanted to be like a baby, so they started talking.
Dante nickname-alias	19	i don't know.
Jeff	12	At first, I absolutely refused to be diapered again like a little baby. Once my mom spanked me and humilitated me by diapering me on a public park bench because I had thrown a fit when she told me she was going to put a diaper on me when we got home because I had wet the bed the night before. After that embarassment, I learned to just allow the diapering to happen rather than facing more humilitation that I already have to endure by wearing disposable baby diapers.
Mike P.	56	Things were done the way they were so that I could more easily take care of myself in the bathroom and be less dependent on others for help (unless I had a BM).
allen	18	always been diapered that way since I was a real baby
Cody	17	My girlfreind decides
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Starting with Marc, our oldest brother, and us following, we faught our potty training, and just was kept in diapers, So our parents, and sisters, established the rules, (that All us Boys, of the family, and any others,) would be in and use Diapers 24/7, All of our home life. And greater and worse punishment, is inlicted if we don't accept our parents decision.

In which ways are the prescribed methods pertaining to your diapers documented? If possible, copy this documentation here; otherwise, explain how everyone understands the ways you are to be diapered:

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	written on the wall, above the changing pad.
Chris	15	the document is lamenated on our fridge
Date nickname-alias	19	my parents close in their gardrobe all things(hospital reports, doc, etc..) what can explain me why treating me like this shamful. they think i'm one toddler, who need all time controll. :-((( i hate this, i think is not true, i'mnot a baby.
Mike P.	56	There was no documentation. This was just a necessity that result from being incontinent.
allen	18	no documents but there are lots of pictures of me growing up in diapers, having my diaper changed by my younger siblings and so forth
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	When it was desided and established by our parents and the Adults, of the family, also our sisters, it was told us at a gathering of All of us boys, along with the rest of the family, and our Momma, and Daddy, also wrote it down and put the rules in their file case, Any new boys, or cousins, etc. coming to live with us or stay with the family, are read the rules, and then must,Knowingly, Strip themselves naked of big boy clothes, and Submit to having Good Diaper Care, given them (which always, causes an erection,) then before all given a Suppository, and Diapered, and Plastic Baby Pants applied. They then again are given affirmation, that Diapers are their only Clothes, and means of bodily elimination.

How did your brothers and/or sisters get involved in how you are to be diapered? What did he or she contribute to this?

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	no brothers or sisters
Roger		My sister would see me in the diapers and rubber pants and sometimes tease me but mom would get on her for it.
Chris	15	She made most of the rules because she was a babysitter at the timeand used what other parents wanted for their kids.
Baby Tommy	15	They got to help choose.
Dante nickname-alias	19	my bro is 11 and he diapered, and treated like i! :-(
Mike P.	56	Except for telling my mother when I needed help in the bathroom (usually after pooping myself), my siblings were not involved very much with my bathroom needs.
allen	18	mom taught my younger sister and both younger brothers how to change my diaper, wipe me clean and spank me if needed.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Marc, was first, and then our Sisters, came along, Marc, refused Potty Training, and was kept in Diapers, We, boys came along, and our Adults of the family, along with our Sisters, established the above rules, and we've had nothing to say about wearing and using diapers, All of Our Lives... Though, now we're Diaper-boys and would have nor not want it any other way.

What do you agree with the most regarding the ways you are to be diapered? How would you improve further on this if you could?

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	being tight and secure
Roger		I had really litle choice about it, it was done for my wetting the bed.
Chris	15	that I am to be diapered 24/7 because I love to wear diapers besides I am inncontanet
Dante nickname-alias	19	i'm not agree my diapering, not all. is just my mother and father sick game.
Cody	17	I should have to travel in my diapers because I can be changed in the car easily and will look cute.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	I, don't think we could improve on it ourselves, what our Sisters, and Parents, (Also the Adults, and Especially our Grandparents, and Aunt Josey.) for all their parts in enforcing our Diapered lives, and any and all other boys, that they have had positive and lasting influence on the parents, of keeping boys in diapers.

What do you disagree with the most regarding the ways you are to be diapered? What would you change if you could?

Name	Age	Answer
diapered_bottom_boy	22	i dont like waiting for hours to be changed, i would change to get changed whenever i am wet.
Roger		I did not enjoy wearing diapers and rubber pants, but the did keep the bed dry.
Chris	15	that my sister may bring me out in public for long periods of time
Dante nickname-alias	19	i wanna be teen like the other 19 year old kids, but how i see, is not soon came my and my brother life.
Byron, Tim., D.J., and Kevin	13	Nothing at home or with any of our parents, sisters, or adults, rules in our family. Only if we could we would change the worlds attitude and ways that boys are brought up and kept in Diapers, it should be a natural and accepted thing, and more harsher things in wearing and using diapers, done by parents, schools and law enforcement, to punish boys, these punishments should be generally always done on long term basis.

Average Age of respondents to this question:	20.7
Range of ages of respondents:	9 -  62

Age Distribution
Under 10	1
10-14	5
15-19	15
20-24	2
25-29	1
30-34	0
35-39	0
40-44	0
45-49	1
50-54	0
55-59	1
60-64	1
65-69	0
70-74	0
75-79	0
80+	0

Youth Age Distribution
6	0
7	0
8	0
9	1
10	0
11	0
12	2
13	1
14	2
15	5
16	2
17	3

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